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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne (Post 90429)

I certainly hope you are not suggesting that David and Jonathan had a sexual relationship or even an intimate one.

dunno about that.. but it's a cryin shame what Noah's son did to him...

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Originally Posted by brad2723 (Post 90740)

Homosexual and monogamous relationships leading to life-long committed relationships were not in the thoughts and minds of the writers of the Scriptures because marriage was a legal and contractual agreement BETWEEN TWO MEN and with the WOMAN BEING NOTHING MORE THAN PROPERTY. Women had no right to property or even to her children, because she existed only as an adjunct to her husband.

I would say that homosexual relationships life-long or not weren't in the minds of the writers of the scriptures because the scriptures were given by the inspiration of God. While the scriptures do say to render unto ceaser and to obey the laws of the land, first and most important were the principals of God.

It seems quite clear in the scripture I quoted that Paul did not think the woman adjunct to her husband. The world at that time and since may have thought that way, but Paul is clearly showing us God's way.

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Originally Posted by brad2723 (Post 90740)

Homosexual covenant relationships are a modern and progressive concept just as mixed marriages are. We do not see an example of mixed marriages in the Bible, except the ones that were denounced, yet most would agree that mixed marriages are not in of themselves unbiblical. So is the case with homosexual covenant relationships.

Denounced? Do you mean when God drove out people before Israel so they wouldn't take of their daughters and eventually go a whoring after other gods?

Race had nothing to do with it. Worship did. Besides the only really progressive concept of mixed marriages is between the African descendants and European descendants. There really wasn't that much of a stigma between other races.

Anyway I fail to see how a mixed race marriage between a man and a women is the same case as a marriage between two men or two women. Maybe you could enlighten me more on this?

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Originally Posted by brad2723 (Post 90740)

Just in this last century, marriage was defined as a union between people of the same race. In 1967, for example, sixteen states had anti-miscegenation laws on the books, making marriage between two people of different races a criminal offense. At that time it was considered unnatural for the races to marry, much the same way society views same-sex marriages today.

You talk about a man and a women being the same as a man and a man. Notice in the following that Jesus did not mention homosexual relationships. Was He also under the influence of society?

Mark 10:6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.

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Originally Posted by chosenbyone http://apostolicfriendsforum.com/ima...s/viewpost.gif
I know it must be very difficult for many to understand how a person becomes so confused with their gender that they would take steps to alter their physical bodies to resemble the opposite sex.

I've met many transgendered people both female to male and male to female and I can't feel anything but sympathy for them. The utter torment that they must experience and the darkest of all deceptions that rule their lives should make us all pray for these individuals.

Do you know that the male to female transgendered people have the highest rate of HIV? That fact is greatly unreported due to the stigma not only from heterosexuals but even gays and lesbians. The possibility of gaining employment becomes difficult and many that would want to work a legitimate job resort to prostitution to survive.

There life span has become even shorter than a male homosexual and the thought of these tortured souls having to spend eternity in hell after experiencing hell on earth is so tragic. I know that Jesus loves these people and I hope that we could see beyond what we can't comprehend and love them as he does.

Many years ago, a friend was giving a male to female transgendered person a bible study and that person was so moved by the message of salvation and Christ's love for "her". That person wept and was ready to be baptized, but didn't go because she realized that she would have to lose this person she became and except the male person that she was born.

Such a sad story for you see she had gone so far in her transformation that even my friend stated that it would be very difficult for her to be excepted in our churches.

Satan is a liar and we must demonstrate that God's grace and mercy isn't exclusive of any segment of our society. The more we state that there is no hope for people that are different (transgendered, lesbian, gay) the more we are guilty of contributing to their fate.

Many blessings to you.

Dear Chosenbyone,

All of us caught in the lies of satan are tormented. Whether they be adulterers, fornicators, pedophiles, homosexuals, transgendered, those caught in the spirt that promotes being a peeping Tom, lust, pornography, addictions of any kind; alcoholism, substance abuse, gambling, sexual addictions, ect...

When struggling with any of these or similar sins/addictions we are confused, wonder what is really us...the us of what others have told us we are, the us of what we think we are, or the us of who satan tells us we are, or the truth in who Jesus says we are!

I do think we need to show mercy, grace, and compassion, but we also need to be truthful to people...they can be free from the lies satan tells them. They do not have to be bound by the addictions they have acquired whether from their own poor choices, the abuse done to them by others, or the transgenerational sins of the family.

Calling sin to be sin is not judgemental, but saying there is no hope and condemning people to a life without Christ and his transforming power is. I am so glad that the things that have happened to others, such as; physical, mental, or sexual abuse did not happen to me...not that I haven't had my own issues and demons to torment me.

The example you gave about a transgendered person afraid to be baptized because they would lose themselves is just what we all do when we are baptized...we die to ourselves, our will, and agree to give our life over to Christ and His will. It does take a sensitive and compassionate person to address this in a way that the person struggling will understand that we all struggle with the same things, only others to a greater extent.

I fight constantly with the side of myself that is strong and independent and have to force myself to submit to God's will. Not because I don't want it but because I hate to feel helpless or out of control or like I am giving up my identity. Trust is difficult for me...I have been hurt, had to survive against all odds, and to just fall into anyone's hands, and yes...sometimes I don't even realize how arrogant I am to think I can control things better than Christ can do for myself. When I have to wait, trust without questioning, not knowing where my next footstep will be placed...I am scared...you might say terrified and sometimes find it easier to go back to what I know and even the bondage I have been delivered from because it is comfortable..a.t least I know what to expect.

The transgendered, the homosexual, and those bound by other confusing and hell-driven addictions are not any more confused or scared than the rest of us. Instead of looking at what we perceive to be vast differences between us...we need to look at the truth of the commonalities we all face. Christ came to break the curse...we either believe it and give our lives to accepting and "Letting" God change us or we fight inwardly as well as outwardly our whole lives not really believing in anything...hopeless if you would.

In summary, we all struggle with different variences of the same issues...and we either believe Christ and his transforming power and 'let' it happen with us, or we don't believe, and die a most miserable death as we have lived in life. This is the saddest condition of all.

In God's Grip [most of the time],

Rhoni

Should I Love the Holiness of Man or God.
Rom 3:24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:

if to love the Holiness of man, then we are lovng that which we do, to make ourselves more righteous and holy, in the sight of God. God said that our righteousness is filthy Rags to Him. Isaiah 64:6

If we love the Holiness of God, then we already have it through the understanding that it is the free Gift of Grace that justifies us, those who believe. Romans 3:24

I love the Holiness of God! I am proud to say I am weak and a sinner, so that His righteousness can be seen.

Rom 10:3 For they being ignorant of God's righteousness, and going about to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God.
Rom 10:4 For Christ [is] the end of the law for righteousness to every one that believeth. I Believe! I Believe!!!

Should I Love the Holiness of Man or God.

Rhoni,

I was a bit confused when my post showed up on this thread. I thought I had posted it twice, but then thought that was impossible.

I finally figured it out.

chosen

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Originally Posted by Berkeley (Post 90897)

dunno about that.. but it's a cryin shame what Noah's son did to him...

There are homosexuals that try desperately to show that David and Jonathan were gay lovers. There are other verses that have been twisted to try to show gay sexual acts are good..

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Originally Posted by cris (Post 91081)

So what is your point? Are you going to say believing means you can now do what ever you want?

Let's not be so selective with Romans

Rom 6:12 Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal bodies, to make you obey their passions.
Rom 6:13 Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness.
Rom 6:14 For sin will have no dominion over you, since you are not under law but under grace.
Rom 6:15 What then? Are we to sin because we are not under law but under grace? By no means!
Rom 6:16 Do you not know that if you present yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness?
Rom 6:17 But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed,
Rom 6:18 and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness.

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 91303)

There are homosexuals that try desperately to show that David and Jonathan were gay lovers. There are other verses that have been twisted to try to show gay sexual acts are good..

I am familiar with what you are gabbing about. I'm not even going to share my views on that. But, Noah was assaulted by one of his sons!!

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Originally Posted by Berkeley (Post 91318)

I am familiar with what you are gabbing about. I'm not even going to share my views on that. But, Noah was assaulted by one of his sons!!

And cursed for it