Divorce and remarriage

[Michael The Disciple]

Marriage is permanent from Jesus side. YET he allows exceptions. Fornication and abandonment of the unbeliever.

Remarriage for death is itself an exception.

[peter83]

Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple

Marriage is permanent from Jesus side. YET he allows exceptions. Fornication and abandonment of the unbeliever.

Remarriage for death is itself an exception.

Remarriage for death is itself an exception
actually the only exception. Woman s free by the law from her housbant (believer,apostate,non believer) till he dies. Afterward is FREE from the law to marry.
So we dont know except death any other reason. He did not said "if the ex- kills and go to prison you are free to re-marry" neither if he had an accident and he can not do ..nothing.
neither of he goes around with his new girlfriend.
..difficult but clear enough He puts DEATH as the only way for 2nd marriage. Because flesh are under the law.

1)(after all brother, why then to even speak about re-marriage and so on (two are one fles, let no separate what God put together, instructions to married believers, instructions to a non and a believer, instructions dor widows etc.)?
I say that because if fornication meaning was adultery then 99%100 can remarry. because nobody leave his/her mate for be alone. Sure he/she will marry again or if not ,will stay with a "girlfriend-boyfriend" .And if this did not happened immediately after the divorce or after 20 years ...maybe the innocent party will never learn if she/he really got a secret sexual relationship.
Because Jesus said that Adultery is when a person leave his wife and after re-marry another. He did not said "if a man lives his wife for marry another" but just "and marry another" .
a)So he divorce maybe not as reason to re-marry, still called adultery
b) He wants to marry an other but wait till he get a divorce, and after he is doing sex with her, but thise called adultery too
3)One can have sexual relasionship outside marriage but still married.
Who then can re-marry? ALL! Because soon or latter the ex will be marrry or atlist will be having sex.

2) First of all ,Paul give hos own thoughts for the married with unblievers right after he put the rule of Jesus himself about all married couples. Paul dont contradict Jesus teaching!
And again, then all can re-marry!!! Because when a man/woman is so hardhearted to live his/her mate, then is "out of faith" and Paul said that ones Christians are worst than the nonobelievers . So anybody can find the excuse and remarry because his/her ex is not a believer anymore 9or never was).

[peter83]

Originally Posted by Steven Avery

This is dependent on:

a) the first marriage of the man was itself a covenant marriage (e.g. the spouse was not in adultery to an earlier marriage.)

b) the first wife is alive

Yes, you understand this well.

The woman made a mistake entering the adulterious relationship, she repented, and she can be attuned for a true marriage spouse.

[Graham]

Originally Posted by Steven Avery

This is dependent on:

a) the first marriage of the man was itself a covenant marriage (e.g. the spouse was not in adultery to an earlier marriage.)

b) the first wife is alive

Yes, you understand this well.

The woman made a mistake entering the adulterious relationship, she repented, and she can be attuned for a true marriage spouse.

[Nicodemus1968]

Would you agree that a marriage that ends in a divorce court, whether it be adultery, fornication, abuse (physical or emotional) etc.. in the church or out of the church be deemed a broken covenant?

[Nicodemus1968]

Originally Posted by diakonos

Peter83,

Good job! I always believed that you can not remarry. MY only exception is if it happened before conversion.

“Our” churches are full of people on their 2nd and 3rd marriages. What a sad state of affairs.

In your opinion, why are people on there 2nd and 3rd marriages? When it happens across the board of the church’s that means a spirit is involved, sinners that come into the church we expect them to be in that situation. Yet, we understand that the Blood has no limitations, and shame on us if we limit the blood just to fit our theology. Jesus didn’t call us to be kings or priests he called us to be shepherds, we have marriages on the rocks, the Bible says “where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.” Many marriages submit to a spirit of discord, and because 80% of churches don’t believe in a spirit realm and everything is physical, they don’t know how to war in the spirit properly and saints homes have become a cluster of spiritual activity.

[Steven Avery]

Originally Posted by Nicodemus1968

Would you agree that a marriage that ends in a divorce court, whether it be adultery, fornication, abuse (physical or emotional) etc.. in the church or out of the church be deemed a broken covenant?

Maybe bruised, needing restoration.
In the eyes of the Lord Jesus, the covenant fully remains.

A doctrine of "broken covenant" is meant to allow more cruising and bruising, and multiple adulteries.

[peter83]

Originally Posted by Nicodemus1968

Would you agree that a marriage that ends in a divorce court, whether it be adultery, fornication, abuse (physical or emotional) etc.. in the church or out of the church be deemed a broken covenant?

(if i understood right) the only way the marriage can be broken as covenant is death:
1 Cor.7: 39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Rom.7: 1 "Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to [her] husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of [her] husband. 3 So then if, while [her] husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man."

[Nicodemus1968]

Originally Posted by peter83

(if i understood right) the only way the marriage can be broken as covenant is death:
1 Cor.7: 39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Rom.7: 1 "Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to [her] husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of [her] husband. 3 So then if, while [her] husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man."

I want to be clear on this subject, I believe it’s one man, one women, for one lifetime. Yet, with that I will say when the man and women allow them self’s to sleep the enemy comes in plants tares in their spirit and they don’t know what’s been planted until it comes to the surface. And this is an epidemic in the apostolic church today, it’s sad but true!

I believe and teach that for sinners that never knew God, they came into the church with 2,3,4 marriages maybe never married and just shacked up, once they apply the blood it’s over Jesus forgives them as long as they forgive others.
I think we all agree that the blood of Jesus has no limitations!

For saints Paul is clear, the marriage covenant is until death. Now, was Paul talking physically or spiritually? I’m not making excuses for marriages in the church that they can just go to the divorce courts come back to the church and get remarried, Absolutely not! Yet, understanding the covenant this is a problem in church and it’s going on for all hosts of reasons, porn, adultery, abuse, backsliding... With that said, that doesn’t mean they committed the unpardonable sin, that’s a weight that those 2 will have to contend with for the rest of their lives.

[peter83]

Originally Posted by Nicodemus1968

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For saints Paul is clear, the marriage covenant is until death. Now, was Paul talking physically or spiritually? I’m not making excuses for marriages in the church that they can just go to the divorce courts come back to the church and get remarried, Absolutely not! Yet, understanding the covenant this is a problem in church and it’s going on for all hosts of reasons, porn, adultery, abuse, backsliding... With that said, that doesn’t mean they committed the unpardonable sin, that’s a weight that those 2 will have to contend with for the rest of their lives.

Yes the blood of Jesus cleans anyone who truly repents!
(if i robe a bank and then repent, i have to give the money back, or in general, when i repent for a sin, that means i stop doing that sin. In the case of adultery ,one has to stop live the adultery
(i speak for the Christian brothers-sisters)