I avoid confrontation. My mom can be so brusk, so in your face "Im right and you're wrong" and "I am old and can say what I want"-she does not mind if her words causes others to be hurt.

If I must say something I try to say it in the kindest way possible. If someone gets an attitude, I back away. I pray, I don't thing God wants me to be right to the point of having a bad attitude about anything.