What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend
 

Hello bros&sisters, need your advice, I feel so hopeless thats why I posted my problem here. What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend. I am his first boyfriend, she was 27 yrs old, I am 30. and we are goin to marry soon. We are both christians. We love each other. My problem was, my girlfriend was so moody, easy to angry. She turns small things into a big argue... I hate being nagged, because I don't treat her like that. She was so perfectionist.
Is there anyway to turn her into a peaceful person? Please pray for me I am loosing my patience. I don't want to loose our relationship because I love her. Need your advice.

Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
 

That is not a good trait, you might consider marriage counseling with a competent Christian counselor. Many times a trait that is moderated during dating will become much less restrained after marriage. The root cause needs to be found and resolved, otherwise you could be in for a very unpleasant wife. I'll bet she doesn't allow you to treat her in the same way, but gets her feelings hurt if you do???

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I would strongly recommend that you not marry her.

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You don't "tame" (or change) anyone. You marry them exactly as they are. If you expect them to change, you will be sorely disappointed. So find someone who is right for you just as they are, and marry that person. :)

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If you don't like the nagging now; will you like it in 30 years?

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Not only in 30 years, but for 30 years.

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Exactly!!!!!

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Exactly!

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Ditto!

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Do not think for a second that you will change her. She will only change if she wants to. She has shown you her true colors and you can accept them or leave them. That's just real life - no fairy tale. :-)

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I was surprise for your wonderful response guys. I'll try the suggestion of crakjak.. the marriage counseling. I love your sincere comments specially the comments from the girls on this thread. :) Thanks a lot.

Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
 

Or 30 days......

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First of all no ones perfect. Find out why she is so easily offended. Marriage takes work on both parts. You have to love more than you hate.

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Dump her - it will only get worse. :)

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Can a woman ever be tamed ?

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run like the wind, or at least a stiff breeze, either way RUN!!!

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I agree with most. Very lovingly put an end to the relationship and move on. If you don't you will be a very unhappy man in a few months which will last as long as you both shall live. Remember it is better to have no one than the wrong one. I am in my second marriage, both have been great. (I lost my first wife after 53 wonderful years)

I was engaged to a beautiful girl for a short time when I was very young. She was not easy to get along with and we ended it even though it broke my heart. I have never been sorry. Take it from a very old pro, in the long run neither will you.

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Good one Scott!

Read "Taming of the Shrew" by Shakespeare!

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Hey Mom, that was short and to the point!! By the way, my wife has an 8 year old granddaughter I call DQ.

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This works best when you know who you are first....

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Run like a striped ape!!!!!

The woman is bad news!!!!

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Do what I did! Marry a tame one who is submitted to Jesus! Makes life simple for almost 38 years!

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Read Proverbs 31. That is the woman you look for. Once you find her you marry her. I married a godly woman who inhabits the qualities God wants in a woman.

If you stay with this woman, you'll end up like Ahab and the woman will ruin your life.

That being said. There are two sides to the story. I bet she has a few quirks about you which annoys her.

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People CAN change BUT te person MUST see a NEED and have a WANT TO in order to change...Please pray much...If you reay love her and she really loves you then go get help for her to fnd the cause of so much anger...

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I don't get the "war freak" label., sounds weird.
I can only surmise that she likes? or is prone to, disturbances.

Not a good start., be wise and stop this NOW while you still can
It doesn't mean that you don't love her but that you LOVE yourself,
and JESUS first of course., He doesn't want His beloved to suffer nor
be mistreated needlessly now or EVER.
He CAN also work on her to fix HER problems if and only if she will subit
to Him., so pls wait!

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RUN!


Her change won't come because her ceremony is threatened, her change will come on her own. For now... not worth it. Is this all the time or just lately?