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Originally Posted by jezebelslayer
I just want to thank you for your kind heart. It is encouraging to me to see someone that really take the time to consider that this person was truely asking an innocent question. If not, then God will deal with them ... does this forum have to do the judging in such a harsh fashion? Again thank you sir for being so kind hearted.
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There is a time and a place for everything. Asking that type of question in the shadow of her passing was not seemly, IMHO.
If that is 'judging' forgive me, but folks often put "you're judging" on people who are actually trying to set boundaries of propriety.
When I look at the pen on my desk, and call it "blue," I am not judging it harshly...it IS blue.
As we don't have a heaven or hell to put anyone in, we all are merely saying it is best to leave one's final destination with the One who knows all things.
To say so is not "judging in a harsh manner..."
It is fact.