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Praxeas 05-31-2008 02:50 PM

Body Language....Womens hair
 
This is from a website on body langauge

Women

Women are socially permitted to wear a much wider range of styles, probably to attract men (and compete with other women in this).
Long hair frames the face and may partially cover it, teasing about the beauty behind this curtain. Particularly when covering the eyes, long hair over the face provides a barrier behind which the woman can hide, perhaps when she has lower confidence or self-esteem.


When women cut their hair short, it can indicate a desire to be male, like a man or perhaps to be unattractive to men. It may also be a rebellion against womanhood, for example when they have been mistreated by other women when they were young.


http://changingminds.org/techniques/...y_language.htm



Interesting...author must be an Ultra Con

StMark 05-31-2008 03:01 PM

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This is interesting Prax


what is the church background of the person who wrote this?(if any)

TRFrance 05-31-2008 03:03 PM

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Well, that does seem to line up with scripture.

Paul made it pretty clear.
Nature tells us God long hair is for women, and short hair for men.

Praxeas 05-31-2008 03:05 PM

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Business consultants
http://syque.com/index.htm

StMark 05-31-2008 03:09 PM

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what faith are these people ?

Encryptus 05-31-2008 03:09 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478809)
This is from a website on body langauge

Women

Women are socially permitted to wear a much wider range of styles, probably to attract men (and compete with other women in this).
Long hair frames the face and may partially cover it, teasing about the beauty behind this curtain. Particularly when covering the eyes, long hair over the face provides a barrier behind which the woman can hide, perhaps when she has lower confidence or self-esteem.


When women cut their hair short, it can indicate a desire to be male, like a man or perhaps to be unattractive to men. It may also be a rebellion against womanhood, for example when they have been mistreated by other women when they were young.


http://changingminds.org/techniques/...y_language.htm



Interesting...author must be an Ultra Con

VERY different definition of short hair than most have here. Would think they are talking butch, if "long" hair covers the face !!!

Praxeas 05-31-2008 03:20 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by StMark (Post 478830)
what faith are these people ?

It's NOT a religious website.

StMark 05-31-2008 03:24 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478842)
It's NOT a religious website.


WOW! well that speaks volumes!!!


That ought to make the far left liberals on AFF think

Rico 05-31-2008 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by StMark (Post 478846)
WOW! well that speaks volumes!!!


That ought to make the far left liberals on AFF think

Think about what, St Mark? It says "when women cut their hair short", not "when women cut their hair". We all agree that women should have long hair and men should have short hair. We just disagree on long meaning uncut.

StillStanding 05-31-2008 03:33 PM

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If one looks hard enough, one can find someone or some article that appears to affirm their point of view!

Encryptus 05-31-2008 04:11 PM

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Once again the article's definition of short is butch. Literally like a man.
Not enough hair to cover EYES

Pressing-On 05-31-2008 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Encryptus (Post 478889)
Once again the article's definition of short is butch. Literally like a man.
Not enough hair to cover EYES

I was getting my taxes done years ago at an H&R block. The tax preparer told the next person he would be right with them. He said, "I'll be with you next, sir."

The lady, dressed in postal garb said, "I'm a Ma'am."

She had that type of haircut. Creepy!!

steve p 05-31-2008 04:16 PM

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What are the correct lengths that determine ones standing?

Is there an actual measurement for men or women?

Thanks and Blessings!!!

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:16 PM

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Years ago a "friend" of the family had a butch...I found out she was a lesbian later (I was young and naive)...

We went to get pizza and the guy behind the counter called her "sir"

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:17 PM

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Perhaps some of you are confused....but the thread is about BODY LANGUAGE and what people in that area say about a woman cutting her hair SHORT

steve p 05-31-2008 04:19 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478898)
Perhaps some of you are confused....but the thread is about BODY LANGUAGE and what people in that area say about a woman cutting her hair SHORT

Who determines what is "short"?

nahkoe 05-31-2008 04:20 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by TRFrance (Post 478823)
Nature tells us God long hair is for women, and short hair for men.

Can you explain this please? How does nature tell us this? Does men's hair stop growing while still short?

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by steve p (Post 478899)
Who determines what is "short"?

psychologist? I don't know. It's NOT a religious website lol

steve p 05-31-2008 04:21 PM

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Ron ,,,what kind of Guitar are you playing on Could it Be?

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:23 PM

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lol...you'd have to ask Ron, but I can ask him for you. :-)

steve p 05-31-2008 04:24 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478901)
psychologist? I don't know. It's NOT a religious website lol

Who in the apostolic churches determine what is correct hair length etc...
Thanks!

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:24 PM

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This is NOT about being apostolic. People, one last time...this is about body language. This is not about what is short hair by apostolics

Rico 05-31-2008 04:25 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by nahkoe (Post 478900)
Can you explain this please? How does nature tell us this? Does men's hair stop growing while still short?

That is a reference to a scripture found in the Bible where Paul is asking the question;

14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?
1 Cor 11:14 (KJV)


People have used this scripture to argue some things such as keeping our hair cut short enough so that it follows our natural hairline. I have also seen others argue that it means we should naturally just know that we need to keep our hair etc. (our and we referring to men)

steve p 05-31-2008 04:25 PM

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uh ok.....sorry for asking a question.....
Blessings still!!!

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:26 PM

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You're asking the wrong person...I really don't care and this thread is not about what Apostolics teach. You are welcome to ask, but it just does not really have anything to do with this thread. The others here apparently thought it did too lol

steve p 05-31-2008 04:27 PM

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(afraid to comment) lol

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:31 PM

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I just thought such a statement might normally come from a conservative of the religious sort when in fact it came from a business success oriented website and body langauge....there are people that work in the area of body language like psychologists etc etc....just found it ironic. This was not a religious opinion

steve p 05-31-2008 04:33 PM

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Im still wondering what the other guitar you play besides the T5 is...

Blessings!

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:34 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by steve p (Post 478904)
Who in the apostolic churches determine what is correct hair length etc...
Thanks!

Steve...Im not saying you can't ask, but you keep asking me and I am just not interested in that topic. I started a thread that deals with body language and hair from a NON Apostolic religious standpoint. Im just reminding everyone this is not about Apostolic and hair length

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:35 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by steve p (Post 478918)
Im still wondering what the other guitar you play besides the T5 is...

Blessings!

lol....like I said, you have to ask RON...I can ask him for you when I see him next

Hoovie 05-31-2008 04:35 PM

Re: Body Language....Womens hair
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478809)
This is from a website on body langauge

Women

Women are socially permitted to wear a much wider range of styles, probably to attract men (and compete with other women in this).
Long hair frames the face and may partially cover it, teasing about the beauty behind this curtain. Particularly when covering the eyes, long hair over the face provides a barrier behind which the woman can hide, perhaps when she has lower confidence or self-esteem.


When women cut their hair short, it can indicate a desire to be male, like a man or perhaps to be unattractive to men. It may also be a rebellion against womanhood, for example when they have been mistreated by other women when they were young.


http://changingminds.org/techniques/...y_language.htm



Interesting...author must be an Ultra Con



What I have known and observed is becoming official... Sweet!

steve p 05-31-2008 04:40 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478922)
lol....like I said, you have to ask RON...I can ask him for you when I see him next

Ohhhhhhhhh I thought you were Ron.....
My mistake....and.......by the way....I wont ask you again about the hair thingy.......LOL
Blessings!

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:42 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by steve p (Post 478926)
Ohhhhhhhhh I thought you were Ron.....
My mistake....and.......by the way....I wont ask you again about the hair thingy.......LOL
Blessings!

Thanks. I can ask him though. His other guitar he specifically wanted to use. He says it rocks.

nahkoe 05-31-2008 04:42 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 478906)
That is a reference to a scripture found in the Bible where Paul is asking the question;

14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?
1 Cor 11:14 (KJV)


People have used this scripture to argue some things such as keeping our hair cut short enough so that it follows our natural hairline. I have also seen others argue that it means we should naturally just know that we need to keep our hair etc. (our and we referring to men)

I know the Scripture used for it, but I've never understood it. Nature doesn't make men's hair stop growing at a certain point. And it doesn't make women's grow longer than men's. Just interests me, that's all.

I do cut my hair, but it's halfway down my back. I know most consider that long, but probably a higher percentage here would consider it short. lol

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by nahkoe (Post 478929)
I know the Scripture used for it, but I've never understood it. Nature doesn't make men's hair stop growing at a certain point. And it doesn't make women's grow longer than men's. Just interests me, that's all.

I do cut my hair, but it's halfway down my back. I know most consider that long, but probably a higher percentage here would consider it short. lol

I think by nature womens hair is usually thicker and more abundant.

nahkoe 05-31-2008 04:46 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478809)
Long hair frames the face and may partially cover it, teasing about the beauty behind this curtain. Particularly when covering the eyes, long hair over the face provides a barrier behind which the woman can hide, perhaps when she has lower confidence or self-esteem.

I know how I wear my hair is directly related to how I'm doing emotionally at the time. I do hide behind it sometimes, not so much anymore. I've also gone through times when I've worn it up all the time and NEVER down. I didn't want to attract attention at all from men at that time. Right now, it's down most of the time, with the front pulled up in a clip to keep it out of my face. This is my "happy place" hair. lol Well, mostly at least.

staysharp 05-31-2008 04:47 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by nahkoe (Post 478929)
I know the Scripture used for it, but I've never understood it. Nature doesn't make men's hair stop growing at a certain point. And it doesn't make women's grow longer than men's. Just interests me, that's all.

I do cut my hair, but it's halfway down my back. I know most consider that long, but probably a higher percentage here would consider it short. lol

Biblical scholars remain perplexed with these texts. They consider think parts of the texts may be missing and Paul may have been answering a letter from the Corinthian Elders and quoting that letter.

That scripture could easily be translated...Nature itself teaches us that it is not a shame...man and women's hair grows long together. Nature teaches us that man's hair grows long too. Great men of the bible had long hair. God accepted long hair on men as a point of consecration through the Nazarite vow.

Paul himself took the Nazarite vow in Acts 19. Paul had long hair and many cannot truly discern these texts. Satan has used our misunderstanding to create division among the body.

Hoovie 05-31-2008 04:50 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478930)
I think by nature womens hair is usually thicker and more abundant.

...I remember Newman a a few others making a case that there are as many bald women as there are bald men...

staysharp 05-31-2008 04:50 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 478930)
I think by nature womens hair is usually thicker and more abundant.

I know many women who wear wigs because their hair is so thin. Several ladies in my church can't grow hair and many of them are loosing their hair too. This is just plain silly to think God somehow favors long haired women over short.

It's a matter of the heart. If a woman wants to look like a man and her motive is wicked, God will deal with that himself. So too if a man seeks to be effeminate.

Praxeas 05-31-2008 04:53 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 478937)
...I remember Newman a a few others making a case that there are as many bald women as there are bald men...

but for what reasons? Cancer treatment? Intentional? Hormone deficiencies?


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