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ModestMama 11-25-2015 06:20 PM

How many hours a week?
 
I didn't see a forum here for marriages. So forgive me if this isnt the right place.
I was curious, as to what you all think is a good number of hours each week to spend quality time with your spouse?

Scott Pitta 11-26-2015 07:50 AM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
We both work. After work we are home and hang out together. I do spend time hunting, but usually when Mary is at work.

We don't have special quality time.

Sean 11-26-2015 10:56 AM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
My wife and I are around each other most of the day.

I am self employed and have that luxury.

We take a lot of rides and enjoy the rural scenery, drinking coffee and chatting.

Its a good set up.

seguidordejesus 11-26-2015 06:25 PM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
Wife and I like to spend time together but prefer not to work together all day. It's all about personality.

ModestMama 11-26-2015 10:36 PM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
Yea that makes sense. Each couple has different needs and different personalities. :)

Reason I was asking was because i read in a marriage book that anything less that 15 hours a week was damaging. And something just didnt seem right about it.

Sean 11-26-2015 11:45 PM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
One thing that helps us get along is completely letting go of our pride.(just celebrated 32 years of happy marriage)

We have learned to tease each other without getting offended.

We make it a habit, not to sull up, but laugh at being the brunt of the occasional tease.

It is a way to "play together" as a middle age couple, without getting offended.

Pride can be a marriage killer.

houston 02-13-2017 12:26 AM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by seguidordejesus (Post 1407080)
Wife and I like to spend time together but prefer not to work together all day. It's all about personality.

You don't like your wife's personality?

seguidordejesus 02-13-2017 05:39 PM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by houston (Post 1468704)
You don't like your wife's personality?

You don't have people at work you wouldn't necessarily want to live with? This is the reverse of that. I still love her :)

houston 02-14-2017 12:59 AM

Re: How many hours a week?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by seguidordejesus (Post 1468773)
You don't have people at work you wouldn't necessarily want to live with? This is the reverse of that. I still love her :)

Lol.


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