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I feel facial hair is like any other standard. If it is not clearly defined in the Bible, but your pastor feels led to preach that standard, I would rather side with my pastor. If he says I must be clean shaven, then I must be clean shaven. It is not a big deal to me, one way or the other.
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I think there ought to be a standard against nose hairs poking out into public view.
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Blessings, Rhoni |
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He didn't say he thought it was a sin. He just said he would rather submit than contend for his own way in something that doesn't really matter much anyway. I have never told anyone that facial hair was a sin. I have never preached about it where I pastor, or anywhere else for that matter. My position is this--I am going to be in fellowship with God's Church. I want to look like the Church, talk like the Church, act like the Church. Let's say that the consciences of some brethren are "weak," just for the sake of argument... If a piddly, inconsequential thing like facial hair would keep me from being able to minister to them, why in the world would having my way in this matter be worth the alienation of good men? |
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You said you have never preached it but I would venture to guess that if a bearded gentleman were to come to your church and receive the Holy Ghost then he would feel some unspoken pressure to shave it off. And... if/when he did shave it off that unspoken pressure would be reinforced by much oooohhing and aaaaahhhing over how much better he looks now. It is called peer pressure and positive reinforcement of an unspoken norm. Quote:
If a brother is "weak" in that he knows the word of God doesn't speak against this and he has a hard time following a pastor who will stand for something that is so blatanlty not in the word of God then that brother will not be made allowance for because of the other "weak" brethren who would fall at the sight of a beard. The brethren you speak of are only weak because their pastor has built them on a weak foundation. The foundation of opinion which is not based on the word of God. Their weakness could be cured by the pastor stating openly that he no longer sees where this is a sin or wrong. The pastor would then have removed the weakness that he himself, possibly, had instilled in them and then both sides would have had their weaknesses healed by honesty and shorn up by standing upon His word and His word alone. |
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It is always weak pastors, ignorant pastors, unlearned and controlling pastors, legalistic pastors.:) Have fun. |
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This is ludicrous. That is one big major thing that I am relieved of in the UPC. This mind set of living your life to please men is sick. To be apart of the UPC and like, is to be co-dependent? |
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