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Scott Hutchinson 06-02-2007 11:05 AM

My Apology To AFF.
 
I wish to publicly apologize to the the membership and ADMIN of AFF ,for starting a thread that was not in the best interest of this board.
I did not mean to start something offensive or hurtful in anyway.
I humbly in Christian charity offer this apology to AFF.
Please forgive me to not not using wisdom and discretion.
In Christian Charity, Scott hutchinson

Ronzo 06-02-2007 11:05 AM

Scott you had nothing to do with it.

Dan was giving you a hard time.

There's nothing to apologize for.

BrotherEastman 06-02-2007 11:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 138494)
I wish to publicly apologize to the the membership and ADMIN of AFF ,for starting a thread that was not in the best interest of this board.
I did not mean to start something offensive or hurtful in anyway.
I humbly in Christian charity offer this apology to AFF.
Please forgive me to not not using wisdom and discretion.
In Christian Charity, Scott hutchinson

And here I thought you were a peace loving christian. LOL!

mfblume 06-02-2007 11:07 AM

While Bro H was at it, and he did NOT need to apolgize, I do. I apologize for scuffling with Bro Benincasa. It wasted my time, your time and his time. Sorry, dudes and dudesses.

MissBrattified 06-02-2007 11:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 138494)
I wish to publicly apologize to the the membership and ADMIN of AFF ,for starting a thread that was not in the best interest of this board.
I did not mean to start something offensive or hurtful in anyway.
I humbly in Christian charity offer this apology to AFF.
Please forgive me to not not using wisdom and discretion.
In Christian Charity, Scott hutchinson

Not necessary, Scott. The thread was a perfectly good idea. Unfortunately it was hijacked, and you can't be responsible for that. :coffee2

Truly Blessed 06-02-2007 11:15 AM

Scott, there is no need for an apology. However, you need to realize that most Apostolics have a difficult time discussing sex. Consequently any attempt to have that discussion ends up in controversy.

chaotic_resolve 06-02-2007 11:19 AM

:didimiss

rgcraig 06-02-2007 11:22 AM

Scott,

Absolutely no need for an apology.

SDG 06-02-2007 11:23 AM

Scott ... I was being facetious ... as always. No need to apologize.

I'm sorry Renda and Felicity for instigating.

seguidordejesus 06-02-2007 12:03 PM

It's all scott's fault! and he has to sit and take it b/c his starter's broken!!!! :D:D:D

j/k scott!

The Mrs 06-02-2007 12:39 PM

Bro. H, please don't take any personal responsibility upon yourself. You did nothing at all whatsoever that was wrong.

It's obvious from all the responses that there appears to be a real need in our churches and society. I'm glad you brought it up. :thumbsup

Glenda B 06-02-2007 12:57 PM

Brother,
That thread discussing sexual matters was not a good idea. The marriage bed is sacred, and discussing sexual issues over a mixed forum is very inappropriate. I really don't think Jesus would approve.

ILG 06-02-2007 01:01 PM

I think the board is a fine place for discussion as long as certain boundaries are upheld. Most of the time, if people have concerns and questions, there is no where to go.

The Mrs 06-02-2007 01:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hot Coffee Ms. (Post 138597)
Brother,
That thread discussing sexual matters was not a good idea. The marriage bed is sacred, and discussing sexual issues over a mixed forum is very inappropriate. I really don't think Jesus would approve.

I think you should state your opinion on this issue in the Sex thread when it reopens. :thumbsup

BoredOutOfMyMind 06-02-2007 01:12 PM

Bro Scott,

The issue has merit, as long as we don't delve into the lewd or the tasteless.
You of all folk here need not apologize!

I accept your humble apology, and appreciate your spirit, Sir!

rgcraig 06-02-2007 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hot Coffee Ms. (Post 138597)
Brother,
That thread discussing sexual matters was not a good idea. The marriage bed is sacred, and discussing sexual issues over a mixed forum is very inappropriate. I really don't think Jesus would approve.

Goodness. He apologized - don't think you need to kick him when he's down.

It wasn't a bad thread - it's not a bad topic. I really doubt God had a problem with it either - - have you read Song of Solomon lately?

Theophilus 06-02-2007 01:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mfblume (Post 138501)
While Bro H was at it, and he did NOT need to apolgize, I do. I apologize for scuffling with Bro Benincasa. It wasted my time, your time and his time. Sorry, dudes and dudesses.

Just for the record, it is dudettes. ;)

Theophilus 06-02-2007 01:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 138617)
Goodness. He apologized - don't think you need to kick him when he's down.

It wasn't a bad thread - it's not a bad topic. I really doubt God had a problem with it either - - have you read Song of Solomon lately?

Exactly.

SDG 06-02-2007 01:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 138617)
Goodness. He apologized - don't think you need to kick him when he's down.

It wasn't a bad thread - it's not a bad topic. I really doubt God had a problem with it either - - have you read Song of Solomon lately?


For the squeamish ...

Chapter 1
  1. The song of songs, which is Solomon's.
  2. Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
  3. Because of the savour of thy good ointments thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee.
  4. Draw me, we will run after thee: the king hath brought me into his chambers: we will be glad and rejoice in thee, we will remember thy love more than wine: the upright love thee.
  5. I am black, but comely, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, as the tents of Kedar, as the curtains of Solomon.
  6. Look not upon me, because I am black, because the sun hath looked upon me: my mother's children were angry with me; they made me the keeper of the vineyards; but mine own vineyard have I not kept.
  7. Tell me, O thou whom my soul loveth, where thou feedest, where thou makest thy flock to rest at noon: for why should I be as one that turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions?
  8. If thou know not, O thou fairest among women, go thy way forth by the footsteps of the flock, and feed thy kids beside the shepherds' tents.
  9. I have compared thee, O my love, to a company of horses in Pharaoh's chariots.
  10. Thy cheeks are comely with rows of jewels, thy neck with chains of gold.
  11. We will make thee borders of gold with studs of silver.
  12. While the king sitteth at his table, my spikenard sendeth forth the smell thereof.
  13. A bundle of myrrh is my well-beloved unto me; he shall lie all night betwixt my breasts.
  14. My beloved is unto me as a cluster of camphire in the vineyards of Engedi.
  15. Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves' eyes.
  16. Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green.
  17. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir.

Hoovie 06-02-2007 01:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 138633)

For the squeamish ...

Chapter 1
  1. The song of songs, which is Solomon's.
  2. Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.
  3. Because of the savour of thy good ointments thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee.
  4. Draw me, we will run after thee: the king hath brought me into his chambers: we will be glad and rejoice in thee, we will remember thy love more than wine: the upright love thee.
  5. I am black, but comely, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, as the tents of Kedar, as the curtains of Solomon.
  6. Look not upon me, because I am black, because the sun hath looked upon me: my mother's children were angry with me; they made me the keeper of the vineyards; but mine own vineyard have I not kept.
  7. Tell me, O thou whom my soul loveth, where thou feedest, where thou makest thy flock to rest at noon: for why should I be as one that turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions?
  8. If thou know not, O thou fairest among women, go thy way forth by the footsteps of the flock, and feed thy kids beside the shepherds' tents.
  9. I have compared thee, O my love, to a company of horses in Pharaoh's chariots.
  10. Thy cheeks are comely with rows of jewels, thy neck with chains of gold.
  11. We will make thee borders of gold with studs of silver.
  12. While the king sitteth at his table, my spikenard sendeth forth the smell thereof.
  13. A bundle of myrrh is my well-beloved unto me; he shall lie all night betwixt my breasts.
  14. My beloved is unto me as a cluster of camphire in the vineyards of Engedi.
  15. Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves' eyes.
  16. Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green.
  17. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir.

I made it half way through this...

SDG 06-02-2007 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 138641)
I made it half way through this...

It gets better

Chapter 7

Chapter 7
  1. How beautiful are thy feet with shoes, O prince's daughter! the joints of thy thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman.
  2. Thy navel is like a round goblet, which wanteth not liquor: thy belly is like an heap of wheat set about with lilies.
  3. Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins.
  4. Thy neck is as a tower of ivory; thine eyes like the fishpools in Heshbon, by the gate of Bathrabbim: thy nose is as the tower of Lebanon which looketh toward Damascus.
  5. Thine head upon thee is like Carmel, and the hair of thine head like purple; the king is held in the galleries.
  6. How fair and how pleasant art thou, O love, for delights!
  7. This thy stature is like to a palm tree, and thy breasts to clusters of grapes.
  8. I said, I will go up to the palm tree, I will take hold of the boughs thereof: now also thy breasts shall be as clusters of the vine, and the smell of thy nose like apples;
  9. And the roof of thy mouth like the best wine for my beloved, that goeth down sweetly, causing the lips of those that are asleep to speak.
  10. I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me.
  11. Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the field; let us lodge in the villages.
  12. Let us get up early to the vineyards; let us see if the vine flourish, whether the tender grape appear, and the pomegranates bud forth: there will I give thee my loves.
  13. The mandrakes give a smell, and at our gates are all manner of pleasant fruits, new and old, which I have laid up for thee, O my beloved.

Hoovie 06-02-2007 01:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 138644)
It gets better

Chapter 7

Chapter 7
  1. How beautiful are thy feet with shoes, O prince's daughter! the joints of thy thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman.
  2. Thy navel is like a round goblet, which wanteth not liquor: thy belly is like an heap of wheat set about with lilies.
  3. Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins.
  4. Thy neck is as a tower of ivory; thine eyes like the fishpools in Heshbon, by the gate of Bathrabbim: thy nose is as the tower of Lebanon which looketh toward Damascus.
  5. Thine head upon thee is like Carmel, and the hair of thine head like purple; the king is held in the galleries.
  6. How fair and how pleasant art thou, O love, for delights!
  7. This thy stature is like to a palm tree, and thy breasts to clusters of grapes.
  8. I said, I will go up to the palm tree, I will take hold of the boughs thereof: now also thy breasts shall be as clusters of the vine, and the smell of thy nose like apples;
  9. And the roof of thy mouth like the best wine for my beloved, that goeth down sweetly, causing the lips of those that are asleep to speak.
  10. I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me.
  11. Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the field; let us lodge in the villages.
  12. Let us get up early to the vineyards; let us see if the vine flourish, whether the tender grape appear, and the pomegranates bud forth: there will I give thee my loves.
  13. The mandrakes give a smell, and at our gates are all manner of pleasant fruits, new and old, which I have laid up for thee, O my beloved.

This just ain't right!

rgcraig 06-02-2007 01:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 138641)
I made it half way through this...

Kristen? Kristen? Where are you? :sing

Rhoni 06-02-2007 02:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 138494)
I wish to publicly apologize to the the membership and ADMIN of AFF ,for starting a thread that was not in the best interest of this board.
I did not mean to start something offensive or hurtful in anyway.
I humbly in Christian charity offer this apology to AFF.
Please forgive me to not not using wisdom and discretion.
In Christian Charity, Scott hutchinson

Bro. Scott,

There was nothing wrong with your initial thread starter. You are such a sweet and humble guy and I know you feel responsible but you are not. Each individual poster is responsible for his/her own posts/behaviors.

Sexuality id not an easy subject to talk about within our ranks...and this thread is proof of that. Talking about it more in the right context of our homes and churches would take care of issues surrounding the questions many have asked on this forum on mulitple occasions.

I appreciate your apology but it was not necessary. You have done nothing wrong.

Respectfully, Sis. Rhonda

BoredOutOfMyMind 06-02-2007 02:22 PM

Folks, we will reopen Bro Scott's thread

Let's try to keep it on ONE place, so those not wanting to participate are not offended.

:ty

Glenda B 06-02-2007 02:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 138494)
I wish to publicly apologize to the the membership and ADMIN of AFF ,for starting a thread that was not in the best interest of this board.
I did not mean to start something offensive or hurtful in anyway.
I humbly in Christian charity offer this apology to AFF.
Please forgive me to not not using wisdom and discretion.
In Christian Charity, Scott hutchinson

#12 Today, 11:57 AM
Hot Coffee Ms.
Please Accept my apology, I have nothing more to say on the subject.

__________________

Rico 06-02-2007 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hot Coffee Ms. (Post 138684)
#12 Today, 11:57 AM
Hot Coffee Ms.
Please Accept my apology, I have nothing more to say on the subject.



If you don't think it's a good idea then don't post on the thread in question or open it to read what it contains. There is no need whatsoever for Scott to apologize because he did nothing wrong.

tamor 06-02-2007 02:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Mrs (Post 138600)
I think you should state your opinion on this issue in the Sex thread when it reopens. :thumbsup

:heeheehee:heeheehee

BoredOutOfMyMind 06-02-2007 02:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tamor (Post 138708)
:heeheehee:heeheehee


The Thread Is Open Again.


:didimiss


HeavenlyOne 06-02-2007 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hot Coffee Ms. (Post 138597)
Brother,
That thread discussing sexual matters was not a good idea. The marriage bed is sacred, and discussing sexual issues over a mixed forum is very inappropriate. I really don't think Jesus would approve.

While I can agree with you, one also has the choice to read or not to read, right?

If one doesn't think it's appropriate, then just stay off the thread.

rgcraig 06-02-2007 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoredOutOfMyMind (Post 138718)

The Thread Is Open Again.


:didimiss


I finally broke down and bought some of that - - didn't like it at all.

I gave it to my future DIL.

tamor 06-02-2007 04:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 138794)
I finally broke down and bought some of that - - didn't like it at all.

I gave it to my future DIL.

It's not my favorite. Tiffany (my daughter) loves it, but I love Paul Mitchell's Freeze and Shine.

ManOfWord 06-02-2007 05:08 PM

WOW, I guess I missed a doozy!! Se what happens when I try to get some sleep instead of being on AFF!!!!

retsambeW 06-02-2007 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ManOfWord (Post 138870)
WOW, I guess I missed a doozy!! Se what happens when I try to get some sleep instead of being on AFF!!!!

Tell the truth, MOW. You were not sleeping, you were out trying to discover if Paul had a wife! :D


How about those Cubs? :D

BrotherEastman 06-02-2007 05:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by retsambeW (Post 138878)
Tell the truth, MOW. You were not sleeping, you were out trying to discover if Paul had a wife! :D


How about those Cubs? :D

They'd be alright if they wouldn't fight amognst themselves.:heeheehee BTW, do you still know where I live? LOL!

retsambeW 06-02-2007 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BrotherEastman (Post 138881)
They'd be alright if they wouldn't fight amognst themselves.:heeheehee BTW, do you still know where I live? LOL!

I have your location. Lower your shields and disarm your weapons. Resistance is futile! :D

BrotherEastman 06-02-2007 05:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by retsambeW (Post 138882)
I have your location. Lower your shields and disarm your weapons. Resistance is futile! :D

Well, from where I'm sitting, Indianapolis is pretty large. LOL!

retsambeW 06-02-2007 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BrotherEastman (Post 138885)
Well, from where I'm sitting, Indianapolis is pretty large. LOL!

It should be! :D

CupCake 06-02-2007 06:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson (Post 138494)
I wish to publicly apologize to the the membership and ADMIN of AFF ,for starting a thread that was not in the best interest of this board.
I did not mean to start something offensive or hurtful in anyway.
I humbly in Christian charity offer this apology to AFF.
Please forgive me to not not using wisdom and discretion.
In Christian Charity, Scott hutchinson


Scott~ This is just funny, your like Mr Rogers dude.....;)

http://www.law.indiana.edu/publicati...img/rogers.jpg

Trouvere 06-02-2007 06:57 PM

Brother Hutchinson is a really nice guy.He calls and encourages us.Thank God for the ministry of Barnabus in the church.Don't sweat it brother no one
blames you.Its a good subject if taken discussed in the right prospective.
Go on and get you a big bowl of cornbread and buttermilk.


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