Your query about whether we would truly know joy if there were no such thing as pain.

How would we know Christ as Healer if there were no sickness?

How would we know Him as the resurrection if there were no death?

Pain provides a backdrop to help us appreciate joy, like the black velvet behind the diamonds.

Why does God increase Eve's pains ... ??? As a punishment?Or was there another reason?

Did she feel some kind of discomfort before when giving birth ... one could infer that to increase means it existed before but in a lessened state ... just asking.

There is no record of her ever giving birth before the fall.

and no record that she didn't

www.brfwitness.org/Articles/1979v14n3.htm

Great article about suffering

Perhaps the increase ... deals with ... the pain that resulted in disobeying God and the guilt that followed ...

Quoted from the article you provided ... how many times do we judge our brethren who are suffering and say they must have done something wrong.

Can Gabby understand /appreciate the work of Calvary?

The American church has lost the will to suffer and endure pain for the cause of Christ. We have taught this generation that God is present to ease every pain. That God's will is for them to prosper in every possible way. That anything less than this is living beneath the priviledges of a child of God, and that this lack of blessing must stem from either ignorance or unbelief which is equal to sin.

Was Paul some sort of masochist? He actually gloried in his suffering? If he was, I guess we will have to add James to that category as well. He wrote, "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various trials" (James 1:2). Here's part of Peter's take on it, "Rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ's sufferings, that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy" (1 Peter 4:13). It looks like Paul is not the only one who experienced and gloried in suffering, but also that of the entire line of inspired writers.

Can you imagine this sermon being preached?:

"Oh that I may know Him!" (Hoots and amens)
"Oh, that I may know the power of His resurrection!" (More hoots and amens)
"Oh, that I may know the fellowship of His sufferings!" (Couple mistimed amens and more than a few confused looks)
"Oh, that I might be conformed to His death!" (What does he mean, conformed to His death?)
"And finally, that I may attain the resurrection of the dead!" (Amens all around, though perhaps less enthusiastic)

What's interesting ... on the flip side .... the prosperity crowd criticize some Christians for glorifying pain and suffering ...

What's the balance?? ...

Paul speaks of a one-two punch .. the power of His resurrection {Easter morning} and the fellowship of His suffering {Good Friday}