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Hoovie 03-22-2008 06:30 PM

Cologne and Perfumes
 
In other thread I read that a female poster considered a male wearing cologne as a huge turn on and even percieved as coming on to her.

It made me wonder how others felt about it and perhaps more importantly if I, as a married man, should be wearing the stuff....

Soooo.... tell me do you wear it ? If yes, why? If no, why not?

Perfumes and Colognes... should we wear them??

Margies3 03-22-2008 06:37 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 421076)
In other thread I read that a female poster considered a male wearing cologne as a huge turn on and even percieved as coming on to her.

It made me wonder how others felt about it and perhaps more importantly if I, as a married man, should be wearing the stuff....

Soooo.... tell me do you wear it ? If yes, why? If no, why not?

Nope. I don't wear men's cologne. I think the reason why is pretty obvious. :)

Hoovie 03-22-2008 06:39 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Margies3 (Post 421079)
Nope. I don't wear men's cologne. I think the reason why is pretty obvious. :)

Stop being difficult! :smack Just answer the poll!!

Sister Alvear 03-22-2008 06:54 PM

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I think it is becoming to the christian to be clean and smell nice...You do not have to waste money on expensive perfumes. There are nice smelling perfumes that are not expensive....soap and water, toothpaste and perfume...are becoming to a christian.

Sister Alvear 03-22-2008 06:57 PM

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I went to one church in the states and the pastor made the statement that men that were cologne had women problems...lol...

Ron 03-22-2008 07:00 PM

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Yup, I wear this one called Quorum!


http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e2...RUM-MEN-2T.jpg

LadyChocolate 03-22-2008 07:09 PM

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I love to smell great! I wear it for myself and myself only. I love it when my husband wears drakkar... Now, to say that the wearing of cologne is wrong.... then, I think someone has mucho problemos.....(like there's not enough real sin to preach about)

Rev Dooley 03-22-2008 07:25 PM

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Armani Mani is the best! I also wear Emporio. Both are great and I like wearing them.
If someone has an issue with it, might I suggest that they just not wear fragrance? After all, if they find it to be such a turn on, then maybe there is an underlying problem of lust in their lives that should be dealt with.
Just a thought...

LadyChocolate 03-22-2008 07:42 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rev Dooley (Post 421099)
Armani Mani is the best! I also wear Emporio. Both are great and I like wearing them.
If someone has an issue with it, might I suggest that they just not wear fragrance? After all, if they find it to be such a turn on, then maybe there is an underlying problem of lust in their lives that should be dealt with.
Just a thought
...

right, and when there is no cologne, there is will be something else someone has a problemo with!:tissue

GodsBabyGirl 03-22-2008 07:47 PM

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I LOVE to wear perfumes or colognes....oils are my fave!

Dolce Gabana and Patti LaBelle are fave oils.

I love to smell good....And LC you're right...

But its just like these preachers who can't get over women wearing their skirts one inch too short...

Or wearing their hair down...

Once they comply with that another 'standard' is preached always on the women.

Cuz we dont wanna incite lust on the poor fellas...God forbid!

Kay B 03-22-2008 07:52 PM

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I never heard anything about wearing or not wearing perfume,colonge etc until me moved here.
I loved the fragrance Ole Cassini but my chemistry doesn't like it. I like Sand & Sable I use it sparingly as its not available on the island. DH wears Stetson. :D

Cindy 03-22-2008 07:53 PM

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I do not wear it myself and I get sick if I smell perfume or cologne on others. It is okay if there is a small wisp of either but a lot of people wear overpowering fragrances.

GodsBabyGirl 03-22-2008 07:53 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by hnhisle (Post 421118)
I never heard anything about wearing or not wearing perfume,colonge etc until me moved here.
I loved the fragrance Ole Cassini but my chemistry doesn't like it. I like Sand & Sable I use it sparingly as its not available on the island. DH wears Stetson. :D

Wow, what island r u from, if u mind me asking?

Kay B 03-22-2008 07:57 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by GodsBabyGirl (Post 421120)
Wow, what island r u from, if u mind me asking?

South East AK (Hoonah) :D

Margies3 03-22-2008 08:07 PM

Re: Cologne and Perfumes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Rev Dooley (Post 421099)
Armani Mani is the best! I also wear Emporio. Both are great and I like wearing them.
If someone has an issue with it, might I suggest that they just not wear fragrance? After all, if they find it to be such a turn on, then maybe there is an underlying problem of lust in their lives that should be dealt with.
Just a thought...

RevDooley, that is such good thinking! Frankly, it applies to many other things besides just cologne as well.......... ie. if wearing (necklaces, open toed shoes, colored hose, pants, etc., etc.,) bothers you, then don't wear them.

I've told before on here about a pastor I had who told us that a woman wearing a necklace was wrong because when a man looks at her with it on, he doesn't look at her face. He looks at the necklace and then his eyes wander down. I told him that it sounded to me like if a man feels that way, then he has a personal problem. It's not the woman's problem. It's his. He needs to get his mind out of the gutter. After all, when a man wears a great belt buckle, you don't hear women saying that their eyes just naturally wander south from there.

:hijacked Sorry. Carry on.

Cindy 03-22-2008 08:09 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Margies3 (Post 421137)
RevDooley, that is such good thinking! Frankly, it applies to many other things besides just cologne as well.......... ie. if wearing (necklaces, open toed shoes, colored hose, pants, etc., etc.,) bothers you, then don't wear them.

I've told before on here about a pastor I had who told us that a woman wearing a necklace was wrong because when a man looks at her with it on, he doesn't look at her face. He looks at the necklace and then his eyes wander down. I told him that it sounded to me like if a man feels that way, then he has a personal problem. It's not the woman's problem. It's his. He needs to get his mind out of the gutter. After all, when a man wears a great belt buckle, you don't hear women saying that their eyes just naturally wander south from there.

:hijacked Sorry. Carry on.


:ursofunny

MissBrattified 03-22-2008 08:09 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by GodsBabyGirl (Post 421120)
Wow, what island r u from, if u mind me asking?

LOL, GBG! I think Stephen was referring to you here:

Quote:

In another thread I read that a female poster considered a male wearing cologne as a huge turn on and even percieved as coming on to her.

freeatlast 03-22-2008 08:19 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 421087)
I think it is becoming to the christian to be clean and smell nice...You do not have to waste money on expensive perfumes. There are nice smelling perfumes that are not expensive....soap and water, toothpaste and perfume...are becoming to a christian.

Ohhhh sis Alvear....you've done went and gone charistmatic on us. :reaction

Pressing-On 03-22-2008 08:21 PM

Re: Cologne and Perfumes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 421076)
In other thread I read that a female poster considered a male wearing cologne as a huge turn on and even percieved as coming on to her.

It made me wonder how others felt about it and perhaps more importantly if I, as a married man, should be wearing the stuff....

Soooo.... tell me do you wear it ? If yes, why? If no, why not?

Perfumes and Colognes... should we wear them??

SH,
That's ridiculous. LOL So, when she walks through the mall every man present is making a pass at her? LOL! I'll stop and ask them next time I'm there.

"Hey, you really smell fine as wine. I think you are coming on to me. Am I right?" :ursofunny

I LOVE perfume and cologne. Calla by Isabell is my favorite, Opium, Ralph Lauren's Romance. Any man's cologne is awesome.

LaGirl 03-22-2008 08:22 PM

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i always wear perfume. my son is 4 years old and wears cologne almost everyday! he asked for cologne for Christmas!!!!! he likes to smell good...lol

TRFrance 03-22-2008 08:27 PM

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My favorite is
http://www.productappeal.com/photos/...fahrenheit.jpg
My next favorite is
http://www.designerfragrances.co.uk/acatalog/TH5004.jpg

Rhoni 03-22-2008 08:55 PM

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I view the world through smell. I wear perfume every day as part of my hygiene pracitices. I know people by their smell, and I prefer cologne on a man. I feel bad for people allergic to perfumes and colognes - I can't imagine.

Blessings, Rhoni

I wear:
Pleasures - light gardenia smell
Rapture - heavier musky smell
Gorgios - moderate musky smell
273 - Gorgios musk

I like for men:
Drakkar
Obsession
Aramis
Cool Water
Tommy Hilgifer

I hate: Old English

Margies3 03-22-2008 09:09 PM

Re: Cologne and Perfumes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 421165)
I view the world through smell. I wear perfume every day as part of my hygiene pracitices. I know people by their smell, and I prefer cologne on a man. I feel bad for people allergic to perfumes and colognes - I can't imagine.

hygiene pracitices??? LOL I'm tellin ya - I am way tired tonight! It took me several seconds to figure out what that was. :ursofunny

Sister Alvear 03-22-2008 09:27 PM

Re: Cologne and Perfumes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 421148)
Ohhhh sis Alvear....you've done went and gone charistmatic on us. :reaction

Pray for me!::friend...ha....

Sister Alvear 03-22-2008 09:29 PM

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Do you think they will let me join the WWF?

dizzyde 03-22-2008 09:30 PM

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I love perfume, nothing too heavy or overpowering. Luckily my dad loves perfume too, and keeps all his girls supplied, because my favorites are a little out of my budget most of the time. :girlyluv

My current favorites are:

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t...lings/z212.gif

and

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t...s/zmiracle.jpg

Scott Hutchinson 03-22-2008 10:22 PM

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I wear after shave like Brut and Aqua Velva and no I don't wear it as a come on to women.
If I ever tried to come on to another women, my wife would shoot me anyways.

Hoovie 03-22-2008 10:24 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 421193)
Do you think they will let me join the WWF?

There is a sniffing committee that deals with prospective members. Just pray your deoderant fails and hope for the best!

Scott Hutchinson 03-22-2008 10:28 PM

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My mother gave me some stuff called P.S. it was very good smelling.

commonsense 03-22-2008 10:42 PM

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I alternate fragrances and usually have at least 3 on my dresser.
Currently using White Diamonds, Green Tea and one of the Liz Claiborne colognes.

My all time favorites are White Shoulders and Youth Dew. (that dates me) :wheelchair

Falla39 03-22-2008 10:44 PM

Re: Cologne and Perfumes
 
As I mentioned on another thread that my husband of almost 49 yrs. purchases
me a large bottle of Cashmere Mist by Donna Karin each year for either Mother's
Day, my birthday or Christmas. Depends on when it runs out! It is a light mist that
smells so nice and always draws compliments from everyone from our pastor to my
14 grandsons, 3 sons, 3 sons in law. That's not counting my 3 daughters, 3 daughters-
in-laws, granddaughters and my 3 sisters. If it makes all these say, 'UMMMM, you
smell good", no wonder my darling husband loves to purchase it for me. He likes it too!
That investment makes me feel nice, and lets others enjoy it too.

I also like for my husband to smell nice. The adult children keep him in nice colognes
for his birthday, Father's Day or Christmas. Right now he has Tommy, Domain and
Burberry's of London. All gifts from the children's families. We are so blessed.

We are not high maintainance people. We love God, family and each other.

I mustn't forget to mention again on this thread that my pastor is our son
in law and calls me "Momma".

I answer to all kinds of names. Momma, Mom, Nancy, Gran,
Maw-Maw, Grandma. A little grandson who will be 3 next month calls me Princess
Maw-Maw. One grandson who is 14 now, loves to say, "Grandma,
remember when I used to call you "Bam-Maw". I love it all!! Thank You,
dear Lord,. for my loved ones, friends and family, and good neighbors.

Thank You for being my Father and calling me to be Your daughter. I love you!

Blessings,

Falla39

Ronzo 03-22-2008 11:41 PM

Re: Cologne and Perfumes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 421076)
In other thread I read that a female poster considered a male wearing cologne as a huge turn on and even percieved as coming on to her.

It made me wonder how others felt about it and perhaps more importantly if I, as a married man, should be wearing the stuff....

Soooo.... tell me do you wear it ? If yes, why? If no, why not?

Perfumes and Colognes... should we wear them??

Some people need a hobby...

jaxfam6 03-22-2008 11:55 PM

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Problem is I am completely sensitive to many scents and have to watch what I wear, my wife wears, my kids, and especially have to be careful around others. I can smell someones perfume or cologne and my airway shut off on me in a heart beat. Thing is most non-christian types see that as my problem and still continue to wear things that i can not take and still come to work with them on and seem to always want to come watch me turn blue.

jaxfam6 03-22-2008 11:59 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Falla39 (Post 421235)
As I mentioned on another thread that my husband of almost 49 yrs. purchases
me a large bottle of Cashmere Mist by Donna Karin each year for either Mother's
Day, my birthday or Christmas. Depends on when it runs out! It is a light mist that
smells so nice and always draws compliments from everyone from our pastor to my
14 grandsons, 3 sons, 3 sons in law. That's not counting my 3 daughters, 3 daughters-
in-laws, granddaughters and my 3 sisters. If it makes all these say, 'UMMMM, you
smell good", no wonder my darling husband loves to purchase it for me. He likes it too!
That investment makes me feel nice, and lets others enjoy it too.

I also like for my husband to smell nice. The adult children keep him in nice colognes
for his birthday, Father's Day or Christmas. Right now he has Tommy, Domain and
Burberry's of London. All gifts from the children's families. We are so blessed.

We are not high maintainance people. We love God, family and each other.

I mustn't forget to mention again on this thread that my pastor is our son
in law and calls me "Momma".

I answer to all kinds of names. Momma, Mom, Nancy, Gran,
Maw-Maw, Grandma. A little grandson who will be 3 next month calls me Princess
Maw-Maw. One grandson who is 14 now, loves to say, "Grandma,
remember when I used to call you "Bam-Maw". I love it all!! Thank You,
dear Lord,. for my loved ones, friends and family, and good neighbors.

Thank You for being my Father and calling me to be Your daughter. I love you!

Blessings,

Falla39

I know how he feels, I love to buy my wife perfume. Especially ones I can tolerate and that smell good on her. She has a totally different taste but thankfully in the past 20 years she has learned that I can not take what she likes to wear and no longer argues with me about what I buy her.

Rhoni 03-23-2008 07:05 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by jaxfam6 (Post 421258)
I know how he feels, I love to buy my wife perfume. Especially ones I can tolerate and that smell good on her. She has a totally different taste but thankfully in the past 20 years she has learned that I can not take what she likes to wear and no longer argues with me about what I buy her.

LOL, I bet she takes it back and exchanges it for what she wants.:ursofunny

TRFrance 03-23-2008 07:14 AM

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I have been around people who didn't like to used fragrances.

Lets just say I didn't stay around them for very long.

jaxfam6 03-23-2008 09:48 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 421280)
LOL, I bet she takes it back and exchanges it for what she wants.:ursofunny

Not on your life. I would know instantly. Having a very sensitive sniffer can be both a blessing and a curse.
Not that it would really matter if she did as long as it was something that didn't cause me to go into respiratory distress.

Seriously people think I am out of my mind when I tell them that some colognes and perfumes can cause me problems, until they actually see me start gasping for air. Can't do nail polish remover either. That stuff can kill a horse. My face turns red my heart starts racing and then I stop being able to get oxygen. Some flowers do the same thing to me.

Bro-Larry 03-23-2008 10:29 AM

Re: Cologne and Perfumes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sister Alvear (Post 421087)
I think it is becoming to the christian to be clean and smell nice...You do not have to waste money on expensive perfumes. There are nice smelling perfumes that are not expensive....soap and water, toothpaste and perfume...are becoming to a christian.

Good point Sister, Colognes and perfumes do not cover up the lack of good ole soap and water.

A lady asked me what fragrance I was wearing, I said, "Obsession for Men", she said, "It's working". My wife bought me some Burberry and Cool Water. LOL

Rhoni 03-23-2008 01:48 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Bro-Larry (Post 421315)
Good point Sister, Colognes and perfumes do not cover up the lack of good ole soap and water.

A lady asked me what fragrance I was wearing, I said, "Obsession for Men", she said, "It's working". My wife bought me some Burberry and Cool Water. LOL

:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny I can see that BTW where have you been? I miss you and your wife.

Blessings, Rhoni

Bro-Larry 03-23-2008 02:09 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rhoni (Post 421361)
:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny:ursofunny I can see that BTW where have you been? I miss you and your wife.

Blessings, Rhoni

Retanking.


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