[votivesoul]

In my own life, if this may at all help, I find God keeps bringing certain situations around until I deal with them.

If the situation you've presented is exactly as you say, then what is needed is confrontation, confession, and repentance. In-laws have destroyed many a marriage.

But in the end, you don't go home and go to bed with mama or papa, or whoever. You go home to your God-given spouse. She's the one you need to please and make happy, or else you will lose your marriage to save face at home.

Not worth it, bro.