[shazeep]

hmm, i thought she was quite forthcoming about her position there, and even admitted to her shortcomings in counseling men like her father. She hardly seemed unreconciled to me. Got a quote to illuminate your point?

"Guilt is not empathy. Neither is shame. In fact, when people feel overwhelmed by their own inner feelings of guilt, they are more likely to attack the people around them rather than act empathetic. Feeling guilt does not make you a good person. Empathy and responsiveness make you a good person. Guilt blocks empathy."