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Re: Is it Ethical?
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Originally Posted by iceniez
You are right and that is what she wanted to hear. I was too focused on being ethical.
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I believe it is very ethical to keep your relationship with your wife peaceful and make certain that she feels beautiful in your eyes. 
What was more important, as far as ethics go? Making sure you expressed your opinion about the dress? Or making sure your wife understood that you think she's beautiful?
My husband and I are pretty straight forward with one another. It doesn't really bother me for him to say, "That's not my favorite dress." However, if your wife is hurt by that much bluntness, then I suggest avoiding it! 
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abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
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