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Originally Posted by Newman
(Post 86495)
Brother Strange- Many (not all) homosexuals were raped and molested as young children or teens. It messed up their normal development. I am profoundly sad for them. :cool:
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This is true...the majority of homosexuals, bi-sexuals, and Lesbians were molested as children and never knew how to develope 'natural'/normal attachments to the opposite sex. This is especially true if they were molested or abused by a father or mother, or someone in a position of authority over them.
As Chaplain in a county jail I had the responsibility to host an abuse support group in the local jail. There were 15 in the group, all women. Most claimed to be either bi-sexual, Lesbian, or they weren't sure who they were or weren't attracted to. The stories they recounted were histories of abuse by fathers, grandfathers, uncles, friends of the family, boyfriends, and husbands.
As a counselor I have counseled Lesbians, homosexuals, bi-sexuals who spent many years dancing in strip joints/adult bars and restaurants because it was their way to get even with the opposite sex who had control over them when they were children when they had no control over themselves. Many enjoyed leading the opposite sex on and leaving them unfulfilled or humiliated, or broke [financially] to make up for the times they felt helpless and unable to protect themselves. They felt betrayed by the adults who were supposed to care for them and protect them.
We have lists, I know of lists, of Catholic and Protestant clergy who have engaged in pedophilia behavior...some protected by the church, and others prosecuted and jailed. As in the case of molestation and rape..we know only of what is reported and there are as many, if not more of unreported cases. You can trace the abuse through the familes of many of those who have hypersexualized behaviors, as well as homosexual, bi-sexual, and Lesbian lifestyles.
Just as sin is manifested in sickness and disease, it is also manifested in sinful sexual behaviors. Because sin entered the world...through Adam [one man] so redemption entered the world through Jesus Christ. Thank God for the plan that saves us from inherited sin, as well as those sins that have attached themselves to us individually.
Thank God for those of us that did not grow up being molested, abused, and unprotected and unloved as some...and it behooves us to show grace and mercy, love and not hate, patience and unconditional positive regard for those who have not been as fortunate as ourselves.
Blessings, Rhoni