I am not saying that there is never a situation that warrants us talking to another adult. There are those times when we need a listening ear. However we must be careful how much info we feed to our kids. Kids are kids and many of them know way to much info before they are old enough to process it. Kids have been made to grow up way to fast emotionally. I thank God that my parents did not let everything hang out to dry in our home. There are things that I have found out as an adult that could have been very much to my detriment had I had this knowledge as a kid. Things are discussed way to openly in front of children.....just my opinion.