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Jermyn Davidson 04-28-2017 05:12 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
People who sin do so because they are slaves to sin.

Even if a person commits no sin, without Christ, they are still sinners, filthy, unrighteous, and condemned.

So the argument that is being set up here is of little consequence. "Force" of sin vs. "law" of sin-- the results are the same. Sinner is still BOUND in sin and unsaved.

In a sense, TRUE REPENTANCE cannot happen without a person taking full responsibility for their own sins.

There is humility in taking full responsibility for your own sins. Their is humility in admitting to God that you cannot help yourself and that without Him, you will keep living in sin.

So for the homosexual who is convinced that they were born a homosexual, they have the Biblical example and confession of the "man who was after God's heart"-- "I was born in sin, shaped in iniquity."

In other words, whether by "force" or by "law" or by "nature", none of these points of view prohibit true repentance.

Esaias 04-28-2017 06:07 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
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Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 1480156)
People who sin do so because they are slaves to sin.

Even if a person commits no sin, without Christ, they are still sinners, filthy, unrighteous, and condemned.

JD, I would ask you to sit down with your bible, and demonstrate these assertions from Scripture please.

In regards to the first, that people sin BECAUSE they are "slaves to sin", will you believe the apostle Paul, who said these words?

Romans 6:16-19 KJV Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness? (17) But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you. (18) Being then made free from sin, ye became the servants of righteousness. (19) I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of your flesh: for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness.

Does this not tell you that those who are slaves of sin are slaves BECAUSE THEY YIELDED THEMSELVES TO BE THE SLAVES OF SIN? That you become the servant of whomever you YIELD yourself to obey?

As to the second, this idea that a person who committed NO SIN WHATSOEVER, at ANY TIME, is still a "sinner, filthy, unrighteous, and condemned", wherever do you get that idea from IN THE BIBLE?

Adam was a filthy, condemned sinner the very moment God made him? Before he ever sinned?

I think you have a very distorted view of God and his opinion of man. Sin is odious to God, and He is angry with the wicked every day. Sin is the blot or stain on man's soul and record.

How can a person be guilty who hasn't done ANYTHING WRONG?

Aquila 04-28-2017 06:34 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1480083)
How can you be to blame? Please explain "blame" in the context of involuntary actions.

If your child was at the dinner table and threw up all over the place, would he be to blame? If he stuck his finger down his throat to regurgitate on purpose? What about if he had stomach virus? Or just too much gas? Or a medical condition?

Where does blame actually come into the picture?

Perhaps the word "blame" isn't a good word to use here. Maybe the word "responsible" would be better. For example, when I was in the military I was in positions of leadership wherein I wasn't always to "blame" for anything that went wrong, but I was "responsible" for anything that went wrong. While one might argue that I'm not to blame for my fallen nature, Adam is, I am "responsible" for it.

Aquila 04-28-2017 06:35 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 1480156)
People who sin do so because they are slaves to sin.

Even if a person commits no sin, without Christ, they are still sinners, filthy, unrighteous, and condemned.

So the argument that is being set up here is of little consequence. "Force" of sin vs. "law" of sin-- the results are the same. Sinner is still BOUND in sin and unsaved.

In a sense, TRUE REPENTANCE cannot happen without a person taking full responsibility for their own sins.

There is humility in taking full responsibility for your own sins. Their is humility in admitting to God that you cannot help yourself and that without Him, you will keep living in sin.

So for the homosexual who is convinced that they were born a homosexual, they have the Biblical example and confession of the "man who was after God's heart"-- "I was born in sin, shaped in iniquity."

In other words, whether by "force" or by "law" or by "nature", none of these points of view prohibit true repentance.

:thumbsup

Aquila 04-28-2017 06:37 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
I had posted this in another thread, and so I thought I might share it here. This sort of sums up what I believe about the sinful nature of man:

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Originally Posted by Aquila (Post 1479986)
Here' are some Bible verses that describe our sinful nature:
Galatians 5:24
Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
Notice, this verse clearly implies that our "flesh" has sinful passions and desires that must be crucified through an act of our will to impose this crucifixion.
Galatians 5:19-21
Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
You'll notice that these actions are described as "deeds of the flesh". That means that they are innate tendencies of the flesh. The verse goes on to state that those who give into these tendencies and practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Ephesians 2:3
Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest.
Here we are told that we previously lived in the "lusts of our flesh" (or "desires of our flesh"), indulging in the desires of our "flesh" and of our unregenerate minds, and were therefore BY NATURE children of wrath.
Romans 13:14
But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh in regard to its lusts.
He are admonished to identify ourselves with Jesus Christ, choosing to live incarnationally as our Lord, and make no allowance for our flesh in regards to its desires. Yes, the flesh has innate desires all of its own.
Galatians 5:17
For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please.
Here we read of some ontological aspects of our humanity. We read how the flesh has desires that are contrary to the indwelling Spirit, and how the indwelling Spirit has desires that are against the flesh. Each having a contrary nature with contrary innate desires. It is because of this battle between two natures within us that we continue to struggle with being sinless.
Romans 8:5-9
For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God. However, you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you But if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him.
Here is more human ontology. Here we read about how the mind that is set on the flesh (a mind set on pleasing the flesh and it's desires) is hostile towards God, and doesn't subject itself to God's will. In fact, it can't please God as long as it is determined to please the desires of the flesh. However, we are not in the flesh but in the Spirit. It is through the promptings of the Spirit that we deny the flesh and renew our minds through the study, meditation, and contemplation of the Word. This arms us in overcoming the flesh and it's desires when they arise.
Romans 7:5
For while we were in the flesh, the sinful passions, which were aroused by the Law, were at work in the members of our body to bear fruit for death.
This explains how the Law actually activates, or arouses, the desires and passions of the flesh. The moment the Law stipulates that we "shalt not" do something, there is the innate tendency in our flesh to fixate on what we can't do and desire it.

I illustrated this back when I taught Sunday school. I had my wife bake a plate of home made chocolate-chip and sugar cookies. Oh, they smelled so good and were so nice and warm. I put the plat on the table right in front of a group of 6 and 7 year olds. I had them look at it and smell it. Then I said, "But you can't have any. At least, not right now. We're going to go down to the Sunday school office and get some supplies. We'll be gone for about 10 minutes. No matter what, I don't want any of you to even touch these cookies." They answered, "Okay, Bro. Chris." We stepped outside the door and gave it a few seconds. We then peeked through the little window of the door and watched the kids. They were up and smelling the cookies. One kid even touched one with a finger. A little girl picked one up and began acting like she was going to eat it. Another child broke off a little piece of another cookie and ate it. Then the little girl who had a cookie in hand took a bite, and broke off pieces for other kids who were requesting a bite. A boy picked up another cookie and began breaking it up for himself and the other kids. They totally caved in and ate two cookies! Then they began to get concerned. You could see that they were scared and discussing what to do. We had to duck and cover because one child came to the door to see if we were in sight. After they closed the door, we returned to the little window. They were in the middle of re-arranging the cookies, trying to make it look like none were missing! LOL

Now, that little law demonstrated perfectly how the flesh is provoked. Here's the kicker, we had brought in cookies before and stepped away without saying a word. The kids eyed them, but didn't fixate on them, touch, or eat them. It was only after I gave them a law that their little brains fixated on the cookies, and the desire of their flesh was activated in full force.

It never fails. Tell a kid to calm down, or else someone is going to get hurt or kicked... 10 second later you hear the little sister say, "Ow! You kicked me!!!" If you tell them to not touch something, within record timing, they touch it. If you tell them to back away from the edge... they get as close as they can and peer over the side.

This rebellious impulse to do contrary to what is told to you is an innate part of our sinful nature. Law enforcement even has entire systems of investigation that takes this human trait into account when investigating the clues of a crime. By considering what is human nature to do when in various situations, they can uncover clues and recreate the scene of a crime quite well.


Jermyn Davidson 04-28-2017 07:32 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1480163)
JD, I would ask you to sit down with your bible, and demonstrate these assertions from Scripture please.

In regards to the first, that people sin BECAUSE they are "slaves to sin", will you believe the apostle Paul, who said these words?

Romans 6:16-19 KJV Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness? (17) But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you. (18) Being then made free from sin, ye became the servants of righteousness. (19) I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of your flesh: for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness.

Does this not tell you that those who are slaves of sin are slaves BECAUSE THEY YIELDED THEMSELVES TO BE THE SLAVES OF SIN? That you become the servant of whomever you YIELD yourself to obey?

As to the second, this idea that a person who committed NO SIN WHATSOEVER, at ANY TIME, is still a "sinner, filthy, unrighteous, and condemned", wherever do you get that idea from IN THE BIBLE?

Adam was a filthy, condemned sinner the very moment God made him? Before he ever sinned?

I think you have a very distorted view of God and his opinion of man. Sin is odious to God, and He is angry with the wicked every day. Sin is the blot or stain on man's soul and record.

How can a person be guilty who hasn't done ANYTHING WRONG?

In my flesh dwells no good thing.

WITHOUT CHRIST, even on our best days, we are sinful, unrighteous, and unsaved.

When Jesus Christ died, He died for the whole world because without His death, the whole world would still be GUILTY!

mfblume 04-28-2017 07:38 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
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Originally Posted by Esaias (Post 1480033)
Short on time, but a quick look makes me think you actually proved one of my points here.

Paul speaks of a LAW of sin, not a FORCE. Moreover, he clearly stated in ch 6 that bondage to sin begins with a voluntary act of the individual.

Be back later.

It's both, Esaias!.

The law of sin is stated in Romans 7:21

Romans 7:21 I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.

The law states that a FORCE kicks into effect we WE try to do good. WE is you and I without the help of God. WE, ON OUR OWN, without God's help, try to do good and WE WILL ULTIMATELY FAIL.

But WITH GOD it's a different story:

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

Contrasted from:

Romans 7:19-20 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do. (20) Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.


Paul said the same thing earlier, before he realized it was a law in his younger years:

Romans 7:7-8 What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet. (8) But sin, taking occasion by the commandment, wrought in me all manner of concupiscence. For without the law sin was dead.

That force is dormant, as it were, until a commandment comes. When that commandment comes and we TRY to do good, it is alive and well and overcomes our will to do good and makes us do bad.

Aquila has it right. Our flesh has URGES --- everyone's flesh NO one is exempt! It's an innate force.

How did it get there? ADAM.

Paul said SIN was the culprit NOT HIMSELF:

Romans 7:19-20 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do. (20) Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.

Why was it no more Paul? That is because Paul will to do good. So, the old saying is a lie when it says WHERE THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY. Paul had the will. But could not find the ability to perform it.

mfblume 04-28-2017 07:42 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Aquila (Post 1480168)
I had posted this in another thread, and so I thought I might share it here. This sort of sums up what I believe about the sinful nature of man:

Good stuff.

madras 04-28-2017 08:01 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 1480179)
In my flesh dwells no good thing.

WITHOUT CHRIST, even on our best days, we are sinful, unrighteous, and unsaved.

When Jesus Christ died, He died for the whole world because without His death, the whole world would still be GUILTY!

Please provide scripture for this. On my best days I am not sinful, unrighteous, and unsaved. ::eek:

Esaias 04-28-2017 08:07 AM

Re: It's Your Fault People Are Homosexual
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 1480179)
In my flesh dwells no good thing.

WITHOUT CHRIST, even on our best days, we are sinful, unrighteous, and unsaved.

When Jesus Christ died, He died for the whole world because without His death, the whole world would still be GUILTY!

None of this proves or shows or requires that IF a person were (hypothetically) innocent of having committed ANY SIN WHATSOEVER that said man would STILL be a "sinner, filthy, guilty".

Yes Christ died for the sins of us all, and without His death we would still be guilty. And indeed, in SPITE of His death all are STILL guilty UNLESS and UNTIL they receive Pardon from God. but why is that?

"For ALL HAVE SINNED".


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