Dear Friend, I will most assuredly be praying for you. I feel led to tell you of a story of what happened to my older sister in her marriage. It may help you or may not, but either way I pray God will lead you the right way and give you all the answers you are looking for. My sister had had met a man that her and him married and seemed happy for the first year. After that and a baby, things began to change dramatically. He began to go and come as he pleased, never helped and worked much *over time* hours. He began acting in a way that it was ripping her apart. They went to church and was both *saved*.....but he lived another life beyond the church doors....that was a very dark part of him. She went to her pastor for advice and it seemed the more she prayed the worse things became for her. One day she sat down and prayed and she came to the family in a different manner after that. She said God revealed to her the answer she was looking for the whole time. She knew that nothing is impossible for God to change but unless that person wants to, HE will not make one do so. God showed her that he heard every prayer she prayed but this man was not going to change. The dark evil pit he was *consumed* in would be the same one that would consume her and possibly be her death. He was trying to show her that she needed to get out and never look back, let go and let God have it all. After 4 years and Gods hand of mercy on her, she walked out with her babies and never looked back. God took the love she had for him away and put a strong surviving spirit inside and a few years later she met a wonderful man who fell in love with her, adopted her babies and they have a wonderfully blessed marriage. I am not telling you that God is trying to tell you the same he showed my sister, but when you have prayed all you can pray and nothing seems to be changing.....change the direction of your prayers as Bro James Kilgore spoke of in one of his sermons years ago. God hears all your prayers and he honors each one, but when you have done all you can do.....let go and let God !!!! You will be in my prayers and I pray you will find all the answers you need and the direction you need to go my friend. Please keep me posted. You can PM me if you like if you need someone to just unload on
