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Originally Posted by dizzyde
WOW!! Been there done that, twice, and can't imagine having a caring friendship with either!!
I can't imagine having a friendship with someone I couldn't stay married to, that being said, I don't go for hateful bitter relationships either. Somewhere in the middle, cordial, perhaps.
I commend you, you apparently are a bigger person than I am!!
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was married to him for 13 years... today would have been our 19th anniversary if we hadn't been divorced.
He has some issues mainly drugs are his first love. I have helped him get off drugs 2 times in the last several years where he lived in our home from 2 weeks to this past time 3 months. He remarried in 05 and I have had both him and his wife in my home on many occaisions.. holidays and when they visited our girls.
I had a dream when we first divorced of his "girlfriend" who he had met at a party doing drugs, receiving the Holy Ghost in my brother's church... even in all the pain of the divorce, I prayed for her.... God doesn't show things like that to me if he didn't want me to pray for them... so I did. She received the HOly Ghost 2 years later standing in the very altars I saw her in my dream. They married and attended church together for quite a while. She was a wica witch, but he took the time to teach her the truth... in all of his problems, I know of at least 5 people he has brought to the Lord either through teaching them/praying for them to recieve the HOly Ghost... or brought them to church after giving them studies. He just can't serve God himself... we have a lot of "saints" that haven't done that.
I truly have forgiven him of anything he has ever done... I will always care for him and his soul. It isn't that I can't get along with him... to me that isn't even grounds for divorce. He has a first love that controls his life... he is guilty of adultery... so we are divorced.