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EA 02-09-2009 07:12 PM

How Often Must a Man Shave to be Saved?
 
How Often Must a Man Shave to be Saved?

Cindy 02-09-2009 07:14 PM

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:girlnails

Hoovie 02-09-2009 07:16 PM

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MissBrattified 02-09-2009 07:18 PM

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I vote for every hour...there should be NO facial hair, and stubble (which qualifies as facial hair in its infantile stage) should be removed as often and regularly as possible.

Better yet, Laser Hair removal could be suggested, rendering his face permanently hair free, insuring a man's entrance through the pearly gates with a face as smooth as a baby's bottom. Or a woman's face. :coffee2

EA 02-09-2009 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 702371)
I have a customized thread for you EA


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Praxeas 02-09-2009 07:27 PM

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I toyed with the idea of changing the title here to "The 1 time you can call Ed an idiot and not be banned".:ursofunny

Encryptus 02-09-2009 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 702374)
I vote for every hour...there should be NO facial hair, and stubble (which qualifies as facial hair in its infantile stage) should be removed as often and regularly as possible.

Better yet, Laser Hair removal could be suggested, rendering his face permanently hair free, insuring a man's entrance through the pearly gates with a face as smooth as a baby's bottom. Or a woman's face. :coffee2

AGREED

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKKWP...eature=related

EA 02-09-2009 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Praxeas (Post 702385)
I toyed with the idea of changing the title here to "The 1 time you can call Ed an idiot and not be banned".:ursofunny

Good one!

It would be the most popular thread in AFF history!!!!!!!!!:smack

EA 02-09-2009 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 702374)
I vote for every hour...there should be NO facial hair, and stubble (which qualifies as facial hair in its infantile stage) should be removed as often and regularly as possible.

Better yet, Laser Hair removal could be suggested, rendering his face permanently hair free, insuring a man's entrance through the pearly gates with a face as smooth as a baby's bottom. Or a woman's face. :coffee2

MissB's freaky-con roots finally show themselves.

I guess the real question in regard to facial hair is this.

How long must facial hair be before it's considered a beard?

deltaguitar 02-09-2009 07:36 PM

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Hmmm . . . .


Did Jesus shave? I mean he is God and perfect.

Pastor Keith 02-09-2009 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Edward Anglin (Post 702368)
How Often Must a Man Shave to be Saved?

How badly we need revival for those guys over there to even consider this an issue, the pretty much beat up a good friend over this issue. Sad that this standard has become the litmus test for fellowship.

MissBrattified 02-09-2009 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Edward Anglin (Post 702391)
MissB's freaky-con roots finally show themselves.

I guess the real question in regard to facial hair is this.

How long must facial hair be before it's considered a beard?

*GASP* HOW did you KNOW??????????????????????? :foottap

MissBrattified 02-09-2009 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Encryptus (Post 702387)

Um. Thanks for that. :anonymous

TRFrance 02-09-2009 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Keith (Post 702400)
How badly we need revival for those guys over there to even consider this an issue, the pretty much beat up a good friend over this issue. Sad that this standard has become the litmus test for fellowship.

What scripture could they have possibly used to support their position?

Or did they simply not bother, since they know they have no real scriptural support on this?

Pastor Keith 02-09-2009 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by TRFrance (Post 702420)
What scripture could they have possibly used to support their position?

Or did they simply not bother, since they know they have no real scriptural support on this?

Like I said, some rude things were said to a good friend because he had some facial hair.

Sam 02-09-2009 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by deltaguitar (Post 702393)
Hmmm . . . .


Did Jesus shave? I mean he is God and perfect.

Of course He shaved.
Haven't you seen those pictures of Him in the revised UPC literature?

JamDat 02-09-2009 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Keith (Post 702400)
How badly we need revival for those guys over there to even consider this an issue, the pretty much beat up a good friend over this issue. Sad that this standard has become the litmus test for fellowship.

I was told by a preacher that I was being vain for looking into the mirror to groom my beard.

He had a puzzled look when I told him that I only looked in the mirror to groom the face a couple of times a week whereas he looked every day to make his face pretty.

Sam 02-09-2009 08:36 PM

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Did Jesus have a beard or facial hair?


Did Jesus have facial hair?

We don’t have any photographs and the four Gospel accounts that we include in our Bibles don’t say.

Through the years artists have often shown him with a beard and long hair. Some times this hair has been blond almost like a woman with a beard.

The image on the shroud of Turin has a beard but there is controversy as to whether this crucified person is really the one we worship as our God in flesh.

In Isaiah there is a person referred to as the servant of YHWH which many take to be our Lord Jesus Christ. One verse in Isaiah 50:6 indicates He had facial hair.

Below are several versions of this verse from Bibles to which I have access. Some use the word “beard,” some speak of “hair” on the face or cheeks, while others do not use either of these designations.

I offered my back to those who beat me,
my cheeks to those who pulled out my beard;
I did not hide my face
from mocking and spitting. NIV

..
I gave My back to those who strike Me,
And My cheeks to those who pluck out the beard;
I did not cover My face from humiliation and spitting. NASB


I followed orders,
stood there and took it while they beat me,
held steady while they pulled out my beard,
Didn't dodge their insults,
faced them as they spit in my face. The Message


I gave My back to the smiters and My cheeks to those who plucked off the hair; I hid not My face from shame and spitting. Amplified


I give my back to those who beat me and my cheeks to those who pull out my beard. I do not hide from shame, for they mock me and spit in my face. NLT


I gave my back to the smiters, and my cheeks to them that plucked off the hair: I hid not my face from shame and spitting. KJV

I gave my back to those who strike,
......and my cheeks to those who pull out the beard;
I hid not my face
......from disgrace and spitting. ESV

I let them beat my back
and pull out my beard.
I didn't turn aside
when they insulted me
and spit in my face. CEV

I gave My back to those who struck Me,
.............. And My cheeks to those who plucked out the beard;
.............. I did not hide My face from shame and spitting. NKJV

I gave my back to the smiters, and my cheeks to them that plucked off the hair; I hid not my face from shame and spitting .ASV

......
My back I have given to those smiting, And my cheeks to those plucking out, My face I hid not from shame and spitting.
Youngs Literal Translation

..I gave my back to smiters, and my cheeks to them that plucked off the hair; I hid not my face from shame and spitting. Darby

I offered my back to those who struck me,
my cheeks to those who plucked out my beard;
I did not hide my face
From insult and spitting CJB

I gave my back to scourges, and my cheeks to blows; and I turned not away my face from from the shame of spitting. LXX

I have given my body to the strikers, and my cheeks to them that plucked them: I have not turned away my face from them that rebuked me and spit upon me. Douay

I offered my back to those who struck me,
my cheeks to those who tore at my beard;
I did not cover my face
against insult and spittle.
Jerusalem Bible

I gave my back to the smiters and my cheeks to those who slap on the face; I turned not my face from shame and spitting.
Syriac Peshitta

I gave my back to the smiters, and my checks to them that plucked off the hair; I hid not my face from shame and spitting.
Jewish Publication Society

jaxfam6 02-09-2009 10:05 PM

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If I could actually get a good beard to grow, so I don't look dirty, I would stop shaving tomorrow. I hate to shave.

Jermyn Davidson 02-09-2009 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by jaxfam6 (Post 702541)
If I could actually get a good beard to grow, so I don't look dirty, I would stop shaving tomorrow. I hate to shave.

I shave for the military. I do what I'm told to do. The thing with the military is that there is nothing more to it-- we shave as a practice of discipline and hygiene.

There is value to be clean shaven in an NBC or radiation environment, but that is not an every day situation.


When folks try to add salvational value to a man-made discipline, they're simply wrong.

Folks would be better of to just simply state, "Don't shave because I told you so,"-- or maybe something a little less abrasive.

Then it truly becomes a matter of obedience and submission.

Hoovie 02-09-2009 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 702565)
I shave for the military. I do what I'm told to do. The thing with the military is that there is nothing more to it-- we shave as a practice of discipline and hygiene.

There is value to be clean shaven in an NBC or radiation environment, but that is not an every day situation.


When folks try to add salvational value to a man-made discipline, they're simply wrong.

Folks would be better of to just simply state, "Don't shave because I told you so,"-- or maybe something a little less abrasive.

Then it truly becomes a matter of obedience and submission.

I can't imagine how arbitrarily demanding anything without scriptural support would be better than just making stuff up... they are one and the same.

Jermyn Davidson 02-09-2009 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 702578)
I can't imagine how arbitrarily demanding anything without scriptural support would be better than just making stuff up... they are one and the same.

Nope, not one in the same.

If you come into my house, you will take off your shoes at the front door.

Now you don't have to come to my house, but if you receive an invitation to my house and you accept it, then you should respect my house.


Same if I was running a business, if you work for me, then you will follow my guidelines or you're fired.

So if I was a member of a church that had "Platform Rules" or "Leadership Requirements" that were presented as such and only as such, then it negates all of the stupidity of adding to the Bible to legitimize someone's preference.

Eve was deceived once she added to the word of God. She would have been fine just leaving God's word the way it was, without adding her emphasis as God's Word.

Hoovie 02-09-2009 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 702583)
Nope, not one in the same.

If you come into my house, you will take off your shoes at the front door.

Now you don't have to come to my house, but if you receive an invitation to my house and you accept it, then you should respect my house.


Same if I was running a business, if you work for me, then you will follow my guidelines or you're fired.

So if I was a member of a church that had "Platform Rules" or "Leadership Requirements" that were presented as such and only as such, then it negates all of the stupidity of adding to the Bible to legitimize someone's preference.

Eve was deceived once she added to the word of God. She would have been fine just leaving God's word the way it was, without adding her emphasis as God's Word.


Yup I do understand that more... But for the general membership :nah

Jermyn Davidson 02-09-2009 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 702585)
Yup I do understand that more... But for the general membership :nah

Agreed.

MomOfADramaQn 02-10-2009 06:23 AM

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Hmmmm - le's see....searching the scripture.........trying to find what the bible says about a man shaving......searching.......searching...... searching.....hmm can't see to see where it is an issue in the Bible - so I guess if you say it is a "sin" or "unholy" for a man not to shave you are adding something the scriptures and I am pretty sure we are NOT supposed to do that :)

shag 02-10-2009 06:41 AM

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I can hear Paul now, "Men, It dosen't matter if ya get circumsized or not anymore, but if you're gonna play that instrument up here with everybody else, you're gonna have to look apostolic, not worldly, and that means atleast stay smooth shaved". And men, we need that with any leadership ministry here at Corinth as well.

Jermyn Davidson 02-10-2009 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by shag (Post 702626)
I can hear Paul now, "Men, It dosen't matter if ya get circumsized or not anymore, but if you're gonna play that instrument up here with everybody else, you're gonna have to look apostolic, not worldly, and that means atleast stay smooth shaved". And men, we need that with any leadership ministry here at Corinth as well.

If you don't like it, you can find another church to attend and to serve in.

Don't you think the Pastor has the right to make rules and boundaries for the folks that help him lead the church in the direction of the vision that God has allowed the Pastor to have?

SDG 02-10-2009 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 702583)

So if I was a member of a church that had "Platform Rules" or "Leadership Requirements" that were presented as such and only as such, then it negates all of the stupidity of adding to the Bible to legitimize someone's preference.

One of my dad's best friends who pastors an org church in SC .... tells those members that have facial hair and want to minister on the platform ...

"You won't find it anywhere in your Bible. So don't even bother to look for it. We just do it this way here. Shave."

:thumbsup

crakjak 02-10-2009 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 702583)
Nope, not one in the same.

If you come into my house, you will take off your shoes at the front door.

Now you don't have to come to my house, but if you receive an invitation to my house and you accept it, then you should respect my house.


Same if I was running a business, if you work for me, then you will follow my guidelines or you're fired.

So if I was a member of a church that had "Platform Rules" or "Leadership Requirements" that were presented as such and only as such, then it negates all of the stupidity of adding to the Bible to legitimize someone's preference.

Eve was deceived once she added to the word of God. She would have been fine just leaving God's word the way it was, without adding her emphasis as God's Word.

What is too often misunderstood is, "Who's house is it?" It should be the Father's House and it is He that should be making the rules. Church leaders that don't understand this are simply lording it over the children of God.

crakjak 02-10-2009 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 702637)
One of my dad's best friends who pastors an org church in SC .... tells those members that have facial hair and want to minister on the platform ...

"You won't find it anywhere in your Bible. So don't even bother to look for it. We just do it this way here. Shave."

:thumbsup

It is still the wrong focus. Men think ordering the outward appearance makes one more acceptable to the Lord.

By doing so, many that would come do not come.

SDG 02-10-2009 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by crakjak (Post 702642)
It is still the wrong focus. Men think ordering the outward appearance makes one more acceptable to the Lord.

By doing so, many that would come do not come.

Yet many non-Apostolic churches still have dress code requirements like tie, collared shirt, business casual, etc.

I agree there is a fine line ... and if one is not careful you can send the message of two classes in the church "ministerial" and "laity" ... Levites and the publicans.

There are many org churches who have adopted this "platform" rules approach for women mainly ... I think mainly to stave off criticisms from their district peers.

I know of one independent church that has struggled greatly with this ... the former UPCI pastor wanted to keep a lot of the old school vestiges for dress for his ministry and their wives but did not hold that standard for the rest of the church - pew, choir, etc.

It creates some confusion ... and has there.

Jermyn Davidson 02-10-2009 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by crakjak (Post 702641)
What is too often misunderstood is, "Who's house is it?" It should be the Father's House and it is He that should be making the rules. Church leaders that don't understand this are simply lording it over the children of God.


There is a way for a Pastor to have his standards and to apply them so as to not lord them over those he mentors.

Obedience and submission are two concepts in Christianity that aren't exactly popular.

There is nothing wrong with establishing order for the house that God has given you charge over.

And God gives free will-- that's why there are more than a few churches to choose from.

We should seek to find a place where we can serve in the body with the right heart.

Jermyn Davidson 02-10-2009 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea (Post 702644)
Yet many non-Apostolic churches still have dress code requirements like tie, collared shirt, business casual, etc.

I agree there is a fine line ... and if one is not careful you can send the message of two classes in the church "ministerial" and "laity" ... Levites and the publicans.

There are many org churches who have adopted this "platform" rules approach for women mainly ... I think mainly to stave off criticisms from their district peers.

I know of one independent church that has struggled greatly with this ... the former UPCI pastor wanted to keep a lot of the old school vestiges for dress for his ministry and their wives but did not hold that standard for the rest of the church - pew, choir, etc.

It creates some confusion ... and has there.



It's the RESPONSIBILITY of the Levites to present themselves as servants.

There aren't 2 classes, but there are different standards and different levels of personal discipline to be expected.

MrMasterMind 02-10-2009 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Jermyn Davidson (Post 702651)
It's the RESPONSIBILITY of the Levites to present themselves as servants.

There aren't 2 classes, but there are different standards and different levels of personal discipline to be expected.

Perhaps that is part of the problem.

No one has told them we do not have a priesthood of Levi in the New Testament.

rgcraig 02-10-2009 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 702374)
I vote for every hour...there should be NO facial hair, and stubble (which qualifies as facial hair in its infantile stage) should be removed as often and regularly as possible.

Better yet, Laser Hair removal could be suggested, rendering his face permanently hair free, insuring a man's entrance through the pearly gates with a face as smooth as a baby's bottom. Or a woman's face. :coffee2

I agree, however, doesn't nature itself teach us that a man is to have a beard? :ursofunny

Michael The Disciple 02-10-2009 09:58 AM

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Having not read all posts:

It is so amazing to me that practically ALL members of AFF understand there is no sin in men with beards, yet most still attend Churches that discourage them. Is this a true observation?

MissBrattified 02-10-2009 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig (Post 702661)
I agree, however, doesn't nature itself teach us that a man is to have a beard? :ursofunny

Nature should not be tolerated. :foottap

MissBrattified 02-10-2009 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple (Post 702700)
Having not read all posts:

It is so amazing to me that practically ALL members of AFF understand there is no sin in men with beards, yet most still attend Churches that discourage them. Is this a true observation?

Are you suggesting that it would be a good idea to leave a church simply because they discourage men from having beards?

I think that's a small point to quibble over.

Timmy 02-10-2009 10:11 AM

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It's times like this, I really miss Elder Epley. ;)

*AQuietPlace* 02-10-2009 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Michael The Disciple (Post 702700)
Having not read all posts:

It is so amazing to me that practically ALL members of AFF understand there is no sin in men with beards, yet most still attend Churches that discourage them. Is this a true observation?

Our pastor says straight out that the Bible doesn't prohibit beards, quite the opposite.... but our current church standard is not to have one, so as not to give offense to our brethren. (the eat-no-meat thing)

I wouldn't be surprised to see the whole issue fall away within the next 10 or 15 years.


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