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Restitution or reparation is not always possible. We have to accept that. And I think that's a point you're making. We agree here. But when there is a means to right any wrong that still causes pain or loss, no matter how small, and we fail or refuse to even consider it or take the necessary action if known, we will share responsibility for it. If one's ancestors waged war and stole food producing land from an entire nation, leaving that people to languished in a broken society, with scarce food resources for generations... and those alive today have the means to relieve the pain of that people... and they don't... they are taking part in the feast of stolen bread... and perpetuating the pain, misery, and death inflicted on that people by their fathers. Are they not? |
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Romans 9:20 "But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, “Why have you made me like this?” Therefore, there is no such thing as white privilege. Only in the mind of a Socialist who wants everyone and everything equal. The only equality we have is that we agree on the Gospel message. |
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Here's a personal story... My dad actually was a serial adulterer. Vietnam vet, quite the ladies man. He cheated on my mom with the woman who was to become his second wife. He cheated on his second wife. He cheated on his third wife. He sired children in each marriage, and one outside of wedlock. When he died, I had to reach out and try to find my half-brothers (they were all boys). When I contacted them, every one of them were of the opinion that it would be a cold day in hell before they'd attend his funeral. I love my dad, but I didn't always like him or every decision he made. He was a decorated veteran. He was messed up. He not only was a serial womanizer (looking for love in all the wrong places), but he was an alcoholic, and an abusive man. The war left him broken. He even experienced stints of homelessness. And when he hit rock bottom, he'd come crawling back to my mother, his first wife. And she'd do what she could to help him get on his feet, or get him to where he needed to go. While my siblings saw him as a monster. He was my dad. A broken hero. Being a vet myself, I could more than relate. I tried my best to persuade them to attend his funeral. My half-brothers, Ricky and David were adamant. They were going to celebrate his death. At first, Brandon felt the same. But I had an impulse to apologize to Brandon for dad's actions, and how our dad abandoned him just as he did me, David, and Ricky. I explained how I saw our dad, a sin sick broken hero who never found his peace. Brandon cried with me over the phone and we talked. Something in my words helped him begin healing. It helped him begin dumping the bitterness he had held almost his entire life. Brandon decided that he needed to pay his respects to our dad, but he wasn't comfortable speaking at the funeral. With that, Brandon and I both contacted Ricky and David once more. Me, Brandon, and Ricky met up at Ricky's house (he has a wife and kids of his own now). In that back yard, we laughed, cried, and even cursed the foolishness of this man we all called our father. Again, I apologized for him, and shared my thoughts about him as not only his son, but a fellow vet. We did a lot of healing that day. David lives in Buffalo New York, and wouldn't return any calls. In the brief conversation I did have with him, the bitterness and pain was clearly rather deep. Perhaps I'll never know if he'll ever find a way to heal that bitterness. I pray he does. Dad's funeral was held at the local VA Cemetery, and he was buried with military honors... with three of his four sons in the front row, honoring his service, and honoring the positive memories we had of him. Today, I have two brothers I can contact at any hour of the night. We'd never had each other before, but in the wake of my dad's death, we found our bond. It took tenderness, acknowledgement of wrongs done, and a desire to do what was appropriate for us. Not so much what was appropriate for our father, but for us. And for us, my dad's death opened the communication that allowed healing to begin. Some have told me that he didn't deserve any of it. Maybe he didn't. However, as I stood there looking over the cemetery, holding dad's flag, and reflecting on dad's memory, I felt that although he did me wrong, no... he did us wrong... we did him right. Sometimes, an apology, and acknowledging wrongs committed by our fathers can open the door for healing. |
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No such thing. You've never benefitted from being white? I know I have. And no, I don't feel ashamed of it. It just is what it is. I didn't make the rules in our society. But when I see something wrong, I'm not put out or beholden to some ideology that prevents me from acknowledging it and helping to work to make it right if I can. That's all. You honestly can't see where generations of slavery, oppression, racism, and denial of even the right to vote could impact a person's opportunities? I've been effected by privilege from both directions. lol I'm Scott-Irish. When my ancestors came here, they were routinely denied employment and opportunities (remember NINA?). All we could do is join the military to find opportunity. And I live with the toll that has taken in at least three generations every day. It's not about white privilege. It's just about privilege. Be it racial or economic, privilege exists. |
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I believe an employer has a right to hire whomever fits the workplace. I was once engaged to a boy whose father was an executive with Southwestern Bell. I remember him ranting that they were passing over more qualified people in order to spread the company with some color. I have talked with teachers who were furious with the busing issues because they were bringing in kids who weren't interested in an education, thus causing those who cared to slow down so others could keep up. I remember reading an article in Sports Illustrated, not the swimsuit edition, about a black athlete that said the people back home resented him getting a leg up and pressuring him to mentally stay in the hood. There are a lot of serious issues that we can't work out because people are screaming inequality and racism if we try. I believe that birds of a feather flock together and that can also be said of a church body. People visit various congregations to find their place. |
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It is what it is. lol |
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Seems like you are saying (in a backdoor sort of way) that it is salvational. Looks like if this was required that the Apostle Paul would have written something about it. With him doing all that he did against the saints. |
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Does white privilege mean there are scholarships, loans, and grants for white people only, for school, business startups, etc?
Does white privilege mean there are White Student Unions at most colleges? Does white privilege mean an employer is afraid to fire me because I will likely yell racism and sue? Does white privilege get me a free Starbucks coffee? |
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