me...

[Ronzo]

I need prayer.

I'd like to leave it at that for now.

It's serious, but I'm not ready to get into details...

[Felicity]

I need prayer.

I'd like to leave it at that for now.

It's serious, but I'm not ready to get into details... Praying Ron!

[Ron]

I need prayer.

I'd like to leave it at that for now.

It's serious, but I'm not ready to get into details...

Ron, I am praying bro!:tiphat

[Barb]

I need prayer.

I'd like to leave it at that for now.

It's serious, but I'm not ready to get into details...

We don't need details to pray...:praying

[Neck]

I need prayer.

I'd like to leave it at that for now.

It's serious, but I'm not ready to get into details...

You have my prayers

[Falla39]

I need prayer.

I'd like to leave it at that for now.

It's serious, but I'm not ready to get into details...


Bro. Ron,

God knows about your need and cares! May He minister to

your serious need as only HE can...and HE CAN!!!

Blessings,

Falla39

[SDG]

I got you bro ....

[SDG]

Got you bro ...

[sis. jill]

We are praying!

[Tina]

Praying....

[OGIA]

Will pray for your need known by God, Ron!

[Coonskinner]

I will pray, Ron.

If there is anything else I can do for you, PM me and I'll shoot you my number.

[Brother Price]

Ronzo, I have prayed. Contact me if I can help.

[revrandy]

Praying for you... Pm me too if you need anything...

[Sam]

prayed here in SW Ohio.

[rgcraig]

Here for ya Ronzo!

[ILG]

Praying!

[Ferd]

Praying Ron.

I will email you tomorrow. Anything i can do, let me know.

[CC1]

I just got home from the airport a short time ago and just saw this. I am praying also.

[Pressing-On]

Ron, You and Dee are in my prayers! God bless you and keep you through the storm.

[HeavenlyOne]

Praying, Ron. Hope all is well.

[Scott Hutchinson]

RONZO you and DEE DEE are dear to me ,and I love you dearly ,you have my prayers.

[Ravens]

My prayers are with you. . . .

[originalsecretplace]

praying

[Ronzo]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.

[RevDWW]

Ronzo ole buddy, I'm pray'n for yah!

[Scott Hutchinson]

Listen friend this saddens me ,I could cry now ,I'll pray for you ,please hang on God can work this out.
Ronzo I love you dearly.

[Michlow]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.

Ron we love you and are here for you! You are in my prayers.

[Scott Hutchinson]

RONZO ,hang in there. Please hang in there.

[CupCake]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.

Sorry to hear this, we have buded heads in the past, but I'd never wish this on anyone. I really hope you two can work this out. GB~

[Ronzo]

I'm heading to the home of some friends for the weekend as I don't think it's healthy for me to be here in this apartment all alone right now. Not sure if I'll be able to get on line form there or not yet.

Please continue to pray for us. (Thank you for your prayers already)


God's going to get me through this.

[CupCake]

I'm heading to the home of some friends for the weekend as I don't think it's healthy for me to be here in this apartment all alone right now. Not sure if I'll be able to get on line form there or not yet.

Please continue to pray for us. (Thank you for your prayers already)


God's going to get me through this.

Happy to hear you have friends, hope you find peace. Praying.

[Rhoni]

praying...

[Scott Hutchinson]

RONZO God is our refuge in our time of trouble ,cast your cares on him ,for he careth for you.
You have my number I'm here for you if you need me.

[BoredOutOfMyMind]

I'm heading to the home of some friends for the weekend as I don't think it's healthy for me to be here in this apartment all alone right now. Not sure if I'll be able to get on line form there or not yet.

Please continue to pray for us. (Thank you for your prayers already)


God's going to get me through this.

You are in my prayers Bro.

Psalm 46 God is our refuge and STRENGTH

[BoredOutOfMyMind]

RONZO God is our refuge in our time of trouble ,cast your cares on him ,for he careth for you.
You have my number I'm here for you if you need me.

Confirmed in the mouth of two witnesses!


:friend

[Scott Hutchinson]

RONZO has been a friend since our FCF forum days ,I must be there for him.

[BoredOutOfMyMind]

RONZO has been a friend since our FCF forum days ,I must be there for him.

I did not mean to detract from this at all.

He was a great help in the transition here.

I am elated he choose to come over with us.

:friend

[CC1]

Ron,

I am still praying.

[Falla39]

Bro. Ron,

Stay focused on Jesus! He is the Wonderful Counselor, Prince of Peace,

The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father! He can bring renewal, He can

restore, He can reconcile and He can heal, physically, spiritually, mentally,

and emotionally. Trust in Him with all your heart and He will give you

direction. Wait on Him!

Blessings,

Falla39

[HeavenlyOne]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.

Ron, I had a feeling this was what the problem was when I contacted you last night and again this morning. I'm so sorry, my friend. I hope you both can work things out. I love you both and think you are wonderful people.

[Ron]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.

Ron, I am praying for you.

[rgcraig]

Wow Ron my heart sank when I read your post.

I'm praying for the situation and you both!

[sis. jill]

Ron we are holding you and Dee up in prayer. God is able to restore. Hang in there.

[philjones]

Ron,

Just say this my friend! I am praying for you and Dee! God is still God!

[Michael Phelps]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.


Ron, I know we haven't talked much, but I love you like a brother. This breaks my heart. I"m going to pray that God will change this situation............call me if you want to, I'm here for you.......I'll try and call you tomorrow.

[Pressing-On]

Ron,
I'm terribly sorry to hear this news! I will continue to pray for you both.

[MissBrattified]

Oh my....

Praying for you, Ron...AND for Dee.

[jillian]

God can restore.. I believe this with all my heart!!!

I will be praying for you both!

[Apostolic Kitty]

Ron, love you bro. I hate to read you are going through this trial. God is still the faithful healer of broken hearts and broken marriages. You will both be in my thoughts and my prayers.

[Tina]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.

Ron,

Know that we are holding you both up in prayer. God is able to restore.

[Barb]

Praying, Bro. Ron...sincerely praying...

[Scott Hutchinson]

Our friend is hurting ,but God is able to work it out.

[Ronzo]

I made it through the weekend. God has sustained me by the friendship, love, and counsel of some very dear friends of mine that took me in this weekend and sowed life into me.

God ministered to me very strongly this weekend.

I stayed with friends who live on the side of a ridge, and the view from the ridge was magnificent. I could see 20+ miles in nearly every direction... it was such a blatant spiritual metaphor that it really revived my perspective.

In the end, God has lifted me above my current situation and need and has shown me down the road and has spoken into my heart that come what may, he is my deliverer and he is my guide and he is my leader and he is my shepherd and HE will carry me through this.

He is so close to me that as the tears flowed down my cheek... they flowed down his at the same time. He is with me and he will hold my hand through this.

Even if Dee does not come back to me, I will not be alone.

[Ferd]

We are praying Bro. You are in the best place you can be. The hands of God.

[Coonskinner]

Ron, this makes me very sad.

Praying for you.

[rgcraig]

I made it through the weekend. God has sustained me by the friendship, love, and counsel of some very dear friends of mine that took me in this weekend and sowed life into me.

God ministered to me very strongly this weekend.

I stayed with friends who live on the side of a ridge, and the view from the ridge was magnificent. I could see 20+ miles in nearly every direction... it was such a blatant spiritual metaphor that it really revived my perspective.

In the end, God has lifted me above my current situation and need and has shown me down the road and has spoken into my heart that come what may, he is my deliverer and he is my guide and he is my leader and he is my shepherd and HE will carry me through this.
He is so close to me that as the tears flowed down my cheek... they flowed down his at the same time. He is with me and he will hold my hand through this.

Even if Dee does not come back to me, I will not be alone.

You will make it through this!

[CC1]

I made it through the weekend. God has sustained me by the friendship, love, and counsel of some very dear friends of mine that took me in this weekend and sowed life into me.

God ministered to me very strongly this weekend.

I stayed with friends who live on the side of a ridge, and the view from the ridge was magnificent. I could see 20+ miles in nearly every direction... it was such a blatant spiritual metaphor that it really revived my perspective.

In the end, God has lifted me above my current situation and need and has shown me down the road and has spoken into my heart that come what may, he is my deliverer and he is my guide and he is my leader and he is my shepherd and HE will carry me through this.

He is so close to me that as the tears flowed down my cheek... they flowed down his at the same time. He is with me and he will hold my hand through this.

Even if Dee does not come back to me, I will not be alone.

Ron, I have been praying for you all weekend that you would look to the Lord for your strength during this and lean not to your own understanding.

It sounds like you are doing exactly what I have been praying you would. Keep on holding on to the Lord and let him lead you and guide you through this. At times that is going to be easier said than done but keep doing it.

The enemy of our souls would use things like this to destroy us and we must not allow that to happen.

God Bless

[Ronzo]

Please continue to pray for my wife as you pray for me.

I would like to thank you all again for your continued prayers.

Adversity makes us stronger and causes solid growth.

[Pressing-On]

Please continue to pray for my wife as you pray for me.

I would like to thank you all again for your continued prayers.

Adversity makes us stronger and causes solid growth.

Ron,
You can count on me to continue in prayer.

[Ronzo]

Ron,
You can count on me to continue in prayer.
Thank you.

I already know what I have to do through this, but it will take his strength to do it.

[RevDWW]

Ron,
Good to hear you're encouraged.

All things work together for good, to them that love the Lord and are called according to His purpose.

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.

Love Yah and I'm still pray'n!

[Pressing-On]

Thank you.

I already know what I have to do through this, but it will take his strength to do it.

I know Ron and I am sorry for it all.

I wrote more and then deleted, because I don't know the whole issue and so I hesitate to say anything except that I will continue to lift you both up for strength and direction.

[Ronzo]

Feel free to pm me, sis

[Pressing-On]

Feel free to pm me, sis

O.K. I will. :tiphat

[CupCake]

Ron, this makes me very sad.

Praying for you.

Agree~ Very sad. Praying for you both Ron and Dee. I'll send you a short poem I wrote many years ago when we to cross this valley your in now. Take care know God is their~

[COOPER]

Pray'n too man,
............................... just found out today.

[Ron]

Please continue to pray for my wife as you pray for me.

I would like to thank you all again for your continued prayers.

Adversity makes us stronger and causes solid growth.

You can count on it.
I am glad you were with friends and that your spirit is encouraged!:tiphat

[HeavenlyOne]

I love you and Dee both. God is in control.

[Scott Hutchinson]

My friend and My brother things will work out ,God will take care of you ,and I am here for you ,call me if you need to talk.

[rgcraig]

Today's verse is good for you!

Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying.

Romans 12:12

[CC1]

Ron,

Still thinking about you and praying for you.

[Ronzo]

Thank you bro.

I have my moments of strength and my moments of weakness, but overall, I'm doing much better than I expected.

Spending last weekend with truly ministering friends was just what I needed... Still riding that wave as much as possible.

God's good. ALL the time.

[HeavenlyOne]

Thank you bro.

I have my moments of strength and my moments of weakness, but overall, I'm doing much better than I expected.

Spending last weekend with truly ministering friends was just what I needed... Still riding that wave as much as possible.

God's good. ALL the time.

I admire your tenacity, Ron. Still praying for you and Dee.

[Ronzo]

I admire your tenacity, Ron. Still praying for you and Dee.


There is no other choice here. Laying down and dying is not an option. Being destroyed is not an option.

I'm in survival mode... and my surviving is based solely on God's ability to bring me through.

[sis. jill]

Ron,

The Lord gave me a scripture yesterday to use in my own life. I never looked at it in this way before but it was powerful.

I John 4:18

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear:because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.

When our love for God becomes perfect. Fear has to flee. If we lose everything around us, God's love WILL sustain us and our love for HIM.

God will keep you and encourage you everyday. I believe that no matter what the outcome you will come out of this more victorious and stronger than ever before.

We are still praying for you and Dee. God is with you, He has not left you.

[Ronzo]

God is with you, He has not left you.
My tears roll down his cheek. He is that close.


His talit covers me and at times, my head is on his chest.

[HeavenlyOne]

There is no other choice here. Laying down and dying is not an option. Being destroyed is not an option.

I'm in survival mode... and my surviving is based solely on God's ability to bring me through.

Ron, I am a person who deals with certain issues in a different way....that is, I tend to give up and die more than fight for survival. Thus the reason for my admiration. I wish I had it.

[Ronzo]

Ron,

The Lord gave me a scripture yesterday to use in my own life. I never looked at it in this way before but it was powerful.

I John 4:18

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear:because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.

When our love for God becomes perfect. Fear has to flee. If we lose everything around us, God's love WILL sustain us and our love for HIM.

God will keep you and encourage you everyday. I believe that no matter what the outcome you will come out of this more victorious and stronger than ever before.

We are still praying for you and Dee. God is with you, He has not left you.
Thank you for the encouragement, by the way. I forgot to thank you earlier. Sorry.

[Scott Hutchinson]

RONZO you'll make it ,because The Holy Ghost is our comforter.

[Falla39]

Thank you bro.

I have my moments of strength and my moments of weakness, but overall, I'm doing much better than I expected.

Spending last weekend with truly ministering friends was just what I needed... Still riding that wave as much as possible.

God's good. ALL the time.


Bro. Ronzo,

Continuing to pray for you! GOD WILL see you both through if you

will look to Him! Picture a triangle with God at the top! You on one side

of the bottom and Dee on the opposite side. As you both go upward

toward God, you automatically become closer as you come near Him.

The enemy will never tell you to use that example! Never!

Picture a row of three, God, man and woman. We think of God, man

standing next to God and then the woman next to man. I do not believe

that is the best!! It should man (GOD) woman. GOD smack dab in the

middle of the marriage!! I've proved it and it works!! If I had known what

I know now, we would have had less difficulties in our earlier years of

marriage. I do not have to go through my husband or any other person

to get to God! We must let NOTHING BETWEEN our soul and our SAVIOR.

I feel the Holy Ghost recently spoke to me and said that ANYTHING or

ANYBODY that comes BETWEEN God and me, has the potential to become

a stumbling block! If I fall I want to fall into HIS ARMS!!! Face to face in

all HIS GLORY!!!! I can see HIM, FACE to FACE..!! Is HE a PERSONAL SAVIOR

or other!

I realize this could be taken wrongly! But, friend, if HE's not first,

where is HE!! I am not talking about authority to the laws of the land, etc.

Children must obey parents. Parents must teach respect for elders. We all

must be accountable to those whose authority we are under! Children,

employers, etc. Governments, unless it is in conflict with God's laws.

Others perhaps!

I love my husband of almost 48 yrs. He's my sweetheart but he's not

MY GOD!!!! AND he has no problem with that! If he asks me not to put

anything on the credit card for any reason, I will not do it!! If he asks me

to do something within reason that I can do for him, I will try to do it for

him. We are companions! We help each other! It's not this, I'm the BOSS

and you are the servant! No! That is not right! We all could probably be more

considerate of each other, whether we be husband and wife, brother or

sister, child and parent, etc. We are to be kind to one another, tender-

hearted, forgiving one another, even as GOD has forgiven us!!! Let us

therefore do good to all men, especially the household of GOD! WE are

all accountable to GOD, our Creator. He holds our breath in His Hands.

Godly fear is wisdom, knowledge and understanding! The fear of man

bringeth a snare (trap). May these words minister to someone today,

in Jesus Name!!

Blessings,

Falla39

[Michlow]

Ron, I am a person who deals with certain issues in a different way....that is, I tend to give up and die more than fight for survival. Thus the reason for my admiration. I wish I had it.

Um...H/O? You're the nurse honey...take your pulse. Oh, you have one? Then you haven't laid down and died yet!

You are doing fine girl, as long as you keep trying!

Ron, Bro., you continue to be in my prayers. :friend

[Ronzo]

Falla... I appreciate your attempt at encouragement... however, your words are not really ministering to me at this time. I'm sorry, but I'm almost at the point of taking offense at them.

Blame it on my situation... but they are not encouraging to me. They come off as finger pointing.

I'm already focussed on God to take me through. I'm not the one who left.

[MrsMcD]

There is no other choice here. Laying down and dying is not an option. Being destroyed is not an option.

I'm in survival mode... and my surviving is based solely on God's ability to bring me through.

I love your attitude Ron. I continue to pray for you and your situation.

[Falla39]

Falla... I appreciate your attempt at encouragement... however, your words are not really ministering to me at this time. I'm sorry, but I'm almost at the point of taking offense at them.

Blame it on my situation... but they are not encouraging to me. They come off as finger pointing.

I'm already focussed on God to take me through. I'm not the one who left.


Dear Brother Ronzo,

Forgive me if you were offended by my words. I will assure you they

were not intended to finger point at ANYONE!! But if you cannot receive

it, please forgive me, but they were for someone! Everyone cannot bear

some words but there will be someone who can and will!!

Really, I was not thinking about who left who but some very important

words, we will all need someday.

Continuing to pray for you and Dee, dear brother!!

Blessings,

Falla39

[CupCake]

Falla... I appreciate your attempt at encouragement... however, your words are not really ministering to me at this time. I'm sorry, but I'm almost at the point of taking offense at them.

Blame it on my situation... but they are not encouraging to me. They come off as finger pointing.

I'm already focussed on God to take me through. I'm not the one who left.

Ron keeping you in prayer here, no it's not easy. ~

[Pressing-On]

Falla... I appreciate your attempt at encouragement... however, your words are not really ministering to me at this time. I'm sorry, but I'm almost at the point of taking offense at them.

Blame it on my situation... but they are not encouraging to me. They come off as finger pointing.

I'm already focussed on God to take me through. I'm not the one who left.

Ron,
I don't believe Sister Falla was trying to hurt you in any way. It's not always good just to pat someone on the back and say, "Everything is going to be all right."

Like you said to me, "It takes two."

It certainly does. I can attest to that.

I've been through it myself and my mother didn't take up for me.

When my daughter and her husband were having problems she wanted to come and stay with us a few days.

I told her, "No, you aren't going to do that. You can be mad at him at your house as well as here. I didn't cut and run every time I was mad at your father."

Did she get upset at me? Sure, but they worked it out. I wasn't going to pat her on the back and say, "You're great. It's his fault. I'm so sorry you are hurting."

That wouldn't have helped her at all.

[ILG]

Ok....

Here's the deal...





Dee left me. I make her miserable.

Yet in the dear john letter she left on the counter, I was "the sweetest guy and a great husband"

The latest e-mail I got from her said she was miserable with me.

Hey, Ron, I just tuned into this thread and haven't read the whole thing. I'm very sorry. My prayers are with the both of you. Maybe you can still work it out in time....??? I will be praying that God give you wisdom in this time.

[Ronzo]

Thanks sis.

[Falla39]

Bro. Ronzo,

What I had to say wasn't really about who left first or who

was right. Or who was or was not following God or putting God first.

Evidently what I posted had nothing to do with you whatsoever!

Blessings,

Falla39

[Ronzo]

As of tonight, Dee says that she is going to get the process started for divorce.

As much as it KILLS me to even type that... there is a sense of "at least I'm not wondering anymore". Call me calloused... call me whatever... but at least I'm not wondering... I know where this is going, and that makes it a little easier to digest... although not by much...

Thank you for your prayers.

I'm sorry to burden you all with this.

[SDG]

As of tonight, Dee says that she is going to get the process started for divorce.

As much as it KILLS me to even type that... there is a sense of "at least I'm not wondering anymore". Call me calloused... call me whatever... but at least I'm not wondering... I know where this is going, and that makes it a little easier to digest... although not by much...

Thank you for your prayers.

I'm sorry to burden you all with this.

God can still turn things around .... :thad

Just wait on Him.

[CC1]

As of tonight, Dee says that she is going to get the process started for divorce.

As much as it KILLS me to even type that... there is a sense of "at least I'm not wondering anymore". Call me calloused... call me whatever... but at least I'm not wondering... I know where this is going, and that makes it a little easier to digest... although not by much...

Thank you for your prayers.

I'm sorry to burden you all with this.

Ron, you are in my thoughts and prayers every day.

[HeavenlyOne]

As of tonight, Dee says that she is going to get the process started for divorce.

As much as it KILLS me to even type that... there is a sense of "at least I'm not wondering anymore". Call me calloused... call me whatever... but at least I'm not wondering... I know where this is going, and that makes it a little easier to digest... although not by much...

Thank you for your prayers.

I'm sorry to burden you all with this.

I'm so sorry, Ron. I continue to pray for you both.

[rgcraig]

As of tonight, Dee says that she is going to get the process started for divorce.

As much as it KILLS me to even type that... there is a sense of "at least I'm not wondering anymore". Call me calloused... call me whatever... but at least I'm not wondering... I know where this is going, and that makes it a little easier to digest... although not by much...

Thank you for your prayers.

I'm sorry to burden you all with this.

First, let me say that you are not burdening us with this - we are your brothers and sisters in the Lord and here to share this burden with you.

Second, I will continue to pray for the situation - that is something that we can do.

[RevDWW]

Still praying for you buddy and for Dee!

Folks, I don't think God will change Dee's mind, she has to do that for herself, but we can focus some prayer against any undue influence in her life. Let's pray that the Lord surrounds her with protection so she can make unclouded desisions.

[becky123abc]

I'm really sorry to hear you are going through such a painful time. I don't know what else to say...but I wanted to let you know you will be in my prayers.

[MrsMcD]

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. I'm praying for God's strength to cover you. You are wrapped in the arms of a loving God.

[rgcraig]

Still praying for you buddy and for Dee!

Folks, I don't think God will change Dee's mind, she has to do that for herself, but we can focus some prayer against any undue influence in her life. Let's pray that the Lord surrounds her with protection so she can make unclouded desisions.

Great advice!

[CupCake]

As of tonight, Dee says that she is going to get the process started for divorce.

As much as it KILLS me to even type that... there is a sense of "at least I'm not wondering anymore". Call me calloused... call me whatever... but at least I'm not wondering... I know where this is going, and that makes it a little easier to digest... although not by much...

Thank you for your prayers.

I'm sorry to burden you all with this.

It makes you human~ Your in prayer~ Never was it a burden~

[Trouvere]

I am praying for you Brother Ron.Sorry to hear this.I remember when you
posted pictures on GNC and were so excited about the wedding.Jesus
knows how you feel.People divorce him all the time.Take this to Jesus.
He will help you.He knows you better than anyone else.

[Ronzo]

Not having a good day today...

I miss my wife terribly.

This is so hard.

[myhaloisintheshop]

My heart aches for you brother. Praying for you and Dee.

[CupCake]

Not having a good day today...

I miss my wife terribly.

This is so hard.

Still keeping you both in prayer~ Yes it is hard, wish I could make it go away, really~

[Barb]

Not having a good day today...

I miss my wife terribly.

This is so hard.

Ron, I've been thinking about your post since I first read it. I can't say that I can relate because I have not been where you are...so to say that I understand how you feel would be meaningless.

And even if I were wise enough to have all the answers, advice and unending platitudes are not what you need at this juncture.

What you need is what we are giving...our deep concern, 24/7 presence (there is always somebody online here), and sincere prayers.

We are here, Ron...not to preach or tell you this or that, but we're here because we care. :kittyhug

The days are not easy right now, but prayerfully the thought that unseen faces and hearts DO care and are calling your name before the Lord will bring comfort.:)

[Apostolic Kitty]

First, let me say that you are not burdening us with this - we are your brothers and sisters in the Lord and here to share this burden with you.

Second, I will continue to pray for the situation - that is something that we can do.

My sentiments exactly.

Ron, when you suffer we all do....same with Dee, though she does not see she's been blinded. Our prayer is that the Lord continue to minister to you both where you stand.

God not only can, but HE WILL!

[Barb]

My sentiments exactly.

Ron, when you suffer we all do....same with Dee, though she does not see she's been blinded. Our prayer is that the Lord continue to minister to you both where you stand.

God not only can, but HE WILL!

Amen...

[philjones]

Not having a good day today...

I miss my wife terribly.

This is so hard.

Continuing to pray for you my friend!

[CC1]

Not having a good day today...

I miss my wife terribly.

This is so hard.

I know I am responding three days later (been reading you on the main forum about your weekend) but I am still praying for you.

I know this has to be the most stressful time of your life. To love someone and think they are going to be by your side forever is not something you can just let go of suddenly.

If you need to talk anytime call me.

[maddy]

I am so sorry to hear this. It can be the most frustrating thing to go through. God is always by your side. Praying for you.

[Sarah]

Just know that many people are lifting you up in prayer, Bro Ron. You might not can feel the result right now, but you will. You can, and will be, an overcomer!

[Ronzo]

Today's a little easier trip for me on the emotional roller coaster called 'recovery'.

I'm holding up better today than yesterday...
"One day at a time, sweet Jesus. That's all I'm asking from you." It's more like one moment at a time, but...

Anyway...

Thank you all for praying for us. This is a rough time, but God is faithful and He's with me in this. He'll bring me through.

[RevDWW]

Today's a little easier trip for me on the emotional roller coaster called 'recovery'.

I'm holding up better today than yesterday...
"One day at a time, sweet Jesus. That's all I'm asking from you." It's more like one moment at a time, but...

Anyway...

Thank you all for praying for us. This is a rough time, but God is faithful and He's with me in this. He'll bring me through.

Still pray'n for yus guys!

[Ronzo]

Talked to her today.

As soon as she's got the money, she relayed she'll be filing the paperwork and sending it to me to be signed and notarized.

Sixty one days later, it'll be 'as if it never happened'... yeah... right...

[seguidordejesus]

Talked to her today.

As soon as she's got the money, she relayed she'll be filing the paperwork and sending it to me to be signed and notarized.

Sixty one days later, it'll be 'as if it never happened'... yeah... right...

Wow, she's quick.

[Ron]

Talked to her today.

As soon as she's got the money, she relayed she'll be filing the paperwork and sending it to me to be signed and notarized.

Sixty one days later, it'll be 'as if it never happened'... yeah... right...

Ron, I am contiuing to pray for you all.
I am so sorry to see you both go through this storm.
I only know that I can talk to the master of the wind who is able to calm his child, and to calm the storm!

Remembering you in prayer.:praying

[CupCake]

Keeping you and Dee in prayer~

[Ronzo]

*deleted by Ronzo*

I'll just leave it as there were unexpected financial issues due to this situation that have come to light and ask for more prayer... rather than air more dirty laundry.



I'm so mad right now I could spit.

[Scott Hutchinson]

Friend hang in there ,I'm here for ya.There's a brighter day coming.

[Trouvere]

Brother Ron,
You are hurting.God sees that hurt.Give this to Jesus.Don't let it change you into someone you would not like.Hang onto your integrity.Job did.Its your Job trial.We all get one.I am praying for you.

[Ronzo]

I'm doing my best.

I actually posted what the issue was, but thought better of it... that's got to count for something I guess.

Seriously, this is really hurting me... and not just emotionally or mentally... it's now hurting financially as well.


I really need God's help here...

[trent4]

I'm praying for you.

I have a very close friend that is going through a divorce...it has got to be one of the hardest things in life that people go thourgh.

But God knows right where you are and He is able to change hearts.

Hang in there!
trent4

[Ronzo]

I have a very close friend that is going through a divorce...it has got to be one of the hardest things in life that people go thourgh.
This is by far the hardest thing I've ever gone through, yes.

[Trouvere]

This is so fast for something so important as a marriage vow.What does the pastor say?

[Ronzo]

This is so fast for something so important as a marriage vow.What does the pastor say?
I'm not sure what a pastor has to say about it has anything to do with the situation, friend.

[Trouvere]

I'm not sure what a pastor has to say about it has anything to do with the situation, friend.

Did you not go for counsel and prayer?

[Ronzo]

Did you not go for counsel and prayer?
She doesn't want counselling. She wants OUT.

What am I supposed to do? Hog tie her and drag her to counselling?

[Trouvere]

She doesn't want counselling. She wants OUT.

What am I supposed to do? Hog tie her and drag her to counselling?

I did not have her in mind.I thought maybe you had gone and ask your pastor to pray for you and speak to you concerning what you are going through.He may have a word from the Lord for you that would encourage you.

[Ronzo]

I did not have her in mind.I thought maybe you had gone and ask your pastor to pray for you and speak to you concerning what you are going through.He may have a word from the Lord for you that would encourage you.
I've already been counselling with my spiritual mentors and close friends. They're praying for me and keeping me on track emotionally... as much as possible, I guess.

I've gotten my word from the Lord... out of his Book.

"I am with you always, even to the end of the world"

"I will never leave you nor forsake you"

"I am the Lord that heals you"

"I will give you beauty for ashes and the oil of joy for mourning"

[Trouvere]

I've already been counselling with my spiritual mentors and close friends. They're praying for me and keeping me on track emotionally... as much as possible, I guess.

I've gotten my word from the Lord... out of his Book.

"I am with you always, even to the end of the world"

"I will never leave you nor forsake you"

"I am the Lord that heals you"

"I will give you beauty for ashes and the oil of joy for mourning"


Brother I don't mean to offend you but when I am going through a major trial
I go and sit with my pastor who is my spiritual mentor.He then prays for me
and listens and gives me words of counsel.I never feel condemned even when I am wrong.I do however feel better because its kept private and the whole church and my friends are not involved.Honestly I have some friends who love me so much that they would side with me even when I am wrong.I want truth even if truth hurts.I don't know your particular situation but I am praying for you.I remember the beautiful pictures you posted on the net and how happy you were when you married your sweetheart.I am sorry you are going through this.

[CupCake]

I'm doing my best.

I actually posted what the issue was, but thought better of it... that's got to count for something I guess.

Seriously, this is really hurting me... and not just emotionally or mentally... it's now hurting financially as well.


I really need God's help here...

If I could you any advice Ronzo it be this, keep prviate matter to yourself, I understand the need to and want to share these things with others while we are hurting. If things do change between you and your wife sometimes they do, some may hold these things against her, yes even the godly ones, best to share these deeper hurts and anger with family or a very good friend who know you guys and you trust. Take care keeping you both in prayer.

[rgcraig]

I've already been counselling with my spiritual mentors and close friends. They're praying for me and keeping me on track emotionally... as much as possible, I guess.

I've gotten my word from the Lord... out of his Book.

"I am with you always, even to the end of the world"

"I will never leave you nor forsake you"

"I am the Lord that heals you"

"I will give you beauty for ashes and the oil of joy for mourning"

Ron, this is beautiful!

I am living proof that you can make it and with those promises from God you will make it and be whole again.

It doesn't take a thing away from what you are going through now, but just knowing that at some point it will be behind you and each one of those awesome scriptures are your rocks right now!

[Trouvere]

If I could you any advice Ronzo it be this, keep prviate matter to yourself, I understand the need to and want to share these things with others while we are hurting. If things do change between you and your wife sometimes they do, some may hold these things against her, yes even the godly ones, best to share these deeper hurts and anger with family or a very good friend who know you guys and you trust. Take care keeping you both in prayer.

That is true.When my marriage partner was backslidden my best friend held things against him that I have since forgiven.It took her though alot longer to do so and I am think it still taints her view of him.It was not any deep horrible things that he did but he treated me in way she deemed hurtful and I learned not to share anything with her nor answer questions that would cause her to
dislike him.I think it caused her to not trust him even to this day and he is a wonderful christian man who fasts and prays and loves God.

[Trouvere]

Ron, this is beautiful!

I am living proof that you can make it and with those promises from God you will make it and be whole again.

It doesn't take a thing away from what you are going through now, but just knowing that at some point it will be behind you and each one of those awesome scriptures are your rocks right now!

You are a good girl Renda.It may be though that things change for Brother Ron and he does not end up divorced.I have seen it happen.God can get ahold of her heart and things can mend.

[Ronzo]

Brother I don't mean to offend you but when I am going through a major trial
I go and sit with my pastor who is my spiritual mentor.He then prays for me and listens and gives me words of counsel.

I never feel condemned even when I am wrong.I do however feel better because its kept private and the whole church and my friends are not involved.Honestly I have some friends who love me so much that they would side with me even when I am wrong.I want truth even if truth hurts.

Rather than respond any further to comments like this, I'll just walk away for now until I am able to respond without being emotional and saying something I may regret since I am not able to respond effectively.

[Ronzo]

If I could you any advice Ronzo it be this, keep prviate matter to yourself, I understand the need to and want to share these things with others while we are hurting. If things do change between you and your wife sometimes they do, some may hold these things against her, yes even the godly ones, best to share these deeper hurts and anger with family or a very good friend who know you guys and you trust. Take care keeping you both in prayer.
That's why I removed the original comments...

[Trouvere]

Rather than respond any further to comments like this, I'll just walk away for now until I am able to respond without being emotional and saying something I may regret.

Brother Ron I don't know your situation.You highlighted certain things.I was only speaking from my own perpective.Don't be offended.I am not saying you are the wrong one.This is just a sensitive subject for you.

[Ronzo]

This is just a sensitive subject for you.
Very.


Sorry... I don't mean to get emotional or to speak harshly to anyone.

I appreciate the prayers and the words of encouragement.

[rgcraig]

You are a good girl Renda.It may be though that things change for Brother Ron and he does not end up divorced.I have seen it happen.God can get ahold of her heart and things can mend.

Didn't say it couldn't. Just said that what he is going through will be behind him.

[Coonskinner]

If I could you any advice Ronzo it be this, keep prviate matter to yourself, I understand the need to and want to share these things with others while we are hurting. If things do change between you and your wife sometimes they do, some may hold these things against her, yes even the godly ones, best to share these deeper hurts and anger with family or a very good friend who know you guys and you trust. Take care keeping you both in prayer.

I don't do this very often, but I want to give CupCake a thumbs up on this post.

I have prayed and will continue to pray for you, Brother Ron.

But you are wise to keep the grittier details in a more private setting.

[Ronzo]

But you are wise to keep the grittier details in a more private setting.
I have not gotten into the grittier details, brother.

[Coonskinner]

I have not gotten into the grittier details, brother.


I know.

I was commending you for that, saying you are wise not to.

[Ronzo]

I know.

I was commending you for that, saying you are wise not to.
Thanks for praying bro.

Means a lot to me.

[Coonskinner]

Thanks for praying bro.

Means a lot to me.

I remember talking to you on the phone a few times back in the day.:)

Things will get better, Ron.

It's a long road that never makes a turn, and time is a healer.

Those are all cliches, but they became cliches because there is much truth in them.

[CupCake]

I don't do this very often, but I want to give CupCake a thumbs up on this post.

I have prayed and will continue to pray for you, Brother Ron.

But you are wise to keep the grittier details in a more private setting.

Coon thanks for your kindness, really ~

[CupCake]

That's why I removed the original comments...

:thumbsup

[Rhoni]

I've already been counselling with my spiritual mentors and close friends. They're praying for me and keeping me on track emotionally... as much as possible, I guess.

I've gotten my word from the Lord... out of his Book.

"I am with you always, even to the end of the world"

"I will never leave you nor forsake you"

"I am the Lord that heals you"

"I will give you beauty for ashes and the oil of joy for mourning"

Brother I don't mean to offend you but when I am going through a major trial
I go and sit with my pastor who is my spiritual mentor.He then prays for me
and listens and gives me words of counsel.I never feel condemned even when I am wrong.I do however feel better because its kept private and the whole church and my friends are not involved.Honestly I have some friends who love me so much that they would side with me even when I am wrong.I want truth even if truth hurts.I don't know your particular situation but I am praying for you.I remember the beautiful pictures you posted on the net and how happy you were when you married your sweetheart.I am sorry you are going through this.

Bro. Ron,

Sis. Trouvere has given some very sound advice. Like me, she has also went through similar things. I thank God every day for a Pastor, Bro. Richard Martin, who counseled me through the roughest time going through my divorce. He provided wisdom and insight counseling...wisdom straight from God.

I know you have many friends, and friends are wonderful to have in times like these, but don't neglect to counsel with your Pastor, your spiritual leader, the man God has placed over you for such times as this.

Relying on one's self for encouragement, going to the word for encouragement & Direction, and going to friends for love and affirmation is wonderful...but nothing can replace the office of Pastor that Christ has put over you for your well-being.

You may be surprised...the Pastor may just have the word you need to overcome!

Blessings, Sis. Rhonda

[Ronzo]

I have already counselled with my pastor.

We're working through it together.

I've already got the Word I need to Overcome. Got it a number of weeks ago. It's the day to day operations and living that I have to work through to get there that is the obstacle.

[Rhoni]

I have already counselled with my pastor.

We're working through it together.

:thumbsup

A visiting evangelist preached an awesome sermon last night. He talked about Job and how that God allowed the devil only so much latitude but there was certain things the devil would not let him do with or to Job.

God knows how strong you are. He made you tuff! This will not destroy you but it will make you stronger. When God has us on the Potter's wheel...he pushes, pulls, flattens, and reworks the clay. The process hurts and it seems like it will never end...but rest assured...

He who hath begun a good work in you will complete it..regardless of circumstances and what others do or don't do to help us along. God doesn't promise all good things will happen to us as we journey...but he did promise to make all the things that the devil meant to destroy or make us give up...to turn to our good. You know this. Trust Him.

Prayers, Sis. Rhonda

[Ronzo]

Trust Him.I do and I'm learning how to trust Him even more each day that goes by.

[BoredOutOfMyMind]

I have already counselled with my pastor.

We're working through it together.

I've already got the Word I need to Overcome. Got it a number of weeks ago. It's the day to day operations and living that I have to work through to get there that is the obstacle.

Ronzo, are there children involved?

[seguidordejesus]

Take it easy on Ronzo, guys.

http://frontier.cincinnati.com/blogs/borgman/uploaded_images/borgman%20fri%207.28.06%20copy-714965.gif

[Ronzo]

Ronzo, are there children involved?
Not unless you count the cats as kids... and we do... but no real kids, no, thank God.

I get to keep the cats which for now is fine with me. I need the company, and they're good company.


No house. No other joint assets except the car, which she's letting me keep and not forcing me to sell.

She wants a clean break. Start over with her own life and wants nothing from me at all. An uncontested, 'non-messy' divorce.

[Ronzo]

Take it easy on Ronzo, guys.

You got my back bro. Tanx.

[Scott Hutchinson]

Ronzo the details are not important to me ,you are my friend and your wounds are my concerns.

[philjones]

Continuing to pray for you, my brother!

Although it has been over 20 years ago, I went through a very very similar trial. It ain't easy by no means but God is, as you have indicated, your refuge and your hope!

[seguidordejesus]

The thought of going through this makes my blood run cold. I saw my parents do it, but now that I'm married, I don't know what I'd do. Praying for you, Ronzo.

[Ronzo]

The thought of going through this makes my blood run cold.
Mine too.


But ya know what?

God's faithful and even if I have to go it all alone from here out, He's with me.

[Felicity]

**The Lord He is good and His mercy endureth forever!!**

[Ronzo]

**The Lord He is good and His mercy endureth forever!!**

Amen sister.

[mizpeh]

Ronzo,

I know how sad and hurt you must feel. I've been in your shoes and the ending wasn't what I'd prayed for.

I don't know what to say to ease your pain because only God and time will take care of that.

I'm praying for you.

[SDG]

Ronzo,

I know how sad and hurt you must feel. I've been in your shoes and the ending wasn't what I'd prayed for.

I don't know what to say to ease your pain because only God and time will take care of that.

I'm praying for you.

Likewise, Ronnie ....

Still pulling/praying for ya bro.

[Ferd]

spent some time praying for you last night.

[rgcraig]

spent some time praying for you last night.

Post like this just give me a big ole lump in my throat!

I love feeling of "family" we have here!!!

[StillStanding]

Ronzo, I just read this thread after being away for a few days. My prayers are with you buddy! I've been in your shoes, so I know your world is turned upside down right now.

Remember..It's not how many times you fall that matters, it's how many times you pick yourself back up!

[Ronzo]

Thanks for the encouragement bro.

[Tina]

Post like this just give me a big ole lump in my throat!

I love feeling of "family" we have here!!!

Me too. It never fails that when one of us needs prayer, the rest are here to send up prayers and give support.

That's how it should be.

[Ferd]

Took some time to hunt this one down.

Ron, you arent done healing. I am not done praying.

you have been on my heart today. Just want you to know, that prayer continues to be made.

Love you buddy.

[Ronzo]

Thank you.

Love you too bro.

Appreciate your prayers and thoughts.

[rgcraig]

Took some time to hunt this one down.

Ron, you arent done healing. I am not done praying.

you have been on my heart today. Just want you to know, that prayer continues to be made.

Love you buddy.

This made me cry. How beautiful is it to have friends with you on their minds and hearts......God is good.