Re: Sex Before Marriage: Does God Approve?
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Originally Posted by allstate1
I do believe it is a sin!!!!!! However I was tryin to make a point about "trying" out. Not everyone is compatible!
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I don't really get your posts. Maybe someone else can clue me in. Test driving a future spouse is NOT an option for a Christian. Therefore, any "incompatibility" after marriage is irrelevant as far as whether or not the relationship should remain intact.
When you get married, you have to work at BEING compatible with your spouse. It doesn't magically happen. Making things work out...*ahem*...happily for everyone takes effort and a lack of selfishness, among other things.
IMO, "incompatibility" is often code for "I'm too selfish and lazy to do what it takes to make this a good relationship."
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