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Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne
Justin is your son and yours alone. There is no way anyone can take that from him or you.
But for him, I'm excited. It answers questions that would always be in his mind even if he never voiced them. And having an extended 'family' is also exciting to him, I'm sure. I'm glad you helped him with this and that you have no reservations....none you are voicing anyway. You and Walt have been wonderful parents, and it shows in your children.
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Thanks, H1. We've tried
If I'm being completely honest, I'd have to say of course I have reservations. I know the reasons why we have Justin and his birth mother does not. I am sincerely hoping that what we've been told about her being changed so much is really true. She sent a letter with her mother today for us. It was well written and very informative. Very open and honest, I believe. In the letter she shared her MySpace account with us. I checked that out tonight. There are things on there that still leave me a little bit uncomfortable. But we'll go ahead with meeting her. We can always put the brakes on if we feel that anything at all is inappropriate. I don't expect to tho. She's still young (36), so I can't expect her to behave like she's 50. What I saw was not THAT bad. I just know Justin. He has VERY, very high moral standards. It'll be interesting to watch this develop. He's a good kid. I trust his judgement. He'll be ok