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Brother Strange 04-24-2007 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by RevDWW (Post 86430)
I think sin is sin. Sin cannot enter There. But there are sins that are stronger and harder to repent of, to turn away from, then others. Suppose someone stole a loaf of bread because they were hungry and someone else robbed a resturaut becuase of a bad drug habit. Which would be easy to break free of and turn around from? Both will get you roasted if you do not repent.

Indeed sin is sin. No argument there. All will be excluded from heaven.

One man prayed, "Give me neither poverty or riches." His prayer expressed his wishes that in poverty he would not steal, nor riches that he would forget God.

In the old days, which it seems that I know more of, I remember a poor man that went hunting and shot squirrels out of season. He was hauled before the judge that had compassion on the man in his transgression when he leared that the poor man had many children who were hungry. The judge gave the man a little probation only and then sought to find the man some help that his children could eat.

Homosexual sins are not on this level. There are degrees of sin.

RevDWW 04-24-2007 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Brother Strange (Post 86489)
Indeed sin is sin. No argument there. All will be excluded from heaven.

One man prayed, "Give me neither poverty or riches." His prayer expressed his wishes that in poverty he would not steal, nor riches that he would forget God.

In the old days, which it seems that I know more of, I remember a poor man that went hunting and shot squirrels out of season. He was hauled before the judge that had compassion on the man in his transgression when he leared that the poor man had many children who were hungry. The judge gave the man a little probation only and then sought to find the man some help that his children could eat.

Homosexual sins are not on this level. There are degrees of sin.

I think we are on the same wavelength here. :friend

Newman 04-24-2007 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Brother Strange (Post 86478)
Sis...

I agree. Sin is sin and all sin will be cast into hell right along with the unrepentant that clings to it. That is a given. My point was to the degree of abominations involved.

While I am not sure what you are speaking of concerning the things that he has had to to overcome, if he only thinks in black and white with no degrees of variation in view, he is a very fragile vessel indeed. I must have compassion for him.

Concerning sexual sins, it appears that the sin of homosexuality is placed on the same level of all sexual sins. Here, I would disagree also. Homosexual sins are so abominal to a sane mind as to be almost unthinkable. Adultery is a horrible sin but there is none so black and perverted as a homosexual sin.

I am reminded of how Napoleon felt about it. He had the homosexuals shot during a battle by his own men. The sin was such an unspeakable abomination that I was almost an adult before I ever heard of it. When I first learned about it and what they do to each other in their same-sex bedrooms, I was shocked beyond belief.

Time are different now. Today, they are legally getting married to each other. They are in-your-face with it, flaunting it as something glorious. Then when I heard about homosexual Apostolic Churches, I wondered what am I doing here on this planet. It has become a weird and grotesque planet with a gorgoyle population, much of which is in the church.

Brother Strange- Many (not all) homosexuals were raped and molested as young children or teens. It messed up their normal development. I am profoundly sad for them. :cool:

Rhoni 04-24-2007 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Newman (Post 86495)
Brother Strange- Many (not all) homosexuals were raped and molested as young children or teens. It messed up their normal development. I am profoundly sad for them. :cool:

This is true...the majority of homosexuals, bi-sexuals, and Lesbians were molested as children and never knew how to develope 'natural'/normal attachments to the opposite sex. This is especially true if they were molested or abused by a father or mother, or someone in a position of authority over them.

As Chaplain in a county jail I had the responsibility to host an abuse support group in the local jail. There were 15 in the group, all women. Most claimed to be either bi-sexual, Lesbian, or they weren't sure who they were or weren't attracted to. The stories they recounted were histories of abuse by fathers, grandfathers, uncles, friends of the family, boyfriends, and husbands.

As a counselor I have counseled Lesbians, homosexuals, bi-sexuals who spent many years dancing in strip joints/adult bars and restaurants because it was their way to get even with the opposite sex who had control over them when they were children when they had no control over themselves. Many enjoyed leading the opposite sex on and leaving them unfulfilled or humiliated, or broke [financially] to make up for the times they felt helpless and unable to protect themselves. They felt betrayed by the adults who were supposed to care for them and protect them.

We have lists, I know of lists, of Catholic and Protestant clergy who have engaged in pedophilia behavior...some protected by the church, and others prosecuted and jailed. As in the case of molestation and rape..we know only of what is reported and there are as many, if not more of unreported cases. You can trace the abuse through the familes of many of those who have hypersexualized behaviors, as well as homosexual, bi-sexual, and Lesbian lifestyles.

Just as sin is manifested in sickness and disease, it is also manifested in sinful sexual behaviors. Because sin entered the world...through Adam [one man] so redemption entered the world through Jesus Christ. Thank God for the plan that saves us from inherited sin, as well as those sins that have attached themselves to us individually.

Thank God for those of us that did not grow up being molested, abused, and unprotected and unloved as some...and it behooves us to show grace and mercy, love and not hate, patience and unconditional positive regard for those who have not been as fortunate as ourselves.

Blessings, Rhoni

ILG 04-24-2007 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 86533)
This is true...the majority of homosexuals, bi-sexuals, and Lesbians were molested as children and never knew how to develope 'natural'/normal attachments to the opposite sex. This is especially true if they were molested or abused by a father or mother, or someone in a position of authority over them.

It doesn't really help after they've lived through all that molestation etc., when they come to the church looking for help after they've tried in their own way and failed, to have us look at them and proclaim them reprobates or anything huh?

Just trying to give some perspective...

Rhoni 04-24-2007 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ILG (Post 86534)
It doesn't really help after they've lived through all that molestation etc., when they come to the church looking for help after they've tried in their own way and failed, to have us look at them and proclaim them reprobates or anything huh?

Just trying to give some perspective...

We can be so cruel to people who come with needs...we can be so haughty, so self-righteous to those who don't look like we look, talk like we talk, or have the same upbringing as we have had...reminds me of a song from back in the day..."What if God was one of us..."

Jesus please help me to have "My Father's Eyes"!

In Jesus name, Rhoni

ILG 04-24-2007 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 86542)
We can be so cruel to people who come with needs...we can be so haughty, so self-righteous to those who don't look like we look, talk like we talk, or have the same upbringing as we have had...reminds me of a song from back in the day..."What if God was one of us..."

Jesus please help me to have "My Father's Eyes"!

In Jesus name, Rhoni

Amen. :praying Sometimes I think a lack of compassion shows a lack of strength....a fear that we may get caught up in something similar if we show compassion. There is always a danger in ministry, but there may be a much greater risk in not ministering.....

Old Paths 04-24-2007 09:28 PM

BrotherStrange

From one "oldtimer" to another, you are right on and I for what it's worth, I agree.

Rhoni 04-24-2007 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ILG (Post 86548)
Amen. :praying Sometimes I think a lack of compassion shows a lack of strength....a fear that we may get caught up in something similar if we show compassion. There is always a danger in ministry, but there may be a much greater risk in not ministering.....

I need to go but I wanted to say that I agree with your post. There are spirits attached to these sins, and we who minister must stay prayed up, humble, and anointed. I have had to leave homes of some of my clients and rebuke the spirits that tried to attach themsleves or buffet me...but I feel more fear to neglect the ministry that God has called me to by not caring and showing compassion.

It takes special people to minister to special groups of people. There are many people that I am not equipped to minister to, but others in which I am very effective with. I ask God's wisdom in helping me to know my strengths, weaknesses, and biases...and I never want to do harm to anyone...for this reason I have to refer others out to those more qualified/equipped.

I do think that homophobia is caused by fear that it is hitting too close to home for some...just my opinion.

Blessings, Rhoni

Old Paths 04-24-2007 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 86559)
I need to go but I wanted to say that I agree with your post. There are spirits attached to these sins, and we who minister must stay prayed up, humble, and anointed. I have had to leave homes of some of my clients and rebuke the spirits that tried to attach themsleves or buffet me...but I feel more fear to neglect the ministry that God has called me to by not caring and showing compassion.

It takes special people to minister to special groups of people. There are many people that I am not equipped to minister to, but others in which I am very effective with. I ask God's wisdom in helping me to know my strengths, weaknesses, and biases...and I never want to do harm to anyone...for this reason I have to refer others out to those more qualified/equipped.

I do think that homophobia is caused by fear that it is hitting too close to home for some...just my opinion.

Blessings, Rhoni


Rhoni

I try not to respond to your posts, but I do believe that this is one of the most ludicrous statements that I have ever read.

It's right up there with "He/she must have a problem with ________ because he/she preaches about it all the time".


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