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Sandra 04-01-2008 11:54 PM

I was lied to tonight,but kept my mouth shut
 
I flew into Chicago tonight, I am singing on a choir CD that Donald Lawerence is producing tomorrow night.


I get into the car and realized its not the SUV or car this church usually picks me up in.
Its usually a black suburban. This was a black brand new Cadillac.

I said to the driver " This is a very nice car does this belong to the church?"

He said "yes". I said " When did they get it?" He said" just here recently".

Just as he said that I look up and saw ENTERPRISE RENTAL on the key
chain.:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum

MissBrattified 04-02-2008 12:14 AM

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LOL!!! Well, give him a little credit--Enterprise Rental does sell vehicles. It could be true. ;)

The Mrs 04-02-2008 12:17 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 430233)
LOL!!! Well, give him a little credit--Enterprise Rental does sell vehicles. It could be true. ;)

LOL! I was just thinking the same thing! :gaga

Antipas 04-02-2008 12:21 AM

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Most likely he was lying about it. Here's a question, why would one feel the need to lie about something like this? Is it that we have put such a premium on image that people feel they have to tell lies to maintain that image?

Why lie?

GodsBabyGirl 04-02-2008 01:09 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430229)
I flew into Chicago tonight, I am singing on a choir CD that Donald Lawerence is producing tomorrow night.


I get into the car and realized its not the SUV or car this church usually picks me up in.
Its usually a black suburban. This was a black brand new Cadillac.

I said to the driver " This is a very nice car does this belong to the church?"

He said "yes". I said " When did they get it?" He said" just here recently".

Just as he said that I look up and saw ENTERPRISE RENTAL on the key
chain.:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum

Wow, that sounds exciting!

Not the lying part, the part of you doing work with Donald Lawrence! I loves me some D Lawrence!

Have fun and be blessed!

rgcraig 04-02-2008 08:32 AM

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It does belong to the church if they rented it........

missdkendall 04-02-2008 08:34 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 430233)
LOL!!! Well, give him a little credit--Enterprise Rental does sell vehicles. It could be true. ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Mrs (Post 430235)
LOL! I was just thinking the same thing! :gaga


LOL...Me too!!

Digging4Truth 04-02-2008 08:36 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 430297)
It does belong to the church if they rented it........

Now... we generally refer to a statement like that as a Pentecostal Lie.

It is a demonstration of an extraordinary ability to stretch the truth beyond all recognition to get a point made etc.

Excellent demonstration I might add. :)

SDG 04-02-2008 08:38 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 430301)
Now... we generally refer to a statement like that as a Pentecostal Lie.

It is a demonstration of an extraordinary ability to stretch the truth beyond all recognition to get a point made etc.

Excellent demonstration I might add. :)

Is a Pentecostal lie ... like a Pentecostal divorce?

Digging4Truth 04-02-2008 08:43 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 430303)
Is a Pentecostal lie ... like a Pentecostal divorce?

I'm not sure...

I have only experienced the Pentecostal Lie.

I am not aware of the parameters of the Pentecostal Divorce.

:)

Margies3 04-02-2008 09:11 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430229)
I flew into Chicago tonight, I am singing on a choir CD that Donald Lawerence is producing tomorrow night.


I get into the car and realized its not the SUV or car this church usually picks me up in.
Its usually a black suburban. This was a black brand new Cadillac.

I said to the driver " This is a very nice car does this belong to the church?"

He said "yes". I said " When did they get it?" He said" just here recently".

Just as he said that I look up and saw ENTERPRISE RENTAL on the key
chain.:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum


I don't want to sound disrespectful. But I'm wondering what difference does it make whether the car belongs to the church or not? I'm not ok with lying, but sometimes I wonder why it is that we all have this need to impress each other with what we have (which would be the reason he might have lied to you, I'm thinking?)

At our Bible study last night we were discussing the night that the rich kid came to Jesus and asked what he needed to do to be saved. Jesus told him to sell all he had and give it to the needy and then come follow him, but the man went away sad. I wonder if how many of us Christians are very much like that young man, even if we don't want to admit it. Not only do want to impress others with what we have, but we also want to be impressed by what others have.

I think we have a tendency to measure the worth of other people by their possessions instead of measuring their worth by God's yardstick.

Ok, sorry. This is just my soapbox for the day.

SDG 04-02-2008 09:13 AM

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Pentecostal divorce ... is when married saints don't co-habitate for long periods of time (separated).

We had one couple, both involved in ministry in their respective churches, who for over 20 plus years (maybe longer) ... lived in seperate regions of the United States.

Also, a lot men, usually, who emigrated from Latin America in our Spanish churches .... would come, work, send money to their families ... but never would send for them ... or the wife ... sometimes for years ... and sometimes never.

We would say among ourselves that they had a "Pentecostal divorce".

SDG 04-02-2008 09:14 AM

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Sandra,

I would've asked him if he could stop by Enterprise because you were thinking of renting a car ...

You might have gotten a better gauge if he was lying or not.

COOPER 04-02-2008 09:23 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430229)
I flew into Chicago tonight, I am singing on a choir CD that Donald Lawerence is producing tomorrow night.


I get into the car and realized its not the SUV or car this church usually picks me up in.
Its usually a black suburban. This was a black brand new Cadillac.

I said to the driver " This is a very nice car does this belong to the church?"

He said "yes". I said " When did they get it?" He said" just here recently".

Just as he said that I look up and saw ENTERPRISE RENTAL on the key
chain.:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum

Might not be lying to you.............My Dodge Durango was an Enterprise Rental.....Maybe they bought from Enterprise.

Sandra 04-02-2008 09:35 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by COOPER (Post 430331)
Might not be lying to you.............My Dodge Durango was an Enterprise Rental.....Maybe they bought from Enterprise.

I am great friends with the man who is over the transportation at this church, I am going to make a comment on how I love the new car they just got , when I see him tonight. He will tell me:D

Neck 04-02-2008 12:11 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430229)
I flew into Chicago tonight, I am singing on a choir CD that Donald Lawerence is producing tomorrow night.


I get into the car and realized its not the SUV or car this church usually picks me up in.
Its usually a black suburban. This was a black brand new Cadillac.

I said to the driver " This is a very nice car does this belong to the church?"

He said "yes". I said " When did they get it?" He said" just here recently".

Just as he said that I look up and saw ENTERPRISE RENTAL on the key
chain.:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum:tantrum

Not to worry. Enterprise sells their cars when they hit 40,000 miles.

So they may not have changed the keychain the keys attached to....

Unless he just had no idea...

Either way you deserve the best ride...

LadyChocolate 04-02-2008 12:20 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430356)
I am great friends with the man who is over the transportation at this church, I am going to make a comment on how I love the new car they just got , when I see him tonight. He will tell me:D

:stirpot :)

you go girl!

Digging4Truth 04-02-2008 12:20 PM

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Our 2006 Ford Freestar Van used to be an Enterprise Rental. They sold this particular vehicle after 20,000 miles.

Got a great deal.

There was no Enterprise Keychain but there was Enterprise paperwork, brochures etc in the glove box.

But, then again, I didn't buy it directly from Enterprise. I bought it from a micro dealer who, in turn, bought it from Enterprise.

Mrs. LPW 04-02-2008 12:23 PM

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If the driver was anything like me, he probably never noticed the keychain and just did what he was told... pick up that there singer gal from the airport! lol... (but most guys notice things when it comes to vehicles!)

mama bear 04-02-2008 12:25 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430356)
I am great friends with the man who is over the transportation at this church, I am going to make a comment on how I love the new car they just got , when I see him tonight. He will tell me:D

So what difference does it make?
You got the ride, at least you didn't have to walk!! j/k

Margies3 04-02-2008 12:27 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by mama bear (Post 430533)
So what difference does it make?
You got the ride, at least you didn't have to walk!! j/k

My question exactly! Why would it make any difference whether they owned it or whether it was a rental? Who really cares????

HeavenlyOne 04-02-2008 12:37 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Antipas (Post 430236)
Most likely he was lying about it. Here's a question, why would one feel the need to lie about something like this? Is it that we have put such a premium on image that people feel they have to tell lies to maintain that image?

Why lie?

Who says he was lying just because he had a rental car keychain? I have a lot of keychains that have nothing to do with how I obtained my vehicle! LOL!

Digging4Truth 04-02-2008 12:39 PM

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I think the whole thing is going to end up having been the truth.

Elizabeth 04-02-2008 12:39 PM

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IDK, but my thinking would be, if I am going to buy a Cadillac -AND If I did not want anyone to think it was a rental--the first thing to do would be GET RID OF THE KEY CHAIN!!! :lol

Digging4Truth 04-02-2008 12:45 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Jeanie (Post 430554)
IDK, but my thinking would be, if I am going to buy a Cadillac -AND If I did not want anyone to think it was a rental--the first thing to do would be GET RID OF THE KEY CHAIN!!! :lol

Or, on the transverse, if I were to buy a Cadillac but couldn't care less if anyone thought it was a rental then I might use the keychain that came free with the car.

:)

Elizabeth 04-02-2008 12:47 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 430566)
Or, on the transverse, if I were to buy a Cadillac but couldn't care less if anyone thought it was a rental then I might use the keychain that came free with the car.

:)

Alrighty then.....:kickcan

Elizabeth 04-02-2008 12:54 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 430566)
Or, on the transverse, if I were to buy a Cadillac but couldn't care less if anyone thought it was a rental then I might use the keychain that came free with the car.

:)

But what you just said doesn't make much sense-

Because if you buy the Cadillac in the first place for image purposes you wouldn't keep the key chain.

I guess that is point that I was making :groan

Digging4Truth 04-02-2008 01:01 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Jeanie (Post 430584)
But what you just said doesn't make much sense-

Because if you buy the Cadillac in the first place for image purposes you wouldn't keep the key chain.

I guess that is point that I was making :groan

Yes ma'am... I caught the point.

I was just offering the transverse.

One wouldn't necessarily buy a Cadillac for status although some/many very well might.

I would not prefer a Cadillac. I prefer the Lincoln Town Car and I like that car for its comfort, smooth ride and the track record of performance that I have experienced with that vehicle.

One day I would like to find a good used Mercedes to buy as well. Not for status but for the safety record of the vehicle as well as the nice ride that I would expect.

I have never driven one but should actual experience meet up with my expectations then I would see a good used Mercedes as a wise choice as long as there is a good maintenance record with it.

These vehicles can, indeed, be bought for status purposes but this is not always the case.

SDG 04-02-2008 01:14 PM

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Who says the keychain came w/ the car ... what if someone just likes the Enterprise keychain look?

Elizabeth 04-02-2008 01:15 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Digging4Truth (Post 430592)
Yes ma'am... I caught the point.

I was just offering the transverse.

One wouldn't necessarily buy a Cadillac for status although some/many very well might.

I would not prefer a Cadillac. I prefer the Lincoln Town Car and I like that car for its comfort, smooth ride and the track record of performance that I have experienced with that vehicle.

One day I would like to find a good used Mercedes to buy as well. Not for status but for the safety record of the vehicle as well as the nice ride that I would expect.

I have never driven one but should actual experience meet up with my expectations then I would see a good used Mercedes as a wise choice as long as there is a good maintenance record with it.

These vehicles can, indeed, be bought for status purposes but this is not always the case.

Well I certainly agree people (or individuals) buy cars for the purpose of driving them and if they prefer to drive a luxury car it may not be for image sake but for a comfortable ride.

But if a church buys a Cadillac, umm makes me think they bought it for image sake--but that is my view. I understand that there are churches that send limousines to pick up their guest speakers. I believe it is all about image, and the image being perhaps, is that they believe God's people deserve the best- ( I am not saying that this is my view, but that of some ministries)

If a ministry does not espouse to that view (I am not saying it's right or wrong) why buy a Cadillac? Why not buy a van?? My husband and I have been escorted in Vans -- IDK.

Oh well makes for interesting dialog, and I am all about interesting dialog on AFF--(love it :thumbsup)

Elizabeth 04-02-2008 01:18 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 430615)
Who says the keychain came w/ the car ... what if someone just like the Enterprise keychain look?

But the car is supposedly owned by a church not an individual--why not the church key chain???

Who knows?!

Sandra 04-02-2008 01:55 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Margies3 (Post 430319)
I don't want to sound disrespectful. But I'm wondering what difference does it make whether the car belongs to the church or not? I'm not ok with lying, but sometimes I wonder why it is that we all have this need to impress each other with what we have (which would be the reason he might have lied to you, I'm thinking?)

At our Bible study last night we were discussing the night that the rich kid came to Jesus and asked what he needed to do to be saved. Jesus told him to sell all he had and give it to the needy and then come follow him, but the man went away sad. I wonder if how many of us Christians are very much like that young man, even if we don't want to admit it. Not only do want to impress others with what we have, but we also want to be impressed by what others have.

I think we have a tendency to measure the worth of other people by their possessions instead of measuring their worth by God's yardstick.

Ok, sorry. This is just my soapbox for the day.

I am very close to this church, Pastor Winston is my pastor. The last few times I was picKed up they had purchased new vehicles. I just thought it was another new car.
This is a BIG event, Cece Winans and other guests are here,they had to rent a few cars for tonight . No biggie, I just found it funny when I saw the enterprise tag.

tamor 04-02-2008 01:56 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 430615)
Who says the keychain came w/ the car ... what if someone just like the Enterprise keychain look?

:killinme :killinme :killinme

Sandra 04-02-2008 01:57 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Margies3 (Post 430534)
My question exactly! Why would it make any difference whether they owned it or whether it was a rental? Who really cares????

OK sooo sorry I shared this funny moment with AFF... lighten up. I just found it funny.:tantrum:tantrum

rgcraig 04-02-2008 01:57 PM

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People do what they have to do........I knew a family that would "borrow" their clothes from our local boutique to go to General Conference.

I NEVER understood that!

Jack Shephard 04-02-2008 01:58 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430679)
I am very close to this church, Pastor Winston is my pastor. The last few times I was picKed up they had purchased new vehicles. I just thought it was another new car.
This is a BIG event, Cece Winans and other guests are here,they had to rent a few cars for tonight . No biggie, I just found it funny when I saw the enterprise tag.

Think you are talking about Pastor Bill Winston!?!? I love his ministry he is a great preacher. I have never heard him live, but was going to once in TN and he had to cancel, but man he is good. Even when he is preaching a deep message he makes it ankle deep so everyone can get it.

Sandra 04-02-2008 02:28 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by JTULLOCK (Post 430683)
Think you are talking about Pastor Bill Winston!?!? I love his ministry he is a great preacher. I have never heard him live, but was going to once in TN and he had to cancel, but man he is good. Even when he is preaching a deep message he makes it ankle deep so everyone can get it.

Get Preacher, love him dearly. I named my 3 year old after him... Walker Winston Hodges :D

Jack Shephard 04-02-2008 02:30 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandra (Post 430706)
Get Preacher, love him dearly. I named my 3 year old after him... Walker Winston Hodges :D

I have seen on tv or maybe just pictures a portion of little Walker baby dedication. I saw him and Bishop Jakes praying for little Walker. I believe that you prophesied that Walker would be the Pres one day right? LOL

Sandra 04-02-2008 02:33 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by JTULLOCK (Post 430710)
I have seen on tv or maybe just pictures a portion of little Walker baby dedication. I saw him and Bishop Jakes praying for little Walker. I believe that you prophesied that Walker would be the Pres one day right? LOL

Well, I'm not sure now If I want him to be president now, I just believe he will do Great things!!
Bishop Jakes said walker was a modern day MOSES, he would lead people.

Digging4Truth 04-02-2008 02:37 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 430682)
People do what they have to do........I knew a family that would "borrow" their clothes from our local boutique to go to General Conference.

I NEVER understood that!

Oooooooooooooooooooooooool...

That reminds me.

I know a family that... regularly... will go and buy clothes for a special occasion... wear them to the special occasion... and then return the clothes afterwards.

I think that is terrible...


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