Originally Posted by brad2723

PaPaDon,

I don't know if you are married, have kids, grandkids, or what. If you do, may I ask, Did you chose to be attracted to your wife? Did you chose to fall in love with your wife? The choices you make regarding your wife and kids (again, assuming they exist) is influenced by your unchosen love and natural affection for them.

On a more specific and less philosophical level, did you chose your stature?; your foot size? your hairline? None of have directly chosen any of these attributes YET we make decisions based on their naturally progressive existence.

So it is with orientation. It is a naturally developing, God-given, human experience that is not determined by choice. What we as humans do choose, however, is how to physically respond to our natural psychological and emotional development.