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From what you have told us so far it sounds like a no biggie.
He doesn't even know about the band and, unless someone pushes him on it, probably never will.
Pushing him on this would put him in a position where he will be the odd man out (which is not always a bad thing).
Everybody will wear a shirt that means nothing to them and when homecoming comes and goes so will the shirt.
I think this would fall under the category of picking ones battles.
You aren't dealing with a son who is walking around pumping KISS music into his head via earphones all day. You are dealing with a kid who is wearing a shirt for which he has little or no knowledge what it is about or who they are. For some reason somebody probably saw it and thought it was "cool" and so they made the plans.
Currently the shirt is meaningless to him except for their plans to wear it at homecoming. Make a big deal about it... and it ceases to be meaningless.
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