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Originally Posted by stmatthew
I will be honest, the situation of what was told is not between me and you. That is between the person and you. You will need to deal with them personally on that particular part, and I am not going to speak for them. What is between me and you is being dealt with here.
My issue is that to start this thread was wrong, because you had dealt with an Admin in admin capacity on this, and then started the thread. And to ask an admin to withhold info from other admin was wrong, especially when the info was about admin team decisions. It is, IMHO, sowing discord. It makes it seem like you are playing one admin against another. You have done this for some time now, because we DO talk and share what is going on within the forum. If we keep things hidden within the administration between admins, we will stop trusting one another, and this forum will crumble from within.
So Dan, I have taken responsibility for my post, and sought to correct it to the best of my ability. Do whatever you feel necessary.
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No Matt...I dealt with someone that has known my wife for some 20 or more years that I was addressing as a friend. My Father in law was her Pastor when she was young. And Tiffany was quite excited that they had "reunited" after so long.
"I have done this for some time now"????? What does that mean?
I am NOT for sowing discord...I am for EVERYBODY being honest!
Plus....her defense was that it is admin policy that all pm's regarding admin are supposed to be reported to admin....yet I am told that this is not true.
UGH! I give up.
I do thank you for the correcting that you did.
But remember...."perception" of what Admin thinks is simply that....perception.
TO give your word and then within 30 seconds go back on your word is not perception its WRONG!
I would have dealt fine with it had she said "Dan...I cannot give you my word because I am bound to report it to admin"
I would have respected that.....But she did not....she gave her word and then ....lied on it.
Not life or death, not to keep someone from getting hurt...just to run her mouth.
I am sorry this even happened.
To the admin involved...lets just move on from here.
TO you that are reading this please stop asking...Im not saying anything...(you know why?...because believe it or not I DONT want to hurt admin OR "sow discord")