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Honk-a-Mon
06-17-2007, 08:46 AM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

NLYP
06-17-2007, 10:16 AM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

I aint touching this! llolololololololollolo
As I sit back and wait.........

Rev Dooley
06-17-2007, 12:30 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now peopleExcuse me, but I fail to see your point.
What is wrong with a daddy being a daddy in this respect?
If he loves his daughter, why not fix her hair?
Is it wrong for mommy to throw a ball with little Johnny too? Maybe she is not allowed to wrestle (gasp) with him either?!?

From your post, it sounds like you are either grasping at another strawman like some on here, or maybe there really is a point to it.

NI

deacon blues
06-17-2007, 12:54 PM
I fix my daughters hair occasionally---when there is no other choice. My wife may be working. The only "do" I can do is the standard pony tail. I've gotten quite good at it.

H2H
06-17-2007, 01:07 PM
I fix hair for the girls on occaision... it is a nightmare!!!!

Nahum
06-17-2007, 01:11 PM
How odd it is to see such perverted thinking by our posters. As if a father helping his daughter is somehow sinful or strange?

I'll tell you what is not right.

Folks looking for sensuality in every familial relationship.

Disgusting.

Margies3
06-17-2007, 01:14 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

So do you think male hairdressers are wrong?

What about barbers???

H2H
06-17-2007, 01:16 PM
How odd it is to see such perverted thinking by our posters. As if a father helping his daughter is somehow sinful or strange?

I'll tell you what is not right.

Folks looking for sensuality in every familial relationship.

Disgusting.

Indeed! PP I am with you on this.

philjones
06-17-2007, 01:48 PM
First, I don't believe there was any hint or indication of an improper relationship, parental or sexual, in the original post by the honkmiester! I DO believe their was an indication of effeminacy on the part of the pastor. I also don't believe the hairdo being fixed was the traditional pony tail. This is a TEEN not a little girl. She is capable of fixing her own pony tails.

I tend to agree that this is VERY feminine behavior for a man. That said, if there was no one else that could do my daughter's hair, I would try to learn, or get someone to teach her.

H2H
06-17-2007, 02:03 PM
First, I don't believe there was any hint or indication of an improper relationship, parental or sexual, in the original post by the honkmiester! I DO believe their was an indication of effeminacy on the part of the pastor. I also don't believe the hairdo being fixed was the traditional pony tail. This is a TEEN not a little girl. She is capable of fixing her own pony tails.

I tend to agree that this is VERY feminine behavior for a man. That said, if there was no one else that could do my daughter's hair, I would try to learn, or get someone to teach her.

I guess I can see the point. I would compare it to a woman cutting the grass. My wife has never done it. If she did, however, I would not automatically assume she was wanting to be masculine.

Ronzo
06-17-2007, 02:13 PM
How odd it is to see such perverted thinking by our posters. As if a father helping his daughter is somehow sinful or strange?

I'll tell you what is not right.

Folks looking for sensuality in every familial relationship.

Disgusting.
Seriously...

SDG
06-17-2007, 02:17 PM
I don't think we can interpret the first post to be sexually improper in connotation ... perhaps the Thad-like poster was suggesting that the father is so LEGALISTIC that he feels he must have a hand in brushing this young lady's hair ...

My biggest problem here is that this dad has a responsibility to help his teenage daughter to become more independent ... as parents we all must shoulder the responsibility of teaching our kids not to always depend on us.

JamDat
06-17-2007, 02:18 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

Can you tell us what you think just ain't right about it?

Rhoni
06-17-2007, 02:47 PM
Excuse me, but I fail to see your point.
What is wrong with a daddy being a daddy in this respect?
If he loves his daughter, why not fix her hair?
Is it wrong for mommy to throw a ball with little Johnny too? Maybe she is not allowed to wrestle (gasp) with him either?!?

From your post, it sounds like you are either grasping at another strawman like some on here, or maybe there really is a point to it.

NI

NI,

There is nothing wrong with a father fixing his daughter's hair...I prefer male stylists anyway...I thing we are too culturized to think it effeminant for men to fix women's hair.

BTW I played baseball and football with the guys and took shop in High School...and I'm a girlie girl!

Blessings, Rhoni

BoredOutOfMyMind
06-17-2007, 04:19 PM
Can you tell us what you think just ain't right about it?

See post #6. Odd indeed for a grown man to not allow his teenagers to fix their own hair. One thing to help a six yr old. Mine from 12 onward wanted to do it herself and did well with it.

ILG
06-17-2007, 04:31 PM
Well.....depends on the situation. Is there more to this than what is written? Or does the Dad just help with the hair?

BoredOutOfMyMind
06-17-2007, 04:36 PM
Well.....depends on the situation. Is there more to this than what is written? Or does the Dad just help with the hair?

Dad does not help- Dad does all the hair.

ILG
06-17-2007, 04:41 PM
Dad does not help- Dad does all the hair.

In a control-freaky sort of way? No one is allowed to do their own hair? Dad must do it? If so, that's sick.

Sheltiedad
06-17-2007, 04:42 PM
If another man enjoys fixing his daughter's hair, I don't see how that is any of my business... it's not something I would enjoy, but I see no reason to speculate about his motives...

MissBrattified
06-17-2007, 04:53 PM
My Daddy was a MANLY man...and occasionally he would use his big, beefy hands to braid my hair. I loved the attention. When it came to his daughters, he was pretty much a big softie. I remember when I was a little girl, I would go to sleep with him stroking my forehead and singing to me...later, as a teenager it was less often, but every now and then, especially when I was upset about something, he would kneel down beside my bed and sing to me and brush the hair out of my eyes until I fell asleep. Those are some of my sweetest memories--and there was nothing feminine about his actions.

Unless there's more to this story, like some sort of controlling behavior or being OCD about how fashionable the hair looks, I don't see anything particularly feminine or inappropriate about a man fixing his daughter's hair. Nor do I see the need to nitpick at another family's dynamic. :coffee2

UltimateUltraConservative
06-17-2007, 05:01 PM
lol I'm just gonna throw this out there, but what happens when those girls go to youth camp? or...*gasp* CAMP MEETING! lol

I wonder if he gives girls hairstyle tips.

On a more serious note...this may be a situation where the mother does not know how to do hair, dad just did it, and has stuck with it...but in this case, he really ought to have those girls do their own hair. I'm hoping if those girls get married that they don't call dad over to do their hair once their out of the house.

MissBrattified
06-17-2007, 05:05 PM
lol I'm just gonna throw this out there, but what happens when those girls go to youth camp? or...*gasp* CAMP MEETING! lol

I wonder if he gives girls hairstyle tips.

On a more serious note...this may be a situation where the mother does not know how to do hair, dad just did it, and has stuck with it...but in this case, he really ought to have those girls do their own hair. I'm hoping if those girls get married that they don't call dad over to do their hair once their out of the house.

I'm seriously doubting that the girls don't know how to do their hair...and good point, btw...not all Mom's are naturally good hairdressers.

I have a friend whose husband does all (or most of) the cooking and cleaning...in addition to his regular job. He is a neater freak than she is, and wants to do it himself, and she likes the arrangement (who wouldn't?), so who cares?

The Dean
06-17-2007, 09:16 PM
I don't know about some arguments here. If it's a child I can see it but why a teenage daughter's hair?

How old is the teenager? It just kind of gives you the creeps if she is old enough to do it and he insists on it.

RevDWW
06-17-2007, 09:23 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

Got wind hey? How far did the wind blow before it got to you? Is it first hand, second hand, third hand, or.........? Do you know this for true and certain?

If you have a problem with it, why not go ask this Pastor why he does it?

MissBrattified
06-17-2007, 09:24 PM
I don't know about some arguments here. If it's a child I can see it but why a teenage daughter's hair?

How old is the teenager? It just kind of gives you the creeps if she is old enough to do it and he insists on it.

We don't know that, though...

There's just too little information to form any good opinion.

Old Paths
06-17-2007, 09:31 PM
Got wind hey? How far did the wind blow before it got to you? Is it first hand, second hand, third hand, or.........? Do you know this for true and certain?

If you have a problem with it, why not go ask this Pastor why he does it?





Puleeeeze.

What kind of answer is this?

Next thing and you will be quoting...


Matt 5:23-24

23 Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee;

24 Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.



:D

RevDWW
06-17-2007, 09:36 PM
All too often we want to try others in the court of public opinion before we know the true situation or if there is even an offense.

Old Paths
06-17-2007, 09:38 PM
All too often we want to try others in the court of public opinion before we know the true situation or if there is even an offense.



Oh there's got to be an "offense", just look at the title of the thread.


This Just Aint Right!! <<L@@K>>


:search

Trouvere
06-17-2007, 10:11 PM
Was he a stylist before salvation? I wonder.My husband occasionally helps my daughter with her hair but the whole time all I hear is.....I am not mama quit complaining.All she gets is a pony though.She is ten.The teen would never
let either of us do her hair.

HeavenlyOne
06-17-2007, 10:19 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

And just exactly what's wrong with that?

There was a UPC pastor years ago that used to come to my house and fix my mother's hair once in a while.

I thought it was cool, and he did a great job. She loved it!

Sure looked better than the plain bun she fixed for herself!

HeavenlyOne
06-17-2007, 10:20 PM
How odd it is to see such perverted thinking by our posters. As if a father helping his daughter is somehow sinful or strange?

I'll tell you what is not right.

Folks looking for sensuality in every familial relationship.

Disgusting.

Hit the nail right on the head!

HeavenlyOne
06-17-2007, 10:23 PM
See post #6. Odd indeed for a grown man to not allow his teenagers to fix their own hair. One thing to help a six yr old. Mine from 12 onward wanted to do it herself and did well with it.

My daughter is almost 14 and still needs help with her hair, as it's quite long and very thick.

I think she's turning conservative though. I asked her if she wanted to get a trim tomorrow and she said no.....this from a girl who had her hair cut to her shoulders two years ago cause she was sick of her hair.

Trouvere
06-17-2007, 10:26 PM
Heavenly One was that pastor a hair stylist? I have never had one volunteer to do my hair.My husband would not like it if I had a man over doing my hair.

HeavenlyOne
06-17-2007, 10:28 PM
Heavenly One was that pastor a hair stylist? I have never had one volunteer to do my hair.My husband would not like it if I had a man over doing my hair.

No, but he was known for fixing older women's hair in his church. Some rumored that he was feminine and such, but if you knew him (and I'm sure many on this forum do, as he's well known around the nation), you'd understand. He's radical!

Trouvere
06-17-2007, 10:31 PM
Who taught him to do hair? My mom was a stylist back when you called it beautician.

JamDat
06-18-2007, 05:28 AM
I don't know about some arguments here. If it's a child I can see it but why a teenage daughter's hair?

How old is the teenager? It just kind of gives you the creeps if she is old enough to do it and he insists on it.

I once heard a preacher say something that stuck with me "Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see."

I would go by this especially if I only caught wind of it.

ILG
06-18-2007, 08:33 AM
Puleeeeze.

What kind of answer is this?

Next thing and you will be quoting...


Matt 5:23-24

23 Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee;

24 Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.



:D

If this pastor is some sort of pervert, I wouldn't recommend getting his opinion. We don't have enough information to figure this one out.

revrandy
06-18-2007, 08:38 AM
Never had a daughter but would probaly help her if I had one...

Got two mean ol' boys tho!!


:D

Kutless
06-18-2007, 09:20 AM
I do my daughters hair from time to time....when mom can't.

The do is called "The Peeled Onion" All you need is spit and hairspray.

RevDWW
06-18-2007, 11:10 AM
If this pastor is some sort of pervert, I wouldn't recommend getting his opinion. We don't have enough information to figure this one out.

Huh? Please explain.........:confused::)

CC1
06-18-2007, 11:16 AM
First, I don't believe there was any hint or indication of an improper relationship, parental or sexual, in the original post by the honkmiester! I DO believe their was an indication of effeminacy on the part of the pastor. I also don't believe the hairdo being fixed was the traditional pony tail. This is a TEEN not a little girl. She is capable of fixing her own pony tails.

I tend to agree that this is VERY feminine behavior for a man. That said, if there was no one else that could do my daughter's hair, I would try to learn, or get someone to teach her.

philjones,

I agree 100% with you. It is one thing for a dad to help fix a little girls hair but quite another for a teenager. If a teenage girl can't fix her own hair then I just don't know what to think.

It definitely is outside the normal gender activities for a man to be fixing women's hair. That is not to say they are homosexual but it is abnormal, out of the norm.

ILG
06-18-2007, 12:05 PM
Huh? Please explain.........:confused::)

It has been implied that he is a pervert. I don't know because I don't have all the facts. However, if someone felt there was just something strange going on there and saw other "red flags", I don't think asking him why he wants to do the girls hair is going to get any kind of straight answer.

The Mrs
06-18-2007, 12:12 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

I'm going to agree with Danny (http://www.apostolicfriendsforum.com/showpost.php?p=159160&postcount=12)...it sounds like the sensationalism would be the control factor this pastor carries over his daughters. Does he fix their hair for church so they don't wear a style that is too worldly or too sensual? :dunno

That's MY guess... :girlpopcorn

Old Paths
06-18-2007, 01:17 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

If this pastor is some sort of pervert, I wouldn't recommend getting his opinion. We don't have enough information to figure this one out.


Since you don't think the pastor would be a reliable source and this came in on "the wind" who would you advise asking.


j/w

stmatthew
06-18-2007, 01:27 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people


I want to know if you verified this wives-tale?? We want proof and pictures, and a written confession from the hair dresser!!


And are you related to Thad?? :lol

revrandy
06-18-2007, 01:29 PM
I will justify my post earlier...

If I had a Teenage Daughter... I would NOT do her hair... she should be able to do her own hair...

If I had a little girl that needed some help and if my wife was too busy I in my limited compacity would help her...

although when I was done... she would probaly still look like she needed to have her hair done..:D

ILG
06-18-2007, 02:28 PM
Since you don't think the pastor would be a reliable source and this came in on "the wind" who would you advise asking.


j/w

I would advise keeping an eye out and keeping your mouth shut for the most part. :search (Unless a reason to speak up becomes obvious.)

Hegavmelif
06-18-2007, 02:59 PM
How odd it is to see such perverted thinking by our posters. As if a father helping his daughter is somehow sinful or strange?

I'll tell you what is not right.

Folks looking for sensuality in every familial relationship.

Disgusting.

AMEN!!!

God said in the last days He would turn the hearts of the fathers to their children.

My wife works a full-time job. I help cook, with the dishes, and occasionally had to fix my daughters hair when she was younger. Our roles have been too defined far too long. Considering the world that we live in and how hard all family members have to work just to make ends meet, provide for and prepare for our children's college, and give of our time and and finances to the work of God - who are you or anyone else to criticize someone else in this manner.

The Mrs
06-18-2007, 03:32 PM
I don't think there's neccesarily anything 'wrong' with a daddy helping out his daughter and helping her fix her hair. Especially if it's a young girl or even a younger teen who may be unsure of how to fix it herself. As some of our fathers have stated, they have helped out a time or two. That's awesome! I applaud these daddys! I think that's perfectly normal. Nothing sissy, or perverted in the least about it!

BUT....

If there is more to this story, then it may go beyond normal and natural.

That would be a concern to any of us. If this is an older teen, fully capable of fixing her own hair, then what would be the reasons behind it? It doesn't seem to me that would be 'normal' or 'natural'. I would think there would need to be a really good reason for a father to continue to fix a daughters hair at that age. Maybe she can't do it herself for physical reasons. :dunno

I think this is why some have speculated what those reasons MAY be and that's where the words 'perversion', and 'control' have come into play. Without knowing more of this story, we will come to conclusions as to WHY this man is still fixing his daughter's hair, and it may not be true. :girlpopcorn

ForeverBlessed
06-18-2007, 03:35 PM
I know a guy that fixes his wife's hair for church... she can't do it, but he has the knack... he is good at it.... I have seen him even fix other women's hair. (before special choir functions)

He is creative/artist and also is great at home/interior decor... I have an awesome wreath in my living room made by him.

He is good dad to several boys and is very maternal... I suppose some people would say that he is "soft" not that he looks it really.. just not into a lot of typical sterotype man things... and is very creative with things which is more stereotyped for women.

If I had to guess, I would say he probably struggles with those feminine traits...but I know him enough to know that he is a Christian and devotes his time to the church... and can you guess.... he is an awesome musician... *sigh*

I don’t know if it is fair to say that men who excel at more feminine activities are gay anymore than we should say women are gay who are into sports, can’t cook, hunt, fish and do things that are typical male types of things.

Rev Dooley
06-18-2007, 03:38 PM
Well, HONK, you sure split things right down the middle with this thread.

I agree with PP though that it sure seems like someone is just trying to throw stones here. Also, DWW asks a valid question: how did this info come to be known to you? Again, is it firsthand, second- or just plain heresay? This little tidbit could certainly illuminate things for the rest of us who seem to not be nearly as enlightened about the said situation.

Trouvere
06-18-2007, 03:59 PM
I suppose the way you were raised has alot to do with things as well.
I can do alot of things that are not stereo typical women things.My dad taught me
since he needed help with the twelve horses we had and I was it.Also I was the first girl in high school to take Agriculture.Why because I wanted to be male? No I just wanted to be able to work in the Ag hothouse and plant my own tomatoes.lol.
I did learn how to repair small engines and weld easy repairs which was never a biggie to me as dad made horse trailers as a sideline thing and we repaired our own.Still though I took a Cordon Blue Cooking course and guitar and piano lessons
plus was head cheer leader, ran the 880 in track,sewed some of my clothes
and was the secretary of our riding club.I can just do alot of things.I am not limited at doing what I put my mind to.
I had a best friend in high school who did womens hair.He was not a practicing
homosexual at the time but did come out later.Doing womens hair is not something men usually do.Its something women do.Most male hairdressers and i don't mean all barbers are gay.Sorry to burst the bubble.Its time for some gaydar if
its causing problems.My friends nephew was married with children and did his wifes hair pluse interior design and even sewed some of her clothes.He left her
because he decided he liked men.
I am not saying this pastor is gay but I would wonder if he does more than pony tails.
Just for the record someone being married and having children does not mean they
could not be closet homosexual.

Honk-a-Mon
06-18-2007, 08:13 PM
you people amaze me - the first post said it was a TEENage daughter - not some little 11 year old who needs help every now and then - i in no way stated that there was wrong actions on anyones part - i have heard this second wind from about 6-8 people - what is really funny - if i had put a name on it - all you who need to go and put on more hairspray over this little thread would be the ones shredding this poor guy - you amaze me

Praxeas
06-18-2007, 08:14 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people
do they do each other's nails too? :killinme

RevDWW
06-18-2007, 08:16 PM
you people amaze me - the first post said it was a TEENage daughter - not some little 11 year old who needs help every now and then - i in no way stated that there was wrong actions on anyones part - i have heard this second wind from about 6-8 people - what is really funny - if i had put a name on it - all you who need to go and put on more hairspray over this little thread would be the ones shredding this poor guy - you amaze me

I suppose you amaze me as much as I amaze you so we're even......:killinme:killinme:killinme

Rev Dooley
06-18-2007, 08:18 PM
you people amaze me - the first post said it was a TEENage daughter - not some little 11 year old who needs help every now and then - i in no way stated that there was wrong actions on anyones part - i have heard this second wind from about 6-8 people - what is really funny - if i had put a name on it - all you who need to go and put on more hairspray over this little thread would be the ones shredding this poor guy - you amaze meHonk, it would appear from this post and your original one that your intention was merely to stir strife. It comes across that you actually wanted to see people here "shred" this guy.
Maybe that is not what you intended, but it definitely comes across that way, at least to me.

The Mrs
06-18-2007, 08:24 PM
Honk, it would appear from this post and your original one that your intention was merely to stir strife. It comes across that you actually wanted to see people here "shred" this guy.
Maybe that is not what you intended, but it definitely comes across that way, at least to me.

I agree! For crying out loud!

'This just ain't right!'

What is up with that??? :dunno

HeavenlyOne
06-18-2007, 09:12 PM
I'm going to agree with Danny (http://www.apostolicfriendsforum.com/showpost.php?p=159160&postcount=12)...it sounds like the sensationalism would be the control factor this pastor carries over his daughters. Does he fix their hair for church so they don't wear a style that is too worldly or too sensual? :dunno

That's MY guess... :girlpopcorn

My concern with the first post was the words 'I got wind of....'

Hearing something third, fourth, or seventeenth-hand isn't good for honest discussion, is it?

The Closer
06-18-2007, 09:13 PM
I suppose you amaze me as much as I amaze you so we're even......:killinme:killinme:killinme
I am amazed.

HeavenlyOne
06-18-2007, 09:14 PM
I know a guy that fixes his wife's hair for church... she can't do it, but he has the knack... he is good at it.... I have seen him even fix other women's hair. (before special choir functions)

He is creative/artist and also is great at home/interior decor... I have an awesome wreath in my living room made by him.

He is good dad to several boys and is very maternal... I suppose some people would say that he is "soft" not that he looks it really.. just not into a lot of typical sterotype man things... and is very creative with things which is more stereotyped for women.

If I had to guess, I would say he probably struggles with those feminine traits...but I know him enough to know that he is a Christian and devotes his time to the church... and can you guess.... he is an awesome musician... *sigh*

I don’t know if it is fair to say that men who excel at more feminine activities are gay anymore than we should say women are gay who are into sports, can’t cook, hunt, fish and do things that are typical male types of things.

LadyRev is one of those women, except she cooks, although not often. She'd rather be out fishing or hunting (when it's season) than doing anything else. She'd also rather be with the boys, teaching them to do things than with girls...it's just how she is.

The Closer
06-18-2007, 09:15 PM
LadyRev is one of those women, except she cooks, although not often. She'd rather be out fishing or hunting (when it's season) than doing anything else. She'd also rather be with the boys, teaching them to do things than with girls...it's just how she is.cool

philjones
06-19-2007, 06:12 AM
Honk, it would appear from this post and your original one that your intention was merely to stir strife. It comes across that you actually wanted to see people here "shred" this guy.
Maybe that is not what you intended, but it definitely comes across that way, at least to me.

Actually, it would seem HonkinMonkey wanted people to shred the activity not the man because i do not recall a name being mentioned!?! Duh?!:haloplug:lol

Old Paths
06-19-2007, 08:09 AM
you people amaze me - the first post said it was a TEENage daughter - not some little 11 year old who needs help every now and then - i in no way stated that there was wrong actions on anyones part - i have heard this second wind from about 6-8 people - what is really funny - if i had put a name on it - all you who need to go and put on more hairspray over this little thread would be the ones shredding this poor guy - you amaze me




Uhhhhh??

"No way stated".....

MAYBE it was the thread title?

Remember typing this?

This Just Aint Right!! <<L@@K>>

Sheltiedad
06-19-2007, 08:11 AM
Why are we as Christians so obsessed with what everyone else is doing? If someone else is cutting their hair, if someone else is wearing make-up, if someone else enjoys something that other people do not think they should...

If people would just get television in their lives they wouldn't be so bored and have to gossip about each other. :D

MissBrattified
06-19-2007, 09:53 AM
you people amaze me - the first post said it was a TEENage daughter - not some little 11 year old who needs help every now and then - i in no way stated that there was wrong actions on anyones part - i have heard this second wind from about 6-8 people - what is really funny - if i had put a name on it - all you who need to go and put on more hairspray over this little thread would be the ones shredding this poor guy - you amaze me

Trying to crawfish, now, are ya? Well, I for one, ain't havin' it. YOU said "This just aint right". Let me translate that for you: "This is WRONG."

So. Come up with more facts to convince us that there really is some mischief afoot, or be a man and admit you were exaggerating the facts to begin with so you could post a sensational headline. :coffee2

Second wind from 6-8 people? That's pretty unreliable.

HeavenlyOne
06-19-2007, 12:06 PM
Why are we as Christians so obsessed with what everyone else is doing? If someone else is cutting their hair, if someone else is wearing make-up, if someone else enjoys something that other people do not think they should...

If people would just get television in their lives they wouldn't be so bored and have to gossip about each other. :D

ROFL!

I'm voting for this to be the post of the day!

Also, I have a new sig line! Thanks!

HeavenlyOne
06-19-2007, 12:08 PM
Trying to crawfish, now, are ya? Well, I for one, ain't havin' it. YOU said "This just aint right". Let me translate that for you: "This is WRONG."

So. Come up with more facts to convince us that there really is some mischief afoot, or be a man and admit you were exaggerating the facts to begin with so you could post a sensational headline. :coffee2

Second wind from 6-8 people? That's pretty unreliable.

I have a feeling that the wind he got didn't necessarily come from the horses mouth, if you know what I mean. ;)

Chewy
06-19-2007, 01:30 PM
Why are we as Christians so obsessed with what everyone else is doing? If someone else is cutting their hair, if someone else is wearing make-up, if someone else enjoys something that other people do not think they should...

If people would just get television in their lives they wouldn't be so bored and have to gossip about each other. :D

:lol:killinme:lol:killinme:lol:killinme

I second the motion!

BoredOutOfMyMind
06-19-2007, 01:34 PM
Trying to crawfish, now, are ya? Well, I for one, ain't havin' it. YOU said "This just aint right". Let me translate that for you: "This is WRONG."

So. Come up with more facts to convince us that there really is some mischief afoot, or be a man and admit you were exaggerating the facts to begin with so you could post a sensational headline. :coffee2

Second wind from 6-8 people? That's pretty unreliable.

Not when those 6-8 could be preachers at a campmeeting......

:hmmm

Evang.Benincasa
06-19-2007, 01:36 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

Does the man allow Trinitarians to preach from his pulpit?

The Mrs
06-19-2007, 02:43 PM
Well Hunkamunka....looks like you've got some 'splainin' to do!!!

Better get right to it!

You pot-stirrer, you! :girlpopcorn

NLYP
06-19-2007, 03:34 PM
Does the man allow Trinitarians to preach from his pulpit?

What in the world difference does that make??

Honk-a-Mon
06-20-2007, 02:52 PM
Uhhhhh??

"No way stated".....

MAYBE it was the thread title?

Remember typing this?

This Just Aint Right!! <<L@@K>>

yep i typed it - but if you will go and look there were those who were trying to turn this into a "gay" thing - so to clear things up - my "in no way stated" was in reference to where others were trying to take this thread - now OP let me ask you - do you think it is totally normal for a grown man to WANT to be the one fixing his daughters hair? - do you accept this as NORMAL?

I have a feeling that the wind he got didn't necessarily come from the horses mouth, if you know what I mean. ;)

wrong again - i got it pretty straight -
Trying to crawfish, now, are ya? Well, I for one, ain't havin' it. YOU said "This just aint right". Let me translate that for you: "This is WRONG."

So. Come up with more facts to convince us that there really is some mischief afoot, or be a man and admit you were exaggerating the facts to begin with so you could post a sensational headline. :coffee2

Second wind from 6-8 people? That's pretty unreliable.

not if you knew that 6-8 - and nope i aint trying to crawfish - and yep i thinkg that there is a little something wrong when a grown man wants to be the one always fixing his daughters hair - i am not talking about putting the flower in her hair for a wekking or something special - i am talking about all the time - something just dont set right on that with me

Honk-a-Mon
06-20-2007, 02:54 PM
Does the man allow Trinitarians to preach from his pulpit?

dumb question of the day alert!!!!!!!!!! - do you plan on fixing your daughters hair when she is a teen? - just thought i would answer a dumb question with a dumb question

The Mrs
06-20-2007, 03:01 PM
...and yep i thinkg that there is a little something wrong when a grown man wants to be the one always fixing his daughters hair - i am not talking about putting the flower in her hair for a wekking or something special - i am talking about all the time - something just dont set right on that with me

What exactly is it that you think could be the problem here Honk?

Why would it bother you?

What is it that just doesn't seem to 'set right' with you?

Got any opinions you'd like to share? :girlpopcorn

Old Paths
06-20-2007, 03:21 PM
yep i typed it - but if you will go and look there were those who were trying to turn this into a "gay" thing - so to clear things up - my "in no way stated" was in reference to where others were trying to take this thread - now OP let me ask you - do you think it is totally normal for a grown man to WANT to be the one fixing his daughters hair? - do you accept this as NORMAL?



My problem is not the fixing of the hair (that little tid bit has not even been documented), but the way you got the info ("I got wind") and then to post it as fact without substantiating it or going to the person in question goes against everything we are taught about receiving an accusation.

And now you are posting that the person in question "WANTS" to fix his daughter's hair.

How would you know this?

Honk-a-Mon
06-20-2007, 03:23 PM
My problem is not the fixing of the hair (that little tid bit has not even been documented), but the way you got the info ("I got wind") and then to post it as fact without substantiating it or going to the person in question goes against everything we are taught about receiving an accusation.

And now you are posting that the person in question "WANTS" to fix his daughter's hair.

How would you know this?nice dodge

Honk-a-Mon
06-20-2007, 03:24 PM
What exactly is it that you think could be the problem here Honk?

Why would it bother you?

What is it that just doesn't seem to 'set right' with you?

Got any opinions you'd like to share? :girlpopcornif why it would bother me needs to be explained - then you would not get it anyway

Old Paths
06-20-2007, 03:27 PM
nice dodge



No I'm not dodging, just adding a little Biblical principle to the thread.



But it looks like YOU probably majored in dodge ball.

The Mrs
06-20-2007, 03:36 PM
if why it would bother me needs to be explained - then you would not get it anyway

CHICKEN!

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We all offered OUR opinions...why not let us hear YOURS?

CupCake
06-20-2007, 06:04 PM
i got wind of a pastor who fixes his teen age daughters hair for her for church - i am not talking about a six year old when mom is gone - i am talking about a teenager - hear tell he makes sure it is fixed right - something just aint right on this now people

Honk-a-Mon~ Agree this is not right, nor is this father, lol. Sure nothing sexual maybe going on, but there an issues of control .

Yes my husband has fixed our daughter hair when they were little girls, but as teenagers most young ladies by this time are trying to find their own independent, likes and dislikes, and hair is a big issues with them. Second my daughters have asked their dad to brush their hair, to help get knots out or just because it feel good to have someone brush your hair, yes their dad has done it, yes he has help when asked, that is the difference . But never has he insisted they fixed it one way or another, so it look right to him. Like I said, at this age young ladies want their father approval, does this look good or should I wear my hair up or down. :poloroid

NLYP
06-27-2007, 09:39 AM
BUMP.....for someone special