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TrmptPraise 04-02-2008 11:54 PM

.....in a casino you really mean it.

This is a common attempt at humor by those who are in the process of recovering from the grips of compulsive gambling. This particular addictive behavior I have seen first hand and the devastation that it can inflict. I have done some extensive research on the subject and IMO, this is the most UNDERRATED addiction.

Thirty years ago, gambling was a rare phenomenon found only in the desert of Nevada or on the Jersey shore. Today, 47 states and D.C now have legalized gambling. Gamblers Anonymous (GA) estimates there are now 12 million compulsive in the U.S. More Americans are gambling than ever before, and they are gambling more money.

Here are some interesting facts backed by governmental and independent studies:
  • The average compulsive gambler has debts in excess of $80,000
  • Those in the lowest income bracket lost 3 times as those in the wealthiest
  • 70% of New York’s lottery tickets are sold to the poor
  • 18% of California’s adults purchase 71% of the lottery tickets
  • Gambling increases when economic times are uncertain (Does this sound eerily like the present?)
  • Illegal gambling rates are 3 times as high in states that have legal gaming as opposed to those states that have none.
  • The number of compulsive gamblers increases between 100 and 550 percent when legal gambling is brought into an area.

And these facts pale in comparison to other social costs that surface because of family neglect, embezzlement, theft, and involvement with organized crime. Some of the consequences include marital disharmony, divorce, child abuse, substance abuse, and suicide attempts. One study in The Journal of Social Issues found that as gambling increases, there is an increase in “(a) proportion of divorce and separation; (b) disagreement about money matters with one’s spouse; (c) lack of understanding between marital partners; and (d) more reported problems among children of gamblers.”

Gambling breeds greed. Yet under the disguise of state funding and easy tax collection, promises of increased education funding, we find ourselves in a society that finds its government promoting it. The fact is only 40 cents of every dollar raised through gambling such as lotteries make it to the state budget. Conversely, 99 cents of every dollar collected through direct taxation goes to the state. In addition, gambling siphons off money from the economy. In 1990, $286 Billion was wagered versus $213 billion spent on elementary and secondary schools the same year. I could go on and on with facts in this regard but you get the point.

A Biblical Perspective

First, the Bible emphasizes a number of truths that conflict with gambling. The Bible, for example emphasizes the sovereignty of God (Matthew 10:29-30). Gambling however is based on chance. The Bible admonishes people to work creatively and for the benefit of others (Eph 4:28), while gambling fosters a something-for-nothing attitude. The Bible condemns materialism (Matthew 6:24-25) while gambling promotes it.

Secondly, gambling destroys the work ethic. In Colossians 3:23-24 we are told in “whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.” Yet gambling appears to mock capitalism’s core values: disciplined work habits, thrift, prudence, adherence to routine, and the relationship between effort and reward. Gambling replaces those values with greed and selfishness. Rather than depending on hard work, they depend on luck and chance.

Thirdly, gambling destroys families. As people get caught up in the get-rich-quick frenzy, then begin to neglect their families. 1 Timothy 5:8 states that one who refuses to care for his family is worse that an unbeliever. Parents must provide for their children (2 Cor. 12:14) and eat the bread of their labors (2 Thess 3:12). Gambling causes people to neglect that God-mandated responsibility.

For those who may not know, gambling causes the same chemical reaction that one may see when adrenalin is infused into the body. That is where the rush comes from. Endorphins are released in the brain when one is in the process of wagering. The thoughts of the “big win” are what drive these reactions to occur. Just like man has used some of God’s creation to manipulate the mind through drugs, we have also discovered that the human body is capable of manipulating itself to its own demise.

We need, as carriers of this great truth, to be aware of the mindset of this new society that has been creeping into our world. The younger generation’s minds are being conformed and transformed to have the outlook that it doesn’t take the effort of those who have gone before. We are living in a day when effort does not equal reward, but rather life should be handed out in ready to order, drive-thru installments.

A side note about Gamblers Anonymous. Although I applaud their efforts in these areas, I have to take to task one aspect of their program (and similar programs). I sincerely appreciate the fact that seeking a “higher power” is one emphasis of recovery. However, the thinking that once a gambler always a gambler certainly seems to limit that power. I am forever thankful that there is no limit to the power of Jesus Christ or a limit on the delivering power that He holds.

OP_Carl 04-03-2008 05:26 AM

Re: The Difference in Praying in Church vs. a Casi
 
Lottery tickets are a tax on people who don't understand statistics.

It is just amazing to me how the state can glibly sponsor the destruction of its citizenry in the name of increased revenue to spend on social programs and roads, but still end up with a deficit.

deltaguitar 04-03-2008 08:48 AM

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As a normal UPC kid I would have never gambled or gone to a casino. I was just too cheap. Then the world series of poker got real big and I decided that I could beat the game of poker. Living very close to poker rooms in Mississippi made it to easy. I started sneaking off to play and almost always won. But there were many times I lost and once you go on tilt you can lose big. Though I never lost money in the long term I spent so much time reading and thinking about the game. I even dreamed about poker and lost a lot of sleep over it.

Though it might seem like innocent fun I would recommend folks to stay away as it is highly addictive.

TrmptPraise 04-03-2008 08:53 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by deltaguitar (Post 431356)
As a normal UPC kid I would have never gambled or gone to a casino. I was just too cheap. Then the world series of poker got real big and I decided that I could beat the game of poker. Living very close to poker rooms in Mississippi made it to easy. I started sneaking off to play and almost always won. But there were many times I lost and once you go on tilt you can lose big. Though I never lost money in the long term I spent so much time reading and thinking about the game. I even dreamed about poker and lost a lot of sleep over it.

Though it might seem like innocent fun I would recommend folks to stay away as it is highly addictive.

Thanks for that honest insight, DG. Unfortunately, for most, it starts with a win, then a series of losses, then maybe a win again. When it starts to dominate one's life, they begin the "chase." It then takes years to realize that no one beats the house.

TrmptPraise 04-03-2008 08:55 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by OP_Carl (Post 431310)
Lottery tickets are a tax on people who don't understand statistics.

It is just amazing to me how the state can glibly sponsor the destruction of its citizenry in the name of increased revenue to spend on social programs and roads, but still end up with a deficit.

Oh yes,...the "Its going to save our state's economy, pave our roads and educate our children!" Please don't notice the wake of destruction left in the meantime.:bored

OneAccord 04-03-2008 12:06 PM

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Hello, my name is OneAccord and I am not a gambler. I did visit one casino, spent (and lost) $20 and I did spend $2 on lottery tickets. That is the extent of my gambling habit. Actually, since I'm not a gambler, I never gave it much thought. Lottery or no lottery? Never had much of opinion about it. But, this thread was an eye-opener. I never thought much about the dire consequences of compulsive gambling. Good thread, which, I believe, could be a big help to those who get caught in the web of chance.

OP_Carl 04-03-2008 07:33 PM

Re: The Difference in Praying in Church vs. a Casi
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by TrmptPraise (Post 431360)
Thanks for that honest insight, DG. Unfortunately, for most, it starts with a win, then a series of losses, then maybe a win again. When it starts to dominate one's life, they begin the "chase." It then takes years to realize that no one beats the house.

All you need is one look at the Vegas strip to realize that the casinos win.

RandyWayne 04-03-2008 09:03 PM

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The part about initially winning IS right.

We went to Vegas (stayed downtown) a year ago and had a blast -however, everything I touched THAT FIRST NIGHT turned to gold! I could not drop a coin or five spot into a machine without winning. It was strange! In fact, I cleared over a grand that first evening. Fast forward to the next night... and the next... and the next.... Everything I touched turned to LEAD! In the end we ended up breaking evening -which for Vegas is a WIN!

I had my fill of gambling.....

Just give me a high paying job for my money! :)


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