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tamor 05-20-2007 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 121496)
My gut don't talk except when it is time to eat. I think it is foolishness how many folks have you seen that looks anywhere close to this. I have NEVER saw anyone like this and doubt if it is really so.

It's hard for me to imagine someone really looking like this either. But I do know a man who had his whole body done except for his hands and face. His ex wife was a tattoo artist so she practiced on him. He kept the hands off limits so that he could wear a long sleeved shirt if going into a situation where he felt like he just absolutely would not be accepted.

He looked pretty freaky if you saw him with short sleeves or a muscle shirt on, but he did not fit the personality that we expect someone like that to be. He was a very nice guy.

Sam 05-20-2007 10:15 PM

Joan Baez once said that if you are ever given your choice of facing a real lion or a hypothetical lion, choose the real one, it's not as dangerous.

J-Roc 05-20-2007 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 121441)
What about someone who has had a sex change operation????????????????


Good question... :highfive


Dan, what do you do with the individual who before conversion had this sex change operation and now has full blownout size D breasts? Do you put him on your platform to preach to the congregation and teens and children or do you have him surgically remove his breasts first? or are you afraid to hurt his feelings? :club

Hoovie 05-20-2007 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by J-Roc (Post 121535)
Good question... :highfive


Dan, what do you do with the individual who before conversion had this sex change operation and now has full blownout size D breasts? Do you put him on your platform to preach to the congregation and teens and children or do you have him surgically remove his breasts first? :club

I'm not Dan... but without a doubt they gotta go!

SDG 05-20-2007 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by J-Roc (Post 121535)
Good question... :highfive


Dan, what do you do with the individual who before conversion had this sex change operation and now has full blownout size D breasts? Do you put him on your platform to preach to the congregation and teens and children or do you have him surgically remove his breasts first? ora are you afraid to hurt his feelings? :club

In this situation ... I'd leave it to my administrative assistant ... J-Roc ... to organize a task force to examine the issue[s] and appropriate any monies ....

Check out LD ... preaching at Thad's church ... He's such a RIP IT Preacher!!!!

J-Roc 05-20-2007 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 121538)


What an awesome way to WAG THE DOG....you got me checking out LD now....you're off the hook for now.... :bubble

Praxeas 05-21-2007 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 121248)
What if your face was burned ...from freebasing .. like Richard Pryor ... would you renounce it also???

Renounce freebasing? Yes! Absolutely! What a great testimony!

Praxeas 05-21-2007 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Berkeley (Post 121251)
That is not the same thing!! He could renounce drugs.. but not his face!!

Nobody said the tattooed guy should renounce his face. What are you guys smokin tonight?

Praxeas 05-21-2007 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by CupCake (Post 121309)
I'll bite, nope! He need not say anything, nor should he feel the need to share.

Share? We are talking about someone whose face is tattooed completely. He does not have to share that, Everyone can see it.
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Now if someone take him aside or say he brings it up, and ask, "hey brother why you do such a thing", it's up to him to say I'd rather not discuss it, or sure I'll talk about it.
That wasn't even the question. Should he renounce tattooing before someone lets him preach? Should he take a stand against it and say it is wrong? Or if he approves of such things should he still be allowed to preach?
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But the deal is this, would you go up to someone and ask them to publicly announce how they were disfigure , or ended up in a wheelchair because of drinking or whatever the cause, do they have to renounce that to the whole church or a pastor?
Everyone with half a brain KNOWS how he got that way. The question is should he renounce it! Not his face, getting tattoos...The drug user renounces drug use usually. Is this question too hard for you people?

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No! I think what you have are nosy gossiping saints who enjoy inflecting self righteousness on other who don't walk the walk or fit the mold. But if he like most, he'll be more then happy to share what God has done for him~
You don't have to be a gossiper to SEE that the man has a tattooed face. Come on folks, use your brain here. He has a tattooed face....should a pastor let him be on the platform if he has not renounced getting tattoos? If my pastor asks me if I renounced drugs before getting on the platform you better believe I will offer a hearty YES!

berkeley 05-21-2007 12:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 121614)
Nobody said the tattooed guy should renounce his face. What are you guys smokin tonight?

I don't do that anymore....

Praxeas 05-21-2007 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Berkeley (Post 121672)
I don't do that anymore....

got tired of wakin up on the floor?
I said no no no no I don't smoke it no mo

berkeley 05-21-2007 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 121681)
got tired of wakin up on the floor?
I said no no no no I don't smoke it no mo

I've never woke up on the floor.

COOPER 05-21-2007 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 121065)
Scenario:

.... someone converts genuinely.... has been faithful for over a year
.... is showing good fruit
.... tithing substantially
.... bring folks to church
....is practicing dress standards
.... he/she is also very gifted and wants to join the music ministry on the platform ....


BUT .... has one little problem .....

http://www.boingboing.net/200610051221.jpg


if he takes off the earrings .... can he minister on the platform ..... ????

That is sick, sick, sick.

Steve Epley 05-21-2007 07:05 AM

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Originally Posted by tamor (Post 121514)
It's hard for me to imagine someone really looking like this either. But I do know a man who had his whole body done except for his hands and face. His ex wife was a tattoo artist so she practiced on him. He kept the hands off limits so that he could wear a long sleeved shirt if going into a situation where he felt like he just absolutely would not be accepted.

He looked pretty freaky if you saw him with short sleeves or a muscle shirt on, but he did not fit the personality that we expect someone like that to be. He was a very nice guy.

Since we don't wear short sleeves or muscle shirts he would be fine.:highfive

IAintMovin 05-21-2007 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by COOPER (Post 121731)
That is sick, sick, sick.

Come on Coop....he is probably not UPC.....but he sure could be if he would allow God to touch his life.............. :D :D

Rico 05-21-2007 07:28 AM

Why should this person have to renounce tatooing in order to be allowed in a pulpit?

Trouvere 05-21-2007 09:00 AM

Sorry but this would be a good time to preach make up on men or have a theme Sunday called Wear A Bag On Your Head to Church Sunday.
That is too ugly.

Trouvere 05-21-2007 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by IAintMovin (Post 121739)
Come on Coop....he is probably not UPC.....but he sure could be if he would allow God to touch his life.............. :D :D

Hey if he was he would be getting on everybodies mailouts??? REVIVAL WITH
THE UGLIEST MAN ALIVE TICKETS FIVE BUCKS!

revrandy 05-21-2007 09:02 AM

How many of you would let this guy stay at your home?

Trouvere 05-21-2007 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by revrandy (Post 121839)
How many of you would let this guy stay at your home?

He's getting a room at Ramada for sure.

MissBrattified 05-21-2007 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Rico (Post 121745)
Why should this person have to renounce tatooing in order to be allowed in a pulpit?

It isn't about having to renounce tattooing, Rico..its about setting an audience at ease so they can hear what you have to say. Teaching 101: Connect with your audience first. Something permanently visible, and offensive by nature, will have to be clarified. Either that, or deal with the fact that some people will be offended, (especially since they dont' know if your tattoos came before or after conversion), and won't hear what you have to say.

MissBrattified 05-21-2007 09:13 AM

As a mother of at least one preteen, if this man was going to speak at our next youth rally, I would want him to clarify to my child (and all the other attendees) that he does not advocate body art.

Children/Teenagers tend to emulate people they admire. If a man has a powerful message, he has to accept the fact that he will be influential, and if there is something about him that could influence in the wrong direction, it has to be clarified to the audience.

Without the clarification, I would either have to explain it to my child myself, (hoping I was right about the "probably before he was converted" part), OR choose to have my child preached to and influenced by another person. Whether or not the man chose to explain himself would be a reflection of his wisdom and understanding...not a reflection of other folks' unreasonable expectations.

I would expect the same sort of clarification if an unmarried, pregnant teenage girl were teaching a class at the Ladies' Seminar. It had better be immaculate conception, or a recent conversion, or my daughter wouldn't be attending that particular lecture.

Yeah, call me hardnosed. I am a Proud Member of the BFM's. ;)

Rico 05-21-2007 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 121844)
It isn't about having to renounce tattooing, Rico..its about setting an audience at ease so they can hear what you have to say. Teaching 101: Connect with your audience first. Something permanently visible, and offensive by nature, will have to be clarified. Either that, or deal with the fact that some people will be offended, (especially since they dont' know if your tattoos came before or after conversion), and won't hear what you have to say.

Sister, if people don't have enough confidence in their pastor to know that he's done whatever checking up needed to be done before letting someone in the church pulpit, then I don't know what to say. I don't know of any pastors that don't have a sit down with any prospective preacher before allowing them into the pulpit. Do you?

MissBrattified 05-21-2007 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Rico (Post 121861)
Sister, if people don't have enough confidence in their pastor to know that he's done whatever checking up needed to be done before letting someone in the church pulpit, then I don't know what to say. I don't know of any pastors that don't have a sit down with any prospective preacher before allowing them into the pulpit. Do you?

Again, you can blame people for being people if you want to, but a good preacher or teacher will address it up front in order to set folks at ease. I personally wouldn't be offended, and I trust our pastor to not put anyone up who is questionable, BUT I would not grant my child the same ability to discern, and would prefer that the matter be clarified up front. *shrug*

BringItOn 05-21-2007 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 121183)
What if Jan the Crouch had her face permanently tattooed to look like makeup?

Is Paul the Crouch gonna let her stay on when she get her face done like this

Rico 05-21-2007 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 121867)
Again, you can blame people for being people if you want to, but a good preacher or teacher will address it up front in order to set folks at ease. I personally wouldn't be offended, and I trust our pastor to not put anyone up who is questionable, BUT I would not grant my child the same ability to discern, and would prefer that the matter be clarified up front. *shrug*

Dat's because yer a snob! :D

BringItOn 05-21-2007 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Steve Epley (Post 121733)
Since we don't wear short sleeves or muscle shirts he would be fine.:highfive

:killinme :killinme :killinme

CupCake 05-21-2007 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 121626)
Share? We are talking about someone whose face is tattooed completely. He does not have to share that, Everyone can see it.

My point, so why must he explain himself to you or anyone for that matter?

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That wasn't even the question. Should he renounce tattooing before someone lets him preach? Should he take a stand against it and say it is wrong? Or if he approves of such things should he still be allowed to preach?
Nope, why should he if he already settled the matter with God. Should an adultery or mugger renounce every time they preach?

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Everyone with half a brain KNOWS how he got that way. The question is should he renounce it! Not his face, getting tattoos...The drug user renounces drug use usually. Is this question too hard for you people?
Then why are you asking, if everyone knows, subject should be close!

It's not hard at all, you seem to be the one having a problem of understanding this person does not need to renounce his life over and over again, what he did is under the blood move on, Jesus did~


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You don't have to be a gossiper to SEE that the man has a tattooed face. Come on folks, use your brain here. He has a tattooed face....should a pastor let him be on the platform if he has not renounced getting tattoos? If my pastor asks me if I renounced drugs before getting on the platform you better believe I will offer a hearty YES!


I think you have issues with forgiveness and can't seem to grasp some of us really don't want or care to hear about how bad tattooed are. I think by just looking at this person you have your answer, that this was not a wise thing to do.....So please sir use your brain already~

CupCake 05-21-2007 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by revrandy (Post 121839)
How many of you would let this guy stay at your home?


If he was godly why not. I've allowed a sister in the Lord who was dying from with Aids come and live with us until her family step in, as should be....Would you allowed that?

Hoovie 05-21-2007 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by CupCake (Post 121933)

If he was godly why not. I've allowed a sister in the Lord who was dying from with Aids come and live with us until her family step in, as should be....Would you allowed that?

You're a nice person, twinkie.:highfive

Praxeas 05-21-2007 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Rico (Post 121745)
Why should this person have to renounce tatooing in order to be allowed in a pulpit?

A lot of churches and pastors believe it is wrong....Im sure a pastor that does believe it is wrong is not going to want someone that thinks it is fine and has tattoos all over like this guy, is not going to let him stand as an example for it being ok. A lot of churches and pastors are just like that for some odd reason

Sister Alvear 05-21-2007 01:12 PM

must have some testimony!

Rico 05-21-2007 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 122092)
A lot of churches and pastors believe it is wrong....Im sure a pastor that does believe it is wrong is not going to want someone that thinks it is fine and has tattoos all over like this guy, is not going to let him stand as an example for it being ok. A lot of churches and pastors are just like that for some odd reason

I don't know of any churches that endorse getting tatoos. My point is that I can't imagine any pastor letting anyone into their pulpit without first discussing some issues with them and being satisfied with that person's suitability to speak to the congregation. That is why I don't see why the fella in this pic should have to renounce tatooing before the congregation before he could speak to them.

Trouvere 05-21-2007 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 121503)
You doubt if people have face and full body tattoos ... actually it's more in vogue than you think ....

Also .... Gang members are tattooing teardrops on their faces as tallys for how many people they've killed or to mark their stay in prison...

http://www.inkedblog.com/archives/tear.jpghttp://graphics.jsonline.com/graphic...ttoo013005.jpg

I see this all the time on my job.Some don't do it for how many people they have killed some of these tear drops mean other things such as crying over
things in the world that cannot be rectified but need a memorial of some kind.
It depends.

Sister Alvear 05-21-2007 02:46 PM

I don't know if it is wrong because lots of men and a few women have tatoo's and are saved. They had them put on them before comong to the Lord. I personally don't know why anyone would want to have this done to them. I hear it is painful but I don't rally know. However after coming to the Lord is one thing before is another thing...just my opinion.

Theophilus 05-21-2007 07:11 PM

Just think of the crowd you'd attract...

Elizabeth 05-21-2007 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 121065)
Scenario:

.... someone converts genuinely.... has been faithful for over a year
.... is showing good fruit
.... tithing substantially
.... bring folks to church
....is practicing dress standards
.... he/she is also very gifted and wants to join the music ministry on the platform ....


BUT .... has one little problem .....

http://www.boingboing.net/200610051221.jpg


if he takes off the earrings .... can he minister on the platform ..... ????

Who is this guy??? I want to know his story, is this permanent? What made him (besides the devil) do this to his face?

Dan where did you get this picture?

tamor 05-21-2007 07:45 PM

It makes me think of something they would wear in a wrestling ring. I wonder if it's not really tattoos.....

Theophilus 05-21-2007 07:51 PM

At least he's wearing a tie...

SDG 05-21-2007 07:51 PM

Tattooed teacher teaches tolerance

Bruce Potts is a teacher of Public Speaking at the University of New Mexico and has a full tribal face tattoo. He has a straight forward attitude and imparts a cool vibe of acceptance. We'll bet his students get an extra edge on using demeanor and attitude in public speaking. And a life long lesson on not judging books by their covers. Either that or they study really hard because they're afraid he'll eat them.

http://cityrag.blogs.com/photos/unca...ruce_potts.jpg

From UNM teacher uses ink in expression... "'I have had very few negative reactions,' he said. 'People have been amazingly supportive.' Potts said he hasn't had trouble getting a job, because success is all about how one presents him or herself and doesn't solely depend on appearance."


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