Talking to kids about suicide.

[Aquila]

We had a tragedy in our family this weekend. My step-daughter, Addison (11 years old), lost her half brother, Austin. He was 22 years old and apparently it was a suicide. He shot himself on the back porch of the house he was living in. He was a troubled teen. His father (Addison's biological father) was always into drugs and crime. As he grew up he too got involved in drugs, dropped out of school, and got involved with guns. Austin was dearly loved by Addison, and he would always put on his best face when visiting. It came as such a shock to us.

We told Addison about Austin's death and explained that there is still an investigation. There is because his father (Addison's biological father requested an autopsy). However, we haven't disclosed the details of Austin's passing to her. I'm not sure how to explain to her that it was a suicide.

I felt something check me about the notion of telling her that it was a suicide. Not sure how to handle her questions. I'd be appreciative to anyone who might have some wisdom or advice on this.