It's all about chaos. Nothing more. Jamming endless 2 x 4 planks into the spokes of civilization.
It doesn't matter what parameters are "accepted" legally. They're coming for you and your opinion. Once a set of parameters are established, they will cast those as oppressive, and start trying to widen the berth again.
Years ago in a conversation with a progressive, I said "one day, Antifa goons are going to start shutting down gender reveal parties." They laughed as though I had gone the full Alex Jones.
Then, here and there you hear news stories about gender-reveal parties--but wrapped in the fact that some pyrotechnic used for the reveal either started a forest fire, or killed someone. But make no mistake--the news was calibrated to see the term "Gender-reveal party" as a ritual of death.
Now, Demi Lovato
is campaigning against them as transphobic. Soon, Amazon will ban blue and pink ribbons and powder, and away we go.
Getting caught up in the definitional terms of the movement is what they want. They want no one questioning the corrosive and unsustainable effects on society.