Yes'm

And as we see on forums though....

Some people just don't know how to present a question in a polite manner.

I guess they are just up the creek without a paddle. :)

Let me go further, before I planted the church I now pastor, I assisted in a church. It took me a while to realize the pastor had a very bad anger problem. I mean violent anger.

I had committed to stay a certian length of time, and felt that I should live up to that commitment. After recognizing his problem, I began to withdraw from him gradually. I served my two years and went to plant a church.

During my tenure, we had a great relationship, and I was considered downright Heavenly. When I left, I became the scum of the earth (in his eyes). I will not tell you all of the horrible things the man did. I will tell you that all of his vitriol got him nowhere, because during my stay at his church he had promoted me (throughout the district) as virtuous and a real help.

My decision to remain for the duration of my committed time was a bad one.
One of my sons picked up his attitude, and I deal with it occasionally. Every once in a while I catch myself responding (without conscious thought) in the way this man would.

My point?

Be careful what leadership you place yourself under. It can have long-lasting effects.

Whats unfortunate about the answer is that some folks are established in the community. Jobs, schools, retirement etc.

Packing up and moving isn't always an option, so in turn we have a great need for a revival of backsliders.

I'm glad I know how to swim!!!!

Sis Chocolate, you're awesome. :highfive

*laughs because I just think I'm out to lunch and it's only 3am*:ty

:) Sister... you have a jet ski. :)

:killinme