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Rico 07-31-2008 07:20 PM

Some advice
 
Gang, I'd like to hear your thoughts on something. As most of you know, I work from home, selling insurance. Because of the nature of what I do, I have found that 6 hours on the phone a day is pretty much my limit. Between what I make and what my wife makes, we are keeping our bills paid. However, I am going nuts being in this house all the time, and I want to find a second job away from the house. It doesn't have to be anything fancy, but it definitely has to be strictly part time work, maybe 20 hours a week max. I've been tossing around some ideas, and thought I would share them with you to see what you think. Keep in mind that I live in a small town with very few jobs, and I am not going to drive any distance to go work somewhere part time. Anyway, these are my choices:
  • Gas Station
  • Fast Food
  • Grocery Store
  • Dollar Store
  • Sell life insurance as an independant agent.

I am leaning towards checking out the gas stations, because I've done that kind of work before. I am not sure if one of the restaurants around here would hire me because of my beard. I did work in the meat department of a grocery store a long time ago. The dollar store would be a completely new experience for me.

With the exception of the life insurance thing, none of these jobs would pay more than $7 per hour, but that's ok. I just want to get out of the house. Selling life insurance as an independant would make me more money, but I would have some expenses involved in getting it off the ground. What do you guys think?

tstew 07-31-2008 07:33 PM

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I'm not sure what city you live in, but in Houston there are a bunch of websites and employment resources online. There could very easily be tons of jobs that you are not even considering. Many of them have filters that you could use to eliminate any full-time jobs.
I know that at one point monster.com was a big national resource for jobs. Here in Houston I help people find many part-time jobs, and I just want to be sure that you are not limiting your possibilities.

AmazingGrace 07-31-2008 07:39 PM

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Rico when I was going thru my divorce I had to go to work at a gas station a little one in the middle of the sticks.. mine was because I had to have a job but he was hunting me down everywhere so I had to go to the one place he wouldnt look... however what is so weird about it was that I made lifelong friends there and even able to witness to so many people and it was actually fun!!!! So I would check into it... I did it for 3 months until permenant restraining orders were in effect and really kind of missed it...but I had a real job waiting on me just couldnt go there for the time being

Rico 07-31-2008 07:55 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by tstew (Post 552842)
I'm not sure what city you live in, but in Houston there are a bunch of websites and employment resources online. There could very easily be tons of jobs that you are not even considering. Many of them have filters that you could use to eliminate any full-time jobs.
I know that at one point monster.com was a big national resource for jobs. Here in Houston I help people find many part-time jobs, and I just want to be sure that you are not limiting your possibilities.

Brother, this town has about 2000 people living in it, including the ones out in the country we can claim. I pretty much named everything there is around here, except for the potato chip packing place. There are more jobs across the River, but I am not going to drive 15 miles to go work somewhere part time, considering the $4 a gallon gasoline. This is a small town and only has small town jobs available. Anything that pays much is in the northern part of the county or in the next county over. I'd be happy with one of piddly diddly jobs this town has to offer.

Old Paths 07-31-2008 08:03 PM

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Become a pastor!

Do not hesitate!

Pastors sleep late, work very little and have zero stress.

The money is always excellent, since all the pastor does is rob widows and orphans.

And the benefits of never having to admit that you are wrong are tremendous for your ego.

Praxeas 07-31-2008 08:06 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Old Paths (Post 552887)
Become a pastor!

Do not hesitate!

Pastors sleep late, work very little and have zero stress.

The money is always excellent, since all the pastor does is rob widows and orphans.

And the benefits of never having to admit that you are wrong are tremendous for your ego.

Not to mention getting paid to play golf

Pro31:28 07-31-2008 08:09 PM

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How about Massage Therapy, it pays well and you only have to work a few hours a week .... :whistle

Rico 07-31-2008 08:12 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Old Paths (Post 552887)
Become a pastor!

Do not hesitate!

Pastors sleep late, work very little and have zero stress.

The money is always excellent, since all the pastor does is rob widows and orphans.

And the benefits of never having to admit that you are wrong are tremendous for your ego.

I know you've lost your mind now, OP! :lol

Rico 07-31-2008 08:18 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pro31:28 (Post 552893)
How about Massage Therapy, it pays well and you only have to work a few hours a week .... :whistle

And be rubbin oil and lotion over all them women?!?!?! Are ya nuts?!?!?! It's hard enough to resist me as it is, Sister! Just ask my wife, if you don't believe me! She'd have my head! All them women showin up at all hours of the night, begging for me to give them another massage and throwing all their money at me! I'd be divorced in no time flat! We can't have that happen, can we? No. It's better I save all my massagin for my wifeypoo. I am tryin to get to Heaven, ya know. :D

Pro31:28 07-31-2008 08:24 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 552910)
And be rubbin oil and lotion over all them women?!?!?! Are ya nuts?!?!?! It's hard enough to resist me as it is, Sister! Just ask my wife, if you don't believe me! She'd have my head! All them women showin up at all hours of the night, begging for me to give them another massage and throwing all their money at me! I'd be divorced in no time flat! We can't have that happen, can we? No. It's better I save all my massagin for my wifeypoo. I am tryin to get to Heaven, ya know. :D

Good thinkin! :ursofunny
Cause those midnight massages on strange women are so common...

"Rico's House of Rubbin' "... Hmm, yeah you better not!

Rico 07-31-2008 08:27 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pro31:28 (Post 552924)
Good thinkin! :ursofunny
Cause those midnight massages on strange women are so common...

"Rico's House of Rubbin' "... Hmm, yeah you better not!



:killinme :killinme :killinme


Sister, you are way more fun than your husband to talk to! :D

Pro31:28 07-31-2008 08:29 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 552930)
:killinme :killinme :killinme


Sister, you are way more fun than your husband to talk to! :D

That may be true, but he takes the cake on intelligence! I tell everyone that he is smart one, I am the cute one... :ursofunny

Rico 07-31-2008 08:34 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pro31:28 (Post 552936)
That may be true, but he takes the cake on intelligence! I tell everyone that he is smart one, I am the cute one... :ursofunny

He is a pretty smart fella. I like Baron, even though there is a lot we disagree on. He's one of the people around here I can talk with about stuff, and it never goes down the "you're going to hell", "I'm better than you", "you aren't even a Christian" junk we have to deal with so much around here.

Pro31:28 07-31-2008 08:37 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 552945)
He is a pretty smart fella. I like Baron, even though there is a lot we disagree on. He's one of the people around here I can talk with about stuff, and it never goes down the "you're going to hell", "I'm better than you", "you aren't even a Christian" junk we have to deal with so much around here.

He does love a good argument! I hate confrontation, I generally deal with it with humor, he on the other hand can have a genuine discussion (argument) with someone and love every minute of it! It just runs off his back.... I was going to post something on the other thread;

I will fess up, I am the Baron's........................................... ...............




Massage Therapist!


:ursofunny

berkeley 07-31-2008 09:11 PM

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Gas stations are fun... but I'd go with the dollar store.

Sherri 07-31-2008 09:32 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pro31:28 (Post 552950)
He does love a good argument! I hate confrontation, I generally deal with it with humor, he on the other hand can have a genuine discussion (argument) with someone and love every minute of it! It just runs off his back.... I was going to post something on the other thread;

I will fess up, I am the Baron's........................................... ...............




Massage Therapist!


:ursofunny

I had no idea you were the Baroness!!!!!!

dansamy 07-31-2008 10:22 PM

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Dollar Store.

Timmy 07-31-2008 11:11 PM

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Ever consider bar-tending? :toofunny

Rico 07-31-2008 11:19 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 553278)
Ever consider bar-tending? :toofunny


:snapout:crazy

berkeley 07-31-2008 11:28 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 553289)
:snapout:crazy

why not? drinking is not a sin...

Pro31:28 08-01-2008 04:53 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sherri (Post 553059)
I had no idea you were the Baroness!!!!!!

:ursofunny

For almost 16 years!
Yeah, it has come up on a couple other threads, but we tend to lurk in different areas... I likes the controversial threads, I tend to stick with the fun ones... opposites attract, right?:friend

rgcraig 08-01-2008 07:16 AM

Re: Some advice
 
Gas station

freeatlast 08-01-2008 07:32 AM

Re: Some advice
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Old Paths (Post 552887)
Become a pastor!

Do not hesitate!

Pastors sleep late, work very little and have zero stress.

The money is always excellent, since all the pastor does is rob widows and orphans.

And the benefits of never having to admit that you are wrong are tremendous for your ego.


While this is all true Odd Paths, there may not be a church available in Rico's little town.

Surely you would'nt expect him to start a work from scratch?

steve p 08-01-2008 07:44 AM

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Bar tending.....ya cant drink while working.....and think of all the so called christians who would be up in arms cause your in a bar telling people about Jesus...goodness knows we don't want to go where the sinners are...some of them just might come to know Jesus...hmm....

Timmy 08-01-2008 07:47 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by steve p (Post 553372)
Bar tending.....ya cant drink while working.....and think of all the so called christians who would be up in arms cause your in a bar telling people about Jesus...goodness knows we don't want to go where the sinners are...some of them just might come to know Jesus...hmm....

BTW, I tend bar once a week! Love it. But I don't tell my customers about Jesus. They already know, most likely.

(And yes, I can drink on duty! But I guess it depends on the establishment's policy.)

Old Paths 08-01-2008 08:01 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 553367)
While this is all true Odd Paths, there may not be a church available in Rico's little town.

Surely you would'nt expect him to start a work from scratch?



Thanks, Freeatleast for pointing that out, but maybe there'a a congregation nearby, that with right amount of stirring would run their pastor off or split the church, though it's always better to run the hardnose conservative preacher off so you can get the congregation annnnnd the building.

Rico,I hope that you are taking notes.

Pro31:28 08-01-2008 08:04 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pro31:28 (Post 553328)
:ursofunny

For almost 16 years!
Yeah, it has come up on a couple other threads, but we tend to lurk in different areas... I likes the controversial threads, I tend to stick with the fun ones... opposites attract, right?:friend

I meant HE likes controversial ones! NOT ME!

Timmy 08-01-2008 08:05 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by freeatlast (Post 553367)
While this is all true Odd Paths, there may not be a church available in Rico's little town.

Surely you would'nt expect him to start a work from scratch?

Why not? Doesn't a founding pastor get extra perks?

Old Paths 08-01-2008 08:11 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Timmy (Post 553389)
Why not? Doesn't a founding pastor get extra perks?



That statement says a lot about your thought patterns and what you think.


:D

Rico 08-01-2008 10:25 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Berkeley (Post 553300)
why not? drinking is not a sin...

Why on Earth would I want to go work at a bar and have to deal with drunks for a living? No thanks!

tstew 08-01-2008 10:29 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 552878)
Brother, this town has about 2000 people living in it, including the ones out in the country we can claim. I pretty much named everything there is around here, except for the potato chip packing place. There are more jobs across the River, but I am not going to drive 15 miles to go work somewhere part time, considering the $4 a gallon gasoline. This is a small town and only has small town jobs available. Anything that pays much is in the northern part of the county or in the next county over. I'd be happy with one of piddly diddly jobs this town has to offer.

Well, in a town that size I guess the gas station is a more viable option than I first realized. In a lot of places the risks just outweigh the rewards too badly.

Rico 08-01-2008 10:32 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Old Paths (Post 553383)
Thanks, Freeatleast for pointing that out, but maybe there'a a congregation nearby, that with right amount of stirring would run their pastor off or split the church, though it's always better to run the hardnose conservative preacher off so you can get the congregation annnnnd the building.

Rico,I hope that you are taking notes.

You got yourself involved in this one. :D I have absolutely no desire whatsoever to pastor a church.

Pro31:28 08-01-2008 10:36 AM

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Well Rico, I am not going to encourage you in the job pursuit, because frankly you are just too much fun to have on AFF during the day, However I WILL give you persmission to begin looking in September when my teaching job starts back up :)

Much Love!

Rico 08-01-2008 10:43 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pro31:28 (Post 553549)
Well Rico, I am not going to encourage you in the job pursuit, because frankly you are just too much fun to have on AFF during the day, However I WILL give you persmission to begin looking in September when my teaching job starts back up :)

Much Love!

I do the work from home thing during the daytime hours, and post in between calls, so I would be working more in the evening hours with this second job.

RandyWayne 08-01-2008 10:52 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 552910)
And be rubbin oil and lotion over all them women?!?!?! Are ya nuts?!?!?! It's hard enough to resist me as it is, Sister! Just ask my wife, if you don't believe me! She'd have my head! All them women showin up at all hours of the night, begging for me to give them another massage and throwing all their money at me! I'd be divorced in no time flat! We can't have that happen, can we? No. It's better I save all my massagin for my wifeypoo. I am tryin to get to Heaven, ya know. :D

This would be Rico on the job as a massage therapist:
http://cache.consumerist.com/consume..._bob-thumb.jpg

berkeley 08-01-2008 10:52 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by RandyWayne (Post 553563)
This would be Rico on the job as a massage therapist:
http://cache.consumerist.com/consume..._bob-thumb.jpg

Is that the Enzyte guy?

RandyWayne 08-01-2008 10:53 AM

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Yes

Timmy 08-01-2008 11:16 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Old Paths (Post 553399)
That statement says a lot about your thought patterns and what you think.


:D

You don't know the half of it! :woot

Pro31:28 08-01-2008 11:17 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 553559)
I do the work from home thing during the daytime hours, and post in between calls, so I would be working more in the evening hours with this second job.

WHEW! Ok, then...

True Believer 08-01-2008 01:30 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Rico (Post 552930)
:killinme :killinme :killinme


Sister, you are way more fun than your husband to talk to! :D

:blink Whose her husband? :dunno


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