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Re: To All CAF'ers, EA'ers, and AFF'ers
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Quote my comment that generates assumption of yours truly accusing the majority of CAF. I await your response! |
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I'm so thankful I was raised free of racial discrimination. Never heard it or saw it exampled in our home outside of a few comments once in a while about the French being ignorant. :lol LOL! (I grew up, as a child, in a city that was about 50% French/English).
I just can't imagine someone being against racial discrimination but will discriminate against their own brothers and sisters in the Church for other reasons. Seems like that would be just a wee bit hypocritical. ;) :) |
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I find it hard to believe that you would get off of CAF because 6 voted that they did not agree with interracial marriages. Thus, I feel, that you are insinuating to the members here of AFF that an most of CAF (that group of rabid conservative preachers) men of God preach / teach against interracial marriages. It is a subliminal thought that you are using against another forum to try and degrade it. It is your right to leave, but why not be Christian enough about it and leave in good stands instead of running degrading it whether it would be subliminal or not. Folks, there were only six that voted against it and no on took a biblical stand. It was opinionated just as Praxeas has stated in a previous post (even though he in not there to read them). Next: you resigned for various reasons and interracial marriage was "hardly the cause"???? Again, I bolded and put in red your words. Finally, the assumption can be found right in paragraph number 1. You stated that you resigned membership with CAF due to interracial marriage differences and many other things. I'm sorry, I don't get it. Why would SIX votes and NO biblical reasoning cause one to use THIS excuse as a reason for leaving. It is simply because you wanted AFF to think that more than SIX stood against interracial marriages on CAF. |
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I personally know people who've been affected by such attitudes in the church, and I know from scripture there's just no place for it in God's church. I believe such attitudes are wrong on multiple levels, and too many Apostolics have been making excuses for the inexcusable for far too long. Quote:
How about maybe "it's prejudice". Why not just call it what it is? This is specifically bothersome when this stuff comes down from Pastors and others in church leadership, because other people can be influenced to adopt or maintain the same attitude also. Ironically, some of these men claim to be so faithful to the word, and will fight you to the death over precise wording of baptismal formula, mode of baptism, the wording of Godhead doctrine, etc... but will teach and preach racial intolerance regarding relationships between saints of different backgrounds-- even though they know there's no biblical basis for their views. If these men know their bible as much as they claim to, they should know that interracial and inter-ethnic marriage is not only prevalent in the bible, but there's nothing in scripture that forbids it. **When pastors let it be known they will not officiate marriages between members of their church who are of different races, that goes beyond personal preference. That is prejudice. **When Pastors discourage Brother X or Sister Y from marrying each other because of their race, that now has gone beyond the pastor's personal preference. That is prejudice. He's not the one getting married; he's not the one who's choosing to settle down with this person. As long as the person's mate is a saint of God who's living right, and both parties have been prayerful about their choice of a spouse, its not his business what the other person's race or ethnic background is. His place at that point is to give solid premarital counsel to this Christian couple --- not try to get them to break off their relationship because of his "personal preference". **When a certain Bible College makes a rule that if students of different races wish to date each other, the college must first notify their parents first, (yes, a real-life situation that I know of) don't try and tell me there's no prejudice at the root of that. Quote:
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Ma'am, I've been away for a little bit, but I am glad to see you posting again. For the record, the Apostolic church I attended in FL was pretty big. Some of the young adults my age and a little younger had a "problem" with inter racial marriages. I remember one guy saying it was not ,"the will of God" for the races to intermingle. One girl saying that the were just too many differences between the cultures. I have heard questions like, "Well why do Black guys want to marry White girls any way-- they should just stick with their own." I have also heard the "think of the kids" argument too. I was even told that the Pastor was against it inter-racial marriages, but I don't believe that to be true at all. My Pastor never gave me that impression at all. I was a member of this church up until 2006. Every reason I have ever heard prohibiting inter racial marriages has been bogus. It's either racism or racial prejudice-- either one of these sins has no place in the Body of Christ. Now if a person of one race simply does not find members of another race attractive, that is not racism or prejudice, imho. For example, I don't find Asians all that attractive. However, if I was ever to find an Asian lady who was saved and I was attracted to her and she was attracted to me, I would not just not date her because she was Asian. My best friend in high school was an Irish guy who was called "racist" because he stated that he didn't find Black girls attractive. I stood by him, the accusations blew over because he wasn't racist. I'd say he wasn't even prejudiced in the negative way we use the word at times. Oh and there is a difference between being prejudiced (even in the racially negative way we use it) and being a racist. |
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Let's just say that I totally disagree with you. It's not prejudice. It is personal preference. |
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Marriage is a LONG time and seeking the will of the Lord is the most important factor...
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hmmmm.... I wonder who all you've heard of getting kicked off? I know of a few that left because they wanted to, a few that left because they felt too much pressure, but only a very few that may have been kicked off. AND I have to give it to the ADMINS: they have been very patient and kind to thiose that have come in expressing different views. FTR: There are those on CAF who even believe in wedding rings????????? Yes we have some very good debates and we don't agree with everything that everyone believes, but when it is all said and done, we are gentlemen there. :tiphat |
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