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StMark

02-04-2008 12:33 PM

Pregnant at 16 by her pastor!

Pregnant at 16 at the hands of her pastor; what's a girl to do?

February 4, 2008

DEAR ABBY: I have a big problem. I am 16 years old, have a good job and do well in school. I go to a Christian nondenominational church every Sunday and enjoy that, too.

The problem is my pastor. “Reverend Ron” is 48, married, and has children and grandchildren. We have become attracted to each other and have secretly become a couple since last fall.

Every Monday night, after I get off work, I go over to my church and meet Reverend Ron in his office where we have sex. We agreed to tell no one, so as not to shame ourselves or our families.

Six weeks ago, I found out I was pregnant. I haven't told him yet, and we continue with our Monday night meetings. Abortion is not an option, but neither is shaming my family, much less the whole church. Abby, what do I do?

– In True Love
in Washington

http://www.signonsandiego.com/uniont..._1c04abby.html[/quote]

Ron	02-04-2008 12:35 PM

Re: Pregnant at 16 by her pastor!

Uh, that Ron isn't me!!!

StMark

02-04-2008 12:35 PM

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http://www.signonsandiego.com/uniont..._1c04abby.html

Here's a better link

StMark

02-04-2008 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Ron (Post 379148)

Uh, that Ron isn't me!!!

better not be fweeeeewwweee!

COOPER

02-04-2008 12:58 PM

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That nasty man needs prison time!

Hoovie

02-04-2008 12:59 PM

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I'll be surprised if this thread does'nt turn the perpetrator into an "Apostolic".

dizzyde

02-04-2008 01:00 PM

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This is just tragic.

Margies3

02-04-2008 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by COOPER (Post 379190)

That nasty man needs prison time!

That nasty man will probably GET prison time!!

If I was his wife, he might want to consider self-castration!

seguidordejesus

02-04-2008 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by StMark (Post 379146)

Pregnant at 16 at the hands of her pastor; what's a girl to do?

http://www.signonsandiego.com/uniont..._1c04abby.html

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May want to change the bolded above.

COOPER

02-04-2008 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by dizzyde (Post 379196)

This is just tragic.

I like Abby's reply:

Quote:

DEAR IN TRUE LOVE: The first thing you must do is tell your mother what you have told me. If there is any “shaming,” it should not be directed at you, your family or your church. You are 16, idealistic and inexperienced. “Reverend Ron,” however, is an adult who has literally abused his “sacred” trust to you, his congregation and his God. He had so little concern for your welfare that he didn't even use birth control. This is not how grown men show “true love.” You cannot hide this secret forever. At some point the truth will be revealed. Tell your mother now, so responsible adults who love you can give you the support you so desperately need. If you're afraid to speak to your mother alone, then have a friend with you when you do it. The only thing you cannot do is remain silent.

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