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A genaration of Children rasied without TV.
We did it. We raised 3 boys from youth to 19,20 and 21yr old with NO TV. My family and freinds told us, They will not be able to experance the real world, and also they will be dum, and will not learn the things we need to know.
Our boys are injoyed where ever we go, they talk to older people, they they are amazed of there know how. every where we go, people try to hire them for jobs, without them even asking for work. Seems the throng of teens with Tatoos and body percings turns them off, and when they see clean cut, and respectfull boys, it is a differance anyone notices. Even though our boys are adults now, they have no desire to leave home and do there thing. They are welcome to leave, but choose not to. All there life they did many things. Most kids get 100s of hours per week of TV, ours did not, so they did things like build club houses,i learned them to weld and do wood work. They made long fork chopper bikes, there freinds were inpressed. They learned to make projects like, rasing a garden, and making home made cheeze, yogourt. One of my sons made his own steam engine from briggs engine by welding a extra cam lope on and making it 2 stroke, making small boiler and mounting it on a old speedex tractor, it runs on wood steam. The last project the boys did was run there truck on wood gas. He made a wood burning gasifer and mounted it on a old dodge truck. it runs without gas, he even took off the gas tank so no one could say he cheated. when we drove it to town people could not belive it, because they did not see it on TV, they though it could not be done. Cars running on wood gas, is not new, it was done in WW2 all over the world. The reason it is no used now, it would offend the greenies. Now at 21, one son owns 320 acres of land in wyoming and is design cnc operator, at 20 one son owns 14 classic cars he collected and traded for over the years and restores and sell them, and at 19 our youngest son, owns one car,does CNC plasma design, wants to buy his grandpa a new John deere riding lawn mower soon and is studying to Design and build Bible video games for children. All there goals they have, they also built us a new House, they are finishing it up now. 40x50 , with our 21yr old also installed a complete geothermal system with 8 geoloops 260ft deep holes and 2- 4 ton units. We got a quote for new Goe thermal system of 42,000.00. our boys did it for 7100.00. we now have a/c and heat with a cost of less then 45 bucks a month. Putting your kids infront of the TV for 18 yrs, it like setting a rattle snake in front of them. I hear peple say,Yes, but there are good things on the TV . I would say, there are still lots of good hambergers in MCdonalds dumpster too, do you want one. What % of hollywood is christain. what % of hollywood is truth. If it feeds the flesh, people will make a case to protect it. Even good TV shows have R rated or worse commercials. The TV does everything for you, it only needs a empty vessel to stare at it for hours. How many lost hours of production do we loose watchng it. With no TV time, wood the house get fixed up then. Would you watch , IN PERSON someone kill another person with a AXE . why would you watch killing, murder, and sex abuse, and call it intertainment and instuctional. Set no thing evil before your eyes, the bible says. Is TV holy, or clean, the people who make millions per yr, from TV, do they support Christain values and make the USA a better place. now, no one anymore even uses a dinner table at home, people just eat in front of the TV like drones, and if anyone wants to share the life of the day, it is a inturuption of a TV show, that is just a rerun anyway. Please justifie TV, why it is holy, and helps improve you life. Also tell me why, even the facts, you will still hold on the TV. |
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Could you please break up your post?
No one will bother reading it with it all running together like that. Thanks! |
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sorry i failed english.....
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Sounds like more than just no TV. Sounds like good parenting.
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AreYouLucky. Hope I did it justice. |
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My children were raised without TV...however I have many friends and theirs had TV and did well also.
I agree TV is a waste of time for the most part and if I had it to do again I still would raise them without TV...however I have never told them TV is a sin for it is just a box like a computer...I have lived to see TV in decline and internet the going thing. My father told me when he was a boy his church preached against the evils of Radio...It looks like in every generation we face a major task and that is teaching our children the REAL problem starts in the heart. I am a mother of many grown children...Some are not where I would like for them to be in the Lord but they my children. Three of our boys pastor, one of my daughters married a missionary and one of my daughter's her husband just begin preaching. our oldest son Raul Jr is the vice president of our brazilian churches another son is a jungle missionary and yet another pastors the large church in Maceio... Whatever they do for the Lord I am sure it is by the grace of God... |
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I like David Wilkerson's article he wrote why he does not have a TV.
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I don't even listen to the radio or even care about listening to CD's...boy am I different...I just like my computer for communication..I don't even have an I pod! All that blasting stuff makes me uneasy... and I sure would not care about watching people kill or commit sins...lol...
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However we cannot blame all the evils on TV I know people that have never had a TV and their tongues are far more evil and dangerous than a TV...
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May God bless you and your boys.
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Today is a wonderful day for me am at my son's convention and buses of people are coming in from so many places in Brazil...I am blessed to see so many people from all over.
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I went from 8-years-old to 17 or so with no TV in our house. I think it was probably a good thing. We have one now, and I could stand to watch it less. But I do like certain shows quite a bit.
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It's not just me - others mention how hard it is to read. |
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Brother, We have a daughter who might be interested in one of Your sons! Maybe we could 'arrange' something? :) Nina |
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But Podcasts (and the occasional MP3 song -the podcasts are MP3 as well) are another story! |
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Friend, with all due respect, I just found our a couple of days ago that they call this a liberal forum! You are in trouble now!!!!:ursofunny By the way... I'm kid of like that other person who posted... I have a daughter! Send me a PM. Would love to talk!:thumbsup |
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Well, I'm a certified card-carrying liberal on here, but I would love to have NO TV. I was raised with five of them in my home, and I think I turned out ok. But things on there are so different today; I'd just as soon chunk them out the door.
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I was raised without a tv, and my kids have been, too. For the most part, I'm glad. There are a few drawbacks, but mostly it's been good.
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Think I'll go watch a little TV and rest my eyes. |
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You know, I don't know that your children turned out great just because of no TV, but there are LOTS of parents who choose not to have tv in their homes for their children to feed their minds on.
In many cases, I agree with the decision and the reasoning behind it. I was reading a book the other day, about teaching children to read, and the author felt that tv was one of the main detriments to learning to read, for various reasons. In general, what is important is to instill godly principles that will help your kids make good choices whether there is a TV in the room or not. It sounds like you did that. I don't agree with all your specific points about TV, because I believe media is controlled by the user, not the other way around, BUT I certainly agree that children don't NEED tv to be happy, healthy and wise. In most cases, they will be happier, healthier and wiser without its' nagging presence, IMO. We recently got rid of most of our channels, leaving only two "kids" programming channels, and our kids really couldn't care less. If they were couch potatoes because of the TV, I would have had it turned off completely a long time ago. Rambling Soapbox Alert: If your kids don't read enough, don't read well, spend hours playing video games, or watching cartoons, try getting rid of your TV altogether and make them play outside instead, and take them to the library once a week. (My kids aren't allowed computer time at the library--it's books only!!!!) |
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I can never find anything good on - so ours just sits there most of the time. But when there's a big news story breaking I want to be able to follow it on several different channels.
Maybe you should check out and see if you have a local PBS television channel that gives remedial English lessons. You strike me as the kind of guy who would benefit greatly from educational television programming. |
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And a little 'rithmetic along with the reading and 'riting wouldn't hurt either. I quote the thread starter: "Most kids get 100s of hours per week of TV,. . ." A startling quote eclipsed by the simple equation: 7 days per week multiplied by 24 hours per day only equals 168 hours per week. It's hard to fit 100s of hours per week of TV into a 168 hour week (It's a little concept called division that they teach on Sesame Street). |
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LOL, boys, you should be nice. :D
I think there's plenty of quality tv--and plenty of brain mushing junk as well. Young children, especially, benefit a lot more from one-on-one parent/child time and reading books (and being read to). Also, I don't think I've ever seen an "R-rated commercial" on a family channel. I wonder where people get their info!!! Or what they used to watch that would make them think that.... Regardless, the overall truth is that children are fine without tv, in many (most?) cases better off, young children need TV to be VERY limited for the sake of their development, and that isn't an exclusively Christian POV--that's from a good parenting standpoint. |
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Ya know, I know so and so, and they turned out GREAT! Guess what.... They DON'T live in Montana! Thus I would think that those who DO live in Montana are at a HUGE disadvantage over those who are not.
Seriously, TOO MUCH television is but one of many factors that go into the development of a person. For kids growing up today, the internet has taken over the spot that TV used to hold. |
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Encountering horrific and mind-warping pornographic, violent or otherwise smutty content is the clear and present danger of the internet. |
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First > .........glad your boys turned out great. I agree with the comment that it's probably due to good parenting.
When my children were school age we did not have TV (hubby held UPC lic). They are all avid readers and I did take them to the library all the time. They did well in school and 2 of the 3 have college degrees. Is TV bad? Some of it. Is TV a time waster? yes As a parent you can control what your children watch (see Miss B's response). |
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For the most part I grew up without a TV.
Had a class assignment to draw one of the charcters from the Wizard of Oz. Since I had not seen the program, couldn't complete the assignment. I still have never sat down and watched the Wizard of Oz. Have caught bits and pieces here and there. The only social hinderance I ran into was not knowing who in the world they were talking about. :) [actors/actresses] |
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Why, look at you, look at how you turned out! :ursofunny Just kidding. I do think that those holding a position against TV will soon be in a postion like to someone preaching against 8track tapes. It will be archaic. (This is coming from an ultracon!) |
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I've noticed that children are not as interested in reading when they have television. They will read, but if you don't put a time limit on the t.v., you won't produce serious readers, IMO. Again, IMO, I think many of the children's shows are very poor examples of how we would want to raise our children. It totally competes with our good teaching as parents!! Totally DO NOT like the Disney Channel, many Disney movies, the Cartoon Channel, etc. :thumbsdown |
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I despise the cartoon network and most other kid's programming. Some of the older Disney movies are ok. We have quite a few of those. :) But, my kids are strange. They watch the food network dvds I bought for them more than anything else. When we had cable tv, they watched food network, tlc, discovery, national geographic (which definitely earns the "graphic" in it...I monitored that far more closely than anything else!) |
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After the boys finished the house, they told me, dad, i am never getting married. I ask why would you say that. They said, because we don't want to build another house. We all laughed together.
We as a family always did things together and still do. Once we had a 21yr old boy( lewis) help us a few days. We had to paint a few parts, and the boys gave lewis a can of spray paint to use. Lewis ask how do you use it. We though he was joking. But he was not. We showed him how and went on. Later the boys and i were talking. The boy lewis knew all the lastest rap songs, and also wore the lastest fashoin cloths, but did not even know how to use a can spray paint. This is the kind of thing, worldy TV training does. With generations of children left to worldy training, they are doomed to a steady job at mcdonalds. TV is so adicting it is everywhere, stores,eatting places, even gas pumps now. They are like little Budas. If you think they are not budas, just listen to the many excuses people who inbrace them explain how holy and great they are. |
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Maybe he knew how to use the can - but he became confused when you didn't give him a paper bag to "huff" with. |
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Yeah, I can appreciate much of what has been said, but the spray paint story seems a bit much. That would pretty much require him to have never used an aerosol can of any sort. :) Seriously, I was raised without a TV and I do believe there are pros and cons. Of course, as someone else has said, newer technologies are almost making traditional TV a moot point. |
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Is that what is meant about them being "little Budas" - that the job of holding bamboo shoots will be taken over by televisions? |
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