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warrior 03-02-2010 12:21 PM

Armor Bearer vs Flunky
 
I have seen a number of pastors and their wives implement the position of the armour bear. These people stand guard for them, run errands, pray for them, provide a spiritual barrier between them and the devils tactics sent from outsiders, prepare meals and drinks, wipe sweat, pack luggages for trips etc.

Is this position biblical and necessary? What does the scripture say about this? Or do we see this as an "errand boy/girl for the pastor?

John Atkinson 03-02-2010 12:32 PM

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sad day in church when the ministry gets so full of themselves they gotta have servants. "armor Bearer" hah, that is a pretty good con.

rgcraig 03-02-2010 12:57 PM

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I think you mean bearer - I'll make the change for you.

warrior 03-02-2010 01:05 PM

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Yes, thanks for making the change.

rgcraig 03-02-2010 01:13 PM

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Black churches use these A LOT!!

There are a few other churches in my area that do too that aren't COGIC.

A.W. Bowman 03-02-2010 01:14 PM

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One cannot be both servant and master at the same time.

In too many churches, the servant has become the master. The 'servant of all' has become the one 'served by all'. Do not be envious of them, for they have already received their reward. Rather, see to the sheep.

rgcraig 03-02-2010 01:14 PM

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I don't mind if someone wants to "cover" their minister in prayer privately, but to follow them around with water bottles and carry their Bible is a bit too much for me.

I accompanied a friend that spoke at a ladies conference and they did this. Drove me nuts because they did it for me too since I was with her. I never could find my "stuff" - - they'd get it and take it away. It made me nervous....lol!

warrior 03-02-2010 01:28 PM

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I don't think it is a matter of being envious. I see it as unecessary use and taking advantage of others. I am concerned that people are being used and are being taken advantage of.

Yes, it is popular in the African American churches, Renda.

RandyWayne 03-02-2010 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 882139)
I don't mind if someone wants to "cover" their minister in prayer privately, but to follow them around with water bottles and carry their Bible is a bit too much for me.

I accompanied a friend that spoke at a ladies conference and they did this. Drove me nuts because they did it for me too since I was with her. I never could find my "stuff" - - they'd get it and take it away. It made me nervous....lol!

And maybe even pre-chew their food?

Or how about physically protecting their master and fighting off any attacker kung fu style, like any good lackey of SPECTER would?

Honestly the whole thing is disgusting -and not even thinking about the pre-chewing thing.

warrior 03-02-2010 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 882145)
And maybe even pre-chew their food?



That is going way too far.

rgcraig 03-02-2010 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by warrior (Post 882143)
I don't think it is a matter of being envious. I see it as unecessary use and taking advantage of others. I am concerned that people are being used and are being taken advantage of.

Yes, it is popular in the African American churches, Renda.

Apparently, they want to do it, so I'm not sure I see it as being "taken advantage of" because I'm sure they will be blessed for having a servant's heart.

I do, however, feel it relays an air of arrogance and is unneeded. No one is too good to carry their own Bible and water bottle.

seguidordejesus 03-02-2010 01:38 PM

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Done right, it could be good. I don't see it being done right in the majority of cases, though. A pastor in my youth started this, but for some reason it never really got off the ground.

RandyWayne 03-02-2010 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by seguidordejesus (Post 882148)
Done right, it could be good. I don't see it being done right in the majority of cases, though. A pastor in my youth started this, but for some reason it never really got off the ground.

I am having a difficult time with this concept. Partly disgust for the "master" and even a bit more for the sheepish flock who would go along with it.

I can see ONE advantage though: The master could instruct his "shield bearer" to ambush him at random times in order for the master to hone his combat skills. I know of a shield bearer who spent all afternoon in a refrigerator laying in wait for the master to come home and open it. A most diabolical ploy!

warrior 03-02-2010 02:02 PM

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It is a bit arrogant and I think there are people who feel it is an honor to do this.

rgcraig 03-02-2010 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by warrior (Post 882154)
It is a bit arrogant and I think there are people who feel it is an honor to do this.

Hopefully, they won't take it this far:

1 Samuel 31:5 (New International Version)
5 When the armor-bearer saw that Saul was dead, he too fell on his sword and died with him.

missourimary 03-02-2010 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 882147)
Apparently, they want to do it, so I'm not sure I see it as being "taken advantage of" because I'm sure they will be blessed for having a servant's heart.

I do, however, feel it relays an air of arrogance and is unneeded. No one is too good to carry their own Bible and water bottle.

I have heard it preached... and was part of a church for several years that used it to a wild degree. What I saw: a tired and frustrated pastor, a church full of distrust, pride, bragging, and backbiting, and a few disillusioned people who wondered where God was in any of it.

Sorry, just what I've seen. I pray it isn't that way everywhere, but it can be taken way too far. I hope I've only seen it taken to it's farthest extreme.

seguidordejesus 03-02-2010 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 882149)
I am having a difficult time with this concept. Partly disgust for the "master" and even a bit more for the sheepish flock who would go along with it.

I can see ONE advantage though: The master could instruct his "shield bearer" to ambush him at random times in order for the master to hone his combat skills. I know of a shield bearer who spent all afternoon in a refrigerator laying in wait for the master to come home and open it. A most diabolical ploy!

I understand what you're saying, and I don't disagree that it could be misused, and I'm not really even trying to defend the practice in general. However, if a pastor really has the heart of a servant, and he wants his "flunkies" as someone so eloquently called them to develop the same, then he could train them that way.

As I said, does it work that way most of the time? Probably not. But it can.

Praxeas 03-02-2010 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by warrior (Post 882130)
I have seen a number of pastors and their wives implement the position of the armour bear. These people stand guard for them, run errands, pray for them, provide a spiritual barrier between them and the devils tactics sent from outsiders, prepare meals and drinks, wipe sweat, pack luggages for trips etc.

Is this position biblical and necessary? What does the scripture say about this? Or do we see this as an "errand boy/girl for the pastor?

Unbiblical and presumptuous. The Pastor is not a king

Praxeas 03-02-2010 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 882139)
I don't mind if someone wants to "cover" their minister in prayer privately, but to follow them around with water bottles and carry their Bible is a bit too much for me.

I accompanied a friend that spoke at a ladies conference and they did this. Drove me nuts because they did it for me too since I was with her. I never could find my "stuff" - - they'd get it and take it away. It made me nervous....lol!

Praying for the man is not a position. We are told to pray for one another. Sounds like a Frat house with pledges

Praxeas 03-02-2010 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 882147)
Apparently, they want to do it, so I'm not sure I see it as being "taken advantage of" because I'm sure they will be blessed for having a servant's heart.

I do, however, feel it relays an air of arrogance and is unneeded. No one is too good to carry their own Bible and water bottle.

They want to do it because they wrongly think this is God's will. Same guile is used to trick millions to give their money to TV evangelists

Praxeas 03-02-2010 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by seguidordejesus (Post 882148)
Done right, it could be good. I don't see it being done right in the majority of cases, though. A pastor in my youth started this, but for some reason it never really got off the ground.

If done right the pastor should pick a saint and do it for that saint. He is the servant after all.....

Praxeas 03-02-2010 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 882149)
I am having a difficult time with this concept. Partly disgust for the "master" and even a bit more for the sheepish flock who would go along with it.

I can see ONE advantage though: The master could instruct his "shield bearer" to ambush him at random times in order for the master to hone his combat skills. I know of a shield bearer who spent all afternoon in a refrigerator laying in wait for the master to come home and open it. A most diabolical ploy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IA8QrOAghZ0

warrior 03-02-2010 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 882166)
They want to do it because they wrongly think this is God's will. Same guile is used to trick millions to give their money to TV evangelists

Prax, that is what makes it really sad. We will fall for almost anything because the pastor says it should be done. The pastor should be ready to assist the people instead of having the men at the door filter the traffic. Just plain arrogant.

Praxeas 03-02-2010 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by warrior (Post 882170)
Prax, that is what makes it really sad. We will fall for almost anything because the pastor says it should be done. The pastor should be ready to assist the people instead of having the men at the door filter the traffic. Just plain arrogant.

It's funny...and they call us a cult because we deny the Trinity but to have people hand over their brains like that to one man sounds more like a religious cult than anything

Jeffrey 03-02-2010 02:59 PM

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Altar boys.

Truthseeker 03-02-2010 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by warrior (Post 882130)
I have seen a number of pastors and their wives implement the position of the armour bear. These people stand guard for them, run errands, pray for them, provide a spiritual barrier between them and the devils tactics sent from outsiders, prepare meals and drinks, wipe sweat, pack luggages for trips etc.

Is this position biblical and necessary? What does the scripture say about this? Or do we see this as an "errand boy/girl for the pastor?

some churches have pastoral care teams. I've seen them walk to the platform carrying stuff for the pastor. quite interesting many times the team is women.

RandyWayne 03-02-2010 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 882168)

Yup, that is exactly the relationship I am referring to. :)

Justin 03-02-2010 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by warrior (Post 882130)
I have seen a number of pastors and their wives implement the position of the armour bear. These people stand guard for them, run errands, pray for them, provide a spiritual barrier between them and the devils tactics sent from outsiders, prepare meals and drinks, wipe sweat, pack luggages for trips etc.

Is this position biblical and necessary? What does the scripture say about this? Or do we see this as an "errand boy/girl for the pastor?

That's new to me. My Pastor has Armor Bearers... We do not run errands, but rather teach/preach sermons and give exhortations.

pelathais 03-02-2010 04:02 PM

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I could see having an administrative assistant if you're truly burdened - or even for a pastor or other leader who may be disabled or partially disabled.

Look at Batman and Alfred. They made that work without an undue loss of dignity for the long suffering Alfred. In fact, whenever it came down to it, Alfred was the one who usually saved the day.

Problems arise when many folks merely think they're Batman and attempt to engage their congregations and society in general in an overbearing and lawless fashion.

... Plus this new fad of attempting to label everything with some hokey biblical eisegesis term like ... "armor bearer," "Apostle" or even "Apostolic" ...

pelathais 03-02-2010 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Justin (Post 882202)
That's new to me. My Pastor has Armor Bearers... We do not run errands, but rather teach/preach sermons and give exhortations.

Do you carry weapons?

freeatlast 03-02-2010 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by seguidordejesus (Post 882148)
Done right, it could be good. I don't see it being done right in the majority of cases, though. A pastor in my youth started this, but for some reason it never really got off the ground.

Are you being serious? there is no right way to do this.

Any minister that is allowing this to be done to him / for him ought to slapped in the face till he comes to his senses.

I have heard of this practice before and have always thought that it was shameful.

pelathais 03-02-2010 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 882240)
Are you being serious? there is no right way to do this.

Any minister that is allowing this to be done to him / for him ought to slapped in the face till he comes to his senses.

I have heard of this practice before and have always thought that it was shameful.

I dunno, FAL. In the manner in which it has been described so far, I agree it's shameful.

But what if you have an elderly pastor, say, who is in high demand as a national and conference speaker, he has difficulty carrying luggage and needs an extra bit of help updating his blog and doing other church communications related work?

If "it's done right" - that is, if a talented assistant is paid a decent salary and given the respect they deserve - that they've earned! - then I don't see a problem.

I knew one pastor who had eyesight problems and always seemed to have some one at his arm to help him find his way into and out of large meeting halls. The problem he ran into was that though he seemed to appreciate the help, he was also generally something of a grouch at other times so he cycled through his informal "armor bearers" with some rapidity.

"Done right" is an ambiguous phrase. Maybe we should say - "Done with a sense of honor and mutual respect..." and if a full or even part time position - "Done with reasonable and adequate compensation."

Timmy 03-02-2010 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by warrior (Post 882130)
I have seen a number of pastors and their wives implement the position of the armour bear. These people stand guard for them, run errands, pray for them, provide a spiritual barrier between them and the devils tactics sent from outsiders, prepare meals and drinks, wipe sweat, pack luggages for trips etc.

Is this position biblical and necessary? What does the scripture say about this? Or do we see this as an "errand boy/girl for the pastor?

What, no sedan chair?

http://www.reformation.org/en-papal-sedan-chair.jpg

Jason B 03-02-2010 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by seguidordejesus (Post 882160)
I understand what you're saying, and I don't disagree that it could be misused, and I'm not really even trying to defend the practice in general. However, if a pastor really has the heart of a servant, and he wants his "flunkies" as someone so eloquently called them to develop the same, then he could train them that way. As I said, does it work that way most of the time? Probably not. But it can.

Train them to carry his Bible and water bottle?!

Give me a break.

:vomit

Justin 03-02-2010 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 882216)
Do you carry weapons?

Yes.

:ursofunny

seguidordejesus 03-02-2010 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 882271)
I dunno, FAL. In the manner in which it has been described so far, I agree it's shameful.

But what if you have an elderly pastor, say, who is in high demand as a national and conference speaker, he has difficulty carrying luggage and needs an extra bit of help updating his blog and doing other church communications related work?

If "it's done right" - that is, if a talented assistant is paid a decent salary and given the respect they deserve - that they've earned! - then I don't see a problem.

I knew one pastor who had eyesight problems and always seemed to have some one at his arm to help him find his way into and out of large meeting halls. The problem he ran into was that though he seemed to appreciate the help, he was also generally something of a grouch at other times so he cycled through his informal "armor bearers" with some rapidity.

"Done right" is an ambiguous phrase. Maybe we should say - "Done with a sense of honor and mutual respect..." and if a full or even part time position - "Done with reasonable and adequate compensation."

This is basically what I had in mind - too bad people didn't see that. I was at work and couldn't give a more detailed response.

pelathais 03-02-2010 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Justin (Post 882308)
Yes.

:ursofunny

No, seriously... After the last spate of church shootings I have heard of churches that have off duty police and others carry their weapons to church to serve as "armor bearers" to protect the people gathered there.

The church in Colorado Spgs. where that nut went around and killed a couple of kids in the parking lot already had such a program in place. It was one of the "armor bearers" that put the guy down before he could shoot anyone inside the church.

Justin 03-02-2010 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 882326)
No, seriously... After the last spate of church shootings I have heard of churches that have off duty police and others carry their weapons to church to serve as "armor bearers" to protect the people gathered there.

The church in Colorado Spgs. where that nut went around and killed a couple of kids in the parking lot already had such a program in place. It was one of the "armor bearers" that put the guy down before he could shoot anyone inside the church.

Well in that case... no.

We did have the city police chief come to our church and walk us through some senarios... and how we should act.

But no one at our church has a concealed weapons license.

freeatlast 03-02-2010 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by pelathais (Post 882271)
I dunno, FAL. In the manner in which it has been described so far, I agree it's shameful.

But what if you have an elderly pastor, say, who is in high demand as a national and conference speaker, he has difficulty carrying luggage and needs an extra bit of help updating his blog and doing other church communications related work?

If "it's done right" - that is, if a talented assistant is paid a decent salary and given the respect they deserve - that they've earned! - then I don't see a problem.

I knew one pastor who had eyesight problems and always seemed to have some one at his arm to help him find his way into and out of large meeting halls. The problem he ran into was that though he seemed to appreciate the help, he was also generally something of a grouch at other times so he cycled through his informal "armor bearers" with some rapidity.

"Done right" is an ambiguous phrase. Maybe we should say - "Done with a sense of honor and mutual respect..." and if a full or even part time position - "Done with reasonable and adequate compensation."

Agreed Pel. But why then call it an armour bearer? Call the person what he is, an assistant.

The title "armour bearer" is right up there with "holy magic hair" as something that gives off the wrong impression.

missourimary 03-02-2010 09:10 PM

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A paid assistant is a much different thing than an armor bearer in the sense that it is used in many places today.

Like I said, I hope that what I've seen is worse than what transpires in most places.

Same church did supposedly do conceal and carry. Scary, and this is why. A woman told me she was so glad the men were carrying guns to church. When my reaction was less than positive, she told me that they were all well trained to handle weapons. I asked why she thought they were, or how she knew. She laughed and told me one had dropped his ammo running the aisles. Wait... she had just said this guy was well trained? :uhoh I think I'd rather take my chances with the criminals...


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