One Accord's Wife Passed Away 2/6 at 1:07 a.m.

[Ron]

I have had One Accord & his wife's situation on my heart. The situation is serious & needs God's Divine Intervention one way or the other.

I have appreciated his kind spirit & great attitude especially over the situation they now face.

That being said, I wonder if we can all come in agreement in prayer tomorrow by bringing this important need before our respective Church's either by asking your Pastor, or if you are a Pastor to have thier first name's called out (does anyone know their first names?) & see what God can do.

Psa 133:1 A Song of degrees of David. Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
Psa 133:2 It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
Psa 133:3 As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life forevermore.

When we are in unity, God can command his blessing there!

Mat 18:18 Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
Mat 18:19 Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.
Mat 18:20 For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.


Jam 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

These are just a few scriptures.
I do not know what God's answer is, or what he will do.
I only know that we have an opportunity to go before his throne of Grace for this couple who are facing so much.

Will you stand in the gap with your Church tomorrow?

I know I handle prayer requests & a lot of the altar, so in Vancouver we will!

Ron

[rgcraig]

Yes.

Great idea Ron - thanks for listening to your heart!

[Pressing-On]

Amen, Ron! Yes!!!

[ManOfWord]

I was just going to ask how his wife was doing! I have been in prayer and will continue to do so! :D

[Rev]

If it's on your heart it could be that the Lord wants you to pray through until victory comes. Maybe what the Lord wants to do in this case can happen through you.

[Cindy]

Yes Ron absolutely.

[Kay B]

I requested prayer for this need last Sunday and also for Sis McGruderand Bro Well. We will agree with you Bro Ron again tomorrow for Sis One Accord.

[Sister Alvear]

praying.

[AmazingGrace]

Amen we will be praying too!

[Falla39]

Agreeing with all the other dear people on AFF for the will

of God in Bro. & Sis. OneAccord's situation, in Jesus Name!

Falla39

[pelathais]

Great idea, Ron. We'll be praying.

[OneAccord]

Its about 12 midnite here in Alabama and this is the first time I have been able to visit today. Then I see this. I am overwhelmed with gratitude for your prayers. You don't know what it means to have your prayers- especially now. To think there are people praying all around the US- and in different countries praying for us. Bro. Ron, my Canadian brother- there is a reason Lola has been on your heart.

At about 3:am on Saturday, Lola woke up and... well I thought the time had come. All day today, it has been like every breath would be her last. At about 4:30 this morning, she was crying and whispered " I don't want to go...but Mother is calling me". I thought surely, this was her time. But, somehow, and I truly believe prayer is why- she is still with us. She's asleep now and I don't know what tomorrow may bring- but whatever it is- I rest in the faithfulness of our Lord. I sat with her all day, singing to her- reassuring her that Jesus is waiting there for her.I sang- What a day that we be, when our Jesus we sahll see, and we look upon His Face, the One who saved us by His grace, and He takes me by the hand, and leads us to the Promised Land, what a day, that will be.

Thats our hope. Thats our faith. So, thank you all for your prayers, and know this- once all this is over- if I can ever be a blessing to you - any of you- in anyway- please call on me. Thank you gain for your prayers. Your prayers has given us one more day together.

For those who wish to call us by name- just tell Him "Rick and Lola". He'll know.

[Ron]

Just reading this before heading off to bed!

Thank you to everyone for praying for Bro Rick & Sis Lola & standing in the gap!

[Falla39]

Bro. Rick,

Your last post reminded me so much of when my dear mother crossed over.

She had lingered with us, with the doctor and nurses not understanding how

she could have remained for the additional 11 days. Exactly the amount of

time for her one son who was not there to get back from Israel. He got to the

hospital, although she had not showed any sign of life for three days, He kissed

her, telling her it was John, went and got a shower and joined we other ten siblings.

That evening, with her large family gathered in and around her room and bedside, we

softly sang "Glad Reunion Day" and other songs. So peaceful and around midnight when

most of her family, except two sons and wives and a granddaughter who were staying

the night, she slipped away. She had been talking to Dad several days before, who had

been gone for ten years. A lady who dispensed their meds in the evening, reported her

saying, "Daddy,(that what she called my dad) I can barely see you in here, the light is

SO bright. (The room was dark except for one small night light.)

"For it is written, Eye had not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the

heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him. But

God hath revealed them unto us by His Spirit; yea, the Spirit searcheth all things,

yea, the deep things of God'. (I Cor. 2:9,10)

He will finish it up in Righteousness, Bro. Rick and Sis. Lola! There will be a "Glad

Reunion Day"!



for those

that love His appearing".

[OneAccord]

Things are a little better today. She is consciuous, but barely. Ate a little gravy. Is talking some. Hard to understand and hear, but her eyesight is better. Knows everyone. I slept 3 hrs again last night. Am so thankful she is still with us with little or no pain. And am grateful for your prayers and for our Lord who hears and answers.

[Barb]

Things are a little better today. She is consciuous, but barely. Ate a little gravy. Is talking some. Hard to understand and hear, but her eyesight is better. Knows everyone. I slept 3 hrs again last night. Am so thankful she is still with us with little or no pain. And am grateful for your prayers and for our Lord who hears and answers.

Sorry that I am just now seeing your posts here, 1A...I need to look up more often.

Glad that things are better today...the One who sees and knows all is there with you and Lola through it all.

Praying here...

[Ron]

Did you remember to pray?

[Sherri]

Jesus, please be with Rick and Lola and give them both comfort and rest!

[FRINGE_NUTTER]

Praying for Rick and Lola.

[Falla39]

Praying for the Will of God, for with the Will of God will come peace,

comfort and rest, in Jesus Name!

Falla39

[freeatlast]

Jesus, please be with Rick and Lola and give them both comfort and rest!

yes...amen and amen.

God be with you both today.

[Falla39]

Jesus, please be with Rick and Lola and give them both comfort and rest!

Amen! Didn't see this before I posted my last post. In total

agreement with Sis. Sherri and all the wonderful folk on AFF.

Blessings,

Falla39

[dizzyde]

Praying in the powerful name of Jesus!

[Ron]

Last night I was not able to sleep.
We prayed for your needs in Church & during the night.

[Blubayou]

Praying for these two children of the Most High King!

[OneAccord]

Thanks everyone for praying. She is all but gone. Still breathing, but unresponsive now. I was able to talk with her for a minute this morning. Her last words to me was, "I love you, Baby". Nurse came in...most likely will be gone before days in. But, I've been saying that for 3 days now. She has the will to live... Please pray that her passing will be easy.

[rgcraig]

Thanks everyone for praying. She is all but gone. Still breathing, but unresponsive now. I was able to talk with her for a minute this morning. Her last words to me was, "I love you, Baby". Nurse came in...most likely will be gone before days in. But, I've been saying that for 3 days now. She has the will to live... Please pray that her passing will be easy.

Oh, Rick I know this has to be just awful for you. I'm scared to open your post when I see you've posted.

However, we are still praying for you and Lola and I pray too that she just goes to sleep and passes on to a place where she will be whole again.

[Joelel]

My bible teaches if any two agree on anything it shall be done,that is those who have the mind of Christ i'm sure.

[Ron]

Thanks everyone for praying. She is all but gone. Still breathing, but unresponsive now. I was able to talk with her for a minute this morning. Her last words to me was, "I love you, Baby". Nurse came in...most likely will be gone before days in. But, I've been saying that for 3 days now. She has the will to live... Please pray that her passing will be easy.

In praying for this situation, I am praying for you both.

I wish there was more I could do!

[Tina]

This need has been on my heart as well.... and I never knew the names -- but God knew.....

In yesterday's service, Bro Winslow asked everyone there to make a list of the first names of those we knew needed something from God-- and to list their need beside their name. He asked us to bring these lists back to tonight's service. I'm adding the names to my list now...

[OneAccord]

My bible teaches if any two agree on anything it shall be done,that is those who have the mind of Christ i'm sure.

Brother, if I knew the mind of Christ right now, I'd pray that way. For whatever reason, He has chosen not to reveal what He will do in the next minute. But, whatever He chooses, it is good. So, if you have nothing to say that will reveal His will, just pray, if you will. Thank you.

[rgcraig]

Rick,

Do you have someone with you and Lola now?

[OneAccord]

Yeah, Renda, the whole family is here. Thats the only way I can get away to visit with my AFF friends. I have to get away for a minute or so, cause it gets to me using all her energy just to take a breath. And. to all: I'm sorry for bringiing you down with all this. I guess I shouldn't post anymore til shes gone. It just helps to have someone to "talk" to that are Christians.

[rgcraig]

Yeah, Renda, the whole family is here. Thats the only way I can get away to visit with my AFF friends. I have to get away for a minute or so, cause it gets to me using all her energy just to take a breath. And. to all: I'm sorry for bringiing you down with all this. I guess I shouldn't post anymore til shes gone. It just helps to have someone to "talk" to that are Christians.

No, Rick please don't feel that way - - I just wish I was close enough to be there with you guys.

I just wanted to make sure you had family around you. You talk to us as much and as long as you need to. This is one part of AFF that I love - - the family close feeling that we share one another's burdens!

We're here for you, not only in prayers, but to listen.

[Ron]

Yeah, Renda, the whole family is here. Thats the only way I can get away to visit with my AFF friends. I have to get away for a minute or so, cause it gets to me using all her energy just to take a breath. And. to all: I'm sorry for bringiing you down with all this. I guess I shouldn't post anymore til shes gone. It just helps to have someone to "talk" to that are Christians.

You aren't doing that!
We are a body, and when one member hurts, we all feel it.

[HeavenlyOne]

Yeah, Renda, the whole family is here. Thats the only way I can get away to visit with my AFF friends. I have to get away for a minute or so, cause it gets to me using all her energy just to take a breath. And. to all: I'm sorry for bringiing you down with all this. I guess I shouldn't post anymore til shes gone. It just helps to have someone to "talk" to that are Christians.

Talking is therapeutic. I hate to bring "medical' words into a personal situation, but you need this, and so does your family. We are also your family here. I only wish I could be there in person. Your situation is tearing me up being so far away.

It won't be long now and she'll be in the physical presence of God. Don't be jealous ;) but she'll be waiting for you to join her when it's your time.

No more suffering, my brother. That smile that you love is still on her face.

My prayers of strength and comfort are with you and your family.

And I love you.

[LaGirl]

i just saw this thread. i am praying for you and your family.

[Barb]

No, Rick please don't feel that way - - I just wish I was close enough to be there with you guys.

I just wanted to make sure you had family around you. You talk to us as much and as long as you need to. This is one part of AFF that I love - - the family close feeling that we share one another's burdens!

We're here for you, not only in prayers, but to listen.

This has once again brought me to tears...you are absolutely right, Renda.

We are here...

[Barb]

Talking is therapeutic. I hate to bring "medical' words into a personal situation, but you need this, and so does your family. We are also your family here. I only wish I could be there in person. Your situation is tearing me up being so far away.

It won't be long now and she'll be in the physical presence of God. Don't be jealous ;) but she'll be waiting for you to join her when it's your time.

No more suffering, my brother. That smile that you love is still on her face.

My prayers of strength and comfort are with you and your family.

And I love you.

Amen, HO...

[Barb]

Thanks everyone for praying. She is all but gone. Still breathing, but unresponsive now. I was able to talk with her for a minute this morning. Her last words to me was, "I love you, Baby". Nurse came in...most likely will be gone before days in. But, I've been saying that for 3 days now. She has the will to live... Please pray that her passing will be easy.

Oh, Rick I know this has to be just awful for you. I'm scared to open your post when I see you've posted.

However, we are still praying for you and Lola and I pray too that she just goes to sleep and passes on to a place where she will be whole again.

Amen...may her transition be an easy one.

God bless your heart, Rick...

[pelathais]

Yeah, Renda, the whole family is here. Thats the only way I can get away to visit with my AFF friends. I have to get away for a minute or so, cause it gets to me using all her energy just to take a breath. And. to all: I'm sorry for bringiing you down with all this. I guess I shouldn't post anymore til shes gone. It just helps to have someone to "talk" to that are Christians.
Rick you're not bringing anybody "down". We're here to lift you up. Keep posting as you need.

[tamor]

Talking is therapeutic. I hate to bring "medical' words into a personal situation, but you need this, and so does your family. We are also your family here. I only wish I could be there in person. Your situation is tearing me up being so far away.

It won't be long now and she'll be in the physical presence of God. Don't be jealous ;) but she'll be waiting for you to join her when it's your time.

No more suffering, my brother. That smile that you love is still on her face.

My prayers of strength and comfort are with you and your family.

And I love you.

HO, this post made me cry. This is so very true.

Rick, I am praying for you and as Renda has already said, that she will just go to sleep as she passes on to that holy place.

[Falla39]

Yeah, Renda, the whole family is here. Thats the only way I can get away to visit with my AFF friends. I have to get away for a minute or so, cause it gets to me using all her energy just to take a breath. And. to all: I'm sorry for bringiing you down with all this. I guess I shouldn't post anymore til shes gone. It just helps to have someone to "talk" to that are Christians.

God’s Family (by Lanny Wolfe)

Verse 1

We're part of the fam'ly
That's been born again
Part of the fam'ly
Whose love knows no end
For Jesus has saved us
And made us His own
Now we're part of the fam'ly
That's on its way home

Chorus

And sometimes we laugh together
Sometimes we cry
Sometimes we share together
Heartaches and sighs
Sometimes we dream together
Of how it will be
When we all get to Heaven
God's family

Verse 2

When a brother meets sorrow
We all feel his grief
When he's passed through the valley
We all feel relief
Together in sunshine together in rain
Together in vict'ry through His precious name

Chorus

And sometimes we laugh together
Sometimes we cry
Sometimes we share together
Heartaches and sighs
Sometimes we dream together
Of how it will be
When we all get to Heaven
God's family

Verse 3

And though some go before us
We'll all meet again
Just inside the city
As we enter in
There'll be no parting with Jesus we'll be
Together forever God's family

Blessings,

Falla39

[tamor]

God’s Family (by Lanny Wolfe)

Verse 1

We're part of the fam'ly
That's been born again
Part of the fam'ly
Whose love knows no end
For Jesus has saved us
And made us His own
Now we're part of the fam'ly
That's on its way home

Chorus

And sometimes we laugh together
Sometimes we cry
Sometimes we share together
Heartaches and sighs
Sometimes we dream together
Of how it will be
When we all get to Heaven
God's family

Verse 2

When a brother meets sorrow
We all feel his grief
When he's passed through the valley
We all feel relief
Together in sunshine together in rain
Together in vict'ry through His precious name

Chorus

And sometimes we laugh together
Sometimes we cry
Sometimes we share together
Heartaches and sighs
Sometimes we dream together
Of how it will be
When we all get to Heaven
God's family

Verse 3

And though some go before us
We'll all meet again
Just inside the city
As we enter in
There'll be no parting with Jesus we'll be
Together forever God's family

Blessings,

Falla39

Such an awesome song, Sis Falla. And oh so timely!

[Falla39]

Such an awesome song, Sis Falla. And oh so timely!


After reading Bro. OneAccord's post, it just came to mind. The words

expressed what I could not put into words.

Blessings,

Falla39

[Joelel]

Brother, if I knew the mind of Christ right now, I'd pray that way. For whatever reason, He has chosen not to reveal what He will do in the next minute. But, whatever He chooses, it is good. So, if you have nothing to say that will reveal His will, just pray, if you will. Thank you.

Not everyone has the mind of Christ.Anyone who has the mind of Christ would know his will what to agree on to pray for.If we pray according to his will he hears us.People can be this much in tune with God.

1Cor.2
[16] For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.

[OneAccord]

Joelel-

I respect you as a minister, Brother, and I mean no disrespect when I ask you this. But, would you mind terribly if I ask you not to post anything in regards to my wife? While your words may be true, I don't think the spirit behind them is. You evidently have never been where I right now. So, while you are great at pasting and posting Scriptures, you seem to have little understanding of what the Word means. If you did, Brother, you would know "the letter killeth, but the spirit giveth life.". While there is life in God's Word, there is nothing but emptiness in what you have to say. Your words of "love" is tinkling cymbals and sounding brass. Alot of noise, with nothing to say.
The spirit behind your posts kills anything you have to say. So again, I ask you not to post in regards to my wife. Luk 9:55 But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of. See, Brother, I too can paste and post Scriptures. Thank you and God bless you for understanding and respecting my request.

Thank you to all for your prayers and words of comfort. And, I am sorry to all who read this. But, some things just need to be said

[AmazingGrace]

Bro OA I agree with your post and it does not offend us at all but is the right thing to ask!

And remember we are still praying!

[dixonic2]

I cry tears of sorrow and joy for you. I pray the peace of Christ for you. You're in my family and I's prayers!

[Joseph Miller]

I am praying with you 1A.

[Kay B]

Bro OA I agree with your post and it does not offend us at all but is the right thing to ask!

And remember we are still praying!

Amen! Bro One Accord http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d25/peaches59/Religious/05floralRED25252Dlprayers.jpg

[Falla39]

Dear Bro. Rick,

Knowing you and your family are up with your sweet Lola, made me want to

stay up and pray for a while longer. Jesus so needed someone to stay awake

and watch and pray for a little while longer.

Blessings on you all that are waiting there. I think of the song, "At the Midnight Cry".

we'll be going Home! I believe He comes for us one at a time. Just as we are born

and born again one by one. Could it be that He waits patiently by for that one to

let go of our hand and take His and they leave together. Giving them time to spend

a few more moments with us. I have reason to believe it could be something like that.

Time to see that we are going to be okay. Time for us to be willing for them to leave.

Falla39

[OneAccord]

What a blessing you are Sis Falla39. I'm kinda standing back tonight, allowing Lolas son and daughter to be with her tonight. I had that blessed chance last night... to spend a quiet night together... just the two of us. And, yes, we talked. For just a few minutes last night, then again, for a minute or so at day light this morning. What a blessed that time was. She said to me this morning... "Its been good...but it'll be better". Then she said, "I love you, Baby". The last words she spoke.

My prayer now is that I will be awake when she goes. Don't want her to go alone. Been by her side every minute I could since August. Plan to be there when she takes that last step. And, I pray for a word- just one word to her children. That would be mean so much to them.

God is here with me in such a real way. I don' know that I have ever felt that so strong before. My first wife past away in '88. Gods Presence was there then as well. But...not like this.

And yes, I am grateful for those here who have waited quietly while I vented my emotions. I have felt guilty and selfish in doing so. There are people on this forum who have great needs, and I pray for them. I should offer them my prayers...my words of comfort more. But maybe...just maybe, by my venting...it'll help them cope with whatever they are feeling. SoCal, Chesenix (Sorry if I didn't get the names right)...take comfort in knowing that, as God has been with us, and has not failed us, neither will He fail you and He is with you. I thought of where Jesus said "...and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the world". The world of Rick and Lola is rapidly coming to an end. But, just as He has promised, He is here. "Amen". 13 great years. What a blessing He has given!

[Ron]

What a blessing you are Sis Falla39. I'm kinda standing back tonight, allowing Lolas son and daughter to be with her tonight. I had that blessed chance last night... to spend a quiet night together... just the two of us. And, yes, we talked. For just a few minutes last night, then again, for a minute or so at day light this morning. What a blessed that time was. She said to me this morning... "Its been good...but it'll be better". Then she said, "I love you, Baby". The last words she spoke.

My prayer now is that I will be awake when she goes. Don't want her to go alone. Been by her side every minute I could since August. Plan to be there when she takes that last step. And, I pray for a word- just one word to her children. That would be mean so much to them.

God is here with me in such a real way. I don' know that I have ever felt that so strong before. My first wife past away in '88. Gods Presence was there then as well. But...not like this.

And yes, I am grateful for those here who have waited quietly while I vented my emotions. I have felt guilty and selfish in doing so. There are people on this forum who have great needs, and I pray for them. I should offer them my prayers...my words of comfort more. But maybe...just maybe, by my venting...it'll help them cope with whatever they are feeling. SoCal, Chesenix (Sorry if I didn't get the names right)...take comfort in knowing that, as God has been with us, and has not failed us, neither will He fail you and He is with you. I thought of where Jesus said "...and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the world". The world of Rick and Lola is rapidly coming to an end. But, just as He has promised, He is here. "Amen". 13 great years. What a blessing He has given!

Brother, I am staggered at your attitude that you have shown as you & Lola,
take this journey together.

You both have been on my heart & I knew whichever way this went, you needed God there.

I am thankful that prayer has been answered many times over.

For now we watch & pray.

[OneAccord]

Brother, I am staggered at your attitude that you have shown as you & Lola,
take this journey together.

You both have been on my heart & I knew whichever way this went, you needed God there.

I am thankful that prayer has been answered many times over.

For now we watch & pray.

Oh, yes, Bro. Ron. Your prayers, and the prayers of people all around the world, many here on Aff, have been answered through all of this. To think a brother in Canda who doesn't know me from Adam's housecat (you may have to be an Alabamian to understand that one) would feel burdened to pray for us and even ask others to have special prayer for us. To think of a sister who has dedicated her life to the mission fields of Brazil is praying for us. A sister in California who knows nothing about us sent a CD of a church service along with a beautiful book of poems and matching pen to us (Lola used that pen to write here name one day just because someone was kind enough to send it to her - I'll cherish that pen for ever). A brother from Ohio, on a busy mission trip to Korea took the time to pray and to inquire about us. And a brother who goes by the name of Raven, who doesn't know us, calls a pastor nearby who has been here several times to pray for us and even bring food. What makes people do what you have done? Love? No...more than mere love. Its the Love of God. I could go on and on. But... to say it all...I am a blessed man. As some of Lolas last words to me: "Its been good, but its gonna be better".

[Tina]

It seems that at times like this, I never know what to say. After reading the last few posts in this thread this morning, I am sitting here in tears. God is SOOOOOOOOOO good to us.

I'm praying this morning....

[Falla39]

Bro. Rick,

That peace that passeth all understanding is keeping your hearts and minds through

Christ Jesus because you are letting (permitting, allowing) it too!

Our God neither sleeps nor slumbers.

An old chorus is on my mind this morning:

In the morning of joy, in the morning of joy.
We'll be gathered to glory, in the morning of joy.
In the morning of joy, in the morning of joy,
We'll be gathered to glory, in the morning of joy.

Blessings,

Falla39

[tamor]

It seems that at times like this, I never know what to say. After reading the last few posts in this thread this morning, I am sitting here in tears. God is SOOOOOOOOOO good to us.

I'm praying this morning....

Me too.

[Esther]

Bro we are still praying for God to do His will in your life and Lola's. God is good. I pray for the strength of God to be with your family and the love of God's comfort to wrap His loving arms around you.

[Falla39]

Oh, yes, Bro. Ron. Your prayers, and the prayers of people all around the world, many here on Aff, have been answered through all of this. To think a brother in Canda who doesn't know me from Adam's housecat (you may have to be an Alabamian to understand that one) would feel burdened to pray for us and even ask others to have special prayer for us. To think of a sister who has dedicated her life to the mission fields of Brazil is praying for us. A sister in California who knows nothing about us sent a CD of a church service along with a beautiful book of poems and matching pen to us (Lola used that pen to write here name one day just because someone was kind enough to send it to her - I'll cherish that pen for ever). A brother from Ohio, on a busy mission trip to Korea took the time to pray and to inquire about us. And a brother who goes by the name of Raven, who doesn't know us, calls a pastor nearby who has been here several times to pray for us and even bring food. What makes people do what you have done? Love? No...more than mere love. Its the Love of God. I could go on and on. But... to say it all...I am a blessed man. As some of Lolas last words to me: "Its been good, but its gonna be better".


Yes, dear Brother Rick,

It's because of the Love of God shed abroad in our hearts by the HOLY

GHOST which is given unto us. (Rom.5:5)

O Love of God, how rich and pure.
How measureless and strong.
It shall forever more endure,
The saints and angels song.

Falla39

[rgcraig]

Oh, yes, Bro. Ron. Your prayers, and the prayers of people all around the world, many here on Aff, have been answered through all of this. To think a brother in Canda who doesn't know me from Adam's housecat (you may have to be an Alabamian to understand that one) would feel burdened to pray for us and even ask others to have special prayer for us. To think of a sister who has dedicated her life to the mission fields of Brazil is praying for us. A sister in California who knows nothing about us sent a CD of a church service along with a beautiful book of poems and matching pen to us (Lola used that pen to write here name one day just because someone was kind enough to send it to her - I'll cherish that pen for ever). A brother from Ohio, on a busy mission trip to Korea took the time to pray and to inquire about us. And a brother who goes by the name of Raven, who doesn't know us, calls a pastor nearby who has been here several times to pray for us and even bring food. What makes people do what you have done? Love? No...more than mere love. Its the Love of God. I could go on and on. But... to say it all...I am a blessed man. As some of Lolas last words to me: "Its been good, but its gonna be better".

This ties right in with Barb's thread about being a part of the body of Christ!!!

[Elizabeth]

My mother passed in Dec. 93-She had battled Leukemia for 9 long months-I held out for her healing until the day she died. I finally told the Lord do your will, and then she died a few hours later.
When we were all gathered together we told her it was ok to go and not to hold on any longer, and thats what she did.
Sometimes they need to know its ok to go--I didn't want my mother to go, I miss her to this day, but I know that is what needed to happen (if that make sense).

I hope I am not speaking out of turn I wouldn't want to offend anyone, just sharing my own experience, if it helps.

[Joelel]

Joelel-

I respect you as a minister, Brother, and I mean no disrespect when I ask you this. But, would you mind terribly if I ask you not to post anything in regards to my wife? While your words may be true, I don't think the spirit behind them is. You evidently have never been where I right now. So, while you are great at pasting and posting Scriptures, you seem to have little understanding of what the Word means. If you did, Brother, you would know "the letter killeth, but the spirit giveth life.". While there is life in God's Word, there is nothing but emptiness in what you have to say. Your words of "love" is tinkling cymbals and sounding brass. Alot of noise, with nothing to say.
The spirit behind your posts kills anything you have to say. So again, I ask you not to post in regards to my wife. Luk 9:55 But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of. See, Brother, I too can paste and post Scriptures. Thank you and God bless you for understanding and respecting my request.

Thank you to all for your prayers and words of comfort. And, I am sorry to all who read this. But, some things just need to be said

Hi,I would be glad to respect your request if I knew what I said and who your wife is. Thank you.

[rgcraig]

Hi,I would be glad to respect your request if I knew what I said and who your wife is. Thank you.

I'll PM you.

[OneAccord]

My mother passed in Dec. 93-She had battled Leukemia for 9 long months-I held out for her healing until the day she died. I finally told the Lord do your will, and then she died a few hours later.
When we were all gathered together we told her it was ok to go and not to hold on any longer, and thats what she did.
Sometimes they need to know its ok to go--I didn't want my mother to go, I miss her to this day, but I know that is what needed to happen (if that make sense).

I hope I am not speaking out of turn I wouldn't want to offend anyone, just sharing my own experience, if it helps.

No, Sis Jeanie. You'e not speaking out of turn. You're speaking what I need to hear. I still believe God is able to heal- I've just come to accept that maybe this IS God's way to heal. We talk to her often. I like to think she hears. I believe she does hear. And, yes, I told her its okay to leave. But, thats just like her. Putting OUR needs before her own. Enduring her suffering to try to ease ours. Thank you, Sister, for your words. You have been, and are, a big help, just as many here on AFF have been. "Its been good, but it will be better".

[Joelel]

To One Accord,I am so very sorry,as sorry as sorry can be. I didn't read the first post and thought we were just talking about praying in one accord.I will pray for your wife very l fervently.

[Sherri]

Rick--
Praying for you here in Tennessee. One of my best friends passed away in 2005 with cancer and we had all believed for healing--she believed stronger than any of us. But it was her time, and God gave us grace to get through it. I still miss her smile and her quirky sense of humor, but I know she is pain free and in the presence of the Lord. We (your cyber family) will be holding you up in prayer through the next several weeks and months; wish we could be there in person for you.

[Barb]

Rick--
Praying for you here in Tennessee. One of my best friends passed away in 2005 with cancer and we had all believed for healing--she believed stronger than any of us. But it was her time, and God gave us grace to get through it. I still miss her smile and her quirky sense of humor, but I know she is pain free and in the presence of the Lord. We (your cyber family) will be holding you up in prayer through the next several weeks and months; wish we could be there in person for you.

Amen, Sherri...seems like there is SO much going on right now, but the family of God is here.

Our love and prayers will go where we cannot...

[OneAccord]

Thank you, Brother Joelel. And I apologize for my words since you didn't know the situation. Your prayers are very much apprecaited.

[OneAccord]

Feb. 6, 2008 I'm preparing this ahead of time. (10:40 pm CT) Our victory is won and prayers are answered. Mrs. One Accord, Lola Faye Crabtree, age 55, my wonderful wife of 13 years, passed away this morning at 1:07 am . Her passing was as we prayed. Peaceful, and without pain. She is with The Lord. All is well. "It has been good, but NOW its better".
Thank you all for praying. Thank you for standing with us. God has not failed us!

[Ron]

Feb. 6, 2008 I'm preparing this ahead of time. (10:40 pm CT) Our victory is won and prayers are answered. Mrs. One Accord, Lola Faye Crabtree, age 55, my wonderful wife of 13 years, passed away this morning at 1:07 am . Her passing was as we prayed. Peaceful, and without pain. She is with The Lord. All is well. "It has been good, but NOW its better".
Thank you all for praying. Thank you for standing with us. God has not failed us!

On the one hand I am rejoicing for your wife, I also grieve at your loss!
If there is anything I can do, let me know.

[AmazingGrace]

I sit here and cry it is like Ron said... I am rejoicing with Lola... yet Grieving at the great loss... please please let us all know if there is anything we can do for you! But most of all know our love and prayers are with you.. the children... and the rest of your family during this time of loss.

We love you and are still praying for you friend!

[Ron]

Thank you to everyone who rallied and still do rally around Rick & Lola.
You are a good people!

[AmazingGrace]

Ron..

We wouldnt have it any other way!!! They are family! And what does family do? Stand together thru the thick and thin... good and bad... we STAND!!!

[MrsBOOMM]

I balled earlier today wnen I was reading this thread. I am again. Words are just inadequate--May God continue to give you the strength that He already has been giving you. I feel like we should be encouraging you, yet it is hard because you have no idea how much you have encouraged me with your whole outlook and attitude while you are going thru one of life's hardest battles. I'm thinking what can I say to this man who has so much faith in God and will not be distracted. You go Bro OneAccord! But, if and when the day comes that you are feeling a little down just remember to come back here and take a look at some of the things you have written.....great advice and outlook and scripture. It cannot be argued with. I pray that God simply gives you a compete night's rest tonight. Psalms 127:2 It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep.

[izzyschwartz]

Feb. 6, 2008 I'm preparing this ahead of time. (10:40 pm CT) Our victory is won and prayers are answered. Mrs. One Accord, Lola Faye Crabtree, age 55, my wonderful wife of 13 years, passed away this morning at 1:07 am . Her passing was as we prayed. Peaceful, and without pain. She is with The Lord. All is well. "It has been good, but NOW its better".
Thank you all for praying. Thank you for standing with us. God has not failed us!

I am very sorry to hear about your wife's sickness and passing. At the same time I am very impressed with the grace of God you are expressing at this time. Praise the Lord that He never leaves us nor forsakes us. May the Lord help you in this sad time.

[Joseph Miller]

We will be praying for God to comfort you and your family.

[LadyChocolate]

There are no words to express..... May God give you and your family the strength you need! We will keep you in prayer!

[Tina]

Feb. 6, 2008 I'm preparing this ahead of time. (10:40 pm CT) Our victory is won and prayers are answered. Mrs. One Accord, Lola Faye Crabtree, age 55, my wonderful wife of 13 years, passed away this morning at 1:07 am . Her passing was as we prayed. Peaceful, and without pain. She is with The Lord. All is well. "It has been good, but NOW its better".
Thank you all for praying. Thank you for standing with us. God has not failed us!

I will be continuing to pray for you and the rest of the family. May God give you all comfort and strength.

[Falla39]

Dear Bro. Rick and Family,

The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Blessed be the name
of the Lord.
And may the peace of God that passeth all understanding continue
to keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Blessings,

Falla39

[RevDWW]

May the Lord wrap you in His strong arms of mercy and comfort you. It is so hard to lose my Dad, yet I can't imagine the sense of loss at losing your wife. You'll be in my prayers.

[Michael Phelps]

I have had One Accord & his wife's situation on my heart. The situation is serious & needs God's Divine Intervention one way or the other.

I have appreciated his kind spirit & great attitude especially over the situation they now face.

That being said, I wonder if we can all come in agreement in prayer tomorrow by bringing this important need before our respective Church's either by asking your Pastor, or if you are a Pastor to have thier first name's called out (does anyone know their first names?) & see what God can do.

Psa 133:1 A Song of degrees of David. Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
Psa 133:2 It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
Psa 133:3 As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life forevermore.

When we are in unity, God can command his blessing there!

Mat 18:18 Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
Mat 18:19 Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.
Mat 18:20 For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.


Jam 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

These are just a few scriptures.
I do not know what God's answer is, or what he will do.
I only know that we have an opportunity to go before his throne of Grace for this couple who are facing so much.

Will you stand in the gap with your Church tomorrow?

I know I handle prayer requests & a lot of the altar, so in Vancouver we will!

Ron


Our prayers are with One Accord and his family.

[MrsMcD]

May God wrap his loving arms around you OneAccord.

[Elizabeth]

Praying for you-may God be ever so close to you and give you the strength you need.

[MissBrattified]

1A, I am so sorry for your loss, but I must say, reading through this thread (with tears running down my face), I am struck by your strength and calm through the whole thing, and surely we are all relieved that your wife's pain is finally over. Your pain isn't, and I will keep you in my prayers.

[rgcraig]

Holding you up in prayers this week!

Sorry for you loss, but "it's better now"

[Sherri]

Praying for you, Brother! Everyone here will be holding you up before the Throne over the next several days and weeks.

[Raven]

One Accord
We are all so sorry for your loss. But heaven has gained and we have gained by your example as we have read your great posts and experienced your strong faith. You have been an example to us all. We thank you! Your trial has been our gain and we hope that we can measure up to be the man of God that you are. You will remain in our prayers.
Raven

[Pressing-On]

One Accord,
I am so very sorry for your loss!!!!! You are in our prayers!!!!!

Because you posted a song that reminded you of her, I post this in honor of you both!

"There You'll Be" - Faith Hill

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63dIlSug9dA

[Blubayou]

I am so sorry for your loss. Through your writings, I could tell you were a devoted, caring and loving husband. Your wife was fortunate to have you by her side during this trial. You do have comfort in knowing that Lola is at peace. I will continue to pray for you that you will draw comfort and strength during the difficult days ahead. If there is anything we can do for you during this time, please call on us. God Bless.

[marthaolivia]

One Accord: You and family are in my prayers. God will give you strength and comfort each new day. God Bless.

[Sister Alvear]

Just got in brazil and saw this post. Be assured of our prayers. Your lose was surely heaven's gain. May you recieve strength and confort from our Lord. Blessings to you.

[revrandy]

So Sorry to hear about your loss....I am thankful that the battle is over for you...and am praying for you...

[TrmptPraise]

Very sorry to hear about your loss dear friend. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

[rosebud]

Please know that I have been praying for you as I read each of your posts, and will continue to lift you up in prayer in the coming days and weeks. I know the pain of losing someone you love, May Jesus give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

[George]

I just read this thread and want to offer my condolences. Your strength in such a time has actually encouraged many here on AFF. I will add my prayers with everyone that God will continue to give you peace, strength, and comfort. I'm sorry for your loss.

[Cindy]

One Accord, I am sorry for your loss. You will continue to be in my prayers.

[Esther]

One Accord please accept our condolences on the loss of your precious wife. May God comfort you in a very special way.

[DividedThigh]

praying for you brother in this time of loss, may the arms of jesus hold you close and comfort you, god bless, dt

[chosenbyone]

Praying for you, brother.

"No eye has seen,
no ear has heard,
no mind has conceived
what God has prepared for those who love him" 1 Corinthians 2:9

[dizzyde]

Praying for the peace and comfort of our God to be with you and your family.

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t209/deannamullings/greetings/b19069.jpg

[freeatlast]

May the peace of our Lord and Savior comfort you and your family in your time of sorrow Rick. You are in our thoughts and prayers these days.

[RandyWayne]

I don't know what else to say other than I am so sorry!

[COOPER]

Sorry to hear this............sad.

[StillStanding]

I'm so sorry for your loss! May God give you comfort during this trying time!

[Sister Truth Seeker]

So very sorry to hear about this...must be a very difficult time...Blessing to you and the family .......

[Nahum]

Bro, I am so sorry to hear this.

You are in my thoughts and prayers today.

[Monkeyman]

I am so sorry to hear this news. Praying for you and may God bless and comfort you!!!!

[John Atkinson]

Sorry and saddened about your loss Brother, I will keep you and yours in prayer. May the God of peace comfort and hold you close through this.

[tamor]

1A, I am so sorry for your loss, but I must say, reading through this thread (with tears running down my face), I am struck by your strength and calm through the whole thing, and surely we are all relieved that your wife's pain is finally over. Your pain isn't, and I will keep you in my prayers.

This says everything that I want to say....

[Bishop1]

Your Loss Is Heaven's Gain -

We Are Rejoicing With Her In Her Homegoing
And
Weep With You In Your Loss -

Remember,
Our Prayers Are With You -


Bishop1

Bro & Sis J Holland

[stmatthew]

My dear Brother. You are in my prayers. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

Bro Matt

[OneAccord]

http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m75/OneAccord_2006/0805071105.jpg

My Lola Faye and our Grandson, Seth Allen Justice, just after surgery, August 2007

If I can, I'd just like to express my appreciation for all the kind words and continued prayers, I find today that I;m gonna need them. I never wanted anyone praying for me... just for her. But, I'm not as strong as I had hoped. Not as strong as I pretended. Gonna be hard. But, its better.

For those who prayed for her healing. Don't think for a minute your prayers were unanswered. She is healed now by the stripes of Calvary. Her arthritis. Gone. Cancer. Healed. Her body, brand new. Her hair, lost by radiation, is restored. Her cripples hands and feet... the hands I held while she entered the gate, are straight and smooth. Your prayers brought her healing. No, its not the healing I so desperately wanted- but it is what He chose. And, for that, I am grateful.

To those who prayed that we make the right decision to wither continue or discontinue treatment: your prayers were answered. We.... no, she close to end the treatment. It was the right decision. God heard and God answered. For that we are grateful.

For those who prayed that her passing would be easy: God answered, in the most remarkable way. If you can stand one more post, I will share with you how God proved to me with undeniable evidence that He heard and answered, I will share with you as time permits, how God made Himself real to all of us in an incredible way. About 15 people saw with their eyes that power of the prayers of righteous people. Those prayers were yours, and I am grateful.


For Raven:

Cornerstone Funeral Chapel
Ider, Alabama

Friday, 2:00 pm (CT)

If someone would please PM that info in bold to Raven for me, I'd appreciate it.

[Michael Phelps]

My good brother,

I'd just like to share a personal experience, if I may......when my mother lay sick with cancer, I sat by her bedside in the last few days. One day she saw tears running down my cheeks, and she took my hand, and with a brightness in her eyes that I hadn't seen in quite sometime, she said, "Honey, don't cry for me......this is what I've lived my whole life for".......

It's not goodbye, it's only farewell for now.......

[AmazingGrace]

Brother I pmd Raven for you

[Cindy]

My heart is breaking for you Bro. Rick, but rejoicing for Sis. Lola as she is without pain and in His arms. She was beautiful brother.

[Fiyahstarter]

May Jesus heal the hurt . . . and revive the sweet memories.

Praying for you.

[OneAccord]

By the way- with your permission, I'd like to eventually print out every post and every reply that has been posted regarding Lola. I think it would do her family a lot of good to see how much care and compassion there really is in the hearts of God's people.

[Cindy]

It is fine with me bro OA.

[Cindy]

Can't you just see her dancing with the angels down the streets of gold? And sitting at the feet of Jesus in awe of his love for her. Singing songs of rejoicing that the angels cannot sing for she is redeemed by the blood of the Lamb. And our Father welcoming her to her new home. Surrounded by others praising Him that died for us. Oh how wonderful for her brother Rick.

[philjones]

Bro. Rick,

I am sorry to hear of your loss. In times like these we are all made to realize how foolish we are to get so caught up in things that are inconsequential, things that take us away from what really matters. I pray for the comforting presence of the Lord to abide in you as you walk this lonely walk. May you be found upon the rock and beneath the covert of His wings!

[LaVonne]

Dear Brother...I just saw this. I am so sorry for your loss...we will be praying for you!

[rgcraig]

By the way- with your permission, I'd like to eventually print out every post and every reply that has been posted regarding Lola. I think it would do her family a lot of good to see how much care and compassion there really is in the hearts of God's people.

You don't need permission - - it's a public forum!

By all means please print!

[Margies3]

MichaelPhelps and Rick,

I was just sitting here thinking about how I can, in my heart, see Sis Phelps searching out one of Heaven's newest arrivals and introducing herself. She'd say, "Sis Lola, I'm so happy to meet you. My son and your husband are good friends from the Apostolic Friends Forum. Come. Let me show you around. Let's go worship at the throne of Jesus together."

Can you just see it, Mike?

Rick, I am soooooooo sorry for your loss. But oh so very thrilled for your precious wife. She as attained her goal.

I want to share a song with you. I wish I could find it on YouTube, but the words are the important part anyway :)
If You Could See Me Now

If You Could See Me Now
(Kim Noblitt)

Our prayers have all been answered. I finally arrived.
The healing that had been delayed has now been realized.
No one's in a hurry. There's no schedule to keep.
We're all enjoying Jesus, just sitting at His feet.

Cho: If you could see me now, I'm walking streets of gold.
If you could see me now, I'm standing strong and whole.
If you could see me now, you'd know I've seen His face.
If you could see me now, you'd know the pain is erased.
You wouldn't want me to ever leave this place,
If you could only see me now.

My light and temporary trials have worked out for my good,
To know it brought Him glory when I misunderstood.
Though we've had our sorrows, they can never compare.
What Jesus has in store for us, no language can share. (Chorus twice)

You wouldn't want me to ever leave this perfect place
If you could only see me now
If you could see me now
If you could only see me now

Kim Noblitt, (c) 1992 Integrity's Praise/BMI and Dad and Dann Music
Sung by Truth (Russ Lee, soloist) on "Something to Hold On To," 1992.
XX

[Barb]

My heart and prayers are with you, Bro. Rick...it is in these moments that we truly realize the love of the Comforter.

May it be so with you today and in the days to come...

[Ron]

You can count on continued prayer Brother!

BTW That is a nice pic of your grandson & your wife smiling!

[AmazingGrace]

You can count on continued prayer Brother!

BTW That is a nice pic of your grandson & your wife smiling!

Yes it is...

[Blubayou]

Br. Rick- my husband took care of his first wife who died of cancer after a 10 year battle. He said that Hospice really helped him understand the grieving process. I don't know if you have access to that or not. There are some good books on grief, that you might want to read. Today you probably feel numb and like you are walking in a dream. There is light at the end of the tunnel- you will live to laugh and enjoy life again. I do need to share with you that you do have wounds that you are not really aware of yet. I am not talking about just the loss of your wife. It will take time for those wounds to heal. My husband did pretty good during the months after her death, but about a year after her death, he sunk into a depression that he really struggled with. The depression manifested itself in physical terms, he felt like he was sick, different aches and pains, and experienced a feeling of hopelessness. After struggling with this for several months he did go to the doctor who put him on anti depressants. He did not want to do this, but the pills did help. He stayed on them about 3 months and then weened himself off of them. It was not the end of the depression, but at least he knew what he was dealing with and he knew he could get relief if it got too bad. He began to study in the Bible on the heart, mind and spirit. He poured over the Word of God and in prayer and meditation he began to get some relief. God did deliver him from the depression, but it was a long process. I am sharing this with you so you will know if this happens to you - you are not alone. There is help and do not hesitate to seek that help.

[TalkLady]

I just saw this...This is so sad...This made me think about loved ones I have lost. I will be praying, too.

[Ferd]

OneAccord, we are so sorry for your loss. My wife told me of the thread. She sat and read and cried for your faimly.

we are praying for you.

[Droug]

Just found out about your wife One Accord, we will be in prayer for sure! My heart goes out to you my Brother at this time in your life. May God be your Strong Tower through this. He is Faithful to His children!

Love in Christ.

[Scott Hutchinson]

My dearest Bro.In Christ Bro.Rick I will be praying for you and I genuinely care about you and your loss,I love you dearly and I will hold you up to our heavenly Father.

[Scott Hutchinson]

I wish I was close enough to go to the wake and the funeral ,but Bro.Rick please pm me if you need my phone-number if you need someone to talk to as I'm here for you brother.

[HeavenlyOne]

God has another smiling angel with Him today.

There are two angels waiting...

[hearteyes]

One Accord my prayer for you is that Jesus will hold you in His arms and
allow you to rest in His presence. I pray your broken heart will find
healing. In Jesus Name. God Bless you and your family.

[ManOfWord]

Feb. 6, 2008 I'm preparing this ahead of time. (10:40 pm CT) Our victory is won and prayers are answered. Mrs. One Accord, Lola Faye Crabtree, age 55, my wonderful wife of 13 years, passed away this morning at 1:07 am . Her passing was as we prayed. Peaceful, and without pain. She is with The Lord. All is well. "It has been good, but NOW its better".
Thank you all for praying. Thank you for standing with us. God has not failed us!

Bro. Rick, I trust that you know that I have been keeping you and your wife in prayer! I will continue to keep you in prayer that the comfort of the Comforter will not only keep you but will bless you abundantly. I can't imagine your feeling of loss even in the midst of victory, but I can imagine the Lord keeping you in the hollow of His hand!!

[tcovey]

Praying that God will wrap his arms of comfort around you. So sorry for you loss.

[OneAccord]

I'm going to try to write this because I want God to have glory in Lola's passing. Gonna be heard, but I'll try. Just got home from the funeral home to a very empty and quiet house. Started crying when I opened the door, and, probably won't stop for a while. Please excuse my mistakes.

On Nov, 24,the day before our 13th wedding anniversary, after receiving news that Lola had 2 weeks or less to live, we had prayed. Lola prayed first. She prayed that the last thing she would see before she past was me, her son and daughter gathered around her.

Then I prayed. I prayed that, as she passed, she would not see me cry. I didn't want her worrying about me, so I asked God to "stay my tears" at the time of her death. And I prayed that, somehow and in some way, He would receive glory at her passing.

On Saturday, Lola began to lose consciousness. I last spoke with her early Monday morning. Her eyes closed and she slipped into a coma. Her last words to me were "I love you, Baby". All day Monday she never opened her eyes. The nurse came and said she would be gone within 72 hours. All night her BP dropped. Her body temperature slowly dropped. She never moved... her eyes never opened.

At 1:00 am Tuesday, I felt it was time. I went over and knelt down and began talking to her. He daughter knelt down and took her Momma's hand. In a minute, her son knelt down and told his Momma he loves her. Then it happened:

Lola's eyes opened. After being closed over 12 hours Lola's, bright blue eyes opened and looked at me, then at Sheila, then at Allen. Then Allen leaned over his Momma and said, "You're free Momma, you can go". She then closed her eyes, exhaled, and slipped through the Eastern Gate.

I didn't cry. As she looked at me, I pointed to my eye, and said "Look, Darlin'. No tears. I'm gonna be okay". About 15 family members saw this. Afterwards, I told them about our prayer. I said "If you ever doubted that God answers prayer, you have just witnessed that He does". Her brother, wept, and said, If this don't make you believe in God, nothing will". Another said we had witnessed a miracle. And we did. God answered our prayers to a "T". She saw us kneeling together. And I didn't cry. But most, importantly, God received the glory.

In all my years of trying to serve the Lord, and, at times, failing miserably, I have never witnessed the answer to prayer as real and tangible as this. We wept in His Presence then, as I do now.

From Day 1 through all of this, God has answered prayer many times. No, its not what I wanted. I wanted Lola and me to grow old together, to sit in our rockers on the front porch and watch the grandkids grow. We have a new one, a grand-daughter- due in May who will bear Lola's name. I wanted us to drive across the US together. We wanted to ride the steamboat in Chattanooga together. We wanted to build a deck on the back of the house. But it isn't about what I or we want. It's what God willed for us. Thats what we really wanted. Why did this have to be His will? I don't know. All I can do is trust that His will is just. And that He is righteous in His judgments.

Yeah, its gonna be hard. I open the closet door and see her clothes. A piece of Kleenex she dropped on the floor that I can't bring myself to pick up. A picture, her drinking cup. A shopping list where she spelled "bacon" b-a-k-o-n. Its not really hit me yet. I don't know what I'll do when it does. I don't know what I'll do without her.

[Sherri]

Oh, this post just made me weep! What a beautiful testimony of God's great grace!!! If He answered these prayers, you can be assured that He will continue to provide grace each day as you need it. Thanks so much for sharing such an intimate thing with your AFF family.

[Pressing-On]

Thank you for sharing your heart, OneAccord. I hope you keep this thread going as God and time heals you. We all love you here - respect you!

We will all continue to pray for you and listen to you as you open your heart.

God is good!

God bless you and keep you.....

PO

[ChTatum]

Dear brother,
May God wrap his arms around you, and sustain you in this time of sorrow.
Your family is in my prayers.

[Cindy]

Oh how wonderful and precious OneAccord. God is faithful. Will be lifting you up to Jesus to bring you comfort and peace.

[HeavenlyOne]

Rick,

She is not here, but she is not gone. Her smile and laugh, that twinkle in her eye...you can see and hear those things. And so much more.

I can't imagine what you are going through, and I don't have the words that will make it all better. But we are all here for you as long as it takes. And we love you. Don't forget that.

[AmazingGrace]

Brother.

Your letter brought me to tears but most of all it did indeed remind me of how wonderful God is! He too answered mine and my mom and dads prayers when my mother passed away just recently. My mom had a huge fear of leaving.. because she was afraid my dad would not be taken care of.. She was worried for my grandmother who was also ailing. And most of all... her biggest fear in life was not being able to breathe. She had us all pray on the night 2 weeks before her passing that all of these things would be taken care of.

The first night we were all gathered there at the hospital my dad asked her if she would mind him moving us into the house and him moving somewhere he didnt have to maintain as his health is bad.. she said that she would love that us being here. (that was then taken care of in her mind and heart even though he is still in the house we are 5 blocks away) Then he informed her he would be moving my grandmother here also so she would be well.. thus another thing off of her heart..

The biggest prayer answered was that when my mother began to pass from this life. She began to have problems breathing. She had been in a coma for 2 days but when she heard the dr say that her breathing was being altered due to fluid filling.. she looked up... placed her eyes to heaven and my mother remembered the prayer we had prayed... and with the most beautiful smile on her face.. went to be with Jesus.. She had not one bit of trouble breathing.. The first time in 3 years (she had horrible breathing problems towards the end) she had no trouble getting a breath at all for the last 3 min... But in the end... she was free... no more pain... no more trouble breathing... no more diabetes... no more walking with 1 leg... no more cares on this earth...

I know how you feel. It is not my spouse and no I am sure I need to take that back.. I cant imagine losing my Robert... but.. I lost my mom.. the one who did not give birth to me but she chose me... she picked me from many other babies she could have to be hers.. and I miss her dearly... But and this is what I typed all of this to say... the pain is strong... the hurt is there... but the one thing you will remember stronger than all of that... God answered that prayer... and not just that one.. many! God is God.. He loves you unconditionally and He has given you this for you to be assured that even though it was the time for the one you loved the most to go... that He wanted you to know she is with Him.

I pray my post is not in bad timing. I have felt this all day yet with your post I felt it was indeed the time I needed to say these things. My heart goes out to you. My prayers... I sit and cry like a baby now for you.. Please know you are NOT alone!

[OneAccord]

I never wanted this to be about me. But sitting here tonight. This cold empty house that just yesterday was a warm, full home. Just yesterday, today was another day of promise, a day for the Lord to have a chance to bring healing. Now, today, I drove by the funeral home and there, on the sign was my wifes name. I stopped on the road and cried like a baby. After sleeping about 2 hours this morning, my BIL woke me up to go to the funeral home and my first words were "Where's Lola?" He said, "rick, shes gone". I couldn't;t understand why she went to the store or wherever she went without telling me. Then, it hit me. She is GONE. A card came in the mail today,addressed to Lola. What do I do with it? She's gone and left no forwarding address. She wasn't here to tell me what she wanted me to wear to the funeral home. I opened a drawer. there was a shirt she needed, but never got to wear.

No, I;m not strong. the longer I sit here, the more I wonder if I can make it...or if I even want to.

[Pressing-On]

I never wanted thsi to be about me. But sittin here tonight. THis cold empty house thast just yesterday was a warm, full home. Just yesterday, today was another day of promise, a day for the Lord to have a chance to bring healing. Now, today, I drove by the funeral home and there, on the sign was my wifes name. I stopped on the road and cried like a baby. After sllepin about 2 hours this morning, my BIL woke me up to go to the funeral home and my first words were "Where's Lola?" He said, "rick, shes gone". I couldn;t understand why she went to the store or wherever she went without telling me. Then, it hit me. She is GONE. A card came in the amil today,addressed to Lola. What do I do with it? Shes gone and left no forwarding adress. She wasn't here to tell me what she wanted me to wear to the funeral home. I opened a drawer. there was a shirt she needed, but never got to wear.

No, I;m not strong. the longer I sit here, the more I wonder if I can make it...or if I even want to.
OneAccord,
It is ALSO about you. She has been your life - together.

Can you stay with someone for a couple of weeks? Get out of the house for a little while?

[AmazingGrace]

Oh Jesus we ask you right now to give Rick peace and comfort. I know that our words can not ease his pain Lord but I ask you to put your loving arms around him right now. Fill the room where he sits with angels to comfort and give him security... give him all his family around him to hold him... Let them hold his arms high... He is not strong now.. he needs us to stand in the gap for him.. and that we do right now in Your name! We hold him up and ask you to comfort.. bless... hold... and most of all just Love him with your unconditional... unmeasured love right now in Jesus name!!!

Bro Rick.. we love you and we are praying right now! It is about you and God is with you and we are here for YOU!!!

[AmazingGrace]

Does anyone know how to get ahold of Bro Raven? If so I think it would be appropriate if they could ask him to call Bro Rick right now and pray with him.. I believe he needs this desperately right now. I have a feeling he may be home alone tonight and doesnt need that!

[Cindy]

Oh brother Rick, I am so sorry for your loss, and wish I could heal your pain. Just cry out to the Lord and he will strengthen you and give you the comfort you need to get through this time.

[Scott Hutchinson]

Bro.Rick in your time of loss,you have ministered to me because this brings me to conviction,for all of the times I have taken my wife for granted,your posts have brought to me a reality check about what really matters most in life.
Sometimes I have gotten caught up in ministering to others,that I have taken my family for granted.
So brother Rick,through your loss you are ministering.
Sister Lola is in a better place,and what a beautiful reunion you have to look forward to.

[nahkoe]

My dear Brother. I'm praying for you, as I have been since I met you. May God keep you, hold you, show His love towards you through this.

[Scott Hutchinson]

Bro.Rick you are welcome to come down to South,AL. and visit with us.

[dixonic2]

O, Oneaccord,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My daughter asked why momma was crying earlier and I told her of what happened. She said "o momma, we should pray" and we did. We are going to keep you in our prayers. If I may, I have words from a song that her picture reminded me of, I hope I'm not overstepping (if I am, I will edit)

I belive there are Angels among us,
Sent down to us,
from somewhere up above.
They come to you and me,
In our darkest hours.
To show us how to live,
Teach us how to give,
To guide us with the light from above.

God,
Bless this family. We thank you for your guidance in our dark times, and your unfailing love.
In Jesus' blessed name
Amen

[Dora]

So saddened to hear of Lola's passing. It is so hard to see our loved ones pass from this life. But thank God for the comfort we have in Him and the hope of our reunion in heaven. You are in my thoughts and prayers...



Dora

[chosenbyone]

I will continue to pray that the peace of God be with you throughout tonight and the days to come.

Your journey has touched more people than you could ever have imagined.

[MrsBOOMM]

OneAccord, please do not feel in any way that anyone will think you are wanting attention. We have seen thru all your postings that you are a giver. It may be that posting your feelings and happenings as they come will be healthy and a great release for you. We will be here to support you. And when, no matter what we say is not enough, we can point you once again to the One who knows exactly what you need and what to do. I do have to say once again, thanks for ministering to me, you have really touched me and made me more aware of how much God really does love us.

A few years ago, I had a cousin who lost her spouse to a boating accident. God gave me the words to a song for her and I am going to post it for you tonight. I hope it helps.

HE WILL HOLD YOU
1.
YOU FEEL SO ALL ALONE
YOU HURT SO DEEP INSIDE
YOU WONDER IF THE PAIN WILL EVER SUBSIDE
EACH DAY THAT YOU AWAKE
YOU WISH IT WERE NOT TRUE
JUST LOOK UP TO THE MASTER
HE KNOWS JUST WHAT TO DO

CHO.
HE WILL HOLD YOU HOLD YOU
HE WILL HOLD YOU ‘TIL THE STORM IS OVER
HE WILL HOLD YOU HOLD YOU
HE WILL HOLD YOU ‘TIL THE STORM IS OVER

2.
HE IS STANDING THERE
HE’LL GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND
HE WILL EASE THE PAIN IT ALL JUST TAKES TIME
SO WHEN THE TEARS FALL LIKE RAIN
AND THE HURT WON’T GO AWAY
JUST LISTEN TO THE MASTER
HE KNOWS JUST WHAT TO SAY

2ND CHO
JESUS HOLD ME HOLD ME
JESUS HOLD ME ‘TIL THE STORM IS OVER
JESUS HOLD ME HOLD ME
JESUS HOLD ME ‘TIL THE STORM IS OVER

[Ron]

Bro Rick,

I have sat here reading your posts today & my heart is broken over the pain you are going through.
I am awed by the love you have for one another & pray that now & in the coming, days, weeks, & months that God would be both your comfort & strength.

Feel free to continue to post when you feel like it & remember if there is anything I can do, let me know.

Love & Prayers,

Ron

This song came to mind. I first heard it about 18 yrs ago being sung by the Cathedrals.
It moved me then & still moves me today.

BEYOND THE SUNSET

Should you go first and I remain,
To walk the road alone
I'll live in memory's garden dear,
With happy days we've known
In spring I'll wait for roses red,
When fades the lilacs bloom
And in early fall when brown leaves fall,
I'll catch a glimpse of you
Should you go first and I remain,
For battles to be fought
Each thing you've touched along the way,
Will be a hallowed spot
I'll hear your voice I'll see your smile
Though blindly I may grope
The memory of your helping hand,
Will buoy me on with hope

(c)Beyond the sunset
Oh blissful (g)morning
When with our savior,
Heaven is be(c)gun
Earth's toiling ended,
Oh glorious (f)dawning
Beyond the (c)sunset (g)
When day is (c)done

Should you go first and I remain,
To finish with the scroll
No lessening shadows shall ever creep in
To make this life seem droll
We've known so much of happiness,
We've had our cup of joy
And memory is one gift of God,
That death cannot destroy
I want to know each step you take,
That I may walk the same
For someday down that lonely road,
You'll hear me call your name
Should you go first and I remain,
One thing I'll have you do
Walk slowly down that long long path,
For soon I'll follow you

(c)In that fair homeland
We'll know no (f)parting
Beyond the (c)sunset (g)
For ever (c)more

[StMark]

I'm so sorry the hear this Bro Rick.

we are praying that the God of peace be with you every moment of every day.

The forum is behind you !

[Parkbench]

Bro. OneAccord, I've shed tears while reading about your wife's passing. I just can't imagine how diffcult it must be for you right now. I will keep you on my mind throughout the next few days and in our prayers.

[Hoovie]

Bro. One Accord, I too am sad to hear of your loss. I will also be praying for you these next days.

[ManOfWord]

.I'm going to try to write this because I want God to have glory in Lola's passing. Gonna be heard, but I'll try. Just got home from the funeral home to a very empty and quiet house. Started crying when I opened the door, and, probably won't stop for a while. Please excuse my mistakes.

On Nov, 24,the day before our 13th wedding anniversary, after receiving news that Lola had 2 weeks or less to live, we had prayed. Lola prayed first. She prayed that the last thing she would see before she past was me, her son and daughter gathered around her.

Then I prayed. I prayed that, as she passed, she would not see me cry. I didn't want her worrying about me, so I asked God to "stay my tears" at the time of her death. And I prayed that, somehow and in some way, He would receive glory at her passing.

On Saturday, Lola began to lose consciousness. I last spoke with her early Monday morning. Her eyes closed and she slipped into a coma. Her last words to me were "I love you, Baby". All day Monday she never opened her eyes. The nurse came and said she would be gone within 72 hours. All night her BP dropped. Her body temperature slowly dropped. She never moved... her eyes never opened.

At 1:00 am Tuesday, I felt it was time. I went over and knelt down and began talking to her. He daughter knelt down and took her Momma's hand. In a minute, her son knelt down and told his Momma he loves her. Then it happened:

Lola's eyes opened. After being closed over 12 hours Lola's, bright blue eyes opened and looked at me, then at Sheila, then at Allen. Then Allen leaned over his Momma and said, "You're free Momma, you can go". She then closed her eyes, exhaled, and slipped through the Eastern Gate.

I didn't cry. As she looked at me, I pointed to my eye, and said "Look, Darlin'. No tears. I'm gonna be okay". About 15 family members saw this. Afterwards, I told them about our prayer. I said "If you ever doubted that God answers prayer, you have just witnessed that He does". Her brother, wept, and said, If this don't make you believe in God, nothing will". Another said we had witnessed a miracle. And we did. God answered our prayers to a "T". She saw us kneeling together. And I didn't cry. But most, importantly, God received the glory.

In all my years of trying to serve the Lord, and, at times, failing miserably, I have never witnessed the answer to prayer as real and tangible as this. We wept in His Presence then, as I do now.

From Day 1 through all of this, God has answered prayer many times. No, its not what I wanted. I wanted Lola and me to grow old together, to sit in our rockers on the front porch and watch the grandkids grow. We have a new one, a grand-daughter- due in May who will bear Lola's name. I wanted us to drive across the US together. We wanted to ride the steamboat in Chattanooga together. We wanted to build a deck on the back of the house. But it isn't about what I or we want. It's what God willed for us. Thats what we really wanted. Why did this have to be His will? I don't know. All I can do is trust that His will is just. And that He is righteous in His judgments.

Yeah, its gonna be hard. I open the closet door and see her clothes. A piece of Kleenex she dropped on the floor that I can't bring myself to pick up. A picture, her drinking cup. A shopping list where she spelled "bacon" b-a-k-o-n. Its not really hit me yet. I don't know what I'll do when it does. I don't know what I'll do without her.

This wiped me out!! You're not alone, Rick! The scripture admonishes us to weep with those who weep. I think you've got company. We're not weeping FOR you...we're weeping with you as we have temporarily lost a sister as well, even if we never met her. But, alas, we shall meet her even if for the first time, in the not too distant future! That is our hope and it is not in vain!!

[rgcraig]

Oh, to be so open and vunerable to us.....Lord, comfort Rick right now and put your arms of love around him!

You will make it through this.

[Nahum]

Brother Rick, Dude I've got you covered in prayer today.

[Falla39]

My dear Bro. Rick,

I have waited for words from the Master to say to you since your loss.

The words to an old hymn has come to mind, "Does Jesus Care". Click on

the following link to hear the melody and read the lyrics.


http://marybeattyart.com/caregiver/doesjesuscare.html

Blessings,

Falla39

[Tina]

Praying for you this morning.....

[Cindy]

Praying for you brother Rick.

[chseeads]

Very sorry to hear of your wife's passing, OA.

[brotherjason]

At times like this I wish I had wisdom to know what to say brother, Just know you will be in my prayers, I know the God of all comfort will be right there with you.

Brother Jason

[sallyjo76]

You are in our Prayers.

[tamor]

I wept as I read your posts, Bro. Please know that I am praying for you and your family as you go through this time. I cannot begin to imagine the pain that you are going through, but I only hope that our prayers reach out and help you get through this time.

[Margies3]

Bro Rick, I am also sitting here with tears running down my face as we share your pain. You know that we are here for you. You know that we are praying for you.

You also need to know that at a time like this, it is not required of you to be strong. When Jesus went to Lazarus's tomb, He wept. The passing of a person we love is hard - impossibly hard.

So it's ok if you feel the need to crumple up in a heap on the floor and weep. When you do, be assured that even if we are not there in our physical presence, in our spirits we are there kneeling around you, holding you, weeping with you and praying for you.

[Falla39]

I tell you the truth!! There are some fantastic people on this forum and I for one

appreciate every one of them! May God bless each one of you who have reached

out in any way to our dear Bro. Rick, (OneAccord), in Jesus Name!

Blessings,

Falla39

[Ron]

Bro Rick, I am also sitting here with tears running down my face as we share your pain. You know that we are here for you. You know that we are praying for you.

You also need to know that at a time like this, it is not required of you to be strong. When Jesus went to Lazarus's tomb, He wept. The passing of a person we love is hard - impossibly hard.

So it's ok if you feel the need to crumple up in a heap on the floor and weep. When you do, be assured that even if we are not there in our physical presence, in our spirits we are there kneeling around you, holding you, weeping with you and praying for you.

This is a beautiful way to say what we feel.
Thanks Margie.

[Ron]

I tell you the truth!! There are some fantastic people on this forum and I for one

appreciate every one of them! May God bless each one of you who have reached

out in any way to our dear Bro. Rick, (OneAccord), in Jesus Name!

Blessings,

Falla39

Amen!!

[Michael Phelps]

MichaelPhelps and Rick,

I was just sitting here thinking about how I can, in my heart, see Sis Phelps searching out one of Heaven's newest arrivals and introducing herself. She'd say, "Sis Lola, I'm so happy to meet you. My son and your husband are good friends from the Apostolic Friends Forum. Come. Let me show you around. Let's go worship at the throne of Jesus together."

Can you just see it, Mike?

Rick, I am soooooooo sorry for your loss. But oh so very thrilled for your precious wife. She as attained her goal.

I want to share a song with you. I wish I could find it on YouTube, but the words are the important part anyway :)
If You Could See Me Now

If You Could See Me Now
(Kim Noblitt)

Our prayers have all been answered. I finally arrived.
The healing that had been delayed has now been realized.
No one's in a hurry. There's no schedule to keep.
We're all enjoying Jesus, just sitting at His feet.

Cho: If you could see me now, I'm walking streets of gold.
If you could see me now, I'm standing strong and whole.
If you could see me now, you'd know I've seen His face.
If you could see me now, you'd know the pain is erased.
You wouldn't want me to ever leave this place,
If you could only see me now.

My light and temporary trials have worked out for my good,
To know it brought Him glory when I misunderstood.
Though we've had our sorrows, they can never compare.
What Jesus has in store for us, no language can share. (Chorus twice)

You wouldn't want me to ever leave this perfect place
If you could only see me now
If you could see me now
If you could only see me now

Kim Noblitt, (c) 1992 Integrity's Praise/BMI and Dad and Dann Music
Sung by Truth (Russ Lee, soloist) on "Something to Hold On To," 1992.
XX


Yes, Margie, I can see it now! You knew my mom, and if ever there was someone who I believe made it to heaven, she's the one!

I"m sure One Accord feels the same way about his precious wife......

[Joe 7]

I am praying for you and your family Rick. May God Bless you in Jesus name.

[Margies3]

Yes, Margie, I can see it now! You knew my mom, and if ever there was someone who I believe made it to heaven, she's the one!

I"m sure One Accord feels the same way about his precious wife......

Mike, there is no doubt in my mind at all that your mom is in heaven. None whatsoever! I look forward to seeing her there one day.

And to meeting One Accord's dear wife. Won't it be great to be able to actually see the face of the one we prayed for for so long.

[Barb]

May God bless you tonight, Rick, and give you rest...

[rgcraig]

Let's keep Rick in our prayers - the funeral is at 2:00 p.m. today.

[tamor]

Let's keep Rick in our prayers - the funeral is at 2:00 p.m. today.

Praying here.

[Falla39]

Great Lord God,

Would You wrap Bro. Rick in The Comfort of your Spirit today, allowing him to feel

the warmeth of Your Covering. Surround him, O God, and drown out the coldness that

perhaps would make him feel so alone. Allow the grief he will go through, to come softly

and slowly so that he is able bear it. Hold Bro. Rick until once again time has healed his

broken heart. Thank You, dear Father, for Your loving compassion to Your children.

We humbly ask these things in Jesus Name!

Falla39

[Margies3]

Bro Rick,

I just want you to know that I was in the drive-thru line at McDonald's tonight getting supper for my son and his friend when I very clearly heard God speaking to my heart and telling me that you needed prayer. I took a moment right then and there to bring you before the Throne of Grace.

God cares very deeply about your pain, brother. He wants to be there to hold and comfort you.

[Tina]

Praying for you tonight...

[BoredOutOfMyMind]

Bro Rick, May you find the balm of Gilead a healing refreshment at this time.

:praying

[rgcraig]

Great Lord God,

Would You wrap Bro. Rick in The Comfort of your Spirit today, allowing him to feel

the warmeth of Your Covering. Surround him, O God, and drown out the coldness that

perhaps would make him feel so alone. Allow the grief he will go through, to come softly

and slowly so that he is able bear it. Hold Bro. Rick until once again time has healed his

broken heart. Thank You, dear Father, for Your loving compassion to Your children.

We humbly ask these things in Jesus Name!

Falla39

I pray this with you again for today!

[Pressing-On]

I pray this with you again for today!

Amen, I do as well. Has anyone heard from him at all?

[rgcraig]

Amen, I do as well. Has anyone heard from him at all?

Not that I know of and I do hope that he will at least be able to check in with us so he'll know we are still holding him up in prayer!

[Pressing-On]

Not that I know of and I do hope that he will at least be able to check in with us so he'll know we are still holding him up in prayer!
Amen. I prayed for him last night before I went to bed.

[Falla39]

God’s Family (by Lanny Wolfe)

Verse 1

We're part of the fam'ly
That's been born again
Part of the fam'ly
Whose love knows no end
For Jesus has saved us
And made us His own
Now we're part of the fam'ly
That's on its way home

Chorus

And sometimes we laugh together
Sometimes we cry
Sometimes we share together
Heartaches and sighs
Sometimes we dream together
Of how it will be
When we all get to Heaven
God's family

Verse 2

When a brother meets sorrow
We all feel his grief
When he's passed through the valley
We all feel relief
Together in sunshine together in rain
Together in vict'ry through His precious name

Chorus

And sometimes we laugh together
Sometimes we cry
Sometimes we share together
Heartaches and sighs
Sometimes we dream together
Of how it will be
When we all get to Heaven
God's family

Verse 3

And though some go before us
We'll all meet again
Just inside the city
As we enter in
There'll be no parting with Jesus we'll be
Together forever God's family

Blessings,

Falla39


The words of this song is on my mind again this beautiful Saturday morning.

The outpouring of love and concern toward Bro.OneAccord and also

Bro. DWW, especially these past few days, has deeply touched my heart.

One thing noticed was that Bro. Rick was communicating and was also

connected in spirit with those ministering encouragement and loving con-

cern with prayers and words. We were so connected it we could feel

his deep pain. It caused me to weep often with him and others who were

also connected in spirit with him. Bro. Rick would express what was going

on at that time with him and it automatically brought back a response

from those who was listening for his heart. And all the time the Spirit of

the Living God flowing through these earthen vessels, pouring out of one

into another, and vice versa. It was beautiful and precious! If the LOVE

of Christ ever gets to flowing through His "whole" body as it should, this

world would never be the same. The LOVE of Christ shed abroad in our

hearts by the HOLY GHOST which is given unto us!

Blessings,

Falla39

[OneAccord]

I just wanted to check in and say hello. Everything is okay. My family and friends just left, and I'm getting busy trying to straighten things up some. But, like a typical man, I don't really know where to start- byt, I'll start somewhere.

The service was beautiful. The kindness and comfort expressed by everyone really helped me thru the last couple of days. Gonna be rough, but, well, I've got a Friend here with me and all will be well.

I want all to know I apprecaite the flowers sent bu you- my AFF family. I made sure everyone knew that the flowers were sent by people I don't know from places I have never been. And that these people, are Chritains who truly care and have prayed earnestly for Lola, my self and for them. I am so touched by your Christian expression of love and, all of this, has changed my life. Hopefully, others will change as well, but theres definitely some changes in me.

First, I haven't been actively involved in church much. For one reason, there are no Apostolic churches in our immediate area. We've attended churches around and about some, but, well, they aren't Apostolic. I'll do some looking around and I'll find a church home.

Another thing- Gonna do some travelling. Always wanted to ses Arizona, and, as soon as I can rake up some money, gonna take a trip out west. Along the way, I'd like to put some faces on some of the names of the good people on this forum. Theres some I definitely want to meet- so, I may be in touch by PM.

One AFF "ambassador" that I was priveleged to meet was Bro. and Sis Raven. They were kind enough to attend the funeral and gravesite services, though they had to cope with this cold Sand Mountain wind. Then they came to our house and visited awahile. What fine and godly people. I was so honored to have them and felt like the Centurion who said "I am unworthy to have you in my home". Exceptional people- and it was an honor to meet them

And I deeply appreciate all of you. That first nigt I was alone after Lolas passing, I have to admit... I wouldn't have made it without your posts. I was lost. Still am... but your prayers, your posts, and your friendship gives me something to hold to. And- it will be well.

My condolances to the family of RevDDW. My prayers are with you that you will be blessed with God's comfort- that your tomorrows will be bright, and that eternal hope will give you strength in those lonely times.

Will post a picture of the flowers you sent when I can figure out how to get them off my cell phone. Thank you again and now.... lets finds something to talk about... Anybody heard anything new about Tulsa?

[Pressing-On]

Thank you for checking in!!!! We've all been praying for you!

I hope you get to take that trip west real soon!

God Bless!

[Falla39]

Bless you, dear Bro. OneAccord! That's the spirit! God has great things in store for
you, Brother! Just you wait and see. Tough times don't get us down, they just send
us to our knees. You'll be up again, just want and see!

Blessings,

Falla39

[BoredOutOfMyMind]

OA- Glad to hear from you. You are on my prayer list for this week. I trust you find your trip to AZ and other points West a blessing. :tiphat

[Ron]

One Accord, good to see you checking in.
Yes, you are being prayed for by more than you know.
We sure wish we could be there in person, but we are in the spirit!

Glad Raven joined you & that you have family & friends.

Continuing in prayer!

[OneAccord]

OA- Glad to hear from you. You are on my prayer list for this week. I trust you find your trip to AZ and other points West a blessing. :tiphat

Well, my trip to the wild, wild west, may be awhile. Right now, my pockets are as empty as those of a Alabama bill collector!

[Blubayou]

AO - Thanks for checking in. I can recommend an Apotolic couple who own a Bed and Breakfast in Arizona when you get ready to travel. Their website is thewalkerranch.com.

[nahkoe]

Glad to hear from you Brother.

I'm so glad you were able to meet Raven and his wife. :) Definitely on my list of people I want to spend some time with over coffee someday.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. God is faithful, so very faithful.

I'm moving south and a fair bit east here soon. Actually closer to you by far than I am right now. :) We'll have to coordinate travels someday to meet face to face.

[Fiyahstarter]

My father was taken tragically at the age of 50... I was only 25. He and I were VERY close. I thought it would kill me. I cried so hard it hurt.

I remember shortly after his death finding his electric razor, and opening it, and his shavings falling out in my hand. It was a part of HIM. His smell was still there. Those shavings seemed to have life in them.

I wept... and wept... and then something happened and it was like I felt my father's presence. And I knew I would be OK. The healing process had begun.

Each day got a little easier. But the best moments were when God would bring to my remembrance some sweet, insignificant-to-any-other-but-me memory of my Dad.

May your healing begin, OA. And may your memories be brilliant and abundant!

God Bless you and those close.

[Pressing-On]

My father was taken tragically at the age of 50... I was only 25. He and I were VERY close. I thought it would kill me. I cried so hard it hurt.

I remember shortly after his death finding his electric razor, and opening it, and his shavings falling out in my hand. It was a part of HIM. His smell was still there. Those shavings seemed to have life in them.

I wept... and wept... and then something happened and it was like I felt my father's presence. And I knew I would be OK. The healing process had begun.

Each day got a little easier. But the best moments were when God would bring to my remembrance some sweet, insignificant-to-any-other-but-me memory of my Dad.

May your healing begin, OA. And may your memories be brilliant and abundant!

God Bless you and those close.
AMEN! All seven of us girls and my brother each have one of his shirts. He always had his initials monogrammed on the pocket. Sometimes I pull that out and hold it. Each day it did get better.

God is good!

[OneAccord]

Going to Indiana tomorrow. My brother bought a house in Martinsville, In, and he's going up tomorrow to close the deal on Monday. I called awhile ago and said for him to pick me up near Chattanooga. Think I'll just ride up tomorrow and see some country. I was just thinking that this cold, empty house was, just the other day a warm, full home. Gotta get away. I looked at some threads here and, just can't think of much to say.

ADMIN: You can "unstick" this thread, but, I hope to be able to accesss it for awhile so I can print off the replies. They mean alot to me. Thanks everyone- I'' be up and "OneAccordin'" again real soon.

[Michael Phelps]

Going to Indiana tomorrow. My brother bought a house in Martinsville, In, and he's going up tomorrow to close the deal on Monday. I called awhile ago and said for him to pick me up near Chattanooga. Think I'll just ride up tomorrow and see some country. I was just thinking that this cold, empty house was, just the other day a warm, full home. Gotta get away. I looked at some threads here and, just can't think of much to say.

ADMIN: You can "unstick" this thread, but, I hope to be able to accesss it for awhile so I can print off the replies. They mean alot to me. Thanks everyone- I'' be up and "OneAccordin'" again real soon.

Our prayers are continually with you, my brother..........

[rgcraig]

OneA

I will compile a list of the names of all that contributed and send to you via PM.

Also, Sis. Falla said how fun it would be to see where all the money came from, so I will list publically a list of all the states represented. And know with each gift of money there was more blessings of prayer!

[Jekyll]

OA, I am very sorry to see this event take place, that has been taking place. My prayers and sympathy are with you and I pray that God will be with you.

[Cindy]

Glad to see you back brother OnceAccord. Will be continuing in prayer for you. May God grant you peace soon.

[Scott Hutchinson]

Bro.OA I missed giving money on the flowers,but I have a card bought that I'm going to send you.

[Sister Alvear]

We have been remembering you in our prayers. Our home and hearts are open for you to visit anytime in Brazil. May Jesus be with you and we know He is.

[OneAccord]

Thank you Sister, but unless you are speakling of Brazil, Indiana, I'd love to, but Brazil is a "fur piece" from here. I appreciate the work you are doing there and hope to be able to offer support soon. But, closest I'll ever come to doing missionary work was the time I held a revival in Missouri. (be nice, Missourains, I'm kidding). At ne time, I nearly went to the Philipines with a missionary group. But, I didn't get to go. It takes a special kind of person to do what you and your family are doing. And I just ain't that special.

[Falla39]

Thank you Sister, but unless you are speakling of Brazil, Indiana, I'd love to, but Brazil is a "fur piece" from here. I appreciate the work you are doing there and hope to be able to offer support soon. But, closest I'll ever come to doing missionary work was the time I held a revival in Missouri. (be nice, Missourains, I'm kidding). At ne time, I nearly went to the Philipines with a missionary group. But, I didn't get to go. It takes a special kind of person to do what you and your family are doing. And I just ain't that special.

Bro. OneAccord,

Says who!! Looks like by all the posts on here, God thinks YOU are
pretty SPECIAL!!! Brother, I believe I can tell you that God is not near
through with you. Just be open and in time He will let you know what
He would have you do!! YES, God thinks YOU are pretty SPECIAL and
your brothers and sisters on AFF do TOO!!!!:nod:nod:nod:highfive

Can we get a witness!!!!

[Cindy]

[/B]

Bro. OneAccord,

Says who!! Looks like by all the posts on here, God thinks YOU are
pretty SPECIAL!!! Brother, I believe I can tell you that God is not near
through with you. Just be open and in time He will let you know what
He would have you do!! YES, God thinks YOU are pretty SPECIAL and
your brothers and sisters on AFF do TOO!!!!:nod:nod:nod:highfive

Can we get a witness!!!!

Yes ma'am, and a big AMEN!!

[Ron]

[/B]

Bro. OneAccord,

Says who!! Looks like by all the posts on here, God thinks YOU are
pretty SPECIAL!!! Brother, I believe I can tell you that God is not near
through with you. Just be open and in time He will let you know what
He would have you do!! YES, God thinks YOU are pretty SPECIAL and
your brothers and sisters on AFF do TOO!!!!:nod:nod:nod:highfive

Can we get a witness!!!!

AMEN!

[Margies3]

[/B]

Bro. OneAccord,

Says who!! Looks like by all the posts on here, God thinks YOU are
pretty SPECIAL!!! Brother, I believe I can tell you that God is not near
through with you. Just be open and in time He will let you know what
He would have you do!! YES, God thinks YOU are pretty SPECIAL and
your brothers and sisters on AFF do TOO!!!!:nod:nod:nod:highfive

Can we get a witness!!!!

AMEN!!

[marthaolivia]

Someone sent me this little note after my sister lost her battle with cancer. OA, I thought I would post it for you.

Cander is so limited...
It cannot cripple love
It cannot shatter hope
It cannot corrode faith
It cannot destroy peace
It cannot kill friendship
It cannot suppress memories
It cannot silence courage
It cannot invade the soul
It cannot steal eternal life
It cannot conquer the spirit

[CC1]

OneAccord,

I just got back from vacation and saw this sad thread. I am sorry for your loss and will be praying for you and all involved.

[Rhoni]

[/b]

Bro. OneAccord,

Says who!! Looks like by all the posts on here, God thinks YOU are
pretty SPECIAL!!! Brother, I believe I can tell you that God is not near
through with you. Just be open and in time He will let you know what
He would have you do!! YES, God thinks YOU are pretty SPECIAL and
your brothers and sisters on AFF do TOO!!!!:nod:nod:nod:highfive

Can we get a witness!!!!

Amen! You have multiple witnesses! Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you and your family OneAccord.

Sincerely, Rhoni