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Pastor Keith 03-11-2009 03:45 PM

~! Todd Bentley, re-married, restored~
 
Grady in his latest email discusses Greasy Grace, Todd Bentley is featured.

You can see the whole thing here. Good for Grady!

http://charismamag.com/index.php/fir...n=FIMB+3-11-09

tstew 03-11-2009 03:54 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Pastor Keith (Post 719126)
Grady in his latest email discusses Greasy Grace, Todd Bentley is featured.

You can see the whole thing here. Good for Grady!

http://charismamag.com/index.php/fir...n=FIMB+3-11-09

I get very concerned when I see what is happening in our country. Then I take a look at what is happening in churches, and I wonder...what is our recourse? If "Christianity" continues to go in the direction it seems to be going in, what hope does the country have? I just think that it is time for the church to really act and stand up.

CC1 03-11-2009 04:42 PM

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Excellent article. Grady has hit the nail on the head. Everybody needs to click on that link and read the article.

coadie 03-11-2009 04:44 PM

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The guy was a mess

This go arou8nd he may not have the novelty or curiosity.

TRFrance 03-11-2009 04:55 PM

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Interesting.
I wonder what the Todd Bentley fans on AFF have to say about this.


For those curious about the lucky lady... more info, and a picture of her, is here:
http://endtimespropheticwords.wordpr...essa-revealed/

crakjak 03-11-2009 05:11 PM

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Never was a fan, and won't be one if he returns.

ManOfWord 03-11-2009 07:17 PM

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Heavy sigh! Will it never cease? (no smiley)

Sam 03-11-2009 07:36 PM

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Question: So what did the "lucky lady" get?


Answer: a man who cheats on his wife.

Hoovie 03-11-2009 07:52 PM

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I was never a fan - nor a huge critic really, but now, IMHO it would take a fool to follow him.

Sam 03-11-2009 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 719220)
I was never a fan - nor a huge critic really, but now, IMHO it would take a fool to follow him.

I guess if David could get up and go on and be used and blessed of God after adultery and murder there may be hope for Todd Bentley. I wonder how long David was "set down" and "restored" before he began again to write Psalms, to worship God, and to rule as king. And, we didn't remove his writings from our Bibles after his fall.

MissBrattified 03-11-2009 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 719215)
Question: So what did the "lucky lady" get?


Answer: a man who cheats on his wife.

Yep!!!!! My Mama always said--if a man will leave his wife for you, he'll leave you for another wife.

MissBrattified 03-11-2009 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 719225)
I guess if David could get up and go on and be used and blessed of God after adultery and murder there may be hope for Todd Bentley. I wonder how long David was "set down" and "restored" before he began again to write Psalms, to worship God, and to rule as king. And, we didn't remove his writings from our Bibles after his fall.

Sam, David was King of Israel, but he wasn't a prophet or a priest. ANYONE can repent and once again become a worshiper and servant of God.

CC1 03-11-2009 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719234)
Sam, David was King of Israel, but he wasn't a prophet or a priest. ANYONE can repent and once again become a worshiper and servant of God.

Yup. It is a mockery of God's moral law when these preachers have major moral failures and everybody wants to act like nothing has happened and they should keep right on ministering and "leading" as they did before.

I have no doubt they can be restored and make it to heaven. I would gladly fellowship with one as a fellow saint. However there is a price to pay, as scripture shows was true for David after his sins, and these guys don't want to pay any price.

They want the nice new young wife for the future and the sin of adultery ignored or forgiven after a perfunctory repentence and apology.

You can follow these yoyo's if you want to but I am looking for leadership better than that for me to follow as they follow Christ. He can walk beside me as we both follow Christ but I will be doggone if he is still fit to be a leader.

tstew 03-11-2009 08:54 PM

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If what was said in the one article is true and the relationship existed before the Florida "revival" ever began, and he was involved while ministering, that is something that absolutely has to be taken into consideration.

Hesetmefree238 03-11-2009 09:08 PM

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Outstanding article by Mr. Grady.

*AQuietPlace* 03-11-2009 09:25 PM

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I'm completely out of the loop. I've never even heard of him.

Praxeas 03-11-2009 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by tstew (Post 719134)
I get very concerned when I see what is happening in our country. Then I take a look at what is happening in churches, and I wonder...what is our recourse? If "Christianity" continues to go in the direction it seems to be going in, what hope does the country have? I just think that it is time for the church to really act and stand up.

I agree. And while his statements seem to express contrition, I have to scratch my head at this statement

Todd and Jessa agree that their relationship was "wrong and premature" and that it "should not have happened the way it did";

Uh...you mean it should have happened a different way? Or maybe not at all. Yet they got married anyways

Praxeas 03-11-2009 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 719225)
I guess if David could get up and go on and be used and blessed of God after adultery and murder there may be hope for Todd Bentley. I wonder how long David was "set down" and "restored" before he began again to write Psalms, to worship God, and to rule as king. And, we didn't remove his writings from our Bibles after his fall.

BTW David had his kingdom torn apart and he was trying to be murdered by his son....and clearly God allowed it

ManOfWord 03-11-2009 10:34 PM

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I think a leader can be restored when the fame of their repentance exceeds the fame of their fall. :D

Hoovie 03-11-2009 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by ManOfWord (Post 719271)
I think a leader can be restored when the fame of their repentance exceeds the fame of their fall. :D


That is sort of tough is it not? The key to repentance is the antithesis of fame - humility.

MissBrattified 03-11-2009 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by ManOfWord (Post 719271)
I think a leader can be restored when the fame of their repentance exceeds the fame of their fall. :D

I guess I'm hard hearted, because I would find his repentance and restoration a lot more believable if he had permanently ended the relationship with his young hussy. :foottap

I'm well aware that I sounded like an old fogey just then, and I don't care.

Hoovie 03-11-2009 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719281)
I guess I'm hard hearted, because I would find his repentance and restoration a lot more believable if he had permanently ended the relationship with his young hussy. :foottap

I'm well aware that I sounded like an old fogey just then, and I don't care.

Yep. I am sort of an Epleyite on this one.

Pastor Keith 03-12-2009 04:57 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719281)
I guess I'm hard hearted, because I would find his repentance and restoration a lot more believable if he had permanently ended the relationship with his young hussy. :foottap

I'm well aware that I sounded like an old fogey just then, and I don't care.

I could be wrong, sounds like this has pushed hot button, something you have seen close up?

Sam 03-12-2009 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719281)
I guess I'm hard hearted, because I would find his repentance and restoration a lot more believable if he had permanently ended the relationship with his young hussy. :foottap

I'm well aware that I sounded like an old fogey just then, and I don't care.

Sorta like the guy that stole your car.

Then he drives over to your house and asks you to forgive him for stealing your car.

After you forgive him, he gets back into your car and drives it off.

You never see your car again except when you happen to see him driving it around.

MissBrattified 03-12-2009 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Keith (Post 719291)
I could be wrong, sounds like this has pushed hot button, something you have seen close up?

No more than anyone else I suppose. Haven't you seen plenty of ministerial lives destroyed over stupid stuff like this?

Then with the token, "I'm sorry", they're back in business, ex-wife (or husband) and children left to deal with the consequences? I'm for restoration, but it should be restoration to a relationship with God--not to all the perks of ministry. (Mind you, I know that ministry is not all perks--in fact for the average minister, it's mostly NOT perks!)

It bothers me when people desire a position so much that they're willing to say or do anything to get it back.

:nah

Something's rotten in Denmark!

MissBrattified 03-12-2009 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 719301)
Sorta like the guy that stole your car.

Then he drives over to your house and asks you to forgive him for stealing your car.

After you forgive him, he gets back into your car and drives it off.

You never see your car again except when you happen to see him driving it around.

Exactly! LOL!!!! Great analogy. :thumbsup

Hoovie 03-12-2009 08:26 AM

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:ursofunny:ursofunny
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sam (Post 719301)
Sorta like the guy that stole your car.

Then he drives over to your house and asks you to forgive him for stealing your car.

After you forgive him, he gets back into your car and drives it off.

You never see your car again except when you happen to see him driving it around.


Theophil 03-12-2009 10:18 AM

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Could it be remotely possible that Todd Bentley was never in a right relationship with God...That he never obeyed the Gospel...that he was and is a deceiver and charlatan???

RandyWayne 03-12-2009 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace* (Post 719250)
I'm completely out of the loop. I've never even heard of him.

I've been thinking the same thing.

Excellent article by the way.

RandyWayne 03-12-2009 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Sam (Post 719301)
Sorta like the guy that stole your car.

Then he drives over to your house and asks you to forgive him for stealing your car.

After you forgive him, he gets back into your car and drives it off.

You never see your car again except when you happen to see him driving it around.

That is a great story and unfortunately I hear and see variations of it far too often.
Where one brother cheats another out of money/car/wife/other material goods, then asks forgiveness without ANY attempt to make things right, at which point the person who has been cheated is now the bad guy in the eyes of the church for "not forgiving him/her!".

This quote from the article is part of what I am talking about:
Quote:

First of all, it is outrageous that Shonnah Bentley, Todd's first wife, does not seem to be an issue in the current discussion. Her name is never mentioned in Joyner's statement—while Todd is mentioned 18 times. We are never told how Shonnah is handling the divorce. How will she manage to care for the three children she and Todd share? She and the kids seem invisible in this process. Yet if anyone needs healing and restoration, is it not the other half of this broken family?
Followed a few paragraphs later by:
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Many Christians today have rejected biblical discipline and adopted a sweet, spineless love that cannot correct. Our grace is greasy. No matter what an offending brother does, we stroke him and pet him and nurse his wounds while we ignore the people he wounded. No matter how heinous his sin, we offer comforting platitudes because, after all, who are we to judge?

coadie 03-12-2009 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719281)
I guess I'm hard hearted, because I would find his repentance and restoration a lot more believable if he had permanently ended the relationship with his young hussy. :foottap

I'm well aware that I sounded like an old fogey just then, and I don't care.

Pharisees in the NT blamed the woman. Shameless hussy no doubt.


One fine option is for them to break up. Then gossip can destroy her.

I don't have solutions for this.

D. Wright 03-12-2009 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by coadie (Post 719435)
Pharisees in the NT blamed the woman. Shameless hussy no doubt.


One fine option is for them to break up. Then gossip can destroy her.

I don't have solutions for this
.

Surprised you don't.

coadie 03-12-2009 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by D. Wright (Post 719436)
Surprised you don't.

For every single man or woman in the ministry that falls. There are ten thousand that actually deeply and sincerely are doing the best they can to be faithful to their faith. For every airbus or Boeing wreck there tens and hundreds of thousands of safe flights. Some are rough. These plane wrecks sell news papers. And we pile on by saying they had false or partial doctrine. That is a different topic. I want To give the LORD the glory. sometimes mistakes men make get them on their knees. The LORD will save our enemies folks. No point in having enemies.
It would tickle me if all 3 people and those indirectly hurt get buckets of mercy, bushels of truth and truck loads of restoration and forgiveness.

MissBrattified 03-12-2009 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by coadie (Post 719435)
Pharisees in the NT blamed the woman. Shameless hussy no doubt.


One fine option is for them to break up. Then gossip can destroy her.

I don't have solutions for this.

Callest thou me a Pharisee? :coffee2

You've been calling women every name in the book for wearing makeup, but you're offended if I refer to an adulteress as a "hussy?"

:toofunny

MissBrattified 03-12-2009 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by coadie (Post 719443)
For every single man or woman in the ministry that falls. There are ten thousand that actually deeply and sincerely are doing the best they can to be faithful to their faith. For every airbus or Boeing wreck there tens and hundreds of thousands of safe flights. Some are rough. These plane wrecks sell news papers. And we pile on by saying they had false or partial doctrine. That is a different topic. I want To give the LORD the glory. sometimes mistakes men make get them on their knees. The LORD will save our enemies folks. No point in having enemies.
It would tickle me if all 3 people and those indirectly hurt get buckets of mercy, bushels of truth and truck loads of restoration and forgiveness.

I am NOT opposed to restoration and forgiveness--I am wholeheartedly for it. I just don't see how restoring the man to his position will help with that. Being restored to a right relationship with God is not the same as becoming a bishop again.

That is part of the problem--people see positions in the church or in the leadership as something to be sought after, and when they have a failure, instead of trying to fix their own hearts, they're just putting all the pieces back together in their lives!

"Uh-oh...I messed up...I can't be a preacher--I'd better apologize to the church so I can be a preacher again." No, apologize to GOD so you can be a Christian again. So there aren't any barriers. So sin doesn't separate you from Him.

coadie 03-12-2009 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719445)
Callest thou me a Pharisee? :coffee2

You've been calling women every name in the book for wearing makeup, but you're offended if I refer to an adulteress as a "hussy?"

:toofunny

1Jesus went unto the mount of Olives.

2And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.

3And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,

4They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.

5Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?

ManOfWord 03-12-2009 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephen Hoover (Post 719279)
That is sort of tough is it not? The key to repentance is the antithesis of fame - humility.

It absolutely IS tough to do. David did it.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719281)
I guess I'm hard hearted, because I would find his repentance and restoration a lot more believable if he had permanently ended the relationship with his young hussy. :foottap

I'm well aware that I sounded like an old fogey just then, and I don't care.

I agree. I'm not saying in the LEAST that TB has achieved his repentance, if there is any, exceeding the fame of his fall. He very well may NOT be able to accomplish it. I guess it is possible though.....it will take time and that is what many ministers are unwilling to deal with after they have fallen. :D

MissBrattified 03-12-2009 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by coadie (Post 719460)
1Jesus went unto the mount of Olives.

2And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.

3And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,

4They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.

5Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?

Really, coadie, do you think I'm going to argue with scripture? I wouldn't condemn the woman to be stoned. :) I really don't think she's a "shameless hussy" as much as probably a young woman taken in by a man in a position of power--but then I don't know her--maybe she seduced him. :D

They can BOTH get forgiveness--just like the rest of us. That really isn't the point of this thread. Did you bother to read the provided article? No one is saying they can't be or shouldn't be forgiven. :coffee2

tstew 03-12-2009 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 719466)
Really, coadie, do you think I'm going to argue with scripture? I wouldn't condemn the woman to be stoned. :) I really don't think she's a "shameless hussy" as much as probably a young woman taken in by a man in a position of power--but then I don't know her--maybe she seduced him. :D

They can BOTH get forgiveness--just like the rest of us. That really isn't the point of this thread. Did you bother to read the provided article? No one is saying they can't be or shouldn't be forgiven. :coffee2

Okay, then I'll say it..."She's a shameless hussy". She obviously knew he was married. She more than likely had a relationship with his wife.
Of course, he is the male version but exponentially worse.

Someone started a thread a while back about a revival of shame...I think that applies here.

StillStanding 03-12-2009 01:24 PM

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This whole situation makes me sick! TB has no other way to make the income that he had been accustomed to.

I guess we can all sit back and enjoy watching him crash and burn!


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