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Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 02:23 PM
Be honest do you curse? If so what do you consider cursing? Just 4-letter words or the sissy cursing? I don't expect everyone to answer honestly here. I will though. It is on a very rare occasion but I say curse words. Nothing terrible like f words or GD. I hate those. But I am just being honest. Again it is on a VERY rare occasion that one slips. What about you all?
I excpet Elder Epley to tell us he is a closet curser. LOL
StillStanding
07-17-2008, 02:26 PM
I've been known to let the "s" word slip out from time to time when I blade a golf shot! :) It comes out before I think!
Baron1710
07-17-2008, 02:26 PM
Be honest do you curse? If so what do you consider cursing? Just 4-letter words or the sissy cursing? I don't expect everyone to answer honestly here. I will though. It is on a very rare occasion but I say curse words. Nothing terrible like f words or GD. I hate those. But I am just being honest. Again it is on a VERY rare occasion that one slips. What about you all?
I excpet Elder Epley to tell us he is a closet curser. LOL
Not since I started taking the bus to work.
Sassy
07-17-2008, 02:29 PM
I am not really trying portray myself as perfect person....but I really don't cuss. And I very rarely use sissy cuss words....because I have been taught they are the same. And if you use those words....guess who picks them up...your children. And they will use them when it is the MOST embarassing!
StillStanding
07-17-2008, 02:31 PM
I am not really trying portray myself as perfect person....but I really don't cuss. And I very rarely use sissy cuss words....because I have been taught they are the same. And if you use those words....guess who picks them up...your children. And they will use them when it is the MOST embarassing!
For the record, my kids and grandkids have never heard me cuss! :) Mrs. Pianoman has though!
Pro31:28
07-17-2008, 02:36 PM
when I taught Kindergarten I had a student come up to me and say, "Mrs.D, Walker used the 'Q' Word!!!" I stood there and went over every bad word I could think of, and I certainly wasn't going to ask what the word was, so when the accuser of the brethren's mom came to pick him I whispered what happened and I said, "see if you can figure out what the 'Q' Word is....
U376977
07-17-2008, 02:36 PM
Be honest do you curse? If so what do you consider cursing? Just 4-letter words or the sissy cursing? I don't expect everyone to answer honestly here. I will though. It is on a very rare occasion but I say curse words. Nothing terrible like f words or GD. I hate those. But I am just being honest. Again it is on a VERY rare occasion that one slips. What about you all?
I excpet Elder Epley to tell us he is a closet curser. LOL
Sure, But I think what most people consider a curse word is wrong.
Scripture speaks of several types of words, "curse, idle, doubt, un-belief, filthy communication."
So a "S#@T, may be "filthy communication" but it is not a curse word. And as far as how God would judge words unbelief is the worst words that can be spoken.
Consider the 10 spies. The nation was plunged into 40 days of doubt/unbelief because of them and paid for it by 40 years of wilderness experience.
RandyWayne
07-17-2008, 02:42 PM
I have to admit, I probably "think" certain words more often than I should.... but I rarely, if ever officially "curse". Once you break the habit it isn't even something that I struggle with anymore.
tstew
07-17-2008, 02:47 PM
when I taught Kindergarten I had a student come up to me and say, "Mrs.D, Walker used the 'Q' Word!!!" I stood there and went over every bad word I could think of, and I certainly wasn't going to ask what the word was, so when the accuser of the brethren's mom came to pick him I whispered what happened and I said, "see if you can figure out what the 'Q' Word is....
I am lost. Is this revenge from the other thread? :)
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 02:48 PM
I have to admit, I probably "think" certain words more often than I should.... but I rarely, if ever officially "curse". Once you break the habit it isn't even something that I struggle with anymore.
I agree. I might think a curse word more than say them.
Esther
07-17-2008, 02:49 PM
Never heard of sissy curse words???
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 02:51 PM
I am not really trying portray myself as perfect person....but I really don't cuss. And I very rarely use sissy cuss words....because I have been taught they are the same. And if you use those words....guess who picks them up...your children. And they will use them when it is the MOST embarassing!
I get ya. It can be a condition of how you were raised. If your parents curse greater chance you might too. I am very careful around my 2 yr old and wife. Mrs. Tullock has only heard a dirty word from me maybe 3 times. My wife also considers pi** a curse word with I grew up using. So take that for what it is worth. I really think it is al human. Not everyone curses but we are human and prone to mistakes.
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 02:52 PM
Never heard of sissy curse words???
Cra*, Dang, Flip, such like that. Maybe better said as words to replace curse words
Pro31:28
07-17-2008, 02:52 PM
I am lost. Is this revenge from the other thread? :)
No, I just wanted to keep you in suspense like I was for whole night after the incident... The mom came in the next day and with tears STREAMING down her face from laughing said she had to talk to me outside...
She said, "I asked him about the word this morning, it was Qwrap"
(say it out loud)
That was 9 years ago and I still laugh about it!
Baron1710
07-17-2008, 02:53 PM
Cra*, Dang, Flip, such like that. Maybe better said as words to replace curse words
freakin, dad gummit,
tstew
07-17-2008, 02:54 PM
No, I just wanted to keep you in suspense like I was for whole night after the incident... The mom came in the next day and with tears STREAMING down her face from laughing said she had to talk to me outside...
She said, "I asked him about the word this morning, it was Qwrap"
(say it out loud)
That was 9 years ago and I still laugh about it!
:ursofunny
Did the kid's name begin with an "F" and end with an "e-r-d" by any chance? :evilglee
Pro31:28
07-17-2008, 02:54 PM
Cra*, Dang, Flip, such like that. Maybe better said as words to replace curse words
When I attended a Christian School we were not permitted to use "by" words... Shoot, Heck, golly-gee... that was grounds for a demerit, our teacher was very serious about it. I had come in to 10th grade fresh from the world and it was a difficult transition!
tstew
07-17-2008, 02:55 PM
Cra*, Dang, Flip, such like that. Maybe better said as words to replace curse words
Growing up, those would get me killed just as quickly as the big ones.
Pro31:28
07-17-2008, 02:56 PM
:ursofunny
Did the kid's name begin with an "F" and end with an "e-r-d" by any chance? :evilglee
:ursofunny
We definitely worked on the difference between C and Q sounds after that~!
Baron1710
07-17-2008, 02:57 PM
I know someone who responds "Oh Golly no" anytime she is offered dessert.
Sassy
07-17-2008, 02:58 PM
I get ya. It can be a condition of how you were raised. If your parents curse greater chance you might too. I am very careful around my 2 yr old and wife. Mrs. Tullock has only heard a dirty word from me maybe 3 times. My wife also considers pi** a curse word with I grew up using. So take that for what it is worth. I really think it is al human. Not everyone curses but we are human and prone to mistakes.
oh yeah....none of us are perfect....just something else to work on! :nod
StillStanding
07-17-2008, 03:00 PM
No, I just wanted to keep you in suspense like I was for whole night after the incident... The mom came in the next day and with tears STREAMING down her face from laughing said she had to talk to me outside...
She said, "I asked him about the word this morning, it was Qwrap"
(say it out loud)
That was 9 years ago and I still laugh about it!
That reminds me of the time when I was 7 years old, and I went to the kitchen table with my plate while mom and dad were entertaining an evangelist. I told mom that I wanted something that started with a "T". She looked around the table and couldn't see anything that started with "T". Finally ,I said "Taters! mashed taters!" My mother was so embarrassed and said, "Son, they're called PO-totoes!" Of course I followed up and said, "We've NEVER called them PO-tatoes! We always called them TATERS!" :ursofunny
Pro31:28
07-17-2008, 03:01 PM
That reminds me of the time when I was 7 years old, and I went to the kitchen table with my plate while mom and dad were entertaining an evangelist. I told mom that I wanted something that started with a "T". She looked around the table and couldn't see anything that started with "T". Finally ,I said "Taters! mashed taters!" My mother was so embarrassed and said, "Son, they're called PO-totoes!" Of course I followed up and said, "We've NEVER called them PO-tatoes! We always called them TATERS!" :ursofunny
:ursofunny
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 03:01 PM
That reminds me of the time when I was 7 years old, and I went to the kitchen table with my plate while mom and dad were entertaining an evangelist. I told mom that I wanted something that started with a "T". She looked around the table and couldn't see anything that started with "T". Finally ,I said "Taters! mashed taters!" My mother was so embarrassed and said, "Son, they're called PO-totoes!" Of course I followed up and said, "We've NEVER called them PO-tatoes! We always called them TATERS!" :ursofunny
What a Redneck...me too though
Esther
07-17-2008, 03:02 PM
Cra*, Dang, Flip, such like that. Maybe better said as words to replace curse words
gotcha, just never heard it referred to as sissy cussing. ;)
Timmy
07-17-2008, 03:03 PM
Any of you see "Demolition Man"? Cussing had a very practical purpose, in one scene. :toofunny
MissBrattified
07-17-2008, 03:03 PM
My husband used to use the word pi** all the time, which I thoroughly disliked, and complained until he stopped. LOL!!!! My main point, "Do you want the kids to say it?" He didn't think it was a curse word (or bad word), though, and still doesn't.
I've had to break several bad habits regarding the sissy words, like cra*, screwed, etc.
I can say I don't use the bad words...BUT...:D One time Jeff and I had a big argument, and I let a really, REALLY bad word fly, mostly for shock value. He looked at me like I had grown 15 horns, and looked really disgusted, and then I was just embarrassed. LOL!!!
Kids will inspire you to clean up your mouth, because they repeat EVERYTHING.
I have to say, my family, well, foul language is not really frowned upon, except for maybe the F word, and some of the really obscene language. I'm changing that in our house!!!! (Mostly my Dad's side--I've never heard my mother use any kind of bad word, sissy, slang or otherwise.)
Esther
07-17-2008, 03:04 PM
:ursofunny
Did the kid's name begin with an "F" and end with an "e-r-d" by any chance? :evilglee
:ursofunny:ursofunny
Baron1710
07-17-2008, 03:04 PM
Any of you see "Demolition Man"? Cussing had a very practical purpose, in one scene. :toofunny
Indeed.
Timmy
07-17-2008, 03:07 PM
One of our kids had a bit of a problem with certain phonetics. The "s" sound, in particular. Came out like "f". Needless to say, we tried to use the word "lollipop", rather than "sucker", around him! :ursofunny
tstew
07-17-2008, 03:09 PM
My husband used to use the word pi** all the time, which I thoroughly disliked, and complained until he stopped. LOL!!!! My main point, "Do you want the kids to say it?" He didn't think it was a curse word (or bad word), though, and still doesn't.
I've had to break several bad habits regarding the sissy words, like cra*, screwed, etc.
I can say I don't use the bad words...BUT...:D One time Jeff and I had a big argument, and I let a really, REALLY bad word fly, mostly for shock value. He looked at me like I had grown 15 horns, and looked really disgusted, and then I was just embarrassed. LOL!!!
Kids will inspire you to clean up your mouth, because they repeat EVERYTHING.
I have to say, my family, well, foul language is not really frowned upon, except for maybe the F word, and some of the really obscene language. I'm changing that in our house!!!! (Mostly my Dad's side--I've never heard my mother use any kind of bad word, sissy, slang or otherwise.)
If my wife cussed at me in an argument it would probably defeat the purpose. I would probably bust out laughing.:ursofunny
rgcraig
07-17-2008, 03:09 PM
My daughter told on her bigger brother once for saying the "s" word. I was shocked that he knew it and especially that she would know it was wrong.
I asked her to tell me what the word was and she wouldn't do it - - finally I convinced her it was okay to whisper it to me......it was shut up. Whew!
Aquila
07-17-2008, 03:12 PM
Be honest do you curse? If so what do you consider cursing? Just 4-letter words or the sissy cursing? I don't expect everyone to answer honestly here. I will though. It is on a very rare occasion but I say curse words. Nothing terrible like f words or GD. I hate those. But I am just being honest. Again it is on a VERY rare occasion that one slips. What about you all?
I excpet Elder Epley to tell us he is a closet curser. LOL
Wow...provocative subject. I'll come clean too...having been in the military I've occasionally (rare occasions) dropped a few verbal bombs when upset. But like you, I never use the name of Jesus as an expletive or say GD.
MissBrattified
07-17-2008, 03:12 PM
If my wife cussed at me in an argument it would probably defeat the purpose. I would probably bust out laughing.:ursofunny
Oh, I hate to be laughed at (when I'm upset)!!! LOL!!!
When I was a kid I couldn't say my "r" sound, and it took a lot of work for me to get over that. Well, when I get upset or frazzled, sometimes I forget my "r's"--and when I do, it's too much for Jeff to handle. He thinks that is the funniest thing EVER!!!! :club
dizzyde
07-17-2008, 03:14 PM
No, I just wanted to keep you in suspense like I was for whole night after the incident... The mom came in the next day and with tears STREAMING down her face from laughing said she had to talk to me outside...
She said, "I asked him about the word this morning, it was Qwrap"
(say it out loud)
That was 9 years ago and I still laugh about it!
:ursofunny :ursofunny
Cra* is the word I use, and I am always getting hammered about it.
Of course, my mom still gasps when I say butt, that was not acceptable in our house growing up!! :toofunny
tstew
07-17-2008, 03:16 PM
I heard about a preacher who was really going in his sermon and meant to say that people needed to listen instead of thinking about what they were going to eat at Fuddruckers later......Hilarity ensued.
:preach:blush:heeheehee:lol:killinme:thad :neener :digging
Esther
07-17-2008, 03:18 PM
I didn't grow up around a lot of cussing, but my Mom would threaten in a not very nice tone that she was going to slap the "s" out of us! :)
dizzyde
07-17-2008, 03:19 PM
My daughter told on her bigger brother once for saying the "s" word. I was shocked that he knew it and especially that she would know it was wrong.
I asked her to tell me what the word was and she wouldn't do it - - finally I convinced her it was okay to whisper it to me......it was shut up. Whew!
I told on my aunt one time for saying the F word. She was a lot younger than my mom and lived with us for a while when she was a teenager.
We had missionaries staying with us, and I rushed into the room in front of them and told my mom that my aunt had said the F word! She was upset and denying it, and I started crying, insisting she was lying! My mom finally pulled me to the side and had me whisper what she had said.
The big bad "F" word...Fart!! :lol :lol :lol
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 03:20 PM
I didn't grow up around a lot of cussing, but my Mom would threaten in a not very nice tone that she was going to slap the "s" out of us! :)
Are you my sister? Was your mom named Debbie? lol
I've been known to let the "s" word slip out from time to time when I blade a golf shot! :) It comes out before I think!
One more reason to give golf up for the Lord! Repent, I say!! Repent!! :D
Pro31:28
07-17-2008, 03:21 PM
:ursofunny :ursofunny
Cra* is the word I use, and I am always getting hammered about it.
Of course, my mom still gasps when I say butt, that was not acceptable in our house growing up!! :toofunny
When I got married I found out very quickly that in my MIL's house the most common word for flatulence was completely unacceptable!
dizzyde
07-17-2008, 03:21 PM
I heard about a preacher who was really going in his sermon and meant to say that people needed to listen instead of thinking about what they were going to eat at Fuddruckers later......Hilarity ensued.
:preach:blush:heeheehee:lol:killinme:thad :neener :digging
:ursofunny
:ursofunny
Pro31:28
07-17-2008, 03:21 PM
I told on my aunt one time for saying the F word. She was a lot younger than my mom and lived with us for a while when she was a teenager.
We had missionaries staying with us, and I rushed into the room in front of them and told my mom that my aunt had said the F word! She was upset and denying it, and I started crying, insisting she was lying! My mom finally pulled me to the side and had me whisper what she had said.
The big bad "F" word...Fart!! :lol :lol :lol
TOo funny I must have been posting the same time as you were!
dizzyde
07-17-2008, 03:22 PM
TOo funny I must have been posting the same time as you were!
:ursofunny :ursofunny
LUKE2447
07-17-2008, 03:22 PM
I am sorry but taboo words like s_!t are not bad they are only perceived bad. I would not say them that I might offend someone but in reality we replace the same word with another word which refers to the same things. What is the difference? NONE! Babby has a bad diaper how many use "soft" words for that? uh huh SAME THING!
Also like when someone says " man that really s_cks" I don't see it as cursing and most don't use it that way. I never did. Many have told me that they use it like when you are running and you are struggling and in obvious pain and the term used for that is "sucking air." So to me if that comes to there mind, I am not going to judge it. Again it's all about taboo for the most part. Some words clearly should not be used but others are just people trying to make everything wrong.
Me and my friend who is a minister joked about this. so I came up with a simple example how words are taboo and howto beat it.
example: He is full of excrement! Now is "excrement" a bad word? I have not seen it put on the naughty list! LOL! So it must not be bad!
Timmy
07-17-2008, 03:23 PM
Man, I've got some stories. Not sure if they'd be appropriate here, though. Not easy to clean up. Hehe.
I have been known to let a few choice words flow freely when angry. I am, however, working on it. He who is without sin cast the first stone! :D
LUKE2447
07-17-2008, 03:26 PM
Oh an all you who are doing the "s" or "f" word are going to hell as you made me mentally think that word. LOL!
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 03:27 PM
Oh an all you who are doing the "s" or "f" word are going to hell as you made me mentally think that word. LOL!
well then you are just screw*d like the rest of us
Baron1710
07-17-2008, 03:28 PM
For those who don't curse drive in DC traffic for a few weeks and you will pick it up real easy.
LUKE2447
07-17-2008, 03:29 PM
well then you are just screw*d like the rest of us
LOL! Yep!
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 03:30 PM
With all joking aside I think that cursing is not healthy if for no other reason than it makes one sound uneducated. I try to be on my best behavior in all things cause I want my daughter to be better than I am. Plus the way I will raise her can help to have bad habits and hung ups that she will have to overcome. If I don't start something bad for her she will never have to squash it.
Aquila
07-17-2008, 03:34 PM
I was once told that when Jesus used terms like "vipers", "dogs" and "fox", that these were very strong words in the ancient vernacular.
StillStanding
07-17-2008, 03:37 PM
I was once told that when Jesus used terms like "vipers", "dogs" and "fox", that these were very strong words in the ancient vernacular.
In England, "bloody" and "booger" are strong curse words. Here in the states, these words don't carry a strong meaning at all!
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 03:40 PM
In England, "bloody" and "booger" are strong curse words. Here in the states, these words don't carry a strong meaning at all!
accept when you put them together and say "bloody booger" then that is just plain wrong!
Carpenter
07-17-2008, 04:01 PM
I have to admit I had some prostate work done recently and my goodness and behold I let a very bad word slip...well, not slip, I kicked it out it hurt so bad...honest. Didn't I tell you I just turned 40?
:whistle:whistle
StillStanding
07-17-2008, 04:08 PM
I have to admit I had some prostate work done recently and my goodness and behold I let a very bad word slip...well, not slip, I kicked it out it hurt so bad...honest. Didn't I tell you I just turned 40?
:whistle:whistle
Our pastor's wife had an aneurysm about three years ago that almost killed her. Of course she survived miraculously, but it had effected her brain. For a while she didn't have her normal composure, and said the "s" word frequently in conversations! :) The family was shocked because they had never heard her cuss in her whole life. :ursofunny
She must have been "thinking" these words before! :)
Carpenter
07-17-2008, 04:13 PM
Our pastor's wife had an aneurysm about three years ago that almost killed her. Of course she survived miraculously, but it had effected her brain. For a while she didn't have her normal composure, and said the "s" word frequently in conversations! :) The family was shocked because they had never heard her cuss in her whole life. :ursofunny
She must have been "thinking" these words before! :)
LOL!!
:ursofunny
In my experience caring for elderly folks with a measure of dementia, I hear my share of hilarious comments from our grandmas who if you wouldn't better you would think they were sailors at one point in their lives.
Jack Shephard
07-17-2008, 04:27 PM
Our pastor's wife had an aneurysm about three years ago that almost killed her. Of course she survived miraculously, but it had effected her brain. For a while she didn't have her normal composure, and said the "s" word frequently in conversations! :) The family was shocked because they had never heard her cuss in her whole life. :ursofunny
She must have been "thinking" these words before! :)
That funny as Hel* :aaa
HeavenlyOne
07-17-2008, 04:31 PM
My mom didn't allow us to say 'turd, fart, cra* (that was a swear word!)' or anything of the sort. Imagine my shock when she recently referred to her brother as an anal orafice, but not in those words!! And she's UPC! LOL!
Our pastor's wife had an aneurysm about three years ago that almost killed her. Of course she survived miraculously, but it had effected her brain. For a while she didn't have her normal composure, and said the "s" word frequently in conversations! :) The family was shocked because they had never heard her cuss in her whole life. :ursofunny
She must have been "thinking" these words before! :)
I bet they didn't call on her to testify for a good long while. Wanna make sure she's completely healed before they turn her loose on the congregation with her testimony! :D
HeavenlyOne
07-17-2008, 04:33 PM
LOL!!
:ursofunny
In my experience caring for elderly folks with a measure of dementia, I hear my share of hilarious comments from our grandmas who if you wouldn't better you would think they were sailors at one point in their lives.
I once took care of a well-known UPC pastor before he died several years ago. He had Alzheimer's as well as a stroke. It was sad to see him in his condition, because his elderly wife took care of him at home even though he was bedridden, and he would hit her and cuss something horrible. She would cry because she didn't understand why he was that way and that he never was that way when he was well.
She recently passed away also, and I'm sure they are once again enjoying one another in paradise.
But dealing with dementia, wow, it just makes you a different person.
tstew
07-17-2008, 04:36 PM
I bet they didn't call on her to testify for a good long while. Wanna make sure she's completely healed before they turn her loose on the congregation with her testimony! :D
Rico, that reminds me. On the mission field in Liberia we always had stories like that. English is the official language there, but for the indigenous people it is still a second language. Some of the less educated ones would here slang or sayings and not know that they were bad or fully understand what they meant. We had a church mother get up and talk about how she was "b.s" for Jesus.:ursofunny
StillStanding
07-17-2008, 04:39 PM
Rico, that reminds me. On the mission field in Liberia we always had stories like that. English is the official language there, but for the indigenous people it is still a second language. Some of the less educated ones would here slang or sayings and not know that they were bad or fully understand what they meant. We had a church mother get up and talk about how she was "b.s" for Jesus.:ursofunny
:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny
Jermyn Davidson
07-17-2008, 05:41 PM
So at great peril I ask,
A saved person is not responsible for their actions when they're demented?
Who, then is?
I've heard of people speaking in tongues in their sleep.
I've heard of people waking up and literally the first words out of their mouths are tongues.
I've heard of the elderly in nursing homes speaking in tongues while suffering from some sort of mental impairment.
I've never heard of a saved, demented person cussing and hitting their wives or anything like that, until just now.
pelathais
07-17-2008, 05:45 PM
So at great peril I ask,
A saved person is not responsible for their actions when they're demented?
Who, then is?
I've heard of people speaking in tongues in their sleep.
I've heard of people waking up and literally the first words out of their mouths are tongues.
I've heard of the elderly in nursing homes speaking in tongues while suffering from some sort of mental impairment.
I've never heard of a saved, demented person cussing and hitting their wives or anything like that, until just now.
Welcome to humanity. Did you ever consider how that with a ball peen hammer a person could "change" the eternal destiny of another person's soul?
smurfette
07-17-2008, 06:39 PM
I didn't grow up around a lot of cussing, but my Mom would threaten in a not very nice tone that she was going to slap the "s" out of us! :)
I'm bustin' a gut laughing at this one! I actually got tears! Did we grow up in the same house?:ursofunny
Sister Alvear
07-17-2008, 06:46 PM
We have never had cussing in our home...
Praxeas
07-17-2008, 06:49 PM
Sure, But I think what most people consider a curse word is wrong.
Scripture speaks of several types of words, "curse, idle, doubt, un-belief, filthy communication."
So a "S#@T, may be "filthy communication" but it is not a curse word. And as far as how God would judge words unbelief is the worst words that can be spoken.
Consider the 10 spies. The nation was plunged into 40 days of doubt/unbelief because of them and paid for it by 40 years of wilderness experience.
I agree...in fact the word we use is not curse but cuss :-)
I think only Italians and Gypsies curse anyways....and the occasional jew in yiddish
Praxeas
07-17-2008, 06:51 PM
I once took care of a well-known UPC pastor before he died several years ago. He had Alzheimer's as well as a stroke. It was sad to see him in his condition, because his elderly wife took care of him at home even though he was bedridden, and he would hit her and cuss something horrible. She would cry because she didn't understand why he was that way and that he never was that way when he was well.
She recently passed away also, and I'm sure they are once again enjoying one another in paradise.
But dealing with dementia, wow, it just makes you a different person.
True. Family members should not take it personally
LUKE2447
07-17-2008, 06:54 PM
So at great peril I ask,
A saved person is not responsible for their actions when they're demented?
Who, then is?
I've heard of people speaking in tongues in their sleep.
I've heard of people waking up and literally the first words out of their mouths are tongues.
I've heard of the elderly in nursing homes speaking in tongues while suffering from some sort of mental impairment.
I've never heard of a saved, demented person cussing and hitting their wives or anything like that, until just now.
I have been dreaming several times about situations and spoke in tongues multiple times. Actually every time I have done that, things drastically changed in my life. Very interesting.
HeavenlyOne
07-17-2008, 06:58 PM
So at great peril I ask,
A saved person is not responsible for their actions when they're demented?
Who, then is?
I've heard of people speaking in tongues in their sleep.
I've heard of people waking up and literally the first words out of their mouths are tongues.I've heard of the elderly in nursing homes speaking in tongues while suffering from some sort of mental impairment.
I've never heard of a saved, demented person cussing and hitting their wives or anything like that, until just now.
Saved and demented are two totally different issues, yet both can abide in the same person. When your brain isn't working, you aren't in control. Your brain runs the joint. It controls not only bodily functions but moods, emotions, feelings, and behaviors.
Even though we are saved, we continue to sin. Why, if we are saved? Because we still have a human brain that controls our moods, emotions, feelings, and behaviors. As you know, being saved doesn't make us less human.
So, that being the case, we are subject to the brain when it deteriorates. Chemicals that should be there aren't, and those that are there shouldn't be in such great quantities.
There are two male residents where I work right now. Both came in for rehab only. One came in an already deteriorated state. His wife couldn't stand coming to see him because he was mean to her and would talk to her harshly. I took the liberty quite often to tell him to behave himself and not talk to her that way. He'd listen to me, but she'd often leave in tears.
He's been in therapy for about a month now, and not only has he improved physically, but mentally as well. It's been nice watching it unfold day after day.
Today, his wife told me that she is now happy to come and see him. His brain is working better (he'd had a stroke) and he's a funny guy, always joking and also treating people with respect. She said he's like his old self again.
The other man was brought in after falling and being recently diagnosed with Parkinsons. He started failing and was going downhill fast. Even the docs didn't know what was wrong with him, as every test they did wasn't showing anything conclusive, but clearly, something wasn't right.
He would talk about things from the 1960's as if it were today. He was constantly falling because he forgot that he couldn't stand (he was walking when he came in, but deteriorated to that point). He was very moody and unpredictable, even yelling at me once. His wife wanted answers, and we had none to give. This wasn't the man she knew. He eventually was unable to swallow properly and was placed on pureed foods and thickened liquids. His speech wasn't appropriate (How are you feeling today? Answer: Sounds like it's making a run to shoes, doesn't it?).
For some reason (I was gone for a week while they ran further tests), he was placed on Prednisone, which is a steroid, and he has improved so much in two weeks that he's eating regular food, his memory is intact (even had to remind me about a new pill I'd forgotten to give him one morning), and he's walking with therapy.
Now, I shared all that for a reason. I see things like this all the time, so it's simple for me to understand how anyone, saved or not, can behave in a manner so unlike themselves and not be responsible for their actions. Some things are fixable, as I shared in the stories above, but things like Alzheimers are not fixable, and in most cases, the outcome is sad.
Hope this wasn't overwhelming.
HeavenlyOne
07-17-2008, 07:02 PM
True. Family members should not take it personally
But it's so difficult not to, especially when the kind mom you always knew suddenly screams at you every time you visit her because she has no idea who you are and thinks you are there to harm her.
A friend of mine told me that she goes to see her mom, but her mom thinks she's one of her sisters, then complains that she (my friend) never comes to visit, even complaining about it to her! That's hard, because her mom will not believe she is who she says she is. A lot of bad feelings go along with that scenario.
smurfette
07-17-2008, 09:00 PM
My mom didn't allow us to say 'turd, fart, cra* (that was a swear word!)' or anything of the sort. Imagine my shock when she recently referred to her brother as an anal orafice, but not in those words!! And she's UPC! LOL!
There you go using those fancy words now that you're an RN! :ursofunny
Congrats HO! Proud of you!:dance:friend
I get ya. It can be a condition of how you were raised. If your parents curse greater chance you might too. I am very careful around my 2 yr old and wife. Mrs. Tullock has only heard a dirty word from me maybe 3 times. My wife also considers pi** a curse word with I grew up using. So take that for what it is worth. I really think it is al human. Not everyone curses but we are human and prone to mistakes.
It's in the Bible
Isaiah 36:12 in the KJV for one
My mom didn't allow us to say 'turd, fart, cra* (that was a swear word!)' or anything of the sort. Imagine my shock when she recently referred to her brother as an anal orafice, but not in those words!! And she's UPC! LOL!
and I've heard preachers use at least one of those words.
it's just different for different folks what they prohibit and what they allow.
HeavenlyOne
07-17-2008, 11:11 PM
Back to the topic, I curse once in a while. Lately, it's been more often. But I don't curse to my kids nor in front of them. I also don't say the 'real' bad words either.
I am trying to get out of the habit also. I don't think cursing is a good thing.
Pro31:28
07-18-2008, 04:17 AM
A couple of weeks ago, my 15 year-old tried using "Icor2v4"... Oh I mean the proper name of his avatar....
He thought that because he put "Jack" in front of it that he could say that someome was being one. I quickly reminded him that if he said it again, he would be meeting mr. irish spring!
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 04:44 AM
I don't think you actually need to use curse words.
When my husband is mad at me, I just look at him and say, "What Rhett said."
:bliss :bliss
chosenbyone
07-18-2008, 04:45 AM
One of our kids had a bit of a problem with certain phonetics. The "s" sound, in particular. Came out like "f". Needless to say, we tried to use the word "lollipop", rather than "sucker", around him! :ursofunny
This reminded me when I was a small child, I had a speech impidement and when I tried to say truck then other word would come out! Needless, to say, I spent the next couple of years seeing a speech therapist.
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 04:50 AM
This reminded me when I was a small child, I had a speech impidement and when I tried to say truck then other word would come out! Needless, to say, I spent the next couple of years seeing a speech therapist.
:ursofunny:ursofunny
chosenbyone
07-18-2008, 04:50 AM
I can't stand to hear people cuss. It just gives the impression of someone with a low IQ.
chosenbyone
07-18-2008, 04:53 AM
:ursofunny:ursofunny
My momma didn't think it was funny, but my older brother and cousins sure got a lot of laughs out of making me identify all the trucks in town.
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 04:54 AM
My momma didn't think it was funny, but my older brother and cousins sure got a lot of laughs out of making me identify all the trucks in town.
:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny
chosenbyone
07-18-2008, 04:57 AM
:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny
You were too quick! I had caught that error within 30 seconds of posting that post, but you had already copied it!
Why you....so and so!!!!!
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 04:59 AM
I can't stand to hear people cuss. It just gives the impression of someone with a low IQ.
I don't either! I'm hardly ever around anyone that would cuss, so if I'm shopping and hear it, it always startles me. Especially, some of the more coarse words. It's usually the teenagers.
My parents never used bad language in our presence, BUT one time in High School I decided to give myself a facial. After the pink mask dried my face looked pink and wrinkled. Just about then the phone rang and my mother called out that the phone was for me.
I walked across the living room and my father said, "What in the h.... is the matter with your face?"
:ursofunny
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 04:59 AM
You were too quick! I had caught that error within 30 seconds of posting that post, but you had already copied it!
Why you....so and so!!!!!
I wasn't even laughing about that! :killinme I read it the way you meant to say it. I'll go fix it for you. :friend
chosenbyone
07-18-2008, 05:02 AM
I wasn't even laughing about that! :killinme I read it the way you meant to say it. I'll go fix it for you. :friend
OK, then! :ursofunny :bigbaby
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 05:03 AM
OK, then! :ursofunny :bigbaby
Just didn't want you to pout all day about it. :killinme :bigbaby
tamor
07-18-2008, 07:26 AM
I don't either! I'm hardly ever around anyone that would cuss, so if I'm shopping and hear it, it always startles me. Especially, some of the more coarse words. It's usually the teenagers.
My parents never used bad language in our presence, BUT one time in High School I decided to give myself a facial. After the pink mask dried my face looked pink and wrinkled. Just about then the phone rang and my mother called out that the phone was for me.
I walked across the living room and my father said, "What in the h.... is the matter with your face?"
:ursofunny
:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 08:05 AM
:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny
And the time I was washing dishes while my father was reading the paper at the table. I dropped a dish and let out a very bad expletive. The bad bomb word. I didn't even look at him. I just walked real slow out of the kitchen and waited a little while and then came back and finished washing the dishes. :ursofunny
tamor
07-18-2008, 08:06 AM
And the time I was washing dishes while my father was reading the paper at the table. I dropped a dish and let out a very bad expletive. The bad bomb word. I didn't even looked at him. I just walked real slow out of the kitchen and waited a little while and then came back and finished washing the dishes. :ursofunny
:ursofunny:ursofunny
Pressing-On
07-18-2008, 08:07 AM
:ursofunny:ursofunny
I corrected looked to look. I need to get out of here today. I'm not paying one bit of attention to what I am actually saying or writing. :ursofunny
tamor
07-18-2008, 08:10 AM
Once when my oldest daughter was around 7 or 8 years old, she was pulling a drawer out of her chest of drawers and it accidentally fell completely out onto the floor. She said the D word. She was in her room by herself, but I was walking down the hall about that time, and heard her. I stuck my head in her room and said, "WHAT did you just say?" She repeated it and kept on working whatever she was doing. It was one of those times that you know it's wrong, but it's funny at the same time, but you try not to laugh because you can't encourage it!
We talked about that not too awfully long ago and she said, 'Well, you asked." :ursofunny
Timmy
07-18-2008, 08:14 AM
I crected lookd to look. I neeed to get ot of here toda. I'm not aying one bit of atttenttion to whaat I am actuually saiyng or wriing. :ursofunny
Looks fine to me.
:toofunny
tamor
07-18-2008, 08:17 AM
Looks fine to me.
:toofunny
:ursofunny:ursofunny
HeavenlyOne
07-18-2008, 10:11 AM
I don't think you actually need to use curse words.
When my husband is mad at me, I just look at him and say, "What Rhett said."
:bliss :bliss
ROFL!!! Oh, that's funny!
HeavenlyOne
07-18-2008, 10:12 AM
A friend of mine has the last name of Schmidt.
When her daughter was very young, she'd introduce herself to others, but that's NOT the pronunciation she used for her last name......LOL! The M was missing every time!
Timmy
07-18-2008, 10:17 AM
My son once e-mailed a thank-you note to his grandma, saying "thank you for the money and the shirt". But, well, you guessed it. There was an unfortunate typo. We all got a good laugh, though, even Grandma! :lol
COOPER
07-18-2008, 10:19 AM
Since the very day of 9-11... I have said, "Son of a Ben Laden"
I use phrases like... Fart freckels!
dizzyde
07-18-2008, 11:17 AM
A couple of weeks ago, my 15 year-old tried using "Icor2v4"... Oh I mean the proper name of his avatar....
He thought that because he put "Jack" in front of it that he could say that someome was being one. I quickly reminded him that if he said it again, he would be meeting mr. irish spring!
:ursofunny
dizzyde
07-18-2008, 11:26 AM
Once when my oldest daughter was around 7 or 8 years old, she was pulling a drawer out of her chest of drawers and it accidentally fell completely out onto the floor. She said the D word. She was in her room by herself, but I was walking down the hall about that time, and heard her. I stuck my head in her room and said, "WHAT did you just say?" She repeated it and kept on working whatever she was doing. It was one of those times that you know it's wrong, but it's funny at the same time, but you try not to laugh because you can't encourage it!
We talked about that not too awfully long ago and she said, 'Well, you asked." :ursofunny
:ursofunny :ursofunny
Too funny!!
I think our daughters would get along!!
When my daughter was about 4 she was getting in to my car and walked across the drivers seat to get in. She tracked mud all over the seat, and I said "Lana, what is on your shoes?" She sat down and pulled her foot up to look at it and said "What the he-- is that?" I about died, I had to stand up so my face was outside the car so she couldn't see me cracking up!!
I bent down in to the car again and said, "Baby, we don't say that word!" Don't have a clue where she heard it except maybe from visiting her dad. I like to remind her of it regularly!
MissBrattified
07-18-2008, 11:33 AM
Jeffrey is learning to sound out words phonetically, and was trying to pronounce KFC. Unfortunately, he was also talking very loudly, and the girls were nearly in the FLOOR laughing at him (e.g., MAJOR encouragement). I didn't want to discourage him from his reading efforts, so Jeff and I just smiled calmly at one another, and let it go.
I don't like to eat at KFC anyway. :D
SavedLou
07-18-2008, 12:23 PM
My parents were divorced. On my mom's side growing up we heard EVERYTHING in the book and I do mean everything (they don't belong to any kind of church). But on my dad's side (Baptist) we couldn't say anything. To this day my stepmom will faint if you say butt or cr@p, etc. We couldn't even say "Oh my gosh". I was a messed up kid! :)
My hubby says p****d off which gets on my nerves at times but other than that we don't use real cussing. We will use slang cussing which I know, is basically the same. Every now and then he will let one slip, but nothing REALLy bad. Now sometimes I do love to answer the phone and say to my best friend (for shock value) "What the h*ll do you want?"
chosenbyone
07-18-2008, 12:32 PM
My neighbor has the habit of saying, "J_sus Christ", when she gets excited. I always come back and say to her "Cheesy Fries" trying to teach her to stop using the Lord's name in vain! I'm still working on her! :bubble
dizzyde
07-18-2008, 12:33 PM
Jeffrey is learning to sound out words phonetically, and was trying to pronounce KFC. Unfortunately, he was also talking very loudly, and the girls were nearly in the FLOOR laughing at him (e.g., MAJOR encouragement). I didn't want to discourage him from his reading efforts, so Jeff and I just smiled calmly at one another, and let it go.
I don't like to eat at KFC anyway. :D
My daughter did the exact same thing!!!! How funny! We were driving and she was trying to sound out the business signs along the side of the road!!
That is hysterical! :ursofunny :ursofunny
DividedThigh
07-18-2008, 12:34 PM
nope
DividedThigh
07-18-2008, 12:38 PM
last year my new bride and i were on a trip and i pulled out into traffic she couldnt see and informed me, that i scared the shi- out of her, i said sweetie we dont say that, and then we both busted out laughing, she has been in the church for about 8 or 9 years, but old habits emerge in times of stress, lol
tamor
07-18-2008, 01:00 PM
:ursofunny :ursofunny
Too funny!!
I think our daughters would get along!!
When my daughter was about 4 she was getting in to my car and walked across the drivers seat to get in. She tracked mud all over the seat, and I said "Lana, what is on your shoes?" She sat down and pulled her foot up to look at it and said "What the he-- is that?" I about died, I had to stand up so my face was outside the car so she couldn't see me cracking up!!
I bent down in to the car again and said, "Baby, we don't say that word!" Don't have a clue where she heard it except maybe from visiting her dad. I like to remind her of it regularly!
Love it!!
:ursofunny:ursofunny
DividedThigh
07-18-2008, 01:07 PM
that is very funny dizz, really, the poor baby didnt know, but now she does, lol
Michlow
07-18-2008, 01:40 PM
Well...big surprise, I am most likely going to be the only one who confesses to being an awful potty mouth!
A lot of it is probably my upbringing, my parents were quite vocal with the swear words. So even in my early years I "thought" the words, by my teenage years, I used them among my friends. And I think I was probably 14 before I was "brave" enough to use them to my Dad's face. (I chose the "worst" one for that occasion)
I was much better during my church years. I mean, on the outside anyway. I still thought the words all the time, but didn't say them outloud.
Once I no longer had anything to prove, they started slipping out more frequently, until eventually I was right back where I started. Though, I usually tend to be careful around those I think might be offended. (But I work in construction, so really...there's not too many of those around)
A_PoMo
07-18-2008, 02:54 PM
Well...big surprise, I am most likely going to be the only one who confesses to being an awful potty mouth!
A lot of it is probably my upbringing, my parents were quite vocal with the swear words. So even in my early years I "thought" the words, by my teenage years, I used them among my friends. And I think I was probably 14 before I was "brave" enough to use them to my Dad's face. (I chose the "worst" one for that occasion)
I was much better during my church years. I mean, on the outside anyway. I still thought the words all the time, but didn't say them outloud.
Once I no longer had anything to prove, they started slipping out more frequently, until eventually I was right back where I started. Though, I usually tend to be careful around those I think might be offended. (But I work in construction, so really...there's not too many of those around)
You're not alone Michlow. :friend
Jeffrey is learning to sound out words phonetically, and was trying to pronounce KFC. Unfortunately, he was also talking very loudly, and the girls were nearly in the FLOOR laughing at him (e.g., MAJOR encouragement). I didn't want to discourage him from his reading efforts, so Jeff and I just smiled calmly at one another, and let it go.
I don't like to eat at KFC anyway. :D
Ok.............................it only took me a day and half but..........................................I GET IT!!!!! :killinme :ursofunny
Jermyn Davidson
07-19-2008, 07:08 PM
Welcome to humanity. Did you ever consider how that with a ball peen hammer a person could "change" the eternal destiny of another person's soul?
Pelathais,
I don't know what this means. What's a ball peen hammer? How can a person change the eternal destiny of another person's soul?
Jermyn Davidson
07-19-2008, 07:13 PM
Saved and demented are two totally different issues, yet both can abide in the same person. When your brain isn't working, you aren't in control. Your brain runs the joint. It controls not only bodily functions but moods, emotions, feelings, and behaviors.
Even though we are saved, we continue to sin. Why, if we are saved? Because we still have a human brain that controls our moods, emotions, feelings, and behaviors. As you know, being saved doesn't make us less human.
So, that being the case, we are subject to the brain when it deteriorates. Chemicals that should be there aren't, and those that are there shouldn't be in such great quantities.
There are two male residents where I work right now. Both came in for rehab only. One came in an already deteriorated state. His wife couldn't stand coming to see him because he was mean to her and would talk to her harshly. I took the liberty quite often to tell him to behave himself and not talk to her that way. He'd listen to me, but she'd often leave in tears.
He's been in therapy for about a month now, and not only has he improved physically, but mentally as well. It's been nice watching it unfold day after day.
Today, his wife told me that she is now happy to come and see him. His brain is working better (he'd had a stroke) and he's a funny guy, always joking and also treating people with respect. She said he's like his old self again.
The other man was brought in after falling and being recently diagnosed with Parkinsons. He started failing and was going downhill fast. Even the docs didn't know what was wrong with him, as every test they did wasn't showing anything conclusive, but clearly, something wasn't right.
He would talk about things from the 1960's as if it were today. He was constantly falling because he forgot that he couldn't stand (he was walking when he came in, but deteriorated to that point). He was very moody and unpredictable, even yelling at me once. His wife wanted answers, and we had none to give. This wasn't the man she knew. He eventually was unable to swallow properly and was placed on pureed foods and thickened liquids. His speech wasn't appropriate (How are you feeling today? Answer: Sounds like it's making a run to shoes, doesn't it?).
For some reason (I was gone for a week while they ran further tests), he was placed on Prednisone, which is a steroid, and he has improved so much in two weeks that he's eating regular food, his memory is intact (even had to remind me about a new pill I'd forgotten to give him one morning), and he's walking with therapy.
Now, I shared all that for a reason. I see things like this all the time, so it's simple for me to understand how anyone, saved or not, can behave in a manner so unlike themselves and not be responsible for their actions. Some things are fixable, as I shared in the stories above, but things like Alzheimers are not fixable, and in most cases, the outcome is sad.
Hope this wasn't overwhelming.
Nurse Heavenly,
Your response was clear and easy to read. I understand this a bit better and am reminded that being saved doesn't make us robots.
Jermyn Davidson
07-19-2008, 07:25 PM
Well...big surprise, I am most likely going to be the only one who confesses to being an awful potty mouth!
A lot of it is probably my upbringing, my parents were quite vocal with the swear words. So even in my early years I "thought" the words, by my teenage years, I used them among my friends. And I think I was probably 14 before I was "brave" enough to use them to my Dad's face. (I chose the "worst" one for that occasion)
I was much better during my church years. I mean, on the outside anyway. I still thought the words all the time, but didn't say them outloud.
Once I no longer had anything to prove, they started slipping out more frequently, until eventually I was right back where I started. Though, I usually tend to be careful around those I think might be offended. (But I work in construction, so really...there's not too many of those around)
When I am with my military folks, some of them don't curse and I try to be with them so I am don't hear so much and encourage my already corrupt mind.
One time, when my brothers came up to see my house in Baltimore, I took them out to eat. The meal was horrible the service lousy and we didn't have to pay for anything. I was still angry and on the way out, I walked into a clear glass wall. The "s" word came out. One of my brothers is my Dad's Assistant Pastor-- I was so embarrassed.
ReformedDave
07-19-2008, 07:36 PM
You're not alone Michlow. :friend
Here here.
Jack Shephard
01-08-2009, 02:02 PM
BUMP...
This is for the new crowd
SiblingRevelry
01-08-2009, 02:26 PM
One of our kids had a bit of a problem with certain phonetics. The "s" sound, in particular. Came out like "f". Needless to say, we tried to use the word "lollipop", rather than "sucker", around him! :ursofunny
I heard a story along those lines, where a young boy who loved the Shrek movies saw a Shrek and Donkey cardboard cutout in the mall and started shouting, "Shrek and Donkey! Shrek and Donkey!" Only it didn't come out like that. Replace that "S" with an "F," imagine a three-year-old speaking and you can see what it turned into.
This was the parents' fifth child, they'd seen and heard everything, and instead of skulking off in royal embarrassment, they burst out laughing as they were clamping a hand firmly over the boy's mouth.
Jack Shephard
01-08-2009, 02:29 PM
Our daughter has a rough time saying F-I-N-G-E-R, is comes out "F'er".
Digging4Truth
01-08-2009, 02:53 PM
Be honest do you curse? If so what do you consider cursing? Just 4-letter words or the sissy cursing? I don't expect everyone to answer honestly here. I will though. It is on a very rare occasion but I say curse words. Nothing terrible like f words or GD. I hate those. But I am just being honest. Again it is on a VERY rare occasion that one slips. What about you all?
I excpet Elder Epley to tell us he is a closet curser. LOL
Nope....
Sherri
01-08-2009, 05:14 PM
I guess I've been saved so long that it doesn't even cross my mind to cuss. It's just not in my thought process. That doesn't make me any holier than anyone else; it's just not a temptation for me. I also hate to hear it on TV or in the movies.
LaVonne
01-08-2009, 05:27 PM
I don't cuss at all. It's just not a part of who I am, I chose to quit many years ago and have held to it.
pelathais
01-08-2009, 05:47 PM
Be honest do you curse? If so what do you consider cursing? Just 4-letter words or the sissy cursing? I don't expect everyone to answer honestly here. I will though. It is on a very rare occasion but I say curse words. Nothing terrible like f words or GD. I hate those. But I am just being honest. Again it is on a VERY rare occasion that one slips. What about you all?
I excpet Elder Epley to tell us he is a closet curser. LOL
I was brought up to believe that the "sissy cussin'" was bad. Meanwhile folks - even folks in the pulpit - were free to pronounce curses and swear oaths as long as they avoided the really "bad" four-letter type words.
SiblingRevelry
01-08-2009, 05:48 PM
I drive a different way to work than I do home...because I used to get so annoyed with the drivers that I'd curse a blue streak and be in a foul mood by the time I got to work.
The other way is slightly longer but I'm much happier when I get to work.
Timmy
01-08-2009, 05:52 PM
I was brought up to believe that the "sissy cussin'" was bad. Meanwhile folks - even folks in the pulpit - were free to pronounce curses and swear oaths as long as they avoided the really "bad" four-letter type words.
Ya mean like this guy?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wAQ5ftiEqE&feature=related
Sister Alvear
01-08-2009, 08:40 PM
No, I do not curse...
pelathais
01-08-2009, 09:16 PM
Ya mean like this guy?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wAQ5ftiEqE&feature=related
Yeah. Now that appears to be bona-fide Bible cursing, something which we are told not to do.
BTW - what did he say at the end?
"... against every man (something, something)..." ?
RandyWayne
01-08-2009, 09:25 PM
I curse in binary.................
0011010111110001 100111010100011110 100110101011111000101!!!!!!!!!
PraiseHymn
01-08-2009, 09:51 PM
I dont curse. I stand firm in James Chapter 3.
James 3
1My brethren, be not many masters, knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation.
2For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.
3Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.
4Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth.
5Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth!
6And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
7For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind:
8But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
9Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
10Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
11Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?
12Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.
13Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.
14But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth.
15This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.
16For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.
17But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
18And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
COOPER
01-08-2009, 09:58 PM
One of our kids had a bit of a problem with certain phonetics. The "s" sound, in particular. Came out like "f". Needless to say, we tried to use the word "lollipop", rather than "sucker", around him! :ursofunny
I told my little three year old girl she was a faker after she tricked me.....
....she said, I'm not a f**ker.....:spit .
PraiseHymn
01-08-2009, 10:17 PM
I told my little three year old girl she was a faker after she tricked me.....
....she said, I'm not a f**ker.....:spit .
I'm starting to believe that we need to take the word APOSTOLIC off the name of this forum and just call it FRIENDS FORUM. Wayyyyyyyyyyyyy toooooo carnal. :angelsad
LadyChocolate
01-09-2009, 06:46 AM
Very seldom did I hear curse words growing up (being brought up in a Christian home) .... but around my unsaved relatives, I did hear them.... So I was about 5 or 6 and said the D word.... Oh Boy, that did it! My mother came after me with her switch in her hand..... I looked at my father who was laughing sooo hard... So what did I do? I ran to my father and jumped on his lap.... Mama would spank me then! .... I sat there til I knew it was safe! LOL
No, I don't curse... It was never in my home growing up nor is it now!
Digging4Truth
01-09-2009, 07:07 AM
We were also taught against using "By words"...
Sister Alvear
01-09-2009, 07:13 AM
By and by...ha...
Jack Shephard
01-09-2009, 07:18 AM
I have always heard it was speaking like you were "uneducated." I think that is dumb though. I have met some very, wise and educated folks that curse. Maybe it is not proper to do so, but it is not an "uneducated" way of speaking, IMO. Do I curse..rarely. I never use GD or the F-word either. But again it is very rare if I do.
Timmy
01-09-2009, 07:52 AM
Yeah. Now that appears to be bona-fide Bible cursing, something which we are told not to do.
BTW - what did he say at the end?
"... against every man (something, something)..." ?
"I curse that man who dares to speak a word against this ministry."
He's talking about me (among others), BTW. Guess I'm cursed. Guess that's why I can't see the "truth". :lol
rosebud
01-09-2009, 11:03 AM
Traffic will sometimes drive me to let slip a "bible curse word" :shocked:
something like "you south end of a north bound horse":couch
Oh man.....I should probably not confess this.......oh well, I am doing better:blush
Timmy
01-09-2009, 11:05 AM
Traffic will sometimes drive me to let slip a "bible curse word" :shocked:
something like "you south end of a north bound horse":couch
Oh man.....I should probably not confess this.......oh well, I am doing better:blush
That's better than shooting them! :lol
rosebud
01-09-2009, 11:09 AM
Once my son was with the Sunday School teacher who was also the assistant pastor's wife and they were in a van full of other SS kids and were on a scavenger hunt..... they were trying to beat the other van load to the next destination and an old "gentlemen" was in front of them going really slow....my son let's rip "get out of the way you old f**t"!! And the SS teacher said "oh honey we don't say those things"..... My son responded "My Mom says it all the time"......Bless his little pea pickin' heart!:blush
Disclaimer ***** please note the rude word in question begins with a F but ends with a T. Don't want anyone here thinkin' I use that other F word!!! I despise that word!!!
Michlow
01-09-2009, 02:10 PM
I'm starting to believe that we need to take the word APOSTOLIC off the name of this forum and just call it FRIENDS FORUM. Wayyyyyyyyyyyyy toooooo carnal. :angelsad
Maybe it just needs an asterisk..
Apostolic Friends Forum*
* And the few carnal heathens that we let in the vain hope that someday they might pray through and thus be saved.
Timmy
01-09-2009, 02:35 PM
Maybe it just needs an asterisk..
Apostolic Friends Forum*
* And the few carnal heathens that we let in the vain hope that someday they might pray through and thus be saved.
:woot
I see people in here interchanging "cursing" with "swearing". Big difference.
Cursing is actually pronouncing a curse on someone. "go to......." is a curse. You want them to be dammed forever.
Swearing is using "forbidden" words everything from the "Sissy" words to the the big "F" word.
I don't wish anyone go to Hell, so I won't curse them or wish it on them.
I have been taught by parents, who didn't go to church, by the way, that even the f**t word was swearing and I wasn't allowed to say it.
I was taught that people with a vocabulary didn't need to use "gutter talk" as my mother used to put it.
But I remember one time mumbling "shoot" under my breath and the pastor said, "What did you say?" When I told him, he said "if it sounds that bad either quit saying it or say it out loud so it doesn't sound like what I THOUGHT you said." ROFL
Jake in TX
02-02-2009, 03:00 PM
I knew a two year old girl that when she said "fish", she changed the "sh" to "ch" and you can guess what she changed the "f" to.
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