Marriage Rejuvenation?

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa

Same reason maybe they didn't call you on mocking me being dragged to a lit stove and being burned by my stepmother when I was a child.

We discussed this. You mocked VETERANS with PTSD, men who proudly served and suffer a living nightmare over it. So, I decided to mock your pain. Sad thing is, you're whining far more about being mocked by little ol' me than any vet who read your ignorant drivel. A glass jaw paper tiger. And here's the hilarious thing, you're still whining over it. LOL! You're such a wuss.

A.) PTSD is real. Get over it.
B.) You mocked the pain of others and you revealed your pain, you got mocked in return. Get over it.

Suck it up buttercup, put on your big girl britches and put it behind you. It only makes you look more and more like a pansy. Go lift weights. Maybe exercise. Or, I know you have worked on bikes, go do that. Get your mind off of it and... let it go, never to return. Else, you're allowing what I said to occupy precious space in your head. And, you allow it to bother you and keep coming to the surface. Which means... the anger owns you. You're better than that, and you know it.

That's legalism my boy, a shirt, a tie, and a haircut pales in comparison. You want to debate about skirts, beards, how the ultracons do what they do, and call it legalism.

Nope. Why do I always have to correct the hard of reading? I explained that believing that these things have bearing on our salvation is legalism. I find it funny that your Jesus died to provide a salvation so weak, so shallow, so relatively fragile that you believe a woman can be saved by an Amazing Grace, only to be damned by a pair of Jordache jeans. Or that a man, can be atoned for by the very blood of God, and damned by a beard. It's pathetic. LOL

Let me break it down. The only "greasy grace" is one that can slip right through one's fingers over little insignificant things like these.

While you within the darkness of your thoughts you do to people in your mind what serial killers carry out in reality.

Exaggerate much? LOL

You always play victim which to those who don't know of your shenanigans would quickly swallow. The Admins did their job in the Psychology thread because you let it all hang out. You held nothing back. When you realized what you had done you took a few days off, then came back as pious, barefoot, Chris robed in bloody stigmata.

I'm not ashamed of my wounds.

Chris, you know where you are at, and you like where you are at.

That is fluid my friend. Where I'm at? Where am I, oh great one? I have good days, I have bad days. My PTSD has flared up at times, and as a result I've been able to manage it. Then there are times I haven't. We fall down. We get up.

Like I've said before... What do you want from me? You don't know the prayers I've prayed in the past two days. You don't know the tears I've shed or even what they were about. You don't know what I've asked the LORD to give me guidance over. You don't know what my children are facing right now. You don't know who's in the hospital, who's dying, or what is happening in my life. Yet you set yourself up as my judge, my jury, and my executioner. Talk about arrogance.

Bro, you need to repent of your hatred and arrogance. No one appointed you as my spiritual authority. I don't mind chatting with you. I don't mind a good debate. I don't mind a discussion about how our views differ. But you're incapable of doing that. You can't just say, "I disagree, Chris. And here's why..." No, you just hurl insults, degrade, and malign anyone who disagrees with you. That speaks of deep insecurity on your part. I have net to read of you agreeing to disagree. No, you have to whine, call names, drag up the past, throw mud. Here's what you've done... you've taken your faith and you're handling like people handle politics. You can't disagree without insult. It's beyond your capabilities. You're so insecure, you fear it would make you look weak. It's really pathetic.

We're two grown men. I'm not your pastor. You're not mine. Why can't we discuss things without you going so personal? Besides, I've used hyperbole in quite a few things I've said to you, only you watch you run with it like some sottish school kid trying to get another in some kind of trouble. You're too predictable. In fact, I have seen several threads wherein I was tempted to just get you back onto your holier than thou bandwagon. But I felt it would derail an otherwise decent conversation, so I didn't.

You say some shocking stuff, and you were notified in posts from other posters of what you have said. Women who wear skirts are "easy access" for rapists? Sick? You posted that, Mr piety, but you are on a forum, a public one, one where your posts are here and archived.

That's not what I said. Nor was that my intention. You know, twisting a man's words is essentially a lie. That means, it's a sin. We were discussing a safety concern that another poster had brought up about a church in an area with a rapist on the loose. First, I didn't bring up the topic. Second, I didn't say that it served "easy access for rapists". The "easy access" was in a conversation wherein I mentioned that skirts and dresses do not insure that a woman is modest because some of the most immodest women I've known deliberately wore skirts. At that, you had a meltdown instead of actually proving yourself to be capable of contemplating my point.

You would think that would compel you to stay with in the honesty zone. But, no, not you, you are free to tell people they live in ghettos,

You're still butt-hurting over that comment? LOL

You twisted what I said in that conversation too. Other posters even tried to help explain my point, and it was still lost on you.

how you wouldn't allow your family to live in a ghetto,

Twisting my words again. It is our duty as parents to ensure that our children are in a safe environment. That was the point. You're so stuck on words. It's like they trigger your own PTSD, making you incapable of getting beyond the words to see the point. LOL

"ghetto, ghetto, ghetto, ghetto, ghetto, ghetto,"

How does that make you feel? Is your blood pressure rising? Any racing thoughts? Do you feel anxiety? You might want to take it to Jesus, buddy.

how stay at home wives are losers,

I never said stay at home wives or mom's were losers. My mom was a stay at home mom. Bruh... I think you harbor guilt for making your wife stay at home or something. Because you just can't shake it can you? Look, I've explained it to you a dozen or more times. I wasn't talking about YOUR wife, I was talking about women who sincerely feel they have dreams, or even a calling, to a career, ministry, service, or vocation. Then there are women who feel a shared duty to help provide. I don't think a Christian man would hold them down, hold them back, or make them give up on their dreams, calling, or sense of duty. That's all I was saying. But you're incapable of grasping that. Because deep down inside... you resent successful women. Especially those more successful than you. lol Dude, get over it. You're where God wants you. Grow where you're planted. Stop trying to run everyone else's lives for them.

and Bernie Sanders was the hope of the world.

Bernie was the bomb! LOL

It's only an opinion different from your own. Can you deal with it? Or does it irritate you like a pebble in your sandal? Does it make you get all red in the face and frustrated that I think Trump is a crook and Bernie was a better man? Does it make you want to feverishly write a litany of insults and trash talk? LOL It must frustrate you like sandpaper in your britches.

I have a different opinion. And you can't change it. Nana, nana, na, na. LOL

We all have opinions. Get over it. Let it go.

While I could careless about the later, you are the one who post things to get a rise out of other posters.

Ah, yes. I have. And I can admit it. But you can't. LOL

You and I both know that a number of us have done that from time to time. It's just a discussion board. Throw something out there, sometimes sensationalize it. Sometimes make it a bit radical. Just to get some discussion going. But those whose intellect is a mile wide and an inch deep miss the point. For example, when I was taking that radical position that we should protest in the churches if pastors politick from the pulpit. You lost it! LOL You got your panties in a bunch about how I advocate disruption and protest, and even "violence" in churches. Here's what you missed... "if pastors politick from the pulpit". The real question should have been... should pastors use their pulpits to politick from some political candidate? And seeing that they had lifted prohibitions on pastors endorsing specific candidates, we should also ask, should they have lifted that prohibition? Might pastors politicking from the pulpit bring protests? Would pastors politicking from the pulpit potentially divide the body based on earthly politics? All of those deeper more intellectual questions were lost on you bro. LOL You just wanted to nail me to the wall like I had actually protested in a church or something. You were so mad. LOL I really got your goat. But... it proved something to me. You can't discern the deeper questions. You just have to go off on something or some one. You can't pause and ask yourself, "Wait. What are they really saying here?" If something I say seems way too radical, it's by design. What got me about that thread was that people were freaked out and concerned over how protestors might take protests to the churches... than the fact that churches were just drafted as tax free political action committees for earthly politicians to use to manipulate the masses through the sacred authority of the pastoral office. Very few people got it. You weren't among them.

You know that, but you are a shapeshifter, and you are getting older, hope you allow age to set you in the proper direction, instead of sending you spiraling off into oblivion.

Oh, dear goodness. Because the opinion of some stranger on a discussion forum keeps me up at night. LOL

Get over yourself.