Originally Posted by Amanah (Post 1123032)

to keep everything is balanced and in a healthy perspective is a struggle

there was a time in my 20s when I was overly focused on entertainment

there was a time in my 30s when I was overly focused on prayer, church, ect

I'm now more focused on living a simple, but disciplined life that includes devotions, church, work, family, healthy lifestyle, recreation, ect.

Originally Posted by llambert (Post 1122803)

This is a good question.

Ever since I discovered Royal Tailor Band, I've been thinking more about this.

I feel like in some ways, I allowed myself to be brainwashed by a very rigid interpretation of rules: "do's/don'ts: Ex: don't party or you'll go to the extreme and be like those heathens kind of thinking-"

I'll call this self-justification.

but to paraphrase what a Christian brother said,

"We can have entertainment and have traditions, but not allow entertainment and traditions to have us."

I was very interested in the reaction to Royal Tailor Band getting nominated for a grammy, since they are in what many would consider an ultraconservative fellowship, yet they do choreographed dancing, play rock and roll, wear skinny jeans and have women in their videos that don't have the UPCI look.

And yet I watched that Make a Move video and realized that what they were saying, how they were saying it, and the specific points in the video where the dancing occurs and where the lead guy gets up off the floor after talking about just running his mouth about doing something of significance for God, and the point where the women in pants and no sleeves show up, all make a point about evangelism.

So now I pray about my entertainment choices. I used to just default when I I felt that I needed to mentally check out by clicking on old school r and b or adult contemporary pop music (honestly most Christian music is boring to me, musically- the words might be nice or meaningful, but a lot of the musical elements are very mundane and unoriginal or make me feel strange, IMO). But much of the "safe" pop songs that I grew up listening to in from the 70s onward are about people's specific romantic situations that don't really pertain to me and aren't really all that edifying (not saying they can't be edifying to someone at some point, but really, to keep it real, Whitney Houston or whoever it is recorded a lot of those songs to make money- they're not anointed).

As for movies, I dunno, I'm a late 60s baby, so a lot of the films that are being promoted in the media now don't interest me. I could care less about Taylor Lautner or Tyler Perry or whoever.

I grew up watching a ton of TV, and I can enjoy the older, cleaner programs (the ones that aren't based on insult humor, sarcasm and insubordination, don't paint the male characters as idiots, don't show people being promiscuous and children who are more in charge than the adults, professionals who are crackerjack doctors or lawyers but can't maintain a decent interpersonal relationship, etc). Honestly, I've come to more or less side with the UPCish idea of just watching DVDs/videos and leaving the cinema/TV sets alone (when I'm watching these shows, i need to be in control of what I'm seeing, I need to fast forward, rewind, pause, ask myself what I'm watching, etc.)

However, I think it's not a good idea for some church to mandate that their people abstain from movies, TV and scream at them that they're going to hell every week if they partake of these things- I had to come to this realization for myself, and I will still go to the cinema every once in a blue moon, but honestly oftentimes the other patrons don't know how to behave and ruin the experience.

Since I don't have kids and I wasn't born into a pentecostal or conservative home, my question is, how do those posters here who have kids in a pentecostal or apostolic church approach entertainment?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbELfw2H_Xc&ob=av2e

Originally Posted by llambert (Post 1122803)

This is a good question.

Ever since I discovered Royal Tailor Band, I've been thinking more about this.

I feel like in some ways, I allowed myself to be brainwashed by a very rigid interpretation of rules: "do's/don'ts: Ex: don't party or you'll go to the extreme and be like those heathens kind of thinking-"

I'll call this self-justification.

but to paraphrase what a Christian brother said,

"We can have entertainment and have traditions, but not allow entertainment and traditions to have us."

I was very interested in the reaction to Royal Tailor Band getting nominated for a grammy, since they are in what many would consider an ultraconservative fellowship, yet they do choreographed dancing, play rock and roll, wear skinny jeans and have women in their videos that don't have the UPCI look.

And yet I watched that Make a Move video and realized that what they were saying, how they were saying it, and the specific points in the video where the dancing occurs and where the lead guy gets up off the floor after talking about just running his mouth about doing something of significance for God, and the point where the women in pants and no sleeves show up, all make a point about evangelism.

So now I pray about my entertainment choices. I used to just default when I I felt that I needed to mentally check out by clicking on old school r and b or adult contemporary pop music (honestly most Christian music is boring to me, musically- the words might be nice or meaningful, but a lot of the musical elements are very mundane and unoriginal or make me feel strange, IMO). But much of the "safe" pop songs that I grew up listening to in from the 70s onward are about people's specific romantic situations that don't really pertain to me and aren't really all that edifying (not saying they can't be edifying to someone at some point, but really, to keep it real, Whitney Houston or whoever it is recorded a lot of those songs to make money- they're not anointed).

As for movies, I dunno, I'm a late 60s baby, so a lot of the films that are being promoted in the media now don't interest me. I could care less about Taylor Lautner or Tyler Perry or whoever.

I grew up watching a ton of TV, and I can enjoy the older, cleaner programs (the ones that aren't based on insult humor, sarcasm and insubordination, don't paint the male characters as idiots, don't show people being promiscuous and children who are more in charge than the adults, professionals who are crackerjack doctors or lawyers but can't maintain a decent interpersonal relationship, etc). Honestly, I've come to more or less side with the UPCish idea of just watching DVDs/videos and leaving the cinema/TV sets alone (when I'm watching these shows, i need to be in control of what I'm seeing, I need to fast forward, rewind, pause, ask myself what I'm watching, etc.)

However, I think it's not a good idea for some church to mandate that their people abstain from movies, TV and scream at them that they're going to hell every week if they partake of these things- I had to come to this realization for myself, and I will still go to the cinema every once in a blue moon, but honestly oftentimes the other patrons don't know how to behave and ruin the experience.

Since I don't have kids and I wasn't born into a pentecostal or conservative home, my question is, how do those posters here who have kids in a pentecostal or apostolic church approach entertainment?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbELfw2H_Xc&ob=av2e