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Cindy 07-16-2008 08:27 AM

Re: Is divorce a sin if no one was unfaithful?
 
If two believer's are married and one commits adultery, are they still a believer?

Baron1710 07-16-2008 08:29 AM

Re: Is divorce a sin if no one was unfaithful?
 
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Originally Posted by cneasttx (Post 531399)
If two believer's are married and one commits adultery, are they still a believer?

Depends.

Cindy 07-16-2008 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Baron1710 (Post 531402)
Depends.


I have thought about this before, the first (lust of the heart) may be months or even years before the actual act occurs. Does all that time count or just the latter part?

Michael The Disciple 07-16-2008 08:41 AM

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Since divorce is being discussed opinions on this case. A woman commits adultery in marriage. Then she gets saved. Are they considered now to be a new creation and its under the blood of Christ?

Or or they still accountable to the teaching of "whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery"?

Baron1710 07-16-2008 08:49 AM

Re: Is divorce a sin if no one was unfaithful?
 
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Originally Posted by cneasttx (Post 531405)
I have thought about this before, the first (lust of the heart) may be months or even years before the actual act occurs. Does all that time count or just the latter part?

Maybe neither. I don't believe lust qualifies as a reason for divorce. Nor do I believe a Christian becomes an unbeliever by a single act. I have never had to deal with this situation but it seems to me that if a spouse does commit adultery that there should be room for forgiveness by God and the other spouse. When one chooses to turn from God and live a lifestyle of sin he becomes an unbeliever. If repentance an about face then so is becoming an unbeliever.

DividedThigh 07-16-2008 09:25 AM

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i think this is a tough one, the church is full of divorce now, i agree with bro larrys 3 reasons, dont like divorce, never wanted one, but i have had to live thr two, i dont think others should judge, dt

Tim Wiggins 07-16-2008 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by stmatthew (Post 530982)
I find nowhere the bible allows for divorce and remarriage for any reason other than fornication/adultery.

Oh my goodness. So a woman has a husband that physically abusing her. No adultery just physical abuse. According to your position she has to stay with him. I am a pastor and my doctrine can be summed up in one phrase: IF HE IS BEATING YOU: LEAVE HIM.


TRW

DividedThigh 07-16-2008 09:32 AM

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it would be abuse to tell her to stay with that clod, dt

Baron1710 07-16-2008 09:34 AM

Re: Is divorce a sin if no one was unfaithful?
 
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Originally Posted by Tim Wiggins (Post 531446)
Oh my goodness. So a woman has a husband that physically abusing her. No adultery just physical abuse. According to your position she has to stay with him. I am a pastor and my doctrine can be summed up in one phrase: IF HE IS BEATING YOU: LEAVE HIM.


TRW

Absolutely.

DividedThigh 07-16-2008 09:37 AM

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agreed get out of there, protect your self and the kids, and in this twisted world it isnt just the men that are abusers, dt


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