[jediwill83]

I think that too many times those that feel they are in "the right" feel they can use whatever methods they want and the ones that are having the methods used on them are obligated to swallow it hook line and sinker without comment other than humble acceptance and agreement. Honestly I dont respond well to being ambushed in ANY aspect of my life.

Bro I'm glad you got a heads up and was able to prepare. Who knows...maybe your attitude and demeanor will convict him and plant a seed. I used to judge and condemn those that I felt were not somehow measuring up. I held wrong attitudes in my heart against good people that I felt were wrong and out of line because they held views that I didnt. I'm thankful that is behind me. I no longer sit back with a self righteous and smug attitude judging others. I DO look for the best in people...I try and connect with people on what we agree on and not have discord over what we dont.