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Old 01-29-2008, 01:00 PM
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Who Do You Go To Bat For?

In the time I have spent on NFCF and here I have noticed a number of cliques and partnerships. Most notably is when two people are in a dispute there will be a "friend" backing one of the persons up. That same "friend" who was backing this person up will be unheard from in a similiar situation that does not involve his or her buddy.

When it comes to disputes or discussions on the forum or defending someone against accusations or when it comes to the forum rules being broken, do you consider yourself even handed? Or do you only report a post when it involves a friend on the receiving end of a hot argument?

Do you oppose certain people just because your friends to do? Do you oppose or support certain posters simply because they are ideologically or theologically aligned with you, no matter how wrong they might be in a dispute?

Do you find yourself reporting posts only when you feel a friend has been insulted or when someone that is theologically/ideologically aligned with you gets insulted. Or do you report a post even handed across the board no matter what their theology is or no matter how much you like or dislike that person?
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Old 01-29-2008, 01:20 PM
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Re: Who Do You Go To Bat For?

No. I mean, yes. I mean, no. Wait, what was the question?

I don't know, I don't think I have ever reported a post? I think there was one situation were I was seriously upset over a post, but I don't think I had ever even heard of the person who posted it before, so it wasn't a specific thing towards him.

I try to stay away from the really controversial stuff, it just frustrates me.

And, apparently, I only have one friend, sooo.....
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Old 01-29-2008, 01:21 PM
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Re: Who Do You Go To Bat For?

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In the time I have spent on NFCF and here I have noticed a number of cliques and partnerships. Most notably is when two people are in a dispute there will be a "friend" backing one of the persons up. That same "friend" who was backing this person up will be unheard from in a similiar situation that does not involve his or her buddy.
I've noticed that too, but I won't do that. I feel that if any of my friends are in a discussion (unless it's one I'm interested in as well), they are on their own when it comes to their words and beliefs. If I'm involved in the discussion, it won't be because a friend is involved, but because it's a topic of interest.

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When it comes to disputes or discussions on the forum or defending someone against accusations or when it comes to the forum rules being broken, do you consider yourself even handed? Or do you only report a post when it involves a friend on the receiving end of a hot argument?
I rarely report posts, but I've reported nasty posts directed at people I don't even care for......LOL! If it's wrong, it's wrong.

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Do you oppose certain people just because your friends to do? Do you oppose or support certain posters simply because they are ideologically or theologically aligned with you, no matter how wrong they might be in a dispute?
I think there are a lot of people on this forum that I consider friends even though we are on opposite sides of certain issues. There are also friends I have on this forum that might not get along with other friends I have on this forum. It's not a big deal. We all have different tastes in friends and some of us see things in others that some don't see.

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Do you find yourself reporting posts only when you feel a friend has been insulted or when someone that is theologically/ideologically aligned with you gets insulted. Or do you report a post even handed across the board no matter what their theology is or no matter how much you like or dislike that person?
I rarely report posts anyway, but it has nothing to do with theological beliefs or whatever.
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Old 01-29-2008, 01:23 PM
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No. I mean, yes. I mean, no. Wait, what was the question?

I don't know, I don't think I have ever reported a post? I think there was one situation were I was seriously upset over a post, but I don't think I had ever even heard of the person who posted it before, so it wasn't a specific thing towards him.

I try to stay away from the really controversial stuff, it just frustrates me.

And, apparently, I only have one friend, sooo.....

If you hit accept, you'll have two now!!
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Old 01-29-2008, 01:25 PM
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Re: Who Do You Go To Bat For?

I think I am pretty even handed, or at least I try to be.
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LOL!!! Thanks!!! I am NOT a loser!!!
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Old 01-29-2008, 01:26 PM
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LOL!!! Thanks!!! I am NOT a loser!!!
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I had to stop and think... I was thinking oh wait.,... is she not considering me her friend ROFL DUHHHHHHHHH !!!

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Old 01-29-2008, 01:31 PM
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Make that three!!
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I've noticed that too, but I won't do that. I feel that if any of my friends are in a discussion (unless it's one I'm interested in as well), they are on their own when it comes to their words and beliefs. If I'm involved in the discussion, it won't be because a friend is involved, but because it's a topic of interest.
I agree.

Anyone being misunderstood or treated unfairly, unless they have the reputation of being an idiot anyway.
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