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[consapente89]

Originally Posted by Esaias

Sounds like good practical advice.

So, where is the line drawn between "unrepent consistent works of the flesh" and "we understand some minor points differently about how to obey the Scripture"?

I don't see these epistles as guidelines for fellowship outside of the local church, rather they are good practices for dealing with people in the local body who are rebellious and sinful. Not many will agree with me on this, but I feel the safest option for fellowship outside the local church is to stay within your local church's fellowship circle.

[consapente89]

Originally Posted by Esaias

Sounds like good practical advice.

So, where is the line drawn between "unrepent consistent works of the flesh" and "we understand some minor points differently about how to obey the Scripture"?

Also, direction is my primary concern when considering fellowship, rather than position.

[Evang.Benincasa]

Originally Posted by consapente89

These texts seem pretty clear to me. If someone is a "brother", and living consistently in the works of the flesh without repentance, avoid them. Let separation work the cure. Be available to restore the erring when they are penitent. In other words, don't burn the bridge. Still yet, withdraw and avoid. Don't keep company with those that are considered "brethren" but living in unrepented sin. They show up for Sunday service and bring their "live-in" with them, be kind, shake their hand and be civil, but don't go eat with them after service. Don't seek them out during the week. Let the Word preached and the separation they feel from the body work the cure in them. Also, be the first to meet them at the altar when godly sorrow produces repentance. When you try to make them feel like they are a part of the church, they presume they have no need for godly sorrow.

No one that I know would come into a service with their live in girlfriend.
I don't play that, that is sending a message not only to the church family, but to me personally.

[consapente89]

Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa

No one that I know would come into a service with their live in girlfriend.
I don't play that, that is sending a message not only to the church family, but to me personally.

You are so blessed my brother...

[Evang.Benincasa]

Originally Posted by consapente89

You are so blessed my brother...

Explain...

[consapente89]

Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa

Explain...

No lol

[Evang.Benincasa]

Originally Posted by consapente89

No lol

Ok.

[n david]

It's important to note that while a Pastor may ask the congregation not to associate with someone, as with the scriptures above; it does not preclude that individual from attending church to get their lives right with God.

I read a comment on the site where someone claimed they really need and desired to get right with God but their friend was told not to associate with them.

If one really needs and desires to get right with God, they will do it.

[consapente89]

Originally Posted by n david

It's important to note that while a Pastor may ask the congregation not to associate with someone, as with the scriptures above; it does not preclude that individual from attending church to get their lives right with God.

I read a comment on the site where someone claimed they really need and desired to get right with God but their friend was told not to associate with them.

If one really needs and desires to get right with God, they will do it.

Amen

[jediwill83]

Originally Posted by Evang.Benincasa

No one that I know would come into a service with their live in girlfriend.
I don't play that, that is sending a message not only to the church family, but to me personally.

Dont worry bro. My wife would kill me if I brought a girlfriend to church! Lol so no girlfriends and no boyfriends here! 😂