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How do you feel we should respond? Should we go "political" or should we engage through teaching? Or both? Will our political efforts undermine our message? Will it boost our message? Now the issue is...will they try to "force" Churches who believe in traditional marriage to perform these unions? |
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I don't think that the government will 'make' the church do the unions. I think they will leave it as our choice. Which is fine with me. As long as the seperation between church and state stays the way it is then they can not make us. I am a different conservative. I think the seperation of church and state is needed. Just think if you have enough people that got a big enough push the government COULD MAKE us do things that are against our beliefs and morals. It would not be a good day if the non-christian side or the chrisitan side won out. There is NO way the country would be a better place if the non-christian side won and I do not think the country would be all that better if our side won out. |
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homosexuals are just people with a sexual preferance they dont deserve any special treatment for that part of who they are, none, they are people just like all of us, the law should be blind in that area, in my humble opinion, they are not unique or special just different in there own way, i dont agree with there behavior and my bible teaches it is abominable, but legally they dont deserve any special treatment or minority status of any kind, dt
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Freedom is sacred…even when free men are not. We maintain the freedom to preach. |
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I agree with DT that there is no difference between them and us but the sin. |
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The issue with this particular subject is that you have two citizens arguing that they want to have the right to marry “whoever” they like period. Now the question becomes; does civil government have the right to tell people who they can or cannot marry? This was already visited in the Supreme Court, I believe it was in 1969 (Lovings vs. Virginia?). Here’s a little background. In America marriage had always been a “private” social contract. In a court of law all it took were creditable witnesses to affirm that a couple was “married”. The government had nothing on record nor did it issue licenses to get married. Often family Bibles were admissible in court because family marriage records were often recorded in the covers. Marriage was a private contract. But things changed in the 1920’s. States began to pass laws requiring marriage licenses in effort to prohibit mixed marriages. So we then see a wave of states passing laws requiring the state’s permission to marry by forcing people to get marriage licenses. So in a sense our marriage license system is the remnant of institutionalized racism. Anyway this was challenged (I think it was Lovings vs Virginia in 1969). Of course, there was the argument that the law wasn’t discriminatory because they were free to marry “within the limits of the law”, meaning they were free to marry, but only among their own race. The court ruled that constitutionally the government couldn't prohibit two citizens of different races from entering marriage. So now the question is citizen A wants to marry citizen B. Does the government have the legal right to discriminate against them based on gender? We’ll affirmative action legislation and court rulings clearly state that the government cannot decimate based on race, religion, gender, etc. That there word, “gender”, becomes problematic. The government is only allowed to see them as citizen A and citizen B. Not as “man and woman” when it comes to civil rights. So as you can see…it’s a complex issue. Like many things in our world, it’s sinful. The question is…do we do we place it under legal prohibition or criminalize it? Quote:
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I can’t help it…the world will be the world. As a Christian I just live above the fray. ;) |
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First of all, California did not strike this down based on the US Constitution, but on the California Constitution. Your analogy being a religious one obviously crosses up with the First Amendment. The problem that you fail to see is they already had the right to a civil union in CA, the term marriage was reserved for unions between people of the opposite sex. This is an attempt to force other states that have DOMA to be forced into accepting same-sex marriages through full faith and credit. YES!!! The state does have the right to restrict who you marry... They have age restrictions. You can't marry your kids, grandparents, cousins, etc. You can't marry if you are already married. |
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CH - I don't have time to address your mistaken history of marriage in the United States tonight, but maybe this weekend I can help dispose you of those revisionist notions.
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I don’t know…I can’t control them and don’t care to waste the emotional energy trying. I can only preach and teach what the Bible says. God only recognizes the marriage between a man and a woman, regardless of what the state may say. In addition God only allows for divorce and remarriage in the event of adultery. |
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I'm just being realistic. I don't see keeping these people and churches restricted from this too much longer. I'm not for it. I just don't see this as being something we can really address politically without a Marriage Amendment in the Constitution of every state or the United States Constitution. To make matters more complicated no one running for President would support such an amendment right now and the American people don't show much support for it either. I think the only answer is preaching the gospel. No court, judge, or politician can hinder that. Politics can't address sin unless it endangers life, liberty, or property. And then there are stablished limits in those areas. And I feel that we allow these things to disturb our peace. We'll never be able to control everyone. So I often pray.... The Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pat-hway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will; That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen. --Reinhold Niebuhr |
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The Republicans just want to use what we believe about abortion and gay marriage to get us to give them more money so they can do their best to keep power and protecting the interests of the corporate elite.
I just don't trust or believe them any more. |
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Let’s compare this to gun rights. Do gun companies kill people? Does the NRA kill people? Should we blame the RNC, IRA, or gun companies for the deaths of those killed by guns? No. People kill people. You can support the right to own a gun and not support using that weapon irresponsibly. Same with abortion, many Democrats support the idea that abortion should be strictly a woman’s choice…but they don’t support the idea of using that choice irresponsibly. For example I believe that abortion is ALWAYS wrong, even if a woman’s life is in danger. I personally believe that the woman should trust God and that she’s unjustified to kill a baby to merely to preserve her own life. A Godly woman will die before killing her baby. But while I believe that, I’d never advocate that the government should force women to have their babies even if their lives are in danger; that choice should belong to the woman after counsel from her husband, family, and pastor. I saw a pastor “wimp out” while preaching about Christian worldview. He spent half his sermon blasting liberal worldviews and assailing on the sanctity of life. It really was a very passionate and powerful sermon that brought strong conviction. He called the political liberals of our nation “murderers” who will face the “wrath of God”. BUT he then he stopped and said, “I want to stop here. I want to tell any woman in this sanctuary who may have had an abortion that, in this place, you can have that sin forgiven and God can make all things new.” Um….hello?! If you or I had just mercilessly chose to KILL our children I highly doubt that pastor would soft peddle the issue! Here’s the deal, many women pay tithes. He’ll call political liberals murderers who deserve the wrath of God…but then pet and coddle a woman who may have chosen to MURDER her unborn child and suck it down a drain! I was disgusted! Women who choose abortion are far more abominable in God’s eyes than any politician. I don’t believe women who have procured an abortion should serve in church leadership positions. I wouldn’t support ordaining a man who was divorced nor would I support granting a license to any woman who had procured an abortion. Here’s the issue I have with political “Christian Conservatives”…our love of life is too often restricted to the POLITICAL SPHERE and we’re too wimpy and limp wristed to enforce our life ethics IN THE CHURCH. I’ll be honest, I’m not even sure if a woman who has procured an abortion can be saved. Jesus said, Matthew 18:1-6 {18:1} At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? {18:2} And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, {18:3} And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. {18:4} Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. {18:5} And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me. {18:6} But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and [that] he were drowned in the depth of the sea. Friend, that makes abortion sound like a pretty SERIOUS sin. Even if a woman can receive forgiveness after an abortion I’m confident that she shouldn’t be permitted to serve in leadership nor should she ever be licensed. She’s a murderer. And I believe that though she might go to Heaven she will face STRONG judgment and rebuke before the Judgment Seat of Christ…. and she may even loose a significant measure of her eternal reward. I once had a woman talk to me about her abortion. I was sickened. She cried and I prayed with her. But friend, I told her point blank that she has blood on her hands and that even if God forgives her she will face unbelievable sorrow for the sin she had committed. Now tell me…would you agree with this? Or would you “soft ball” and wimp out with a woman who committed this sin and only use this as some cheap political ploy like most Republicans?! |
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I do believe in mercy…but I don’t believe in greeaaasy grace. Some of you guys make it sound like all a murderous woman needs to do to be clean from the sin of abortion is vote Republican. Friend, she’s going to bare the guilt of her sin even after God has saved her soul. It’s a spiritual sowing and reaping. I’ve often told women that if they ever chose abortion they would forever regret it…even after God forgave them. This is an unconscionable sin before the throne of God. My point is that we are using this issue as a political ploy and NOT preaching the spiritual and moral dimensions of it for the individual women who make this choice. Quote:
We’re talking moral right and wrong in spite of legality. First, I think it demonstrates a weakness of faith and lack of trust in God. Second, I think it’s an issue to be settled by individual women. But this underscores how complex this issue is. I don’t believe abortion is ever morally right. Though I don’t believe it should be banned or restricted in every sense. The choice to commit such an act is best left in the hands of individual women such as your wife and my wife. Now, back to what provoked this thought…. You insinuated that Democrats are baby killers. This illustrates something…we’d berate and insult anyone who dares to feel it best to vote Democratic, calling the Democrats “baby killers” and such…but then we go gooey and talk mercy, mercy, mercy, toward the very women who have chosen to have an abortion. I can have much sympathy for a woman who chose an abortion to save her life…even though I still feel it was a moral wrong. But I have a hard time having sympathy for a woman who abused her right to choose by having an elective abortion for birth control purposes. Why does the sanctity of life only matter in the voting booth? Why doesn’t it matter when dealing with the murderers who actually choose abortion? Could it be because we’re too weak kneed to confront potential tithers with the truth about their sin? I don’t know why abortion matters more in our politics than it does in our pews. That’s one reason why I think that many Republicans only want to use the issue to get votes….they really don’t value life. Not to mention that once elected the Republicans do virtually NOTHING about it. So if a Democrat will address poverty and the issues that cause women to choose abortion to reduce the abortion rate, why not support them? Both Democratic candidates voiced the need to reduce the abortion rate in our nation. Belgium has the lowest abortion rate in the world…yet abortion is legal in Belgium. Republicans only offer to make abortion illegal…they don’t care a bit about the abortion rate itself. Only Democrats have a plan to reduce abortion like they have in Belgium. Of course since their policies are not steeped in pro-life and religious language most have no idea about these policies. For example the “95-10 Initiative”, it’s a DEMOCRATIC initiative to reduce the abortion America’s rate 95% in 10 years…but virtually no Pro-Life Republican voter has even heard of it. In fact, Republicans in Congress have resisted the various efforts to pass elements of this legislation. If abortion is murder in the voting both…it’s murder in the pews. |
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For the record, most who vote Democratic do so based on economy, jobs, and health care. Very few vote Democratic because they support abortion. You and I both believe in forgiveness. I differ from you in that I believe there is a hefty price to pay for sins committed even after forgiven. I do not see Paul settling and pastoring a church. He evanglized and planted churches and kept moving. |
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The government may not force our churches to perform a marriage ceremony for two gays but what is going to happen if these gays start suing our pastors because they refuse, can our churches afford that ? The ACLU would be more than happy to see every God fearing church in our nation closed. As far as the church becoming political(it has always been,) if we don't do all we can to defend our rights who will, not the ACLU ? The only thing needed for evil to triumph is that good men do nothing ... |
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The more I thought about the post below the more I felt it necessary to address some of the points made. God bless all.
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Immorality is an issue of the human heart and soul. Mankind is a fallen creature….even those who appear most righteous are brazenly immoral before a Holy God. Your statement also assumes that it is government’s role to neglect economic and social stability to police morality. I find that problematic. Government is entirely incapable of governing morality. That’s why our founders stated that our constitution is incapable of governing an immoral people and stressed the importance of private and individual Christian faith as a necessity for a civil society. Quote:
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A true Apostolic can not vote for Obama, not because he is black but because he is an ultra liberal. I didn't say all Americans are selfish and self centered, I said too many are. They think of themselves above the morality of the nation. Some of them have had the government supporting them for generations.
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Never has a church been forced to perform a wedding because churches set their private standards of sacrament. Some churches require counseling and a couple has to meet the requirements for that counseling. A requirement that we’ll have to be sure to continue is that the couple be comprised of one man and one woman. And we dig in and stand for that truth. Right now we’re seen as standing against the liberties of others. QUOTE] Legalizing gay marriage will spark lawsuits against churches h/t Transfigurations Simply changing the definition of marriage opens the door to a flood of lawsuits against dissenting religious institutions based on state public accommodation and employment laws that prohibit marital status and sexual orientation discrimination. Additionally, religious institutions that refuse to recognize a new state-imposed definition could be stripped of access to government programs, have their tax exemption denied and even lose the ability to solemnize civil marriages. We need only look at Massachusetts for a preview of what to expect. There, in 2004, justices of the peace who refused to solemnize same-sex unions due to religious objections were summarily fired. It did not matter that other justices of the peace were available to do the job because, by Massachusetts law, same-sex unions were now entitled to equal treatment. A religious belief became a firing offense. It is but a small step for the state to impose this rationale on churches and other houses of worship and end legal recognition of religious marriage ceremonies that do not comply with the state’s expanded definition of marriage. This is not the only example of what is to come. Massachusetts, like many other states, strictly regulates private adoption agencies through licensing. Historically, this has not posed any difficulties for religious institutions, but Massachusetts now demands that all licensed adoption agencies be willing to place children with legally married same-sex couples. AnglicanXn: The “but clergy have a right to refuse to marry anyone they don’t want to marry” line is a very thin line of defence. Point of comparison: in an “employment at will” state, the employer has the right to terminate anyone without any reason. But, despite that, the employer does NOT have the right to terminate all African-American employees. So, just as clergy have the right not to marry anyone they choose not to, they will NOT have the right to make a blanket decision not to marry homosexual couples without risking the charge of discrimination. For those who are dubious, just look to the example in Canada. Connect the dots: 1) Homosexuals are entitled to be married. 2) Clergy derive their right to marry from the state, and are state actors in solemnizing marriage. 3) Anti-discrimination laws prohobit discrimination based on “sexual orientation.” Right there, you have clergy exposed to legal charges for refusing to marry homosexual couples. But most governments will, for now, carve out a religious conscience clause (as was supposedly done in Canada). Even the liberals did not dispute that, absent a conscience clause, clergy would be liable for not performing homosexual marriages. But how long will that religious conscience clause last? You know that the homosexual activists will work to eliminate the clause as soon as they think they will be able to do so. Additionally, churches which accept homosexual marriage work to undermine the religious conscience clause, especially for clergy in that denomination. Ask yourself this - if the Anglican Church of Canada officially endorses homosexual marriage, how can an individual Anglican priest in a hierarchical denomination, claim a religious conscientious objection to homosexual marriage? You’ve got to know that the human rights tribunals (stacked with those of an intolerant liberal POV) will simply declare that there is no valid relgious objection and that the individual clergy is simply discriminatory. This is a very real risk, and one that we need to pay very close attention to. |
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