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Originally Posted by dizzyde

This is just tragic.

I like Abby's reply:

DEAR IN TRUE LOVE: The first thing you must do is tell your mother what you have told me. If there is any “shaming,” it should not be directed at you, your family or your church. You are 16, idealistic and inexperienced. “Reverend Ron,” however, is an adult who has literally abused his “sacred” trust to you, his congregation and his God. He had so little concern for your welfare that he didn't even use birth control. This is not how grown men show “true love.” You cannot hide this secret forever. At some point the truth will be revealed. Tell your mother now, so responsible adults who love you can give you the support you so desperately need. If you're afraid to speak to your mother alone, then have a friend with you when you do it. The only thing you cannot do is remain silent.